the skills that we're talking about here today have the largest impact on both your personal and professional life they stick with you for your entire life and will continuously improve the quality of your existence most of them are a bit difficult to master but if you do the rewards are endless welcome to alux the place where future billionaires come to get inspired now the first skill sitting at number one is learning how to learn this is the whole Grail of skills once you realize that every type of skill can be learned the world starts to
look a lot like a video game like Steve Jobs said everything around you is made by other humans who are not smarter than you this is one of the most underrated skills anyone could have and it's a total game Cher people who are self-taught Learners are well aware of how stupidly straightforward it is to learn to do something from scratch but most people are scared when life puts them in a situation where having to learn is a necessity apparently gen Z has troubles with basic technology which is kind of funny to be honest the point
is though we survived and thrived because we learned new things and how to do them better it's at the core of our nature and it should be a fundamental skill for everyone number two the ability to adapt improvise and overcome obstacles this isn't just a Bear Grills catchphrase it's actually what allows you to keep moving forward and survive the hard times you're going to face on your journey only the ignorant are under the impression they have their life all figured out and it's going to be all straight roads from now on yeah okay in the
words of Mike Tyson everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth life is not fair it's complex and your dedication to keep moving on is what allows you to win hard times are far ahead people will betray your trust things will not always work out in your favor you'll be put down to the ground if you haven't already been change your attitude okay seek alternative Roots get creative and overcome what life throws at you if things are getting harder it means you're leveling up in The Game of Life number three clearing your
mind you are not your body you are not the things you own you are not not what people think of you you are your mind everything that makes you who you are resides in that cage made of bone between your ears that is who you are that is what makes you you every action idea thought desire weakness and sorrow begins right there now from our experience most people fall into two categories either they live in their head entirely creating a bubble around themselves and become extremely biased this makes them take everything personally and become too
sensitive to the world around them or they avoid talking to themselves altogether which makes them disconnected to what's happening within them in a way it's either too much of a reaction versus no reaction at all the reason why mind Clarity is so important is because it allows you to see how things are and what they could become number four the ability to verbalize what you think and feel you would be amazed at how few people can put into words what they believe what they feel and what they think about an issue this is one of
the biggest downfalls of relationships one of the partners is unable to tell the other person what's wrong and instead they choose to bury that feeling of Sorrow within themselves until it builds up to the inevitable collapse of the relationship and this goes beyond just romantic relationships it's even between friendships co-workers and family members people are so often scared to speak up when they feel in a different way and that's how you end up with living a mediocre life because the path is no longer dictated by what would be sustainable for the long run and instead
it's written by unsatisfactory compromises if you're not 100% honest and involved in the process it'll be easy to let it go in the hopes that something better will come along but none of those parties win and you're all just wasting time number five the ability to sell and negotiate everything you do is a sale or a negotiation process if you want a girlfriend or boyfriend you need to sell them on the idea of you being the right person for them if you want a job you need to be able to sell your skill set over
that of other potential hires even to yourself you have to sell the idea that you can be and do better than you're doing today selling is not a synonym for lying or anything selling is a rational process in which you break down why your solution will add value to the other party selling is pursuing others to join you toward creating a better outcome for you both this feeds right into the ability to verbalize what we mentioned earlier life is a constant negotiation with others with yourself and even with time itself it's a negotiation between effort
and satisfaction Under the Umbrella of time by doing things that people want right now you're negotiating a future where you can enjoy a life that is unavailable to many others and you know what we've got an expert collection within the alux app dedicated to fine-tuning your negotiation skills straight across the board it's called Master negotiator in 15 days scan the QR code on screen to get 50% off your yearly subscription number six knowing how to shut up listen and learn from the person you're talking to how many people do you know who just never know
when to shut up if you're the one doing the the talking you are not growing because you're the one putting out what you already know the only way for you to improve is to actively listen and we mean really listening to someone else because it's different from just hearing them it involves paying attention creating a mental blueprint of the information which you can access if you need to always assume the person you're talking to knows something that you don't don't get blindsided by arrogance okay it's more important to grow than give the impression that you
already know everything that right there is what differentiates the real from The Pretenders number seven the ability to self-motivate the first step is always the hardest in anything that you do that's because it requires you to do something you've never done before it involves being in new environments making yourself vulnerable on purpose and putting yourself in a position where there's a chance you'll fail this is where the skill to self-motivate comes in down to its core self motivation is essentially finding a good reason to start doing something something you can't really do without mind Clarity
which we talked about earlier it's that initial spark that builds momentum those who possess the ability to self-motivate will always be one step ahead of everybody else number eight building and maintaining discipline people don't take the first step because they lack motivation and those who do manage to make that first step well they eventually quit because they lack discipline you see after you make that first step the rest is pretty much smooth sailing until you face your first hurdle some days you're just not into it you're a bit tired a bit exhausted and things get
a bit boring so you tell yourself you know what maybe this isn't something I actually want to do this happens because of a lack of discipline you see what discipline really is is a deal you make with yourself that something must be done on a consistent basis because the outcome is something that you deeply care about and you make this trade expecting things to be hard that's the whole point of discipline because if you think about it you don't need discipline to eat ice cream every day you could do that for years on end because
it's fun and enjoyable which is something you can't say about achieving something of great importance right because if that were true everyone in the world would be wildly successful and extremely happy all the time you have to build and maintain a certain level of discipline to be able to withstand the inevitable stress and resistance you'll have to face along the way number nine Energy Management you start off the day with 100% energy levels that is if you had a good enough sleep and through the day it goes lower and lower until you feel exhausted now
here's the thing there are multiple types of energy physical energy is the one that most people think about it's how energetic or tired your body feels but you also have mental energy which is consumed when you focus or you have to be creative there's also emotional energy which gets depleted when you have to deal with people and social situations and so on but here's where it gets interesting different tasks consume different types of energy and people have a bad habit of filling up days with stuff that consume consumes all types of energies all at once
they try to get up early be really productive at work sit in a bunch of meetings get dinner with friends then somehow still have the juice to go work out and then they complain that Modern Life is too chaotic for all of these things to happen well yeah okay no if you look at highly efficient people you'll see that they organize their days based on the type of energy that's needed and bulk everything up Monday might be for meetings and only that Tuesday through Wednesday might be for heavy creative work where they're absolutely unavailable the
end of the week might be time for admin work and so on the moment you start mixing things up well that's when everything crumbles and you feel out of focus and unproductive because you are number 10 the ability to read and understand you know to this day we still can't believe how few people are aware of the power of books the fact you can learn from someone's entire life experience in just a couple of days is literally the biggest knowledge leverage available it's never been easier to get access to valuable information or strategies and advice
a single book can change your life one page could spark an idea in you that would transform your entire existence read more but alexir read to understand read to comprehend and store that knowledge make use of it in your life read for self development not just purely for entertainment find books that have someone's struggles embedded in the pages and the solutions they used to overcome them number 11 the ability to break a process down into smaller steps now this is one of the reasons why we've managed to build a successful company most people look at
the end result I want to have $1 million but never break it down so what does it take to get there how many sales do I need to make what needs to happen every month and every week and every day so that at the end of the year I can hit that goal that's what successful people do okay they do the math they start breaking down their goals this is what plans are if you're not breaking down a goal to individual Milestones you're just dreaming it's like wishful thinking okay that's why people in stem fields
are massively outperforming everyone else because they're taught how to deconstruct an issue and solve it in a step-by-step manner you never learned this from studying literature it's a distinct type of thinking which gives you an edge over everyone else number 12 self analysis you can only improve what you can measure almost every successful person is tracking their progress no matter what field or industry they're in you want to lose weight start tracking your food and document your weight every day pretty soon you'll realize the impact of what you eat and your level of activity has
on the number shown on the scale once you see what's good for you you'll do more of it and less of the bad things it's pretty obvious yet most of you don't track anything in your life we have analytics for everything that we want to improve the analysis shows that you've got a clear picture of what you're dealing with from your actions to your feelings number 13 emotional intelligence and empathy talk about underrated skills look you're going to have to deal with people okay we're all a part of a giant social mechanism that relies on
us working cohesively together emotional intelligence allows you to have a smooth ride while navigating these Dangerous Waters people who lack emotional intelligence thinks everyone hates them and believes other people are unjustifiably getting promoted in life emotional intelligence is a skill it's your ability to interact with people to understand them to talk to them and to to motivate them we're not machines okay we've got good days and bad days we have different sets of values and respond to different triggers emotional intelligence allows you to see and understand the differences between individuals in life overall people with
high EQ actually outperform those with high IQ and because of this others simply want them to succeed more number 14 self-respect and having a backbone speaking of values do you know what you stand for who you are as a person because once you do you can start acting accordingly you'll stand your ground you'll not let others walk all over you people will treat you the way you treat yourself not the way you treat other people those who have a high degree of self-respect also happen to be the ones Society respects the most it's always fascinating
to see someone who speaks about when things aren't going in the right direction someone who calls out the unjust these are people who influence the world and through their actions they change it for the better number 15 the ability to generate ideas that have value now we've already establish that your mind is the most powerful weapon you have in your Arsenal think of your mind like a large piece of fertile land in which you can plant crops the mind doesn't care what you plant in it it'll do its job and grow that crop some people
plant useful trees While others fill their mind with weeds if you can take care of your mind you'll be able to produce quality ideas that will bring joy success and fulfillment in your life however the same with a tree it won't bear fruit overnight it'll take time and nourishment for that tree to grow so keep watering it and giving it what it needs and soon you'll be able to come up with some more better ideas ideas are free and a single idea can make you rich successful and happy a string of good ideas can make
life easier for you and can slowly move you in the right direction but the goal is to focus on ideas that have value now none of these skills are easy to master but once you do you'll reap the benefits for the rest of your life so it definitely pays greatly to invest in acquiring as many of them as you can which of these 15 are you currently trying to master let us know in the comments and we'll be sure to join you in the conversation and since you stuck with us until the end you're getting
a bonus the ability to simulate outcomes now this one is as close to cheating at The Game of Life As It Gets it's like a superpower in which you can look into the future and decide which version of it you want to live every day you sit at the crossroads of life you could change pick between options and adjust your course if need be that's where this skill comes into play so let's say you're undecided between becoming a doctor or an engineer for the sake of argument all you have to do is to simulate what
your life would be like if you pursue each of these paths and see which outcome you would rather live than commit to it the more detail you can simulate in your mind the more accurate a prediction you could make resulting in a better decision for yourself what would your life be like if you continued to date this person will you be happy or are you just scared of being alone simulate circumstances for both the near and long-term future the more things you simulate for the better you are at predicting what will happen like after simulating
all of the possible arguments you could have with someone you'll be able to pick the one that gets you the best result with the minimum amount of downside too many of you jump right into the fight without analyzing the situation first and then complain that the outcome isn't what you wanted that's why people relive moments of their lives in their heads thinking if only I did it this way instead well you can but you have to simulate that situation beforehand so you don't end up living with that regret if you think you could use this
skill in your life please write the word simulate in the comments we'll see you back here next time a luxer until then take care
