How To STOP Letting Others Affect Your “Frequency”

How to stop letting others affect your frequency. Now, more than likely, you're an individual who's embarking on the journey to creating your desired reality and seeking to maintain your frequency. The frequency of your desired reality, or do you want to say frequency, state of consciousness, self-concept, mental attitude, the subconscious, it doesn't matter. You want to maintain your frequency, but you can't help but feel Powerless surrounded by those around you. Now this can be from your family members. This could be to your friends. It could be to your co-workers. It could be your partner. Because the

unfortunate part about reality is that consciousness is contagious. Frequency is contagious. And if you don't have the capability of understanding how to stop letting others affect your frequency, then unfortunately you'll be thrown off the frequency of your desired reality. And Here's the thing. When you're embarking on the journey to creating your desired reality, you have to have a level of crystal clear clarity in the state of consciousness that you're maintaining, the self-concept that you're embodying, and the frequency that you're emitting to the universe. But what tends to happen is when people do begin to affect

our frequency, it begins to distort us as you can see in this amazing drawing right here. This is you. You know, you Feel like someone's got you in your, you know, in their hands and they're like, you know, all the negativity and that. But like I said in this video, I'm going to show you how to actually stop letting others affect your frequency. Because if you cannot maintain frequency, then unfortunately, you won't give reality enough time for it to materialize that condition. Because here's the thing, maintaining your frequencies of the highest importance because everybody has

The capability of shifting. But no, not a lot of people have the capability of maintaining. And you need to be able to maintain frequency long enough for reality to normalize it. So then it materializes in your third dimensional realm, physical plane, whatever you want to call it. But yeah, like I said, don't be affected. Relax. You're going to get some. >> I'm relax, [Music] >> bro. was that genuine song where he's like my whole life has changed >> my life has changed >> bro was sing how can adlibs man's using adlibs to sing his life

away >> you were that you were the very special one very special >> so deep in love you made my life >> made my life complete >> literally what it's like. That's actually what it's like. >> Glad you came into my Glench came into my life. >> Serious. All right. Cool. All right. Cool. But yes, often times people say to me, "Hey, Nero, like you know, trying to maintain frequency, but you know, my family, they're throwing me off. My co-workers are throwing me off. My friends are throwing me off." And this is the exact video

that is going to show You how to put yourself in defense mode of all of that. Because especially if you're coming from a circumstance where the collective around you is in direct contradiction to the frequency that you want to materialize, it can feel like this uphill battle where you're somewhat powerless. But there's a couple of things you have to understand to make yourself powerful. So, make sure you take notes as usual and make sure you leave them in the comments. And this This is everyone problem, you know, from the clientele that I work with, you

know, working with professional athletes and even Hollywood actors. You know, people that are in the limelight, they have nothing more than everybody's opinion, everybody's frequency being projected onto them. Same thing with entrepreneurs that are extremely successful. So, if you're an entrepreneur, an athlete, or an actor, and you want to enhance your Performance, whether that's revenue deals or close more contracts or just perform better, make sure you check the link in the description. >> Um, you normally like orange, it >> I love me some orange. >> Say less. >> Orange. >> All right. Say less. First

things first, in order to stop letting people's, well, in in order to stop letting people affect your Frequency, you have to understand what people are at a foundational level. Now, before matter, energy precedes matter. Energy precedes matter. What we call matter is our world. Our world is made of matter. Matter is nothing more than consciousness. Matter is a precipitate of consciousness. We can call it consciousness. We can call it frequency. You can call it your self-concept. I want you to imagine matter to be like ice. Ice and steam. Ice and steam are The same energy.

They're both H2O. It's the same thing with reality and consciousness or mind or frequency. The only difference is their rate of vibration. That's the first thing you have to understand. So at a base level, everything in reality is energy. And because everything in reality is energy, that even extends to people. Before anything can exist physically, it first exists vibrationally. And this this can be extrapolated beyond the Realm of materializing more money. It can be extrapolated beyond the realm of more career opportunities, relationships, and whatnot. This even goes down to people. Because here's the thing that

you have to understand. The individuals that have the capability of affecting your frequency are only nothing more than frequencies. That's the first thing you have to understand. People are nothing more than frequencies. People are nothing more than frequencies. Now, here's the thing. Typically, whenever we have people that are opposing the frequency that we're seeking to maintain, so if you're trying to maintain this particular degree of abundance or wealth or that's something you want to materialize and you have somebody talking about how life is hard And how they're struggling and how, you know, a tin of

beans is, you know, back in 1953 a tin of beans was, you know, 3 cents and now, you know, it's $4, whatever the [ __ ] it may be. It's very hard for us to maintain frequency when we have people around us that are in direct contradiction to whatever it is that we want to materialize. You may be trying to maintain a particular frequency of a healthy relationship but then be surrounded by the toxic the Toxic or disharmonious relationships or the opinions of people in that particular condition. You may be trying to materialize opportunities but

then there's people that are complaining about how there's no opportunities out here and consciousness is contagious. So this stuff really does have an effect on us but it has an effect on us. an effect. What are we looking at? The cause and the cause of these individuals the cause of these individuals Expressing their opinions because that's what it is. They're expressing their opinions based upon the what they experience. What they experience is based upon their frequency. And this is what I mean when I say that you have to see people as nothing more than frequencies.

People are nothing more than either victims of their frequencies or victims of their frequencies. And I say that because typically whenever we have people that Are speaking in contradiction of our frequencies, they're basically speaking about what they've experienced. And sometimes they're not even trying to derail you or, you know, do anything, you know, untoward you or harm you when they're expressing their experiences. They're talking about how life is hard. there's no experiences how they're struggling and you're there trying to do your meditations and visualizations and everything else but still can't help but Feel somewhat captured

by their frequency and the first thing that you have to understand is people are nothing more than frequencies. People are nothing more than frequencies. Another way of saying this is this people are programs and I know this is difficult because typically especially with individuals that we love we see them as you know our relatives it might be your mom it might Be your dad it might be your auntie it might be your uncle might be your grandma might be your brother might be your sister might be your friend might be your coworker might be your

man maybe your gal whatever it is we typically tend to see people as people for example AJ's AJ to me, right? In the same way that whoever is affecting your frequency is them to you. But here's the thing that we need to begin to understand. People are programs first. People are programs first. Write that down. Because here's the thing. Without the understanding that people are programs first, you have the mistake of wanting to pe you have the mistake of wanting people to go beyond their programs. And here's the thing. Typically, most people never go beyond

their programs. And that's a bar. Write that down. And the reason why I say that's something important to write down is because the moment that you begin to Understand somebody's programming, typically the box that they're in, most people never have the capability of going out. Now other people such as us for example, we do, right? But not everybody has a capability of living life by design. Most people will be stuck at default forever. And that's something that you have to come to a conclusion of. How can you expect somebody to be other than their programming?

But then it's you seeing Them as people first that is leading to the conflict in your head because you want them to change. But if you understood their program then you'd understand the confinements of who they can be, what they can say, how they can act, the things that they can do. And that's the first thing we need to begin to understand. Because the moment that you understand somebody's programming, the moment that you understand somebody's frequency, you understand the Box that they live in. When you understand the box that they live in, you understand the

world that they live in. And that is quite literally it. It is their world. So when you're talking about how you want to main how you want to, you know, create wealth and all of this and manifest more money and all of this and somebody's talking about how life is hard for them and, you know, how there's no opportunities and how, you know, you Should just do this and do this. They're not I don't think they're trying to be Well, it depends. I don't know your situation, but assuming they're not trying to, you know, purposely

be negative, let's say, they're just being themselves, but because you have had the capability of altering yourself, you then expect them to be able to alter themselves to you. And that is the source of the pain. That's quite literally it. Because You've had the capability of altering your mind, investing into your mind, changing the way that you look at things, doing the meditations, doing the visualizations. You've had the capability of shifting from default to design. You expect others to do the same. But I need to tell you something. Not everybody's meant to wake up. Some

people are meant to be reminders of what life is like if they don't. And that was a bar. And as painful as This may be, this may be your friends, it may be your family, it may be your co-workers. Not everybody is supposed to get to a point where they are conscious. And I don't mean conscious in a spiritual [ __ ] sense where I'm talking about how you need to, you know, be on an alkaline diet and you can't eat meat anymore and you can't drink anymore and you can't smoke anymore. I'm not even

talking about that. I'm just talking about aware of the invisible string Connected between the mind and the reality. When you become aware of as within, as without on earth, as it is in heaven, the understanding that before anything can exist physically, first exists vibrationally. the first fundamental law of the universe. The universe is entirely mental and we dwell in the mind of the creator. We inherently live in a literal universe. Even if you say Genesis, if you go to Genesis, it says that God made earth in The heavens and the plants in the heavens before

it materialized on the physical plane. So when I'm talking about the conscious understanding of the interconnectedness between your mind and your reality, some people will never come to that conclusion in their lives. And you need to make peace with that. But you can't make peace with that because you're expecting them to change. And you're expecting them to change as a projection of your own ability to Change. But not everybody is capable of coming to that conclusion. So if you understand somebody's programming primarily, then what how if somebody's in a consciousness or a frequency or self-concept

of poverty, why the [ __ ] would you expect them to be able to see what you're seeing? Because you don't even see reality with your eyes. You see reality with your mind. And even when you see it with your mind, the lenses that you see reality through is Distorted by your own frequency and your own consciousness. So how are you upset that somebody who's colorblind isn't seeing color? It doesn't make sense. But see, we have this tendency to want those around us to understand us. Of course, we want them to be able to, you

know, improve themselves and better their lives. Of course, but what essentially you're doing is trying to get somebody who's stuck on Windows XP to download Windows 11. And it just Doesn't make sense. They don't have the capability of doing so at this moment in time. And maybe that will never be it. But the whole source of it, it's like when you think about it, imagine somebody, right? Let's say our parents common black thing. Most of us are just raised by our mothers, right? Fathers are out here doing a mad thing, doing a runaround, right? And

let's say you have this real. Bear in mind, people want to materialize a bunch of things. Normally, it's either money, career prospects, or relationships. Let's say in the context of money, like I said, why would you expect somebody who is in a state of poverty consciousness, a frequency of poverty, a self-concept of poverty, a mental attitude of poverty, why would you expect them to be able to see abundance in reality when they're calibrated to scarcity? Because it's their calibration to scarcity, their frequency, their subconcept, their state Of consciousness, which eventually materializes into reality as conditions

that reflect nothing more than poverty and scarcity in their reality. So, they go out into the world and they see the truth. And when they see the truth, they then come relay it back to you. But you're like, "Why are you being so negative? What are you doing?" They're just telling you what they see. But what they see is where their mind is positioned. But they're unaware of where Their mind is positioned. And they don't understand that it's your viewpoint that determines what you see. It's the same way expecting somebody who who knows nothing but

disharmonious toxic relationships to be able to be trusting when you're talking about, "Yeah, I'm going on a date. Yeah, you know, going on a date with this, you guys can't see me, but I'm kicking my feet. Yeah, I'm going on a date with this girl or this guy. You Know, they're so nice." And they come after their experiences of disharmonious toxic relationships, which is now embedded into their subconscious mind. Because bear in mind what I define as trauma in the realm of metaphysics is an intentionally emot is a intense emotional experience that alters your subconscious

because the primary language of the subconscious mind is emotion. It's not repetition cuz somebody only needs to be traumatized Once for the entire subconscious to be changed. And when the entire subconscious is changed, the entire reality is changed. So let's say somebody's gone through an emotionally intense relationship and it ended toxic and it was, you know, disharmonious. you then come and you're like, "Yeah, I'm going on my date later. You know, you know, you know, you know, she's great. Isn't she great?" Or whatever it is. Do you get that reference? >> No. >> My wife

and kids, Franklin, but anyways, and they're like, "Yeah, you know, be careful. You know, I can't trust people out here. Be careful. She just going to cheat on you anyways." And you're like, "Why are you being so negative? Why are you doing that?" When somebody continuously is living in a consciousness of problems, they live in a reality of problems. So even when they try to give you solutions, it's Still going to be problems. You don't understand that people are programs first. People are programs first. People are, say it with me, people are programs first. And

this can be extrapolated to even the people that you love the most. And you need to learn this very, very quickly because you think you chose the esoteric, but you didn't choose it. It chose you. This isn't something that you can just give to somebody and one day they pick it up. And I know because I've done nothing more than try with everyone that I can in my life. But it just doesn't it doesn't it doesn't do that for everybody. And when you understand that people are programs first before being upset at what somebody's showing

you, before being upset at the person, which is the effect, understand their cause. Because when you understand their cause, you will always understand their effect. And when you always understand their Effect, now it's a decision for you to want them to change and you still think the same. Are you understanding what I'm saying? This is how people affect your frequency primarily. This is this is one of a couple, right? Relax. You're going to get some. Trust me, we're going to get into this because by the end of this, I don't want anyone to ever say,

"Nero, how do I maintain my frequency around people like people are projecting their Negative? How do I deal with it?" You first have to come to the understanding that you're dealing with programs. If you know the program, you know the cause. If you know the cause, you know the effect. And since you know the cause, you can see the effect ahead of time. So if you can see the effect ahead of time, you being upset at the effect is just you making a decision to be upset about some [ __ ] that you know was

going to happen in the first place. But You still haven't interconnected it yourself. You still haven't created that parallel yourself. [Laughter] Feels like I just walked right out of my life. >> I'm so scared. Don't know what to do. >> Listen to this comment. This one's crazy. >> Say less. >> Nero, thank you. Thank you. Thank you For this video. I've read your book twice and I've watched all your videos more than once, but you're very truthful with with us when you highlighted how the old frequencies will want to return. I just started an online

business and I'm using AJ's channels to help with that. Thanks, AJ. You're welcome. Appreciate it. Appreciate it. >> And sales well sales were coming in were slowly coming in, bills, etc. Just stress in other words. I was feeling all The frustrations you mentioned at the start of the video despite my best practices. You shared to stay neutral. I was struggling. Then I listened to this video, reset my frequency, revision my desired reality persona in this scenario, remember who I was, and knew the adversity was a sign to be grateful. And by the time I ended

my 20-minute commute and walked into my classroom on campus, I had multiple students requesting my website for access to my Digital store and buy my products as I was getting set up for class. For real, >> they even asked if I could share my if they could share my website with other people they know who are also struggling in that area. I humbly appreciate you for sharing your knowledge. >> No, believe me when I say to tears. >> I'm the one that's humble here. Thank you so much. I humbly accept that. >> Thanks, Brooklyn. >>

Her name's Brooklyn. >> Yeah. >> Shout out Brooklyn, man. >> Well, maybe that's where she's from, but like no one puts that at the end of the message, right? >> Some people do. Yeah, >> I guess so. That's alchemy in real time. Hey, what they talking about? We was 13 deep with 13 choppers at the chopper house. Still waiting for days, Bro. what we've been waiting. Now, now that we understand that primarily people are programs first, people are frequencies first. And as soon as you understand the frequency of the program, you can understand the effect

of their reality. Once you understand the effect of their reality, you understand what they experience. Then once you understand what they experience and what they determine to be truth, when they come to you and argue Truth, why the [ __ ] are you arguing? There's one planet, there's 8 billion people, there's 8 billion different frequencies, 8 billion different worlds. Why are you going to argue with somebody about the nature of reality when the nature of reality is their reality? It's their world. And now you're going to try and debate with somebody about their world, but

their world is dependent upon what has materialized in their consciousness. Cuz it's their Consciousness that solidifies on the physical plane in this third dimensional realm, which is nothing more than a reflection of the internal world. And if that is the case and their subconscious, which is nothing more than their emotional experiences, materialize before them, they come and then relay that to you, you then get mad cuz you're like, "Why are you not seeing what I'm seeing?" But how could they see what you're seeing if they're not on your Frequency? Now that you understand that, understand

this They're not powerful. You're just powerful enough to make them. Most important word in that entire sentence. They're not powerful. See, what tends to happen is that naturally anybody that we're emotionally involved with, friends, co-workers, family, partners, they're going to have some degree of emotional pull over us. And when we're Trying to maintain this frequency of whatever it is that we're trying to materialize, we naturally get emotional when we have these instances of disharmoniousness, just to put it in different words. And the thing is this, they're not powerful. you're just powerful enough to make them.

And I say that to say this. You have to understand something. Externalization is the true blasphemy of Metaphysics. Externalization is the true blasphemy. The power that somebody has over you is nothing more than a permission slip of power that you've given them. And that is a bar. Ladies and gentlemen, please write that down. The power that somebody has over you is nothing more than a permission slip of power that you've given them to have over you. You're the individual that has externalized your power into them. If somebody has the Capability of throwing you off your

frequency, and I mean whoosh, throwing you off your frequency. That force that they have, that power that they have is actually your power just externalized into them. >> But you don't see it like that. You see as them having this grip over you, pause. You see them as them having this hold over you. Pause again. You see them having you in a choke hole. Pause again Without realizing that the power that they have over you is nothing more than the power that you have given them based upon you deciding that they had that degree of

power over you to begin with. But it doesn't feel like that, is it? It feels like these individuals are just big and bad and they have all of this power over you and they have all of this code over you and they have such a capability of just throwing you off, you I just Yeah, it's just my family members Like you know I'm really really strong like when it comes to frequency but like you know the things they say to me they just throw me you've thrown yourself off you've thrown yourself off because as they're

throwing you your hands are the one your hands the one that's guiding them the power that they have the strength that they have is coming from you and I always say this whenever we feel like we're going through a particular degree of adversity or Struggle in reality and we feel like life is really beating us in the power that reality has over us is nothing more than a reflection of our power just externalized into reality. So reality isn't the thing that is strong. When the world is against you, the world isn't the thing that has

the strength. The strength is actually coming from you. You are the source of the strength that the world is using against you. And it's the same thing with individuals that you Have given permission to affect your frequency. They're not powerful enough. You're just powerful enough to make them. They're not powerful. You're just powerful enough to imagine that they are. You're powerful enough to imagine that they are. And the moment you imagine that they are, it has entered your consciousness. And the moment it has entered your consciousness, that is the realm of cause. So then it

goes to reality, which is the realm of effect. So a question for you. No matter what anyone says to you, no matter what anyone says to you, the power that somebody has over you verbally when they say things, are they powerful or are you powerful? The power that they have? The power that they have in terms of the capability to alter your frequency, where's that power coming from, where is that power coming from? And let's define power. No one man should have all that power. >> The goat. Let's define power because what is power truly?

What is power truly? Power is control over the internal. And you want to hear you want to hear the very thing the thing that's very [ __ ] ironic. Even when you're out of control in the internal, you're still in control. >> What do you mean by that? >> Even when you're driving the whip and It's crashing from side to side, your hands are still the ones on the steering wheel. You can never truly be out of control with the internal. you can have the illusion that you are. And that's what the old frequency does.

It will present the illusion that you're out of control with the internal. So then you don't have the capability of actually directing enough power to the idea of taking control of the internal. It'll you'll be driving around with one hand like this. It will be kind of be half. You'll be driving around one hand instead of two hands on it. Pause. Hey. But true power in the realm of metaphysics is control over the internal. And anybody that has control over your internal is nothing more than somebody that you've given control over your internal. So even

the very act of somebody having power over you is still coming from you because you've just Given them permission to have control over you. But it doesn't feel like that. It feels like you have no control. But you can never be out of control with your internal world. Because even at your most foolish state, you're still the foolish controller. always. And this is what true power is. True power is control over the internal because control over the internal is control over the external. You don't need to control anything in reality Other than yourself. And that's

a bar that down. You don't need to change anything in reality other than yourself. And that's a bar. Write that down. You don't need to recalibrate anything in reality except yourself. Because by focusing on yourself, you naturally begin to affect reality and send ripples of consciousness throughout the universe to alter your conditions in real time. So even when somebody has control over your internal, you've given them that Power. You've given them but it doesn't feel like that. And it doesn't feel like that because that's the illusion that the old frequency wants to present. The old

frequency wants to present the idea that you are out of control because it believe because it wants you to believe that you're out of control. You then accept that you're out of control. And then due to the fact that there are no truths in reality other than what the subconscious mind accepts Is true. When your subconscious mind has accepted that you're out of control, it will materialize your condition circumstances and reality in a manner that makes you feel even more out of control, making it feel like you have no internal discipline. But you can never

be out of control. I have good [ __ ] news. >> Whoa. All I heard was good [ __ ] I've been searching. >> By the way, sorry to cut you off, AJ. Go, guys. I'm genuinely so sorry. Like, somebody commented, you know, I love your videos and you help me change my life so I get my kids to watch your videos. And when we, you know, say the things that we say, I'm starting to feel bad every time now. Like, honestly, I'm genuinely so sorry. I mean that from the bottom of my heart. I

definitely won't stop, but I do I do feel bad. So, to any children that are watching, please accept my humblest of apologies. >> It's not very PG friendly around. >> It's really not. You were saying AJ. Sorry. Especially I just swore as well. Anyway, I've been searching for 3 years to find my birth father and I was getting nothing but dead ends and distant AF relatives who couldn't help. After watching your self- loveve vid, I had a huge realization and I let go of many attachments and limiting beliefs I had about myself and love. I

then meditated Afterwards and my intention with this meditation was to bring in a new romantic partner. No one specific. But then I received a call two days later from a cousin of mine who put the pieces together and found my birth father. >> Did she say she'd been looking for three years? >> Yeah. >> Three years. And then two days after doing all of this. >> Crazy, right? >> Hard to say. >> Not only do I get to know him, but I now have a new brother, grandparents that love me deeply already. >> I'm sure

a new romantic partner will come at some point. But honestly, I'm so in love with myself and my new life that I'm not focused on that. I'm already surrounded by love. >> I feel like I'm going to explode. Pause. >> Jesus. >> Of love. Of course. >> That's so sweet. >> It is nice. >> That's so sweet. >> And yet there's men out here trying to manifest PR anyway. You know what I'm saying? People are manifesting for real things out here. And we got brothers that are just trying to manifest baddies. Hey, whatever you guys

want to materialize, I'm not here to tell you what to materialize. I'm just here to Make sure you materialize it. Cuz spirituality without the ability to control your reality is vanity. You know what I'm saying? Like don't be one of these spiritual [ __ ] that go read bare books, but then their life is still the same. Or they've changed their entire personality, but their life is still the same. Or they're even changing the way that they speak, but their life is still the same. I think your ability to create your reality is of the

highest Importance on this physical plane. Since we're here, we might as well live it to the degree that we want to. But in order for you to live it to the degree that you want to, you need to be in vibrational resonance or mental emotional equivalent in a state of consciousness or self-concept with whatever it is that you want. Now remember I just said to you that the old frequency wants to present the illusion that you have no control over Your internal state and these individuals are the one that have control over you. Now pay

very close attention to this trick right here. This is this is marvelous. This is absolutely marvelous. Look at this. So your old frequency wants to present the illusion that you have no control over your frequency. And people going to be saying, "What's That noise? And is this [ __ ] Asia eating sweets?" Bro, stop trying to be nice. Just rip the pack open like like just like bit by bit and just pour them out. >> The thing is my mind >> they'll be commenting saying, "Oh, Nero's making alien noises when he's turned around." >> Hey,

man. It's true. >> What is it? >> No, you you and your alien noises. >> Can I get one? >> You want one? >> Yeah. Thanks. >> See, this is PG friend. >> I thought he was going to feed me. So, >> right. The old frequency wants to present the illusion that you have no control over your own frequency and others do. And it wants to do that because even when others do, it is your Old frequency that is hijacking and externalizing your internal power. Your old frequency is externalizing your internal power to these individuals

to increase their perceived strength in order to reduce your actual strength from a point of frequency, of course. But here's the thing. All it takes is a simple decision, but it doesn't feel like a decision. What do I need to decide? Nero, why did you Write a side on the board? They have no power over me. That's the first thing you need to decide. And it really is that simple. You're talking about how do I stop letting others affect my frequency? Well, you need to make a decision. It doesn't feel like a decision. You know,

what do you mean you need to decide? Well, here's the thing about beliefs. Beliefs are just decisions that we make and then become unconscious of so they can begin to run Our lives and make us feel as if we have no capability of changing them. Because beliefs themselves are actually entities. Belief themselves are entities that want to do nothing more than materialize on the physical plane. But because they're entities, they begin to hijack our consciousness by making us feel as if we didn't choose them. So we don't have the capability of changing them. And that's

a bar that down. And the belief that people have power over You is nothing more than a belief. And because it is a belief, it's an entity and it wants to stay around. It wants to stay around in the realm of not being able for you to finally have some type of defense. It wants to stay. And what is the purpose of maintaining maintaining a frequency that does not serve you? That's a bar. Write that down. What is the purpose of maintaining a mental attitude that doesn't serve you? What is the purpose Of maintaining a

self-concept that doesn't serve you? What's the point of maintaining a state of consciousness that doesn't serve you? Quite literally, no [ __ ] point. But who does it serve? It serves this idea, this belief, this entity that wants to siphon all your energy by focusing on the ideas of how you're so powerless and all of this and all of that. whole time it's in cahoots with your old frequency to present the illusion that you have no control over Your internal power, your internal frequency and others do to then increase their power. Whole time it's your

power externalized into them to decrease your own potentiality of having some type of control over yourself. Nobody should ever ever comment some [ __ ] again. They have power over me. They are like never because they don't. And if they do, it's the power that you've given them. And it literally is a simple decision. How do I decide right Now? Say they have no power over me. They have no power over me. They have no power over me. And so long as you're able to maintain that particular idea, this extends, this mental idea will begin

to extrapolate to planes of existence that you have that you never even knew about. We're talking about others affect our frequency. I'm thinking about this in a very like simplistic sense of living with people or being friends or co-workers that are Just in contradiction to your frequency. But let's let's play let's play the [ __ ] game and say witchcraft and black magic. Once again, the effect that somebody has on you over that is going to be reflective of the permission that you've given them. The strength of their force in your life is dependent upon

the strength that you have siphoned to well for them to use. And it's so funny. Like, it's genuinely so funny. And bear in mind, I'm an African. Like, I'm Zimbabwean saying this. I can tell you stories about people flying. I'm I know some things. I've never seen some things, but I know some things, right? >> Hey, [ __ ] >> Bro, you don't We're not doing this again, >> man. Flying. Uh, everything else is believable. >> So, you everything else is believable. >> Yeah. >> But you don't believe people fly. >> Okay. >> There'll be

people in the comments, bro. One guy said in I think in South Africa they sell lightning. >> I believe that. I can believe that. I can get with that. >> So you believe that people sell lightning? >> Yeah. >> I think they said in Limpopo I think that's what they said but once again you know those things are Very real. But the strength that they have over your life is the strength that you've given them through the mental permission slip that they have the capability of affecting your reality. But if you walk in a frequency

that nobody can [ __ ] with you, then maintain that then you will. But how do I stop people [ __ ] with me? Well, that's exactly what I'm about to show you. The realist comment was, "Nero, your consciousness is too evolved for stick Figures." >> Do better, fam. I believe in you. >> [ __ ] Riot off. Uh, I'll go with blue and brown. I'll go brown. Feel like I just used that, don't know. What color did I just use? In fact, I got purple. So, first thing is this. In order for you to

actually start giving people the potentiality to affect your frequency, you need to alter your perception Because your perception is directly interconnected to your projection. I have a whole chapter about this in outsmarting reality. Amazon bestseller in less than 24 hours in all three categories. I have a whole chapter about this. It's quite literally called your perception projection loop, right? Because what you perceive is what you project. And the way that you look at life is the way life looks at you. How you look at life Is how there is how is how life. How you

look at life is how life looks at you. And here's the thing. You need to begin to understand that you need to alter your perception towards a couple of things. The first thing you need to alter your perception towards is the people affecting your frequency. But really and truly there are no people there first programs. The programs that are affecting your frequency Because here's the thing you to some degree or another unconsciously you view them as big powerful and great. And because you perceive them like that, you indirectly get them to perceive you in the

opposite manner. Small, powerless, and weak. I promise you that says powerless. Now, it is quite literally through your perception that you experience reality because how you look at life is the way Life looks at you. you look at these people in a particular manner. So the manner that they look back at you is always going to be in reflection of the energetic polarity of the way that you're looking at them because you look at these particular people in such a light because there's an aspect of you that sees them as these big powerful great people.

And there's a verse in the Bible that actually speaking about this. It said there were giants in the land And essentially in our own sight we were grasshoppers and in theirs we were also grasshoppers. And essentially that is showing you the actualization of how perception of ourselves also at least the way that other people perceive us. So not only does it matter how you perceive these other people, how do you perceive yourself? Cuz if you perceive yourself as powerless, you know, let me write that again because that was just outrageous. If you perceive yourself as

a powerless puppet, then that's exactly how you're going to be for them. in the exact same manner. So the first thing that you need to do is to perceive yourself in the way that you perceive them. And I don't mean as an [ __ ] I mean as powerful. And the only way you can perceive yourself as powerful is if you come to the understanding of what I was just saying before that true power is in Control of the internal. And there's never a moment in reality that you're not in control of your internal. Even

if it doesn't feel like it. And if it doesn't feel like it's because your old frequency is trying to get you to hyperfixate on the fact that you don't have any control, which is an illusion in of itself because you do feel like that. Excuse me. Now, here's the other thing. You need to shift from perceiving these People as a detriment to an opportunity. What do you mean? They're they're literally ruining my life. What opportunity are they? You need to see these individuals that have the capability of affecting your frequency as an opportunity for you

to exercise the frequency that you're moving at. See, here's the thing. When you when you reach a certain level of awareness, you understand one thing, and this is some [ __ ] that you spiritual [ __ ] just clearly don't understand. So, let me make it very apparent for you. Just because you're spiritual and you read these books and you do these meditations and you do these visualizations and you do these journals doesn't mean your life is going to get easier. That's not what that means. That doesn't mean that you're never going to have a

problem in life. Because the natural conclusion is since I've read all of these books on reality creation, I should have no problems in life. And because you come with this idiotic perception based upon the old frequency once again trying to set up some type of you know ridiculous expectation of reality so you can be disappointed then fall right back down into the emotion that it was born out of it just life doesn't get necessarily easier because you understand this information. But the one thing that does happen is The way that you perceive things changes. And

the way that you if the way that you perceive things, if the way that you look at things changes, the way those things look back at you is also going to change. And what do I mean by that? I mean with a certain level of awareness, you realize that you don't really have problems. You have opportunities. And the opportunities that you have is to exercise frequency. I kid you not. The reason why I know I could never ever fall back into the frequency of poverty, maybe things can change outside of me, maybe I can lose

money, business can go like this and this and this, but internally the reason why I could never descend back into poverty is because I was from the ends. Listen, do you know how crazy you have to be to be in the literal ends where you're seeing, you know, where you're seeing drug addicts Walking around like this and gunshots, you know, outside your door and all of Do you know how crazy you have to be to be able to be in a situation of poverty in a state of wealth and abundance? And do you realize once

you're able to quite literally deny the external and cultivate an internal degree of consciousness independent and irreflective of the external that is there's nothing more powerful than that. And often times, funnily enough, when I Work with clients, you know, this has happened a few times. They'll they'll pay me or start working then and their life will go to [ __ ] >> And then, of course, you get the results. But at that particular moment in time, I always say to them, if you have, this is beautiful because here's the thing. Everybody's internal state is great

when life is amazing outside of them. But do you know how powerful you have to be to be at a great internal State while your external isn't even reflective of anything that is great? That's true power. And that power can never be taken away from you because all you have in life is consciousness. All you have in life is consciousness. Say it with me. All you have in life is consciousness. That's the real as anything that you're ever going to have. Consciousness. That's it. All this material [ __ ] from people to money to opportunities,

all of that can Be gone. But so long as you maintain frequency and the state of consciousness and a self-concept that is the same consistent, it's only a matter of time before it comes back. Only a matter of time before it comes back. Every particular person that you would deem as somebody who throws you off your frequency, if you see them as a problem, that's how you experience them. And because you see them as a problem, that's all you get to experience of them When you're in vicinity and proximity to them. But if you see

them as an opportunity to exercise your frequency, then it turns into a game. It's no longer this thing that's been dragging you down and emotionally been depleting you. It's no longer this thing that has so has had so much power over you because now you understand that there is a win and there is a loss. Even though those two conditions are nothing more than energetic polarities which only Exist in this third dimensional realm. And really and truly outside of this third dimensional realm, there is no win or loss. It's actually oneness. But nonetheless, you see

as a opportunity to exercise frequency because if you can exercise frequency surrounded by people that aren't on your frequency and people that are actually trying to pull you into theirs, that's real power. That is real power. So, as opposed to you thinking to Yourself, you know, like my life would be so much easier if they would change, you need to change to a degree that you don't need them to change. So, borrow that down. And this ties into my definition of manifestation. Manifestation is internally shifting to a degree to which you are no longer emotionally

dependent upon seeing reality change. Seeing reality change includes people, conditions, and circumstances. Because there's an aspect Of us that thinks, you know, you know, if my mom was a monk, my life would be so much easier. If my dad was a spiritual monk, life would be so much easier. If my co-workers and my friends were, you know, billionaire monks, life would be easier, man. it would be easier. Instead of wishing for life to be easier, wish for you to be in a frequency where you enable life to be easy. See the difference? Because you wanting

for them to change Is still an indication that you want things to change. It's still an indication of a dependency upon reality. And that dependency upon reality, you will be punished for it because dependency upon reality is slavery. metaphysically metaphysically you will quite literally be under someone's control and the beauty of it is I think it was Lao Zoo he said um to care for the opinions of others is to be their prisoner Straight out the daqing You look like you're in deep thought. You're all right, bro. >> I'm good. G, >> you're just staring

into space. I did that earlier this video too when [ __ ] talking about the side. >> Is it here? >> Pause. >> Ain't nobody hitting me. >> Okay. >> Okay. Always on guard against you. >> Okay. Somebody messaged me and they said, "If I can't have you in this lifetime, I'll have you in the next one." >> Did you reply? >> No. You know, I don't really reply to DMs too much. Last time they didn't really like this green. >> Too light in it. >> Yeah, I'll go with black. Now, here's the thing. The

source of your frustration with also people having the ability to affect your frequency also comes down to one thing. Make sure you if you can note down this thing What you want from them is what you are not giving yourself. Naturally, naturally when you live in a particular environment and this could be your household, it could be your friends, co-workers. I've already said That. But another source of frustration is feeling like we want something from them. That could be support. It could be encouragement. It could be it could be support. It could be encouragement. It

could be love. It could be approval. No matter what it is, it's what you're not giving yourself. And that's why you want it from them. Because here's the thing, whatever we desire externally is what we are missing internally. And that's what borrowed that down. And that Can be extrapolated to all fields of life. That can be money. It could be relationships. It could be, you know, whatnot. Because if you really break down those things, the only reason you want more money, the only reason you want that career, the only reason you want that career promotion,

the only reason you want that person is because you have this unconscious idea that the attainment of that particular condition, event, or circumstance would lead you to Feel a way that you are not feeling right now. And because you believe that there's a way that you' be feeling that you're not feeling right now, you're seeking that feeling outside of you. And because you're seeking that feeling outside of you, you're indicating that you don't have it inside of you. Because you don't have it inside of you, you also don't have it outside of you. Now, here's

the thing. What you want from them is what you are not giving Yourself. You're need you need to pinpoint what is what is it? What is it? Tell me what is it? Because whatever that thing is, you need to be giving it to yourself. Because the reason why they aren't giving it to you or other people wouldn't give it to you beyond them just being part of their programs is because you're lacking it within. And because you're lacking it within, as within, as without on earth As it is in heaven, is going to be reflected

outside of you. If you don't possess it within, understanding that you live in a quite literal universe. So anything that you have within will be in your universe. And everything that you don't have within won't be in your universe. You need to seek to give it to yourself first. And the way that you seek by giving it to yourself is by utilizing your imagination. After you pinpoint whatever emotion it is, because It's just a feeling, right? Feeling is the secret. Whatever emotion is or what state that you pinpoint it to, you need to then begin

to use your imagination to cultivate a scene within that is able to stimulate emotion, which is the true language of the subconscious mind. Because once you're able to stimulate emotion or emotional intensity, and that could be extreme peace, euphoria, joy, whatever type of person you are, then you will be giving Yourself that exact thing that you're missing. And you won't need it from them anymore. And when you don't need it from them anymore, you're free. I don't seek peace in other people because I am my own peace. I don't seek entertainment in other people because

I am my own entertainment. I don't seek validation other people because I am my own validation. And that is true freedom because the dependency on the external Will always put you to be at somebody's mercy. And that could be not just somebody's mercy, but reality's mercy. And you don't want to be at reality's mercy. You want reality to be at your mercy, but the only way reality will be at your mercy is if you know who you are. And you only know who you are when you know your position in the universe. And that's a

bar that down. And once you know your position in the universe, then you understand that anything that you Desire outside of you is nothing more than a reflection of what you're missing internally from a point of vibration, which is nothing more than a mental and emotional equivalent state. And then it's due to the fact that you're missing it within that you don't possess it without. And it's due to the fact that you want others or want things from others that you're lacking in yourself. But when you give it to yourself by utilizing your imagination, your

state Of consciousness, then nobody can give you [ __ ] that will do anything for you. You won't need the support of those around you. If you have your own support, you won't need the encouragement of those around you if you have your own encouragement. You won't need the love and approval of those around you if you have your own love and approval. But the very reason why it's upsetting you and the reason that they're affecting your frequency is Because you want something from them that they can't give you. And they can't give you because

they don't possess it within. But clearly neither do you. Some [ __ ] going to be upset that we're eating sweets or candy. >> Got to keep it bi. >> No, they want us to be eating like, I don't know, an acai bowl or something for a snack or granola bites. What's up? >> Oh, we got mentioned in a story. >> Me and you? >> Yeah, just now. >> What color am I looking for? Purple. I'll show you in a sec. >> Perfect. Now, here's the final way to deal with people that are affecting your

frequency. Now you have to be able to pinpoint the individuals that are affecting your frequency. It's not enough for you to just say that effect That they're affecting your frequency. You need to understand the precise emotion that they're sparking in you. What is the precise emotion that they're sparking in you? Is it fear? Is it worry? Is it chaos? Is it scarcity? And once you're able to pinpoint the precise emotion to how they're affecting you, that's the first step to transformation. Because if you want to Perform alchemy, you first need to know what you're starting

with. But it's not enough to know. It's not enough to just say they're affecting you. You need to know precisely how they're affecting you. Because then we can begin to understand that each one of these emotions or feelings that they're cultivating within you are or have energetic polarities. And once you understand the energetic polarities of what they're making you feel and how They exist, then you can seek to cultivate that. So the opposite of fear would be courage. A lot of spiritual people say it's love. I don't understand how that is the energetic polarity. I

mean the energetic polarity of love is hate. But anyways, worry would probably be calm. Chaos would probably be peace. Scarcity would be abundance. So ask yourself, how are these individuals making me feel? What are they making me think? What's the perception that They're giving me? Once you're able to identify it, then all you need to do is to shift concentration into cultivating these states. Because concentration is the centralization of energy. And if you can concentrate on centralizing energy to one of these things, you will begin to inspire more of you or you'll begin to set

in motion the vibration of these qualities which will then compound and become a frequency which will then become a reality. And in doing so, you Will no longer be at somebody's mercy, but you'll be alchemizing what they're making you feel in real time. And the more that you skew yourself towards the energetic polarity of what you want to experience, the less they will have of getting you over. If they can pull you to they can only pull you to this side if you're already close to this side. But when you're over here, it will be

very difficult for them to pull you. And that's dependent upon your own ability To cultivate emotion internally. And in doing so, nobody will ever affect your reality again unless you decide that they will. >> Thank you, Nero. I got insane frequency. >> AJ, this negativity onto us. They can throw us off our frequency, put us under their frequency. And like Lil Wayne said, >> no. >> What Lil Wayne said, >> you can start that again. He says, he Says, um, >> I lost my mind. It's somewhere out there stranded. I think you stand under me

if you >> if you don't understand me. Okay. >> No, not really. No, no, no. >> Then believe it's going to be crazy.