Why Are There So Many Unmarried K-POP Idols?

before I talked about unmarried Korean actors and their reasons this time let's talk about K-pop Idols who are in their older age and still not married Sandara Park who is 39 years old hasn't been in any dating scandals she has been shipped with other artists like G Dragon but she has never confirmed that she is dating anyone as we know during their trainee and early debut years companies don't allow their artists to date Sandara found another way to date and talked about it you will get cut down if you date because as a trainee you're

supposed to be harnessing your skills and practicing after we debuted a 5-year dating band was implemented so I chose to cyber date then she shared many Idols fears which break many relationships one time a vacation leave was given to me so my ex boyfriend and I planned a trip he was excited for it but on the day of the trip I got terrif IED I thought that if I went outside people would shout oh look it's to anyone and lots of Paparazzi would come so on that day I ghosted him he called multiple times but

I just stared at my phone and said sorry Sandara then confirmed that her ex-boyfriend was a celebrity when host member Kim Gore asked about his status which is really sad the fear of getting caught and then getting slandered is massive among the idols you can see from Karina's situation that probably she thought in the beginning that the time had changed and people were more accepting but no everything like has been and she felt like she needed to apologize to her fans as well in another interview Sandara said when I was a trainee I was scolded

for being in a relationship and my manager took away my cell phone then after I debuted there was a 5-year dating ban but now that she is free and older she can do whatever she pleases but still even though she got her freedom to find the one she says she doesn't want to get married Korean singer and actor Tac Jun asked her why do you hate men to which Dar replied that she has witness too many failed marriages so she just opts to stay single it's not like that I want to stay single there are

too many people around me who have failed marriages it is quite common among people whose parents got divorced if you have watched a video that I made about Sander's father you would understand why she thinks like this even though she doesn't want to get married she is open to dating only recently did I make up my mind to date actively all I needed was a will to be more assertive I would like to take this opportunity to apologize to my ex-boyfriends boa who is 37 years old mentioned a few times that she wants to get

married but to this day she hasn't boa said that she believed that she would get married after 5 years of her career well you know all K-pop Idols had a short lifespan in the industry years ago it was mostly no longer than 5 years so I figured I would retire in about 5 years as well I thought I would go to school and get married when am yonga laughed boa said you I honestly believed that I would get married I used to say that it's my dream to become a good wife and wise mother in

2015 she did an interview when asked about her thoughts on marriage and the type of person she would like to get married to the singer answered I think it would be nice to get married 5 to 6 years from now adding I would prefer someone who shares the same beliefs and interests as me about herself she commented I want to become an understanding woman who can listen to anybody's story unfortunately that time came and she still hadn't found anyone another artist who set a time when they want to get married is G Dragon he has

been vocal about wanting to get married and have kids for years he has been linked to quite a few ladies like the model Kiko mizuhara after school's Lee joyan and then black Pink's Jenny there have been more but they are the most popular dating gossips back in 2013 he already mentioned that he wanted to get married if I had someone I could get married tomorrow said G Dragon they say you can spot the person you're going to marry with Once glance is that true G Dragon also added I have this big fantasy about what marriage

is like when you're dating there are good parts but there's also bad parts I feel like I can't focus on what I like and I feel like my energy gets taken away I think if I had a Dependable family I would have a good time both at work and with my family during the Big Bang anniversary before they enlisted in the military they wrote letters to themselves to see in the year 2021 G Dragon wrote in his that he by that time will be married and having a baby as we know that didn't happen so

it seems he still didn't find the one or he is just bad at keeping a girlf friend as his band members suggest Tang revealed a lot of people might think that G Dragon would be perfect at dating but he's actually only good at playing games push and pull as described in Korean he continued when he gave me advice my relationship with my girlfriend became worse G Dragon tried to explain that this happened because he gave advice coming from a position where he is closer to tayang and on his side however Sury Wily remarked that while

G Dragon is good at coaching he's not good with his own relationships and said big Bang's sad songs are all from G dragon's failed relationships causing everyone to break out into laughter G Dragon retorted just do well yourself I notice that with many Idols who are at the older age they do want to get married but just cannot find a person that they would want to marry but also there are people who sometimes want to get married and sometimes don't just basically hasn't made their minds up yet and one of them is heel heel is

already 41 even though during his young days he thought he would never get married that changed on my ugly duckling he said I asked Shin dong yep don't you think I should get married soon I want to get married before turning 40 and he said getting married at even 50 is too soon for you hearing this so Jang hun commented personally I can't imagine Kim hechel getting married and raising kids which many people can't imagine and especially how often he changes his mind about marriage in 2021 he then said he didn't want to get married

anymore I think it's become a trend these days not to get married I also don't have any plans to get married if I get married I can't be on my little old boy anymore but my mom loves this show so I'm not interested in getting married anymore which is a sad reason to stay single just because your mother likes to be on TV but in 2023 he announced that he does want to get married again but has no confidence anymore I have to get married but I don't think I can do it I have no

confidence in myself when it comes to it Jean Woo is younger than me but he's doing great and I'm envious of him taking responsibility for a family is a natural thing in a way but just because it is natural doesn't mean we can do it well Regarding why he changed his mind heel said when I saw the falling birth rate statistics I thought he shouldn't talk about marriage just like that so instead of saying I don't want to get married I'd rather say I don't think I can get married considering the sudden plummet in birth

rate in Korea to be honest he shouldn't feel that he need needs to get married because nobody needs to just choose to do it it's okay to stay in a relationship without getting married if another person agrees with that so nobody should push those thoughts that you need to get married of course there are plenty more K-pop Idols who are not married like almost all super junior members and TVXQ even first generation H team members like kta and Tony who are over 40 and not married and nobody would care if they decided to get married

but it's not easy even if you have the freedom to do so as we know in South Korea the birth rate went down to the lowest percentage that has ever been and the government is thinking of helping the youth meet each other by hosting events so if for normal people it's hard to find someone for celebrities it's even harder another issue of course for younger Idols is fans when EXO member chin announced his marriage fans went berserk and demanded that he'd be kicked out of EXO so can you imagine how much stress it puts on

idol it's their job their income that these crazy fans try to take away just because you found someone you love deeply and who makes you happy so many Idols have to wait till they hit an older age once their fans to grow up and move on to get married but you know probably many Idols were dating someone and had to break up because the relationship couldn't move further not many people will stay by your side in secret for decades meeting rarely because they don't want to get caught in this kind of setup you can lose

a very good person who could have been a partner for life it's very sad and I wish fans wouldn't go crazy once someone announces they are dating or getting married you can congratulate them but harassing them for their decision is not your right but sadly many of those crazy fans feel that it's their right to harass them with the mentality that their companies don't allow them to date so they shouldn't many companies these days say that they can't date only because fans wouldn't freak out but actually they don't care if they date they just wish

them not to get caught but what is your opinion about this do you have anything to add thank you for watching and see you next time