The Truth About Surviving MrBeast's 30 Day Ex Challenge :)

After being chained together for 30 days, Josh and I are finally sitting down to answer your thousands of questions. Um, >> and it's a lot of questions, like a lot of questions. >> It's a lot of questions.

And it goes on >> and it's the same thing on my phone. >> Now, a lot of people are asking the very serious question of are you dating? And even though we'll get to that question of if we're dating or not, first there's a ton of questions just how the challenge works, how we met, all of those things.

So, we're going to get into that first. >> Question one. >> Was the chain heavy?

The cuff was heavy. >> Yeah, the cuff was like quality. >> It was metal.

>> The cuff was metal. The chain was a very dense plastic, so it was heavy as well. Like, it wasn't a hollowed out Halloween kind of decoration.

>> Next question. >> How did you guys meet? >> This is actually really awesome because the way that we were locked in the Mr Beast video, the night we met, we got locked in a building at church.

>> Yeah. If you know about church lock-ins, it's basically where they take like a youth group and then you just play games like while you're in the lockin. But yeah, we literally met at a lock in.

>> Yeah, we got locked in. That's so funny. >> And then now we rekindled being locked up.

That's crazy, actually. >> Wa. >> Mhm.

It's pretty crazy. >> Josh will ask this next one. >> Did he propose?

>> Did you propose? I can't remember. >> No.

>> Okay. >> I did not propose. Have you guys kissed more than once after the video?

No. It's disgusting. >> Disgusting.

>> No, we have not. How's the Tesla? Let me tell you, >> Josh has.

>> We don't have them yet. >> Yeah, >> Elon is backed up. >> They're taking a while to ship.

>> Yeah, >> they're coming. And when they come, you guys will hear all about it. >> Oh, you'll know.

Especially for me, >> right? >> What was time like off camera during the challenge? There was no time off camera during the challenge.

The cameras were recording every second of every day >> in the bathroom was the only time. >> Yeah, the bathroom was the only place there was no camera. >> Conveniently, the next question is how was it showering?

>> It was kind of brutal to be honest. You're pretty uncomfortable. You have your arms stuck or you know you this chain slapping the wall of the shower the whole time.

>> Yeah, it was quick. >> So, you're like, I'm just going to get in here, rinse off, you know, scrub down with soap and get out. Like we did not want to take our time in the shower.

>> Yeah, showering was rough. We just had to be quick because otherwise it's a battle to shower. So, >> plus we were like trying to be considerate of the other person cuz later on in the video, >> you know, sometimes >> someone's like literally face plastered up against the wall waiting.

So, I was like, I don't want to sit here for 30 minutes while you shower, so I'll make it a little bit quicker for myself, too. >> Yeah. The last 5 days was the hardest.

I had to clean my hair once and that was really hard for Josh. >> This one's for you. >> Oh, okay.

>> Um, it says, "What keeps you motivated every day? Your work is inspiring. " >> I think it's cool to feel like my mission on Earth slightly is to motivate people and like be that light source for them because the world is very dark.

So, I think just knowing that I can impact a person positively with even a silly little Instagram story is like why I keep posting and what I keep doing it for. Just cuz honestly, it was hard for like the year and a half that I wasn't getting much traction happening on my socials. But I was resilient and also knowing that it will get better is what kept me going.

And like no way was I going to quit. That didn't exist. That was never an option.

So, >> I'd say that. Mhm. The next question is when's the wedding?

>> Wow. >> Well, I think there's a couple things that have to happen before wedding. You know, you got to like start dating.

>> Yeah. First, you have to date, right? >> Get into a relationship, >> take me on a first date, >> propose, be engaged, then get married.

Like, >> but you can do all those within a week. Like, according to my calculations, like you could technically do all you could start dating the next day, you could propose, and then we get married the next day. What is your guys's favorite memory together?

>> Joshua. >> One of my favorite memories of our relationship was when Susie had picked me up from the airport. I'd been in Africa for like jeez, a month.

We hadn't seen each other. We could barely talk. When I got back, I I flew into Utah.

And just seeing her like drive up and sprinting to the car and oh, I missed you. I miss you. Great memory >> cuz that's exactly how I sound.

My favorite memory is probably right now. >> So you hate me. >> Wait, what were you going to say?

I sound like >> I'm teasing. >> This one's a bit of tea that I will be answering. Yeah, >> I think this question is built for you >> asking.

>> I think I think you should ask this question. >> Why did you answer the question as yes, you prefer to be single? I think I said yes to being like wanting to be single because whole experience was so bizarre.

Like it's nothing like how reality actually was. >> Facts. >> Very intense, stressful, high pressure.

You don't really have an outlet. You don't have like a way to get away or relax or remove yourself from a conversation. So when there was an issue, we lived that issue all day, every day until there was a resolution.

>> And it's like when you start getting frustrated in the real world, you can walk away. You can go do something. You can take your mind off of it and come back to it later.

>> But we couldn't do that in there. So there were times where I was like, gez, is this even like is this what a relationship looks like now with Susie? Of course, the answer is no.

That's not the reality. We were living in the box. So, there was a moment where I was like, "Oh, it would be better to be single than this.

" >> What was the first thing you guys did after coming out? Get a burger. >> We got a banger burger and fries >> from my favorite place in that area.

But I will not say >> we hate that place. Sorry. >> Question for you guys.

Ready? This is the bonus question for the audience. Who is more psycho?

Susie and the psychord. >> The next question is, what was your first impression of each other? I thought Susie was really annoying.

>> You didn't even know me. >> That was the first impression you gave. >> How?

>> I'm just joking. Cuz you were like at the camera 2 seconds ago. >> Mine was Josh had a weird shirt on with flannel pants.

The shirt was like some sort of man sweater with a >> I was wearing PJs >> with a cowl neck. What's the word? >> Chunky looking thing.

>> Why are you flaming me for my nighttime fit? Hello, >> bro. You were 16.

It's fine. >> Okay. So, your impression was what?

>> Also, when I thought interesting style, but nice face, but I was also 14. >> Next question. If you had to be handcuffed to anyone else for that 30 days, who would it be?

>> Bailey. >> Right. >> What would you say?

>> My best friend, >> Callum. >> 100%. >> Yeah.

>> Is your favorite color yellow? >> No, it's not. No, I hate yellow.

This says, "What about Bailey? " Cry face. What about him?

>> What about him? >> Low key, Bailey was 15 minutes down the road from me and he didn't even say hi to me once. >> Next question.

>> Please, we can't wait to your engaged news video. Please soon. And I love you.

Love you. Y for what's your age? I am 24.

>> I'm 26. What are your future plans with Joe? My name is Joe.

>> Mama. Thank you, sir. What clip do you wish made the final cut?

>> The Fable's chocolate milk bottle that they brought in. >> I broke it in half. Yes.

>> And I wish they played the clip of us breaking it in half. >> It was pretty legendary. >> But if you pay attention, you'll see it intact one day and then near the end of the video, you'll see two halves the top and bottom in our money.

Next, what kind of bike did Josh get? >> M. >> It's a great question.

I got a Yamaha R six. >> I know nothing about bikes, but I do know this phrase. Ready?

I am now the backpack. >> Backpack. Backpack.

Yeah, >> guys. He put his arm around me. Should I tell him?

I like it. >> Been around you this whole time. >> Oh, this one's really >> This is a really hard question.

>> I don't want to answer this. >> It's so bad. They say, "Hi.

" >> Oh, hi. >> What's up? >> Thank you for saying hi.

>> Question for Suzie. >> Oh, I won't look. >> What made you come back >> to a Mr Beast video?

>> Bro, that's simple work. Cuz I love a good challenge for my life. And Jimmy's like way cool.

Like he's actually really normal. I would say shockingly. So like I'm always down to support.

>> Is that shocking? >> Because people who are famous, you have this idea that they are going to be stuck up or something. When will he finally propose you with an engagement ring?

Shall we have to wait another 4 years? >> Well, you know what they say. The second time around takes twice as long.

So it might be another 8 years, buddy. So buckle up. Since you guys don't have phones, are you able to contact family during the challenges?

That is a big fact. No. >> Didn't the handcuff bother your arm?

>> Yeah, kind of. I can't imagine being handcuffed for an entire month. >> The handcuff did bother my arm.

The cuffs were like loose enough so that they could like slide up and down your arm as you moved. >> Okay. I have a cuff that was literally just like the one that was on my wrist.

Oh, hey guys. And it's like a thick metal. So, this is like pretty weighty.

So, that's what was exactly like on our wrist. All right. What did you learn about yourselves during the breakup?

It's a good question. Here's some relationship advice for all of you guys. When you're young, it takes time to grow up.

And I'm not saying you're lacking maturity, but you have to understand and grow into who you are as an individual. Oftentimes we get into relationships and we grow to a point with our partners but we need time to branch out on our own. Discover what we like, who we want to be as a person, how you want to interact with others around you and stuff like that.

So our break, we were able to actually go out and do that. For me, I got to figure out that I kind of enjoyed making content. I really enjoyed the gym.

I was really good at it. >> Yeah. And I feel like going off of just roughly what Josh said.

Obviously, every relationship is different. For sure, it's not like you have to break up in order to figure yourself out cuz I think a lot of people use that as an excuse in a way of like, oh yeah, I just want to be single so I'm just going to tell them I need to like work on myself. But like bottom line, like Josh and I both wanted then, but also like especially now like want to work towards like marriage, you know?

A lot of people value that, a lot of people don't. Whatever. It's whatever you want.

But like you have to get used to always choosing that person anyway. And there was things fundamentally wrong with our relationship prior. I feel like that like needed to change.

I think bottom line like someone has to be 100% and the other person has to be 100%. So that you're never having to pick up for like where they're lacking, you know? And it's just like even bigger, better.

Yo, we just spit right there. Would y'all start a couple's YouTube channel? >> No.

>> Never. Susie and Josh. >> Better question for you is, would you subscribe?

>> Second question to that, comment below what you would even want to watch if we did start a YouTube channel together. >> Thanks. Next question.

Ah, >> this is a good one. >> How did y'all take off slash change your shirt? >> Josh will demonstrate by taking his shirt off.

It has a snap. >> Rub it. Boom.

So now he can fully take off his shirt with the one hand that is actually not on the chain. That means every single day when we would shower or change or whatever. >> And after you're done showering or you you know when you want to go change, you have to rebutton every single button up the entire side of the shirt.

It was the biggest pain in the butt. >> What motivated you to start YouTube? >> It's been my dream for my whole life.

My passion ever since I was a kid was making YouTube videos. Wait, are you answering for me? >> Oh, no.

That's what I was answering for myself. >> Oh, mine's the same answer. Moving on, >> JK.

>> Oh, you were answering. >> I was answering for you. >> Good job.

He nailed it. And Josh, what motivated you to start YouTube? >> I wanted to document my progress in the gym.

My bodybuilding stuff. It's real or scripted. >> It's so ready.

1 2 3. >> What did you do to pass the time? >> Journaled, read my Bible.

I played pool, worked out, walked on the treadmill, cooked food, ate food, read the book. Upload photos when you met for the first time. You guys want to see the OG pics?

>> If that's what you guys want, go to the Instagrams and you'll see them. Next, >> this is a question I'm dying to know. Is there a picture of the ring before you sold it?

>> There's a picture of the ring before I sold it. There is a picture. It is a Polaroid.

And she's not going to find it or see it until I show it to her. Oh, I'm ripping the house apart. >> She's not buying it.

>> So, sorry we cannot show you the picture of the ring because I can't even see it. >> She hasn't found it. >> Will Josh be joining in my upcoming YouTube series?

P. S. He should.

>> I will. >> Let's go. >> Sorry.

I am hyped for that though. >> I really think y'all should start a YouTube channel together. >> Okay, maybe we will.

>> Should I text my ex? Up to you. If you do, good luck.

I changed my answer to heck yeah, just send it. Because I think a mistake that both of us, now that we've talked, made was we weren't communicating because we're both thinking the other person was so not interested anymore. Meanwhile, we were both playing this game.

>> Be humble. Text your ex. >> Get your person back.

Uh, what do you do for a living? >> She does YouTube. Oh, wait.

I'm self-employed now. >> He's fun employed. >> I'm fun employed.

>> Ooh. What's your dream date? Eating daily.

Dang it. I thought you were going to say something about Italy and pasta and stuff. >> I said skydiving in Hawaii.

>> I know. I said eating pasta in Italy. >> So, let's go do both.

What is the biggest impact to the both of you after doing the Mr Beast challenge? I think there's two things for me that kind of impacted me the most. The one was not having my phone >> and getting used to not having my phone.

And once you get rid of that thing, you realize that there's people around you and you talk to them. >> One person. And in my case, it was just one person.

So when I got back and I had my phone and all these people, I was like freaking out all the time because I didn't know how to like, oh, I want to hang out with them and them and this other person, but not all at once. >> Yeah, it's very overwhelming. >> I think it was on this hamster wheel of like, what do I do next?

What do I actually want? >> Hamster. Yeah.

>> Any future plans with the money? My plan with the money is to literally give it to you guys. If you watch my other video, you'll see what I'm talking about.

It's literally us like prancing around malls, giving money away to couples. And yeah, there's also a giveaway at the end of that. So, if you enter by October 1st, go over there and you'll see the rules for that.

How about you, Joshua? I'm >> going to put it all in black. Did you have any alone time?

No. Fat no. >> Moving on.

>> Will you two participate in another challenge if given another opportunity? >> Heck yeah. I already answered that for myself.

>> I would I would actually be interested in doing a 100 day challenge. What's y'all's favorite Bible verse? >> Mine was not this for a while, but actually right before the challenge, I was like looking for this verse, which is my dad's favorite.

It's Isaiah 30 something, 31, and it's like wings like eagles. Put your hope in the Lord and you'll mount up with wings like eagles. I think that's just how I was feeling like cuz I felt like I was in this unique opportunity.

Further context of this would be Proverbs 3:5, which says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Do not depend on your own understanding. " >> That's good.

>> I love the verse because oftent times in life, we feel like we have to be in control. We have to direct our lives. We have to make all these decisions and all the weight falls on our shoulders.

I will say that the most I've felt at peace has been when I'm not in control. What was your very first date? I'm stealing that one from you.

our very first date. I picked her up from the airport and we went and we got coffee. >> Coffee.

>> What is the best thing you've ever learned with each other? I think the best thing that I've learned with her is patience. >> Best thing I've learned from Josh how to date a 5ft man.

>> Next question. What was the reasoning for the breakup in the first place? >> There was a lot of fundamental differences.

We actually talked so much about this that I'm shocked it's not in the video. >> Thanks. The main core of it was difference of mindset, I think, is what really separated us entirely.

And not that that's not something you can get over, but I'm also like becoming an actual human of my own at this point. So, it just like felt like I couldn't become doing >> Were you not before? >> I felt like I couldn't do that until I said bye to Josh.

So, >> Susie needed to grow up. I needed to grow up. So, we broke up.

And then we grew up. And then we were in a beast video >> and now >> we're still growing up. >> When is your date video coming out?

Someone says waiting. >> Do you guys actually want to see our first date video? >> I think it'd be fun if we recorded it, but yeah, we haven't gone on it yet, so we still could.

So, let us know. Next vacation together. Ready?

1 2 3. Italy. Josh, I keep trying to do Italy.

>> Hey, 1 2 3. Hey, >> are you actually back together? Because if not, what are you waiting for?

>> I don't know. Wait till the end of the video to find out. We have to go on our date before we know.

>> Did he actually pay you? Aka Jimmy. >> He didn't.

>> Yes, he did. >> Nope. >> Joshua, >> tell us a little bit about yourselves so we can get to know you better.

>> Also, a cool profile. >> Two sentences. Go.

>> I am a girl who is 24, grew up in LA, and had a dream of making my life different. Period. Now, I love to help people and inspire people and travel all at the same time as figuring out what to do with my ex-boyfriend who has now just come back into my life.

Period. >> That was the longest run-on sentence I've ever heard in my entire life. My name is Josh.

I'm 26 years old. Also grew up in LA. I worked a 9-to-five job doing construction for 10 years of my life until I figured out that that's not what I wanted to keep doing with my life.

Then I jumped into gym content. >> Gym as in Jimmy, of course. >> Bodybuilding and now a Mr Beast period.

>> You make Mr Beast videos even crazier. >> Thank you. I appreciate that so much.

I know. I'm like the real star here, >> right? >> Been doing this for so long.

It's just like second nature for me. >> Yeah, same. How did we feel on the first day of the challenge?

Disgusting. >> Excited. >> I was a nervous wreck.

Anxious. >> You guys seem like a great match. Also, when does the 50 States travel series start?

I'm New York based. >> New York, my king. To be honest, the 50 states thing.

Not sure if it's exactly 50 states yet, but it's going to be something across the country. >> How do you commit yourself to the Lord and a relationship? Great question.

I think in the past we didn't keep the Lord as our focus. When we started deviating from that and started prioritizing ourselves and our relationship became the focus, we stopped caring about what God wanted for us. I want to get back with my ex.

Me too, bro. General question. >> How do you get into Mr Breast's video?

Do we have to fill out a form? Yes. Mr Beast Casting Instagram bio.

Fill out that form. How does it feel to finally get the Tesla? Literally my dream come true is what's happening.

>> Don't know. Haven't gotten it yet. >> I have not gotten it yet.

Truth. But like the fact that I know it's on its way literally this next week I'm going to get it. So Josh, there's more of a delay.

But I'm a happy girl cuz I'm going to have it soon because that was like I would have like visions of like getting this Tesla, no joke, at night after losing it and I'm like why do I think I would get a Tesla eventually? Boom. Cuz I was going to be in another Mr Beast video and now it makes sense.

Or as you would say, Mr Breast. What was the hardest part of the challenge? >> I think the hardest part of the challenge was >> how cute I was.

>> Not having an outlet. >> Yeah, I think same. It there's just no personal time.

>> 67. >> How tall are both you? Josh is 67.

I'm 76. >> No, I'm 6' 3. She's 5'2.

>> Josh, are you serious? >> No, you're 5'6. >> That's crazy.

>> Are you 5'5? >> Yes. >> Oh, being taller is good.

Oh, >> if I feel taller, it's good, I guess, but still. >> She's actually 57 when she wears heels. >> Did this experience make you regret breaking up?

>> Um, >> no. >> There's aspects that do make me regret it, but I think for the most part, no. We would have never been in the video if we didn't break up.

>> So, that's one plus. >> There's a pretty major plus. Not a question, but I hope I'm one of the lucky five.

I hope you are, too. >> And if you don't know what he's talking about, go watch >> go watch the YouTube video. How did you even deal with the 1T chain and going to the toilet?

Won't the chain be so short? >> Yeah. We had to stick our hand through that >> little fuzzy pocket that you see.

Yeah. So, >> and the person who was sitting on the toilet had to have their hand up against the door. >> You were onehanded at all time literally.

>> And you had to rip the toilet paper off with >> and like step on >> your foot and your other free hand while having your other hand. It was terrible. Final question.

>> Drm roll, please. Are you and Josh back together? The honestly, we're trying to figure it out for ourselves.

>> A point in the video where I say being in the box is so much different than the outside world. And now that we're here, we just want to make sure that we're making the right call, moving in whichever direction we do go. >> Yes.

Like we don't want to jump into anything and announce a whole thing when we're not sure of it yet. You know, >> it's safe to say that's the direction that we're heading in >> is getting back together. But we don't want to confirm anything yet because we're not fully sure for ourselves yet.

>> Yeah. >> Either. >> But like we said, we're going to go on a first date and kind of feel it out and then see kind of how that goes.

>> I'm going to throw her out of an airplane. >> Wait, what? For our date?

>> No. Bottom line, we're not together yet officially. But I mean, you guys can assume things.

We are overflowing with questions from you guys in our DMs, on our polls, on all of that. And we're going to be going through even more of them on our individual socials. >> Yeah, it'll be like probably in the link in the description and on screen here someplace.

So, you'll find it somehow because there's way more questions and we're going to be going in depth on like Tik Tok specifically probably. Leave more questions, I guess, if you want in the comments. I'll be responding to those and we'll also be making videos on them.

So, stay smiling.