what's up guys this video we're going to be breaking down some cold approach infield of playing with fire students we're going to be analyzing his approach from the opener to the number [Music] close right so without further ado let's jump right into the infield so we had him miked up and we had him approaching some cute girls in miami and this was the first one you need to meet her with a cool ass smile too wow so what happened here actually a quick backstory is that he went to approach a girl but that chick was
walking into a building right and so it didn't work out but then he saw this one like literally right after that so he just went from one chick to another and it's not clear whether she does shadows or not he would just be standing around with rhaegar looking and testing the camera today that was a very strong handshake no i was like wow that the handshake like almost fell into the bush real quick but we're the uft right now besides uh you know finishing workout and uh breaking arms on the street um gotcha all right
tell your friends you just met this really cute guy you're gonna be talking to him for like you know five to ten minutes i won't stay for too long that way they don't hate me now what i like is that his vibe is just so chill like he just looks so laid back like there's no anxiety there's no nervousness it's just very chill which is a really good way of making a girl comfortable another good sign is that she's laughing a lot right so that's always a good side as well are you from here originally
you don't seem like you are no gosh can i distract you for your phone for like two seconds um hold on my friends so the one difference between his game and my game is i would have been a little bit harder i've been like damn girl come on put that phone down like i would have been a little bit more aggressive again here to put the phone down i would have probably said you are glued to that phone like you are just [ __ ] you know balls deep in that phone right so uh he's
a little you know his style again it's different than mine which is totally fine you know you're you're working out hard you're like nothing's stopping my workout today pretty much i like it it's like it's a new year new me putting all this behind me me i saw you and i was like you know what let me take five minutes out of my life i'm here by yourself no actually yeah we just got food and then we're heading back to our place and then i saw you so like oh let me see if she's as
cool as she looks or if not you know i'll be disappointed and go now that what she asks are you here by yourself or with your friends uh even though they may seem like nothing that's actually a tricky question to answer in your situation because if he's like yeah i'm with my friends they're standing over there then she's gonna feel weird like oh your friends are waiting right but if he's like oh i'm by myself that's also gonna be kind of weird so he answers that kind of in the right way he just kind of
like instead of saying yes or no he just goes on like a sideways right so that was pretty good crying on my way home but do you live you say you're from here or no no [Music] came to miami just to meet me right i think this is a really good example of plowing right because this chick is not making it easy like she's just [ __ ] on her phone she's like giving him short answers so this is a good example of you know persistence but persistence done the right way or is this your
your go-to gym and this is the only good one that's cool man what do you do you seem like a very outgoing girl the personality hopefully don't say no because then you know my heart's gonna be broke do you want to take my instagram well i need to know if you're cool first i'm just gonna you know are you tell me tell me so what do you do let's say typical weekend right you just got out of work and you're like all right i'm gonna go celebrate what are we doing so what are you doing
so i really like this part i think this was great on his part so a few things happen here she says uh do you want to grab my instagram and he did the right thing he doesn't say no no i don't want your instagram uh he says well i have to know if you're cool first right because if he just got her instagram at that point that would have gone nowhere that would have been 99.9 percent a dead you know whatever conversation like that wouldn't go anywhere and then she starts walking away and he doesn't
make a big deal he's not like where are you going uh he just casually walks with her so it's basically think of it almost like as a weird [ __ ] test he passes it he doesn't make a big deal out of it he doesn't like you know just stop what he's doing say okay bye oh let me get your number he just casually walks with her as if it's no big deal which is exactly how you want to handle a situation like that well we're gonna we're gonna add a little twist to that so
now you have an interesting person in your life okay that's fun and outgoing so we can add new cool things to do you like to dance i feel like here it is do you not no you don't have to be clumsy to dance i could literally be like yo and now we're dancing you see how awesome that was yeah now this combo may seem a little awkward but again that's not really on him the girl is just being very you know like she's not giving him much so when when you have a situation like that
it does get a little awkward and you just have to accept the awkwardness and plow i've personally been there myself many times i also like the little dance thing it's a little gamey but like you know it's a good way to you know spike the conversation i think he did it well it didn't come off try hard or weird so props on that you're gonna be a good student though if i show you the you gotta promise to be a good student otherwise you know all right all right well how about this i don't wanna
hold you up for too long i'll grab your number and i'll shoot you you say you don't work on the weekends right and you obviously don't mind coming to miami that's where your gym is so definitely invite you to hang out over here what is your number i don't think we got each other's names thank you did you get so surprised holy [ __ ] oh he's real don't worry i don't bite all right i'm not as mean as they say to him the memes are all lies don't don't believe me okay but it's very
nice meeting you have fun enjoy your dinner thank you so overall well done again it doesn't seem like the smoothest [ __ ] conversation but again that's because of the girl like she's being she's not giving her much and she's being very you know holding back so given that there's not too much you can do i think he pushed this interaction as far as it could have been pushed i like how he just didn't sell for the instagram he went you know he went for the number clothes he got a hug right he's like no
i'm not going to play this [ __ ] instagram [ __ ] and he also didn't make a big deal when she walked away like he passed that [ __ ] test really well all right so let's take a look at the second one where the girl was doing much more and see how that one played out differently you do you're like on the phone too i'm like you don't need to know what car is in the street right now it doesn't matter they're gonna stop questions what's your name so i like this he's playfully
teasing her for just like walking with her phone out that's what you want to do i always try to playfully tease the girls now the thing is that you don't want to be like you have your phone out you [ __ ] suck you know you don't want to like go hard on them right because then they'll be like what the [ __ ] uh but if you can do in a playful way that works out well we're gonna we're gonna fight here you're you're that close you know you're like all right just say it
one more time i'm gonna cry and go home yes are you up to right now i'm actually looking for uh so this was well done you might not have noticed what happened but what he did was he approached the girl he was walking with her for 20 seconds and then he stops and that's exactly what you want to do when a girl is walking you probably don't have enough compliance to just stop her right away right she'll be like what the [ __ ] but you don't also want to just keep walking with her because
then it gets really weird so after 10 20 maybe 30 secs you want to stop her which is something that he does pretty well my last day in miami oh my gosh you seem like you have fun you have yourself miami with a smile yeah yeah you're gonna think about moving here you're thinking about moving here one day well you have a good reason to move so yeah exactly and she got it right hell yeah exactly wait so what did you do you came out and like partying and [ __ ] i came in august
let's just say you've been here notice how much more smoother this conversation feels and again his game is the same it's just that the girl is giving him much more so when a girl gives you a lot more it's going to be a lot smoother now just because the girl's not giving you much right away doesn't mean that you know it's a waste of time sometimes girls are very shy and they they might even give you [ __ ] right away right but then that's just they're just doing it because they're nervous and like when
you text them they're super responsive i've personally had that happen several times also this drink is pretty [ __ ] hot so and yeah the program ended so i have to go back home i'm gonna call your director tomorrow and be like yo hold up and he's at least another two years ago oh yeah i got you i'll call him tomorrow i got your back but you gotta promise if you stay you know you gotta be super fun still gotta bring the energy party at all yeah all right all right we'll work something out coming
back to miami anyway where are you from originally i'm a little like so arabic girls are like my number one weakness so like i gotta be careful now so you don't like take advantage of it oh my god that's the best wait what was that what was that they're not should i be afraid of a river like in my opinion i have to say that like they're like exactly represent no exactly number one girls in the world it would sound very very damn so wait what are you up to today what's the rest of your
plans i know cbs usually do that but you have to do appointments whatever um thing i want to point out is that this is a nice balance of flirting and teasing and just regular banter which is how cold approach should look like you know in the beginning stages because if you're just purely flirting with a girl it might come on too strong but if it's just pure banter that might get boring or she might you know not realize what you actually want so having that nice bounce like he's like oh my god rabbit girl era
big girls are my weakness right but then he goes back to regular banter so that's really good you want your game to have a nice little assortment of everything miami exactly now you have to you'll get a chance to like party with exactly well you seem cool do you travel a lot or oh yeah yeah what's your what's what's your like top travels for this is my gauge to see if we're on the same like energy level i was like i love the us i'm not gonna lie i love it here um in europe i
love sicilia i haven't see you can be my tour guide in europe and then i'll be your uh exactly yeah yeah i got it yeah well i don't want to hold you up for too long actually you gotta head out but if you actually if you don't have any plans tonight uh we should do something like your last night grab a drink a little bit hard if it works out it works out if not we'll at least stay in touch whenever i come back to miami absolutely you gotta promise to lie i need to see
the so the logistics are pretty bad but she's interested like you know she's not like oh yeah i don't know if it's gonna work out she's like hey i can't tonight but definitely next time like you know so i can tell from her body language she's interested and it seems like a legit number all right let's see it all right let me grab your number real quick does your number stay the same how does that work all right i'll just shoot you mine and then you can like text me that new one yeah all right
maybe instagram is gonna be better i'm barely easier to be honest okay and this is good again the girl tries to sorta deflect to instagram he's like no i don't use it like so uh this is what i really like both chicks tried to to pull the instagram card on him and he you know just basically didn't fall for that so that is also props damn i got the official miami number two she's like living the lifestyle yeah i just do like i don't know it's 100 you know i either got fully in or not
at all that's perfect wait so that i want to know like what's your like craziest miami store you've got so i know you seem like you seem like a fun girl then craziest man yeah i feel like if i gave you tequila tonight we'd have a pretty interesting tequila is good and bad like it's good it's bad you know i feel like if i gave you my dick we'd have a pretty crazy night good because you can do crazy [ __ ] but it's bad cause you worry about it the next day actually there wasn't
one specific thing i would just like say in general miami it's my crazy story like oh sorry might be able to handle me then it was nice meeting you have a safe polite thank you so much and this is what a solid cold approach number close looks like honestly uh you know you might be like used to like oh where's the crazy [ __ ] what'd he pull you know like you're watching some other poison doing crazy [ __ ] but in reality this is what cold approach infield looks like you know the majority of
the time it's not anything crazy it's not anything special it's just a guy talking to a girl flirting with her a little bit teasing her you know building some sexual attention and getting the girl's phone number at least for day game right uh so i think that if i had to rate the first interaction i would say that there's a 40 chance that she will respond to this text and an overall 10 chance he would get her out for a date for this one i would put the chance that she will respond at 90 percent
and the chance of him getting out for a day probably a 30 40 i would put it at higher logistics were good i think that if she was you know not leaving there he would have a pretty solid shot of getting her out tonight uh again it's not that his game was a lot better in the second one it's just that girls have different levels of interest but again even with the girls we're not giving you much you never know like i've had situations like that where it looked like it just wasn't gonna happen and
then it did i remember one time i literally had a chick who insisted on taking my number right she was like no no let me get your number alex and i was like you know most of the time he's like yeah i'm not interested at all right so i just took her that next day she texted me she's like hey uh you know i'm beat down for a few more days can we get a drink before i leave and then we got a drink i wound up smashing her so again sometimes situations that don't look
promising turn out to be promising but you still got to play all the cards right all right hope you guys found this infield valuable and i think this is a really good example of what cold approach should look like now notice that his style is a bit different than mine because his personality is different right he's more chill laid back versus i'm more a little bit more out there and like cocky funny right and that's okay your game should not be a replica of mine right because that's not really going to work because if you
don't have the same personality as me it should be congruent to who you are but the same principles you know the overarching principles will still apply you know uh alternating between banter and flirting you know escalating as much as possible not selling for the instagram goodbye language all that stuff still applies but you know the actual stuff you say should be somewhat congruent to personality anyway if you guys enjoyed this video show us some love by smashing the like button hitting subscribe and clicking the bell for notification let us know in the comments what you
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