Shmirat Habrit - Guarding the Brit - How to rectify the sin of wasting seed

[Music] [Music] [Music] so [Music] you know when you have a dream and you see a pretty woman [Music] you've had that and you never actually see an ugly woman in dreams it's always a pretty woman And by the way it's always the same woman for all of us all of us have a dream of the same exact woman now she looks different than the woman his dreams and his dreams and everybody else's dreams but it's always the same character and she's more dangerous than a satan himself to such an extent that you're not even allowed

to say her name Who is she this is ten's wife you're not even allowed to say her name why are you gonna call her good luck [Music] [Music] [Music] so [Music] [Music] every time someone wastes seed they're literally creating themselves as the Worst type of gay i know there is one of these types of genomes it doesn't end ever people don't believe in eternal punishment they think too much uh where's the saying the torah is eternal punishment where does it say it as we all know we got in page 17 wrongdoers of israel who sin

with their body sounds familiar right And wrongdoers of the gentiles who sin with their body also sounds familiar go down to genome and are punished there for 12 months this first 12 months is the trial after 12 months their body is consumed and their soul is burned and the wind scatters them under the soles of the feet of the righteous and you shall tread down the wicked and they shall be as ashes under the souls of the righteous but as For the minim and for the informers and for the scoffers who rejected the torah and

denied the resurrection of the dead and those who abandoned the ways of the community and who sinned and made the masses sin these will go down to genome and be punished there for all generations as it says and they shall go forth and look upon the carcasses of the men that have rebelled against me Meaning genome will be consumed by they will not be consumed meaning genome eventually will be end will end when the mashiach comes eventually there's no more genome except their part of the gay nope that continues forever forever person who has gotten

to the point where he doesn't waste seat anymore not only doesn't weigh seat on purpose i'm talking that's of course i'm talking about he got to a point Where he doesn't waste seat at night meaning even accidental that's a real tank that's where yosef sadiq got his name somebody like that if he comes over your house you can tell everybody that's the person you should ask for him from a blessing why because that's a person that overcame what the rambam says is the most difficult obstacle in human nature to overcome Once you become addicted to

wasting seed it's almost impossible to overcome but what the rambam is trying to teach us is that if you fail pick up try again again and again and again and again and again until it's finished when it comes to seed this is both a physical and a spiritual disease but human nature is something that you could overcome once you admit that You're wrong if you don't admit that you're wrong then we've already failed before we started so when it says that wasting seed is the biggest scenario it's not as in essence saying it's bigger than

or it's bigger than you know lending another jew money and charging an interest it's necessary it's it's part of the Same group that if you violate it it's as if you violated the entire torah so these are sins you simply have to do everything possible to avoid especially avoid them on purpose so many just to say it clearly so you wake up it's better you die than make these sins according but wasting seed and in general imagery Is one of those sins where even if you know it's wrong it's very hard to do the rambam

as i told you says this is the hardest thing to overcome now there's a few things that a person needs to know about wasting seed first and foremost it's hated by his 16b says that each time a seed leaves the body of the man there's a malach that goes to hashem And asks hashem what should i do with this this name is laila this malach takes the seed to asheville to the kisaka wood and he talks about all of the potential of this seed this seed could be the biggest rabbi in the world this seed

could be the mashiach this seed could be a mezake rabbi this seed can be salaimenu this seed Could be khana this seed this seed this seed has a lot of potential what should i do with this one but that's assuming the seed is supposed to go is going in the right place when a person misuses his seed immediately it's known in shamayim that this seed is going to get killed this seat is being destroyed and the rambam says anytime a man wastes seed it's 100 Percent murder elaborates and says that any time that a person

weighs seed it's as if he brought the flood why the flood why not something else because already knew things that we only discovered in recent generations the flood what did the flood do the flood destroyed the entire world the flood destroyed millions or billions of people When a man weighs seed he's also destroying hundreds of millions of souls that had the potential of being the biggest rabbi in the world the biggest satika in the world he is destroying hundreds of millions of them already know without the microscopes and the telescopes and the microphones and the

ipods and the iphones and the Scientists that pretend like they know what they're talking about i already know hashem says you weigh seed you're bringing the flood flood killed millions you're killing millions in shaman that's the deen they gave the person oh yeah this person yeah yeah this steve yeah steve just murdered 300 million people today wake up steve that was only nine in the morning my time was five o'clock steve Already uh steve is bored again so he decides to kill another 300 million and the reality is a person could live his whole life

as a murderer and not even know it because you never saw because he doesn't realize that the essence of a person is his seed meaning the seed is even more significant than the blood itself some people like to make excuses They say things like no this is crazy every guy is addicted to it nowhere in any allahic book in the history of israel did anyone ever say it's permitted to waste seed nowhere no one ever said it allowed in fact they said it's the worst sin in the entire torah the exact opposite even before am

isaiah received the torah Even before amisa was even born it was not allowed the entire generation of noah got killed because they wasted seat neither one of them were jewish neither one of them had a tallah like we do still hashem killed them on the spot because they wasted seed meaning that this is not only that it's forbidden from for jews it's forbidden for non-jews it's specifically considered disgusting Page 10a says 60 times the size of earth whatever that is time it by 60. that's ganeth there's two gangnams there's one here physical and there's one

spiritual above and beyond that one is sixties times the size of earth genome is sixty times the size of ghanaian but some say no no it's not 60 times the size of canadian there's no size to gino why it continues to grow Now anyone with a little bit of seche asks themselves why is gun why is ganon continuing to grow there's not enough no there's more entrance every week every week more people join genoa and not as many join gernadine why because apparently they haven't done chuba says something very interesting one is an increased amount

of women that are immodest and as the Torad describes them as women which stretch necks and winking eyes you know the kind of women that want to get attention it says a person like that that stretch neck and winking eyes women that like attention people that do something she wants to make sure you know that she's the one laughing she talks loud enough for the neighbors to hear this is an act of immodesty Says that when there's an increased number of women that are described as walking with stretched necks and winking eyes the use of

bitter waters of the sota should have been increased as well that imalesti eventually leads to people cheating on each other the woman who causes men to sin because she decided to put a picture on the internet because she saw a movie star do it She wants to feel like she's in hollywood she's hoping that hollywood catches her image on facebook and maybe they called it wait we saw your picture you're hired you're hired because we saw your picture called like that so we're hired we're gonna put you on blockbuster movie 50 million dollars because you

puckered your lips every woman she takes pictures put on the internet she wants to make sure Everybody knows she can pucker our lips she looks cute she puts the most e-modest outfit on the world everything a woman doesn't realize what kind of damage she's bringing herself by doing such a thing women don't understand how sick the mind of men is they honestly don't understand they don't understand how sick men are unless we have torah women don't see it that way why because they think we think Like them i've said this a thousand times and still

people are surprised as a woman who causes men to sin because of very modesty mother's behavior images dress laughs picture anything will not be released from genome until all that she created meaning all the demons that she created from his wasting seed are destroyed from the world They talk to you about how they're going to put you in genome if you don't do chewbacca if we're wasting seed and they're going to start with the hole that you wasted and then they're going to rip it apart until 50 million pieces and make sure that you remember

this was not what you were supposed to do and then the woman that liked to expose herself because she wanted to make sure That everybody knows she's around they're going to hang her by a sex organs on the wall as display like my clients used to hang animals these are the types of things that sadiq wrote i'm going to give you some other things how to fix this problem who writes a lot of things that are a tragedy to even read some of the things that he writes about what happens to people don't do what

the number one cause of death of Bhutsali is people that we see people that waste seed create demons that look like dogs and pigs and these dogs and pigs come to hurt them it's forbidden to sleep alone in the house whoever sleeps alone in the house will be seized by lilith who's elite the wife of the satan himself that's responsible helping every man make the crime of wasting seed Even when he doesn't want a person away seed even if he's born with a fortune of good mazaar all will be turned until he becomes poor and

loses on all the things that he does to the extent that even the place he lives will start rejecting him even the land itself becomes disgusted from him and all the sins that he made That have vomited how to fix all of this first and foremost the person needs to watch his eyes this is a given this is something we all know about we're going to go into details in a moment but he has to watch his eyes to the extent that he's not even allowed to see animals doing what they do he also has

to watch his mouth if you curse you will waste seed but if You want to do serious chuva this is a must don't speak to the woman says who is this woman his own wife don't speak to her too much meaning speak just enough to do what you need to do to maintain the relationship to pay attention to her but don't become our second girlfriend talk when it's necessary talk when it has a meaning needless to say don't talk to strangers If it's a strange woman unless she's your manager your customer your boss you have

absolutely no reason to talk to her a guy shouldn't even be get to a point of even touching women or their clothing all of these men that are in the clothing business if it's women's clothing they should probably find a different profession further don't waste your time being sad sadness leads To wasting seed sadness leads to promiscuity sadness leads to a lot of problems all of these things that make people sad get over it you don't you're letting the sarah park in your house and yet he's not looking for you to make small sins he's

looking for you to start with small sins and then he takes over the entire account Listening to unholy music unholy things any type of secular music non-kosher music non-torah music is going to lead a person to wasting seat people that like to listen to rap full of curses people like to listen to hip-hop full of curses people like to listen to these types of songs that talk about arrogance money promiscuity all types of garbage it's not just bad for your time it's bad For you in the shama it's bad for you in hashima you listen

to it you're going to think it you're going to think it you're going to do it that's why the rambam poser he says are worse than avila thinking about the alvirah is even worse than the avila itself also when you go to sleep make sure you don't have clothing or shoes around your bed also spider webs above the bed but also Another ham says that also leads to slow bite problems even if you don't have arachnophobia doesn't make a difference you have spider webs clean it also people that don't wash their hands in the morning

and don't do nothing let them die they're not careful when they let you die they should know that when you go to sleep it's 1 60 of death and when you wake up in the morning there's a special malach that's Still on there that malach is the daughter of the satan you're not even allowed to touch your ears you're not allowed to touch your nose you're not allowed to touch your genitals you're not allowed to touch your mouth says it's better if you cut off his hand than him touching himself any part of his body

before he washes his hand with an entirety next is sleeping too much sleeping too Much leads to wasting seed especially sleeping deep also it's treating mitsvot lightly he says if you start treating meat lightly you're going to waste seed why because your mind is not clean and at night it's not going to be strong enough that when the satan's wife shows up you're not going to be able to beat her or anybody that disrespects the sages you start saying nah rashi i don't think I don't think rashi was right on this one rambam nah i'm

not really sure you treat the sages lightly no good or somebody likes to play with his hair you ever see these guys play with their hair you know they put the gel in their hair and they do their hair 500 times a day in case hollywood shows up no good it's going to lead to wasting seed you're too comfortable with your body But worse than anything else everything i read to you until now there's one thing that's worse than everything gaba someone that's arrogant a person that's arrogant is guaranteed to waste seed not only accidental

but also on purpose because the root of wasting seed is gaba such an extent that rabbi me breslab says the people that are goff the name the people that are arrogant end up Wasting seed if they don't have that under control they're going to become very promiscuous if they don't have that under control they're going to become homosexuals too once a person does not control his arrogance and starts thinking that everything belongs to them their body belongs to them somebody else's body belongs to them and doesn't control himself Has excuses for everything she has excuses

for everything eventually their natural state is not going to be so natural first witness is dr anthony levatino dr levitino is a board certified obstetrician gynecologist over the course of his career dr levitino has practiced obstetrics and gynecology in both private and university settings including as an associate Professor of ob gyn at the albany medical college and dr levitino we'll begin with you welcome thank you chairman and members of the committee second trimester dna abortions perform between roughly 14 and 24 weeks of gestation your patient today is 17 years old she's 22 weeks pregnant her

baby is the length of your hand plus a couple of inches and she's been feeling her baby Kicked for the last several weeks but she's asleep on an operating room table you walk into that operating room scrubbed and gowned and after removing laminaria you introduce a suction catheter into the uterus this is a 14 french suction catheter if she were 12 weeks pregnant or less basically the width of your hand are smaller you could basically do the entire procedure with this but babies this big don't fit through Catheters this size after suctioning the amniotic fluid

out from around the baby you introduce an instrument called the sofa clamp it's about 13 inches long it's made of stainless steel the business end of this clamp is about two and a half inches long and a half inch wide there are rows of sharp teeth this is a grasping instrument when it gets a hold of something it does not let go Adenium procedure is a blind abortion so picture yourself introducing this and grabbing anything you can blindly and pull and i do mean hard and out pops a leg about that big which you put

down on the table next to you reach in again pull again pull out an arm about the same length which you put down on the table next to you and use this instrument again and again to tear out the spine The intestines the heart and lungs it didn't have a heartbeat it didn't have a face it didn't have feelings it was a clump of cells and tissue i can also promise you that had i been forced to see this pregnancy through i would have done what women have done for all the decades people like you

have been trying to stop abortions i would have gone to any length medically overseen or not to end my Pregnancy now we are living in such depravity that there are people like the people that oppose this bill that are willing to say i know it's a human being i know it has a heartbeat i know there is life there and i know it is innocent and i'm willing to kill it you know earlier on i described stacking Up body parts on the side of the table when you're doing an abortion you need to keep inventory

you have to make sure you get two arms and two legs in all the pieces after all the parts were accounted for the poc lab technician would dump everything out into a glass baking dish that sat on top of an x-ray light box and she would reassemble the parts of the baby i'm talking about first trimester abortion Yes there are parts yes they must be reassembled the baby is fully formed every internal organ is formed by 12 weeks gestation so yes there are parts even earlier than 12 weeks over 1200 abortions first and second trimester

up to 24 weeks and all the rest of it and being very dedicated to it for the first time in my life i really looked at that pile of body parts on the side of the table and i didn't See her wonderful right to choose and i didn't see all the money i just made all i could see was somebody's son or daughter the epididymis a tightly coiled six meter long tube which can hold over a billion sperm sperm are really quite unique because they're almost like free living cells they almost have a life of

their own they have put one aim which is to deliver A genetic payload from the male to the female through a really quite complex series of environments both in the male and the female reproductive tract you've got hundreds of millions of cells that are swimming wildly about you've got a lot of death you've got a lot of obstacles to overcome sperm pounds are considered low if the count is generally less than 20 million Sperm per milliliter of ejaculate some experts consider less than 15 million per milliliter as being the lower limit of normal well they

never asked for directions which is part of the problem the concentration of sperm in the sample is 87 million the average man will have 60 to 80 million sperms how much sperm per milliliter a Man makes in a man that has a two milliliter ejaculate which is about a half a teaspoon that's sort of in that normal range how million millions per ejaculate he makes and a normal number should be somewhere around 20 million or higher i've also seen men that come in and have 200 million sperm per milliliter we have sunk to a new

low in our society taking the life of an Innocent human being that is your own flesh and blood and your own dna it's not normal and it is time for us to rectify what we have done lust is a sexual desire that dishonors its object and disregards god the lusted after woman or man in your head or on the screen or on the street is dishonored not treated as a sacred precious eternal person in the image of god and it had Nothing to do with religious shame i didn't really grow up religious i simply realized

at that time i couldn't even not do it for a day to allow my injuries to heal over 10 hours a day i tried to quit dozens of times hundreds of times i realized that i essentially conditioned my brain to prefer pixels over you know people and partners very few people realize Just how addictive pornography really is pornography is as addictive as crack cocaine one exposure to a 13 year old boy at just the right time and he will grab that and it will become very much a part of him and will be there for

the rest of his life it functions very much like drugs you take a little bit and it goes a long ways but you're bored with that and you take a little more And you need more and you need more and you need more like i didn't ever think that you know watching porn you know doing drugs is gonna have me one day talking to you but i'm here it's me terry crews again the subject is dirty little secret for years years years my dirty little secret was that i was addicted to pornography so that you

begin with soft core Pornography that's playboy penthouse playboy was my gateway into full-on pornography addiction my dad had a playboy left out at age five and it's affected almost every choice i made for the rest of my life from age five to now having to kick the habit and it just presents itself in the open like it's Okay and i stand up and say you know it's not okay people are brainwashed by people are addicted to it it is a modern day cigarette some people drown themselves in drugs and i drown myself in my addiction

which was what sex i try to stay off of pornography man that's one of my biggest arch nemesis is uh pornography why because it just weakens me It just yeah how so you know my fantasies and stuff they're not mine anymore then what happens with an addiction to pornography is you go from there to a little fire trail a little barrier where you've seen everything that a man and woman can do together now what because see one of the characteristics of of pornography is that you bore with It this stage becomes boring very quickly you

know somebody created them better than my imagination can and so they live in these you know on the internet in these boxes and it's like not having to be engaged with my actual feelings or anything so then when i am engaging with somebody that i care about or something it just doesn't calculate for me Emotionally as well but it does it's definitely made it tougher for me over the years i think it should be shut down man i think it's harming a lot of men and i really really do it also impacted my relationships people

who spend too much time uh watching pornography they have trouble performing uh with regular sex it was something that you know my wife Was literally like i don't know you anymore i'm out of here i mean it just takes out the intimacy there's definitely a danger in like immediate access to pornography today it's the most immediate access because you get it on your phone oh you can get it yeah you pull up your laptop open it up type in some words it's so easy this has never been the case before it's it's unlike any other

time period in Human history when you have instant access to things you can abuse it then you move on to another one and you're walking down this path what happens when you get to the point that you've seen it all this morning more hollywood heavyweights are being accused of sexual harassment there are new developments in the scandal involving movie mogul harvey weinstein new allegations though against kevin Spacey louis c.k james toback jeffrey tambor director brett ratner actor james franco actor dustin hoffman you recently revealed you were sexually assaulted by a director well why did you

reveal it there is a bit of a witch hunt happening it's across every industry yeah focus seems to be on hollywood yes but it's across every industry even like that freaky Weird pedophile that'd be going on like you hear about it but it's it's it's dark and demonic energy that this industry was built on and people manipulate young women they manipulate kids and at the end of the day it's all for the dollar and all to feed their ego so i've seen where you'll be like that's just not right and they go to the perversions

the Biggest political scandal britain has ever faced it involves a secret network of the highest office holders in the land cabinet ministers judges diplomats even one of the country's top spies these men are accused of some of the most sadistic child sexual abuse imaginable on hundreds of victims i wish i'd move this whole thing over Because the the final stage of this is death you're essentially de-personalizing the person in front of you and imagining porn in your head to actually maintain arousal i realized at that point it was out of control for the record you

are guilty of killing many women and girls yes yes that's true ted how did it Happen my experience with i'd say pornography generally but with pornography that deals on a violent level with sexuality once you become addicted to it and i look at this as a kind of addiction i would keep looking for more potent more explicit more graphical signs of material like an addiction you keep craving something which is harder harder something which which gives you a Greater sense of excitement it changes the way you think about people people become objects people become body

parts they become things to be used rather than people to be loved it's a process that doesn't happen overnight when you de-personalize another person and view them as just an object An object for pleasure instead of a living breathing human being it seems to make it easier to do things you shouldn't do i just view things as objects people animals trees cars there's all the same to me i just feel everything's pretty much is this earth's a waste of time really well then let me ask you john does it make it easier to Kill someone

because you you vision everything you look at everything other than your family is just one in the same basically an object right does that make it easier i would have to say it would until you reach the point where the pornography only goes so far you reach that jumping off point where you begin to wonder if if maybe actually doing it will give you that Which is beyond just reading about it or looking at it you're essentially de-personalizing the person in front of you i desensitized myself to it i had these obsessive desires and thoughts

wanting to control them and all the pornography that i had been buying renting swapping i got my hands on some bondage and discipline pornography i had eventually started using some of this bondage and discipline Because of the excitement that was very arousing and heightening to me we are your sons and we are your husbands we grew up in regular families and pornography can reach out and snatch a kid out of any house today that snatched me out of my home 20 30 years ago and as diligent as my parents were there is no protection i

was saving body parts such as skulls And skeletons no one had a clue as to what was happening there was no clue it was my secret nobody knew and that allowed it to grow you start out with tame stuff and little by little you go up to more and more extreme acts it was something that had taken time to build up it didn't just happen it took time to build that up i had been fantasizing About killing i believe it would have been maybe as short as another month or two and i would have actually

killed him if i was not arrested death i'm no social scientist and i haven't done a survey but i've lived in prison for a long time now i've met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence just like me and without exception every one of them was deeply involved in pornography Without question without exception deeply influenced and consumed by an addiction to pornography there's no question about it the fbi's own study on serial homicide shows that the most common interest among serial killers is pornography so [Applause] [Music] For several months now i spent

a lot of time in the deep web after coming home from school i would sit at my computer and surf the net until late in the night i know a lot of people who were using deep web most of them were just curious or find it exciting because there is much stuff which is bad apart from that deep web was always a good topic of conversation at break time Today deep web has become a trend but for me i think it is something else deep web fascinates me there i'm free there nobody knows who i

am i notice that slowly but surely an addiction is developing most people call it an addiction but for me it's a brand new passion a deep-rooted passion that awakes New cravings in me every day i get to know a new side of me i chat with many different people and exchange information i watch a lot of videos but i like what i see but at this point i should admit that i am a teenager with a small sadistic vein i get bored very quickly and because of that i am always on the lookout for such

material and so i dive Deeper and deeper into the deep web i saw things that far exceeded my imagination but after a while even this stuff became boring and uninteresting to me one day while looking for the next violent material i stumbled on a chat it was a chat room for murderers and pedophiles i read a few comments and grinned a little i was bored so i decided to go with it i Logged in and off i went i spent so much time in the deep web i saw myself as kind of professional and went

about it all so confidently it started to become second nature i made fun of the people in this chat room i claimed that i was a hack and now i had their data and was gonna send it to the local police it was a lot of fun other users started Sending me death threats but i just couldn't stop i just wrote one stupid comment after the other sooner or later i received a message from the site admin he wrote if i was aware of what i'm doing and if i knew the consequences i was equipped

with the latest firewall i was not afraid of him i laughed out loud and celebrated suddenly my screen went blank I thought what's going on suddenly pictures of dead people came every second the images alternated faster and faster i tried all the possible key combinations to stop it but it was no use slowly a strange feeling came over me i was about to get up and pulled the plug from my computer then i saw it i was petrified my eyes could not believe what they just saw i was rigid with fear The terrible slide had

stopped and only saw a picture a picture of me i had forgotten to turn off my webcam again someone must have hacked my computer and took photos of me i stared at this image for several minutes and i didn't know what to do suddenly the image disappeared i was in the chat room again i was briefly relieved but then came the next mega shocker It hit me right in the face my picture was visible for every user to see it rained death threats and hate comments they wrote everything about what they would do to me

and my family but that was not the worst of it under my picture was my real full name and my exact current full address so so So [Music] [Applause] first of all pornography is something that is addictive [Music] they call it the new drug pornography is no less addictive than the hardest drugs in the world when the rambam wrote in the biggest addiction a human being can Have is the waste seed is immorality he was saying it as this is divine information what happens with pornography is that it triggers a protein called delta phase b

delta fuzz b is one of the things that a person in essence gets pleasure from but it's also one of the things that is connects to addiction welcome to your Brain on pawn here are the basics porn over stimulated your brain and your brain changed you see being hooked on porn is due to the same brain changes that occur with all addictions these brain changes are behind your cravings these brain changes keep you coming back to porn even if you want to quit the internet pawn is what we call a super stimulus what that means

Is that it's way beyond what we've ever encountered a heavy porn user would view more hot babes or hot guys or a hot one ever in one session than our ancestors would need in several lifetimes so this can be considered another super stimulus our brains have evolved to handle heavy porn use like this and unlike junk food you can never get full here's another Reason internet porn is so stimulating and so addictive it takes advantage of an old program located in your primitive brain the subconscious program is what got you started down the path of

using porn internet porn is really far more stimulating than just images it's really due to the endless novelty and the ability to click from one image to another another reason internet porn is So stimulating is that it can escalate rather quickly to more kinky or more shocking material number two addictive personality is not a prerequisite for getting hooked on internet porn now the standard model is that you have to have a predisposition you have to be genetically inclined to get addicted Well this is definitely true but what we found out is that many of the

guys who were showing up on the site had never had any other addiction they were just regular guys who started watching and got hooked and what's interesting is once they got off a porn session they returned to their quote normal selves so now what happens is a kid doesn't know right or left 12 13 14 years old gets a phone goes on a computer has free access goes on the internet starts looking at pornography things he's never even imagined his worst dreams drug addiction sex addiction money addiction all types of addictions in excellence this particular

protein is confused thinking now after he saw that him seeing this immodesty this led to a good feeling And now connects the brain to think that every time he sees this filth it's going to lead to good scientists confirmed that it's an addiction no less than drugs it all starts with yourself allah says person is promiscuous with themselves eventually is promiscuous with the opposite sex the risk is with the opposite sex eventually same sex it's not enough he wants taboo by Himself not enough watching a certain type of fill so he watches some other filth

eventually he wants to fulfill that film it all starts with where your eyes go you don't start controlling yourself of your what you're looking at eventually gonna become the next pedophile people are addicted to pornography this is what happens [Music] Is the only thing that can help people stop page 29 it says the following the thoughts of sin are worse than the sin itself once you get the junk into your mind it's already worse than the sin itself why is this the thought of the sin worse than a sin this doesn't make any sense when

the sin is in your mind when it comes from pornography That sin is literally in your mind at all times you can think filth all the time and the mind has no limitations like the body that's how sick the sick mind is the thoughts of sin are worse than a sin you start thinking that everything is supposed to be that way they start training their mind to unrealistic circumstances and makes themselves addicted they in Essence become much more vulnerable to do it again once you've watched pornography once or twice that's it you're much more vulnerable

to press play again you're much more vulnerable to be promiscuous you're much more vulnerable to do bad things to you it became the new normal says after you make the same sin twice tells you it's allowed it's easier to repeat the sin when the Sin is a thought even if he's trying to stop two or three four days he sees some billboard back to it again as if nothing happened as if he didn't watch very difficult to do chewbacca that's why the tsarikado says to do for wasting seed you have to do yourself hashem says

if you really want to chew up right you have to do it yourself there's a stronger addiction to this The natural intimacy when a person is addicted to wasting seed pleasuring themselves in whatever form or another this leads a person to become more addicted to this than even natural intimacy everything that the scientists recently discovered from different neurological experiments psychological experiments and so on already is written in But simply said the thoughts of sin are worse than the sin itself this is why you have to protect your eyes no matter whether you're male or female

this also leads to the next point this is why it's in every woman's best interest to never ever wear a wig never wear a wig no matter what your husband says because by wearing a wig Forget about the other argument that we've mentioned already for four years about images and about the abu dhabi and it's coming from india put that aside for a second every smart woman will never ever wear a wig and the reason why the second you put on a wig you're giving your husband full permission to look at every woman why they

look just like you They look just like you oh i didn't know she's married that's why the the people that fight for wigs the most are guys the shaheed biggest ashram in the world woman having a wig gives you permission to look at women it's not enough to be modest with a mitchbach i need to be superstar i need to look like the green i need to be beautiful in the streets Not just beautiful for my husband more the guy wants more the woman wants more she wants to be more she wants to not only

be beautiful for her husband she wants to be beautiful for people in the public she wants to wear a wig hashem says be beautiful for your husband but she's not happy with that she wants to be beautiful also for other people too so she wants to wear a wig the guy says i want our beautiful all the time and i Want to also be able to look anywhere i want it's not enough for me the biggest advocates for wigs are guys not women women will actually do chew up for this most of the time it's

easier but that's the problem when you're addicted to filth it only leads to wrong decisions [Music] someone who's a programmable should be very careful to protect themselves from Dogs and anything dangerous from weapons because he already has a cut to go he created himself so many demons that are going upstairs to hashem telling them look at this sinner this rasham that's killing your nation every day it's killing 300 million of them every day when someone puts themselves in danger that's usually when they go to hashem and hashem you want to protect your wife protect Your

breed when a person heaven forbid experiences noctua emission meaning it went out without necessarily him doing it it stems from clipla of lilies that name should be erased i told you who that is already each one of these is about 30 of them just giving you the top picks [Music] there's 80 pages nightmares anyone ever have nightmares Now you know the source nightmare is usually controlled by demons demons are created by that they become oblique many of them many many of them they could take two torah all your single guys looking for zero sometimes because

of the sin of probably a person could actually lose his destined wife is he vogue when he was brought to this World right before his nest went into the little baby hashem already decided who is going to be you waste enough seed you lower your spiritual standings enough your ziv is going to go to an appropriate person which is not you chuva is always open you bring yourself back up that's the point of doing the shoe Hashem knows don't worry he created the heaven and the earth i'll take care of that too by fixing this

sin a person will find his destined wife and on top of that she will not be rebellious against him like 2 8 torah 87 why is she why is he mentioning she would not be rebellious against him because like i told you sometimes a Person wakes up and his wife is mad at him and he hasn't done anything yet he just woke up why is she mad at him because our neshama knows that he wasted seed she can't see but unesco knows says wasting seed causes havoc in the spiritual worlds what does that mean who's

destroying the world and killed 150 million people [Music] That's wasting seed you don't see the damage here right away but in a spiritual world you're destroying civilizations when you arrive without chuva you'll see and a person that did it without doing chuva would know that the place he arrived to is the genome that he created for himself it's no surprise Spoke up and said all those who waste seed are punishable by death said it is if he sheds blood it's murder abbasi says as if he worships strange deities says whoever weighs seeds equates himself to

an animal just like an animal does not care what it does so to this person randomly commits to sin just like an animal is set aside to be Slaughtered and does not receive life in the future world so to this person stands to die and does not live in the future worldwide page 41 major flaw of the generation of the flood as we said the wasted seed one that weighs seed is old age jumps on them meaning that they age much faster his strength leaves him and his eyes go Weak you start losing your vision

[Music] at a very young age bad breath pours out of his mouth regardless of how many times he brushes his teeth he always has bad breath and his teeth fall out this is very common in today's world his hair and eyebrows fall out and hair of his legs and armpits become thick Or become weak a lot of cavities all of a sudden when you're 18 you were a bull by the time you're 25 you have worse teeth than your grandfather what happened you just took a shower went outside for a half hour because of a

little sweat you sweat like you know you smell like you've worked a full day in a uh in a toxic plant many additional health problems occur 240 rambam one that weighs seed heaven Forbid his children will die young or end up as evil people it also causes poverty 151 so wife hears this and finds out that her husband wasted seed for a second she'd probably torture him to death touch her mother's children playing with fire unfortunately most of us don't have really uh mind We're scared of men more than we're scared of hashem that's watching

every single thing that we do adulthood for a girl it's 12 and for a boy it's 13 bar mitzvah until that time any sin they make is their parents meaning that if the eight-year-old played with a video game on shabbat the sin goes to the father if the 11 year old girl ate comments on pesach it goes to the Parents there's only one sin that goes to their account to the child's account to the boy's account under the age of any age whether he's two years old if it's possible or he's 11 or he's 12

or he's 9 wasting seed wasting seed stays on his account doesn't go to his parents [Music] Person under the age of mitzvot is not held accountable for his sins except this one as we know each of the limbs each of them each vote we have 613 meter voters for each one of our body parts wasting seed defiles all of them if someone is praying a lot he wants yeshua from hashem wants salvation [Music] i need a wife i need something i need to Stay alive his prayers are not accepted waste seed prayer has gone to

deaf ears you can pray until from here to tomorrow won't make a difference meaning you can pray it's just that your prayer is not answered so why are you going to get what you want if every day you're killing 300 million of his children each time a person does this sin he causes the creation of a numberless Amount of clippers to take the image of pigs and dogs so the demons the person creates apparently look like pigs and dogs someone that dies without doing chew off of gamma plate they get again known a boiling waste

i think you're scared enough hopefully each time someone has something bad happen to him they always blame god Why am i punishing you you just killed 300 of my boys this morning another 300 million of them this afternoon and you're planning to kill another 300 million later tonight and you're asking me why you don't have any money as we all know the panasonic comes from the children each child comes with a panasonic to talk about this issue and whether a man is allowed to even touch That area of his body you say no not loud

page 13b says it's better off that his stomach will blow up and he died rather than him remove the spike from that area that's hurting him that's how careful they were saying page 13 says it's better that one would tell everyone that all of his kids are mum And get a lifetime worth of shame then touch his private part and waste seed so it's better that he gets that shame his whole life than waste seed one time wants to scare us a little bit more it says that each time a drop of seed is wasted

there's a bad angel that takes the one drop not the whole thing just one of the drops and uses it as a hostage To give the tuma more power against you we make many many decisions some of those decisions are good some of those decisions are stupid [Music] but at some point who says time's up son come back to abba what happens the moment you die [Music] in sources that discusses what happens in the grave chapter 23 he gives us some insights He says that the beatings of the grave which is what happens to a

person after they die and they're buried in the ground immediately after everybody leaves and the all the neighboring souls are doing their yelling and screaming and so on immediately four angels come and they lower the ground of that grave and they deepen it and make it like a hollow to the height Of the person then after they deepen it they stand them up they stand her up then these angels that don't have any aspect of mercy they have yes and no then each of these angels mentioned holds an end of the body you get this

corner that corner that corner that's how the angels hold the body he's alive now the soul's back in there And they start shaking him just like you shake a bed sheet and they start beating him with sticks of fire to remove the clipper that separates him from a kadosh it's like a spiritual garment very thin spiritual garment that we all have and that person cannot go to the bedding of until that garment is broken and that garment is similar to A shell and these angels shake them and hit them until it's broken the thicker it

is the more difficult it is and until that comes off we're not finished [Music] and this is why it's called kibuta kevel the beatings of the grave if i'm scaring you that's a good sign that means your soul is still alive says the following one angel Hates him another angel counts how many hits because there's a judgment in heaven of how many hits he's allowed to hit him the third angel shoots out fire from his own body like a furnace and the fourth angel brings the bitter and sour grasses from the mountains in case he

stole from his friend or from other people you have in stolen property with your teeth and then another angel shows up And brings the neshama of his parents his mother and his father and at that moment [Music] these malachim give him the person that died the permission to hit his father and mother because they're the reason he's there why didn't you instruct your children to study torah and fulfill meet smoke they are partners to The crime and if he feels embarrassed no i don't want to hate my image i love them then they hit him

instead in front of his parents and make his parents suffer watching their son or daughter get hit before the hits begin the person is in shock and the angels say to him get up your time has arrived and then they open up his eyes and he Sees the truth and the first thing that he sees is the malach himself and he holds a knife in his hand and at the tip of the knife there is a drop of bile hanging from it the moment that a person sees this he gets so scared that he opens

his mouth and the drop falls into their mouth and from that they die from that they Become smelly and disgusting from that the person's face becomes discolored and at that moment they actually see a kadosh ball who himself in the book ya lord vash in the second rush he says if people only knew what punishment exists in genome they'd literally start crying hysterically [Music] Begging to simply just not take them there don't even take me to genetic just don't take me to gay no i'll do everything i'll keep me exposed i'll keep tawa i'll become

baba sally i'll start teaching i'll start giving everything i have all the money every day just don't take me to gaynor if they only understood what it means and then it says by the way the kevin it's even worse than geno i don't Know what that means all i know is that's really bad why is it so much worse he says the gay mom is limited because he gets judged for the vast majority of his sins from the age of 20. with the exception of wasting seed [Music] so the sins that a person made before

the age of 20 have lesser of a judgment it's not that There's no judgment it's lesser of a judgment with the exception of wasting seed but then abhimey says the judgment that's in the grave the beating of the grave everyone has to go through even a miscarriage everyone has to go through this man endures a lot of suffering in this world but he also suffers after his death The moment that a person passes from this world it's not enough that he's frightened by the malacca the angel of death did you enthrone your owner every morning

and evening meaning did you realize that qaddasbro who is watching you at all time whoever does chuva instead of being bean they bring them directly to ganeden but if he dies without shiva they bring Him to genome instead the last verse of the book of isaiah what the prophet isaiah saw that not only did isaiah see genome but he knows exactly what happens there chapter 66 verse 24 says they will go out and see the corpses of the men who rebelled against hashem for their decay will not cease and their fire will not be extinguished

and they will lie in disgrace before all mankind page 33b and also Talks about how this is the source of how for wicked people that do not do there is an eternal genome that exists what did isaiah actually see himself and this is the narration isaiah went into genome saw it and he went into the second house one of the chambers in there and he saw two people hanging by their tongues and isaiah said to hashem o revealer of secrets revealed to me the seeker behind this Meaning why are these people being punished like this

they're being hung by their tongues he said to them these people they slandered other people and that's their judgment so then isaiah goes to the third house meaning another chamber and he saw men being hung by their penises and isaiah says to hashem our revealer of secrets revealed to me the secret Behind this why are these people having this specific judgment so hashem says to him these people leave their wives alone and fornicate with other women so this is their judgment so isaiah goes to the fourth house and he saw women being hung by their

chest by their breasts so isaiah says to hashem o revealer of secrets revealed to me The secret behind this why are these people getting this specific punishment says to him these women reveal their hair on their heads and they tear their clothing meaning they wear immodest clothes and then they sit in marketplaces nursing their children so that they can get people's attention and sin with them and this is what their judgment is woman walks around Modestly she wants attention fourth house apparently isaiah goes into the fifth house and he saw a house full of smoke

of all sorts of noblemen and treasurers were inside there with paul the wicked sitting on top of them guarding the entrance to genome and para saying to all of these people why didn't you learn from me when i was in egypt allah still sits there and guards the entrance to Genoa primary thing that a person has to have is and that's why the kamara says aka who only created the world for you to fear him if the whole world was scared of a kados balco the world would simply be gun ended if just amiss will

arrive immediately but the point is that's how valuable your mind is learn some of these things over and over and Over again on a regular basis once a month once every couple of weeks once a week if necessary and if you have a really big yitz out once a day until you're scared enough from hashem that you're not going to make any voluntary sins you're going to make sins regardless but at least it's not going to be on purpose it's not going to be on purpose you make unintentional sins because you don't Know or you

didn't realize or it's an accident but at least let it not be on on purpose don't leave your house immodest don't waste seed on purpose because you're watching stuff don't do that why because that's on purpose but don't do any purposeful sins don't go to mcdonald's or some non-kosher restaurant because you're really hungry find a kosher place Or don't eat at all don't do any purposeful sins and after a while this is going to help you fall in love with a kadosp but it's something that you need to learn enough until you understand your role

in this world that you are here to serve aka he's not here to serve you time to stop how do we stop why stop aside from being scared to Death [Music] how do you do triva for something like this so a few things first and foremost chewbaca is you have to stop immediately you cannot continue the sin one more time he should love charity he should love being rebuked stop doing this do chuva love doing kindness helping people get closer to hashem is The ultimate kindness get people to come to the shoe get people to

watch a shield help people that are helpless bring guests to his house when he prays when she prays pray with full covenant don't be a robot when you pray try to understand what you're saying and sing with meaning as often as you possibly can [Music] They're different fasts [Music] think about what you did that's relevant to this sin says if adam rishon would have said i'm sorry to hashem he would have stayed in ganeden forever the magnitude of saying i'm sorry great tailing work on humility again used to say if you want to be somebody

realize that you're a nobody next never embarrass anyone including Yourself feed poor people any opportunity you have to feed poor people take it don't be wasteful with food because being wasteful with food is symbolic of wasting seed also make sure to eat the remains of the motifs sometimes you have a little two three four five pieces of motif on shabbat eat it if you have full covenant during bircato mazon it's a major tikkun febreet There's nothing more important than bulkazone it's more important than schmeichel no speaking in shul you speak in sure you're going to

end up wasting seed at some point why because you're being careless about the mitzvoth of the sages as well as allah when it comes to break it up why because it will help you think about it what does each word mean there's also a special prayer that many See the imha that talks about all the seed that a person wasted helped me fix it and so on and so forth go to the mikveh if you're fortunate enough to have a kosher mikveh then you can go if you don't then don't go because it will actually

make you make sins read shalak to shine as often as you can why once you read it you're never going to want to even look at your bleed if you're single says you can only clean Yourself with some type of sponge thick sponge you're not allowed to touch your member with your own hand crying is fantastic anyone that cries over his sins it's very good being a sandak in a mila going up to the torah as an aliyah once a month gives taka every single day to your ability also lighting many candles for shabbat aside

from the two that you light light other ones giving kavod to people That learn torah you give kavot praying alone you're not going to disturb other people cry hysterically when you're praying fantastic also some people say learn 18 mishnayot per day learning zong does not require you to understand what it actually says but it still has to shine it even if you just read the words go to sleep with your titi even though you're not obligated That's the point be the first person in beckness it toyo to do mitzvot to the point of sweating do

kiru as much as possible this is the ultimate tikkun for wasting seed in the past and obviously if you ever do in the future why you get other people to do you're fixing your prior sins become zealots to the fullest extent so your sins are forgiven to the fullest extent telling people telling people Genome is real it's not a joke it's not a fairy tale no share of the world to come doesn't mean emptiness it literally means eternal punishment you're not allowed to steal be modest learn tallah before you go to sleep stop lying stop

saying start your night by sleeping on the left side then switch to the right don't remain single get married be a macpheed on fourth meal sudar revie But also we learn here that it has to do with tikun abrid do every mitzvah with happiness to the fullest extent don't give people evil eye don't look at other people's money don't look at other people's wife don't look at other people's husband don't look at other people's kids don't be an evil eye don't be an iran leads to a lot of sins including become oblique if you have

a good eye it fixes your bleed learn tana de Velialo and after you finish learning tana de veglio every day a little bit every day say lyawena times when you say amen don't be one of these people that says half of a men in shamayim every time you see men men men this is called orphaned amen in shaman those are men's will go against you so unless you're going to say amen don't say nothing say amen will full where you're alone but you're only Thinking about hashem don't think about all the things you want from

hashem and odmilvado nothing else but him anytime you have isuemia you have any type of suffering accept it with love say thank you hashem i know it's good for me give people cuffs give people the benefit of the doubt don't assume the worst on people if you show me the limey throat you have to give a cup of tea work on your bitter horn test yourself Become an expert in one mitzvah mesolith nephes is the ultimate fixture of galabrite and think about it says that if you want to fix your bleed whatever you were learning

yesterday double it see something that is a person that weighs seed simply cannot learn torah like a normal person wasting seed damages your brain both spiritually and physically the people that have an Impossible time to learn torah are always always without an exception always wasting seed people that have a hard time doing chuva always because they're wasting seed if a person is not willing to stop wasting seed is chewbai is impossible he's creating so much to ah so much impurity so many demons that are influencing him to do bad it's impossible for him to do

enough good to fix it But anyone that makes excuses for wasting seed meaning they're just not going to stop or they're making excuses to continue they're virtually a lost cause this person that's wasting seed won't understand two words if we really did chuva we could become the biggest nation in the world not just by dusha but also by number if we really didn't destroy ourselves We would be bigger than china so when a person wastes seed he's having the exact opposite effect on humanity on the world than what he's supposed to smoke says was supposed

to increase six-fold you're destroying it by wasting seed if you want to do chew up for this it's very possible all you really really need is desire same thing for a woman if she really wants to do chuba She doesn't have to care about the neighbor doesn't care about the her mom her sister her this her past her future all she cares about is hashem i'm going to be modest for his people i'm going to demand for myself a person that understands that they live in this world only due to hashem will find that all

of their excuses are a waste of time whoever walks in such a path whoever has such a mind that constantly is thinking about Bringing good to the world bringing good to clarissa the rabbi writes if he does it all of his days he will be serving god constantly even in the midst of his business dealings even during physical intimacy for his intent in all matters is fulfill his needs so that his body behold to serve god the rambam says a person that wants to get to a level higher than allah Higher than an angel all

he has to do is think about god at all times during business but also the physical aspect if a person is constantly thinking about what's the point of what am i doing i'm doing business so i can make money so i give to the car so i can feed my family so i can do mitzvah okay you're thinking about shame i'm being intimate with my wife so i can bring children to the world why because i want to bring More sadikim to the world there's an africa if you're thinking what's the point of doing everything

you're doing you could literally become higher than allah higher this is the type of thought process that a person is supposed to get to eventually people today simply don't understand what kind of damage they're causing themselves Both in their marriage in their relationships and in their services that's why ham had to bring us countless sources from the torah from different places that the average person perhaps didn't even look at to show us the damage that we're causing because sometimes we simply don't acknowledge it the secret genome in is perhaps one of the scariest places in

the torah and in it it talks about the things that Go on in genome whose enormous mekhubal tells us almost 450 years ago and someone who falls into it does not come back up there's no recovery from it paid 16b and 17 aces certain types of people get punished and there's no recovery from it 150 side in that place there are certain types of sinners one type of sinner someone that Is like a missionary causes other people to sin cause other people to leave hashem and you think that's oh okay i can understand why he's

there but then tells us something surprising he says someone that weighs seed on purpose he knows that it's not allowed but he still does it he goes to the same place as the missionary he goes to a place there's no recovery From shemishmov when our sages told us that there is a small member in your body and a person that starves it a person that starves this member in his body is always going to be sachin yet a person that feeds it will always be starving they weren't just saying something figuratively they were simply talking

about immense sexuality if a person is Constantly going to feed his desires he's going to destroy his life he's always going to want more it's never going to be enough never but if he controls himself only to be with his wife after mikvy no other times will see leave his body on purpose that person will not only be happy with the heaven that he's gonna have but he'll also be happy and satiated with his Own pleasure in this world of time we listen to our sages because they toiled and toiled and toiled day and night

for decades to connect to the highest possible level we need to do ourselves the service of listening to them each and every one of us will have the khizuk that we need to overcome all desires overcome all obstacles and become servants of hashem like we Can be because as i said there's a small member in your body it's small it shouldn't take over your whole life if you satiate it you're always gonna want to know you're never gonna have enough you're never gonna have control of it [Music] if you starve it and only feed it

when it's permissible according to the torah You're always going to be happy you're always going to be saturated including this world and the next hmm [Music] this thing is a major major problem i literally had to go to rehab for it i lit a normal life except for this one small but very potent very destructive segment of it that i kept very secret very close to myself didn't let anybody know about it If i couldn't keep them there with me whole i at least i felt that i could keep their skeletons i don't have an

on and off switch i'm just after that drug the most evil men in america it is up to the individual like myself to to keep on knocking on whatever door they want to get into i just view things as objects people animals If i wanted to kill somebody i'd take this book and beat you to death with it and i wouldn't feel a thing it'd be just like walking to the drugstore it becomes more powerful [Music] so [Music] [Music] so you