what would you do if the unthinkable what would you do if you had an accident or you lost your job or you were laid off or you became ill how would you provide for yourself that life is about today living today that whatever I want to do I do it right now so whatever you want to do whatever idea that you have the longer that you're sitting on that idea you either creating or you are disintegrating if you're not using it your skills are diminishing every there goes a second there goes another second and life
is happening right now [Music] well maybe you're leaving out the meaning of life that's what it looks like to me it's like here you are suffering away what makes it worthwhile right you it's almost impossible to describe how bad an idea that is responsibility that's what gives life meaning it's like lift a load then you can tolerate yourself right because look at your useless easily hurt easily killed why should you have any self-respect that's the story of the fall pick something up and carry it pick make it heavy enough so that you can think yeah
well useless as I am at least I could move that from there to there I made this person by diving in to do insecurities at life game because now they're yours then yours to own if you're not smart are yourself dumb it's ok because you are but take that knowledge and put yourself down if you're fat party so fat I used to be 300 pounds we we want to talk so soft to us up looking for that recovery and that recovery day is everything in your life everything your life is that recovery game looking for
not coming it's not coming everybody wants to get to a place very few were willing to sacrifice to get there everybody wants something and very few people are executing to go there the amount of people whose actions Matt - the ambition coming out of their mouth is very low there is no shortcuts there is no secret there's no system or model self-care is saying I want to be responsible for my future meaning I want to give my body get my mind give myself what I need so that I'm playing the long game that recognising self-care
is recognizing this is not a sprint this life is a marathon you see a lot of people allow fear to stop them from living their dream answer your call whatever you're called to do don't count yourself out don't say I can't do that many of us go through life saying no and you don't even know what you're saying no - you don't know what you cannot do if you're not willing to challenge yourself daily so Trust self-love is the soil in which to plant future contributions seeds and then daily our eye is the light in
the water required to be of some use in some some possibility for those of us witnessing your life don't mistake complacency with someone laughs says I'm full and complete and enough with where I start but hold me accountable to where I go and I don't like using the word easy but I'm gonna say it has never been easier to make $100,000 a year because of this the problem is everybody thinks you have to make a billion and the problem is nobody has humility to live a hundred thousand dollar lifestyle I think we have to change
the conversation in our society not in Southeast Asia not in America seven billion people need to change the conversation of what success looks like it is not to make a billion dollars it is to actually wake up in the morning and be in a good mood what's your highest value right it's the star it's like okay what are you aiming for you can decide man but you know there's some criteria it should be good for you mean there's constraints on what you should regard as a value but you but within those constraints you have the
choice you have choice [Music] care how you perceive david guidance because do my journey i figured out the one piece I was missing I thought it was cars I thought it was women cause everything the one piece I was missing was being having the courage to face my self-awareness plus action equals transformation please don't skip that plus action part because action is the antidote for despair jump i6 action is the antidote anything that's not working in your life you have to be in some form of action actually thought about your life in a 50 year
window or an 80 year window you would slow down everybody wants to succeed so fast because they want to prove something to somebody else you develop your gifts you'll give so take you places that you'll never begin to imagine life is suffering right indisputable what do you do about that you you voluntarily accept it and then strive to overcome the suffering that's a consequence of that whatever hardness comes and you know what is it may be different for you to this relief but you go back to your insecurities and then we go back to you
some charities you didn't look for comfort within those insecurities [Music] man let me just tell you if my license along with me and I and I knew it to myself I would have done half the things I've done with all the discomfort it brought me all the Pyrrhic victories off the time loss I have had to surrender the chill time the bubble bath time but that I've surrender so that my life could be of contribution men your life doesn't belong to you your life belongs to those people who are going to cross their path the
major key to your taking charge of your destiny is you it's you and even though you might not have all the things going for you that you would like you have the power within you as you begin to develop your consciousness as you hold a vision of what it is that you want to do if you decide to answer this small voice within you because as you respond to this thoughts that's telling you you ought to do this the way will come ideas will come to you you will begin to attract things you need and
things that you don't even know that you need right now we look for our life or our husband moments you must retrain your mind to think differently in help you have one job in your life for you to make what you think about life - you want to be right about the life you see so you're going to work hard work hard to produce the life that you talk about your mind [Music] [Music] [Music]