the eight things men really need from a woman what do men expect from the women they date it's a tough question to answer in truth answering such a question takes a thorough grasp of male psychology love behavioral patterns and so on what guys want in and from women is becoming more complicated by the minute according to expert Eric Jaffe in Psychology today true some men have a gift for expressing what men need from women men on the other hand are usually urged to be strong in the face of sadness and to project a false sense of self-assurance when dealing with emotions as a consequence people don't always think to explain what they need in a relationship or they aren't even aware of them though each man is unique and what makes him happy varies there are a few things that almost every man needs from a woman he's dating here are the eight most important things a guy in a relationship needs from a woman 1. affection men are highly physical beings everything for us enhances with touch we are drawn to it by Nature it goes without saying that a woman who is generous with her offerings of affection will Allure us to a man it's incredibly warm and pleasant we like you want a woman to reach out and take our hand for you to come over and spontaneously kiss us for you to embrace us and ask how our day was it gives a feeling of being wanted it just enhances our bond with you and opens up Avenues of communication but more significantly it makes us feel at ease as if we've been invited in two respect respect is described as concern for the feelings wishes rights or traditions of others respect may also be described as the emotion or knowledge that someone or something is significant and serious and should be treated properly men need respect in general but especially in dating and relationships the majority of men seek a woman who appreciates them for who they are and what they are consider what he is excellent at and enthusiastic about and be sincere in your encouragement don't make up feelings you don't have only to stimulate a man's interest in you it's a bit old-fashioned but some men want to be considered as heroes in some manner he doesn't have to save you but he wouldn't mind saving the day once in a while that he wishes to be someone you look up to and seek advice from ask about things that interest you ask about his viewpoints going to someone you care about when you're experiencing challenges is a vital part of sustaining a good relationship and it also helps a man feel wanted and cherished three the c word relationships are built on Sand without it we like direct communication we don't get any hints we need clarification we are rational beings and we realize that it's not the same if you have to spell it out you don't want us to clean the dishes you want us to want to clean the dishes we understand then tell us explain model how you would like us to respond many of us do not excel at communicating we require some direction in general men tend to make decisions based on reasoning women pull from their emotions we will match your feelings if you can meet us at logic 4. Blinder sex there is sex then there's blinders sex which gives you blinders and keeps your eyes ahead and intense clear while you're out in public let's be honest men will explore they're similar to squirrels they are easily distracted by shiny things but there's a difference between observing and Desiring we are visual beings but blender sex makes us respond yeah she's pretty but I'd never trade what I've got for anything else Blinder sex is more than good sex it's a genuine deep connection with someone that causes you to fantasize about them in the shower and call an ill so you can spend the day lying in bed making love and eating cookies it generates an experience that no one else can have that's why it gives us blinders Blinder sex is all about connecting not sex 5.
character being really attractive has nothing to do with your physical appearance and everything to do with who you are in my life I've met a lot of attractive ladies whose personalities were as enticing as the dirty concrete of a New York City subway station sorry but that is true we want someone who is equally concerned with looking good as they are with being honest and true you know that girl who hangs around with your girlfriends that is who you truly are don't be afraid to be yourself around us we see you laughing heavily with your friends so laugh with us we adore women with a sense of humor and who don't take themselves too seriously be yourself order a pepperoni pizza for lunch get ketchup all over your face when we come please wear sweatpants and a t-shirt don't wear makeup or do your hair it's all okay that's something we enjoy we like it when you dress up and feel attractive but know that you don't have to hide your true self in order to be accepted if you ever feel the urge to do that you're with the wrong man 6. ambition men like being caregivers and planners for our families but we also appreciate a woman who can plan our lives with us we don't want to be forced to make every decision on our own we want a Visionary someone who can look be on today determined women are more devoted simply because they are laser focused they have no doubts about their future since they understand what it takes to get there failure isn't an option for them finally a woman who is willing to work hard to be the best mother to her children or to have a good job is one who will strive for a successful relationship when times go rough she won't be so quick to give up and walk away however if she lacks ambition the outcome may be quite different courage is people in general find a way to make things work 7.