five signs he's emotionally committed to you now in this video we're going to go into how to know if your man is really invested if he really wants to have a long-term loving relationship with you to be committed or if he's actually just waiting for the next best thing possibly even looking at another woman having another woman in mind or just not prioritizing not fully being emotionally invested into you and into your relationship together so go ahead and comment below I'm ready if you're done with having to question if your man is really ready if he's really invested if he's really wanting to be with you um and if if you're if you're wondering if he's actually maybe pulling away possibly losing interest so hi I'm Brody Boyd and I'm a dating and relationship expert I've actually been helping single men for the last for 13 years to attract the right woman for them so I have a unique perspective into what makes the male brain tick which we're going to be going into deeper on this video so go ahead and like subscribe for more powerful videos like this like if you like anything in the background anything that helps you in this video hit the bell for future videos as well and share with a single girlfriend or another girlfriend who's struggling with her guy not sure what's going on this will get her much more clarity as well so please share the wealth and uh let's help more women in the world so also make sure to watch for a special bonus Secret in this video on the best type of honesty that a man can show you the real the real quality honesty that's actually a sign of investment so let's go ahead and Dive Right In with secret number five sign number five which is he asks you how you're feeling he asks you how you're feeling now this is so important because if a man is really invested with you into you he's going to care what your emotional state is Especial if he's wondering are you really uh invested in him are you really prioritizing the Rel relationship one way that he's going to do that is by actually checking in with you regularly and seeing how you're doing and the emotional piece is so key because that shows that he's emotionally interested for himself and for you and in the relationship and I remember when I was dating Atia this is something I would often do a lot of is actually when I felt things were we were feeling disconnected maybe we had some kind of an argument maybe things um weren't in the best place I would ask her how are you feeling right now what's going on for you and she would often share with me what she was feeling and but that was because I cared that's because I was starting to get more emotionally invested and I wanted to know so that's a very important sign to look for powerful sign number four is he tells you uncomfortable truths now this is really key because it's easy for a guy to just tell you things like um you know I lied about what happened last week I didn't actually go to the bar I was actually going to the roller skating ring or something like that um kind of surface level truths um that's actually can be more uncomfortable for a guy to admit that he lied but um you know if he's just telling you things that he did um maybe that's not super vulnerable that's not necessarily a sign that he's emotionally invested he could just be using a ulation tactic to show you pretend like he's being honest and trying to build gain your trust or he's just you know passing time he's just trying to keep you from from pulling away from leaving him but it doesn't necessarily mean he's fully emotionally invested it could mean he just doesn't want to lose you that you're an option for him that he doesn't want to lose but not necessarily that he's feeling that his heartstrings being pulled by you so when he tells an uncomfortable truth something that makes him maybe not look so good um where he's feeling vulnerable that's more of a sign that he's being really honest with you and that he's also emotionally invested and he cares and he's actually afraid to lose you so for example when I was dating Atia I there was a moment where I was starting to get more emotionally invested and I actually told her that I was starting to have feelings of love for her and I didn't want to lose her to another guy and I wanted to be um in a committed relationship an exclusive relationship and that was uncomfortable for me because I never really opened up to that level with her or with any woman really since my first relationship that ended badly so that was vulnerable that was uncomfortable for me to share but because I had had more emotional investment I was starting to build those feelings I opened up and I shared that and I was honest with her in that way about my feelings so that's a good sign especially if he's talking about his feelings something that's uncomfortable something that's vulnerable maybe something that happened to him in the past some insecurity that he has a fear that he has um that can be a really good sign that he's starting to become much more emotionally invested in you now if you haven't yet I highly recommend joining our free magnetizer man dating and relationship support Facebook group where we're talking about all these important topics you can post your questions get support from our amazing community of women there we have over 5,000 women in there right now highly recommend go to nmfb. com. ng it next sign number three is he makes positive changes for you out of his own initiative so this is the key oftentimes guys will do things for you because you were you were asking them repeatedly you were begging them nagging them some might say and finally he says okay I'm gonna stop drinking for a while or I'm GNA stop hopefully not smoking um I'm going to stop doing that thing that annoys you or making fun of you in front of the friends or whatever it was that was bothering you about him he finally makes that change but that doesn't necessarily mean he's emotionally invested it could just mean he just wants to get you off his back and he's also just um still maybe potentially just keeping you as an option now however if he's making those changes out of his own initiative that's a great sign that means that maybe you said it one time maybe he just knows that's something that's important to you he was listening and he was invested enough in you he was committed enough he wanted to make you happy enough he didn't want to lose you enough that he decided to make those changes he started to decided to start working out or to start um uh talking better about you with other people or maybe to stop being obnoxious or not drinking so much or whatever it was that was that he knows was a standard that you had that you have that he was not meeting and which it is important to communicate those things so I'm not saying like don't ever tell him those things to see if he actually does it on his own cuz men aren't mind readers as much as we'd want them to be as a lot of people aren't as well so you have to communicate your standards at some point let him know what's important to you let him know what your values are let him know what your standards are but you don't necessarily need to nag him and tell him constantly um if he doesn't step up that's may be a sign that he's actually not the right guy for you and he may not never get there you know people don't tend to change as it's common knowledge but if he does it on his own initiative that's a great sign that means he's listening that means he was committed and that me and for example when I was dating Atia I uh I knew it was important for her how I was dressed she liked men that are dressed well and when we first met I was wearing oftentimes shorts flipflops shorts that were probably too big for me um colors that didn't really work for me in my skin tone I just didn't really have much of a clue baggy jeans sometimes and so and not like high quality jeans and I knew that was important to her and you know through the series of of months even years of dating her I really committed to start dressing better and wanting to to look better for her and for myself so that was a positive change I made because I was invested so that's a good example things you can look for with your guy powerful sign number two is he's there for you when you're at your lowest and it's often easy to be with somebody when they are things are good they're feeling well they're healthy they're happy their relationships are great their career is great their health is great however when you're having struggles in those areas if you're having struggles in your career finances your health your friendships your relationships with your family emotions in general maybe some mental health stuff also or just feeling emotional maybe it's that time of the month it's harder it can be harder for people to to come close to that and to want to be around that because they don't want to feel bad so only the people who are most emotionally invested tend to not only want to come closer but that actually compels them to come closer that they want to help you they want to help you process they want to be there for you not in a doormat kind of way like just you know vent everything on to me and I'll just absorb and I'll be a caretaker but that they want you to be happy they want to support you as best they they can and so an example of this for me is when I was dating my first girlfriend friend we were together for two and a half years often times when things would get heavy emotionally I would usually I would tend to pull away I would tend to ask for space to get Space to leave um to walk out I would come back usually but um it was not not a good move on my part and oftentimes it would make it worse and now she would feel even more insecure or depressed or sad or whatever was going on for her and we would get into this really bad downward spiral and that that was part of because of the emotional uh maturity level I was at in my heart and I had some more healing to do from my avoidant attachment style from my childhood growing up so obviously that relationship didn't work out but when I met Ana and I started becoming much more emotionally invested with her when she was feeling sad when things were coming up I would actually come closer to her I would ask her more questions how do you feel about that what else do you feel um I would help her process that I would actually encourage her to let out those emotions I would encourage her to cry I would encourage her to scream if she wanted to scream sometimes I remember we were driving in our car uh we were going to in Northern California through through some forests um uh Menino I think is that area the city but uh she would be frustrated something was coming up and I would just say I would stop the car pull over to the side the road and I say just get out let it out or I would get out of the car I said I'm going to get out of the car I just want you to scream it out let it out out get it out of your system she would scream let it out and I'd say okay great and I would come back in the car and we would continue so that was like a balance of me like wanting to help support her and protecting myself but I was making it a priority to help her go through whatever she was going to go through and I was there for her even and she knew that the reason I was doing all that was because I cared about her I wanted her to release that so that's a good sign he's emotionally invested when he is willing to to go into the fire with you when he wants to support you and he's not running away he's not pulling away and or tell you to stop you know don't feel sad don't cry you know oft times we'll hear a lot of people just say stop crying stop crying it's not sad don't worry about stop crying it's like No Cry let it out that's that's that could also take some emotional maturity on their part they might not be there but as long as they're trying that's a good sign they're emotionally invested now if you haven't yet I highly recommend getting our free magnetize your man quiz to get deeper Clarity on this specifically for you in your situation we have some powerful free resources to help you attract your man get him to commit for long-term loving relationship and you can get that by going to mym quiz.
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