Welcome to another episode. I'm so glad you are here today. Now, looking back over my life, some of the worst decisions I have ever made were not made because I lacked wisdom.
They were made because I was worried. I worried so much that I started making decisions just to make the anxiety stopped. You know, I rushed into things.
I forced things. I assumed the worst. I reacted instead of responding.
And almost every time I looked back and I realized worry had been making my decisions for me. That is why I wanted to make this video because worry is far more dangerous than most people realize. The scary thing about worry is you can be worrying and not even know you are worrying.
It doesn't always look like panic. Sometimes it looks like overthinking. Sometimes it looks like trying to control everything.
Sometimes it looks like replaying the same conversations a h 100 times or even maybe it looks like losing sleep at night always checking your phone trying to fill that void imagining the worst case scenario or even feeling exhausted for no apparent reason. Worry is subtle. It does not knock on the front door.
It quietly moves into your mind and starts decorating the place. Jesus said in Matthew 6:27, "Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto the stature? " In other words, what has worrying ever actually solved?
Think about it. How many problems has worry fixed? How many bills has it paid?
How many relationships has it healed? How many prayers has it answered? None.
Yet it has stolen nights of sleep, robbed people of their peace, and caused many of us to make decisions we later regret. Then I realized something. Worry is not just an emotion.
It is a habit. And just like every habit, it can be unlearned. The mind becomes good at whatever it practices.
If you practice worry, you become an expert at worrying. If you practice trusting God, you become stronger in faith. The good news is this.
God never tells us don't worry without also showing us how not to worry. So today I want to share with you practical biblical steps that have genuinely helped me overcome worry. You know maybe not overnight but consistently because peace is not something you stumble into.
It is something you learn to practice. Some of them can work instantly. So let me begin with the first one.
The first thing don't stay silent. You see worry thrives in your head because your head has no exit. The moment you speak it loud to God, to a trusted person, even to yourself, it loses power.
Worry likes the dark. Drg it into the light. That's why it is written in everything by prayer and petition.
Present your request to God. Philippians 4:6. Don't process it internally.
Externalize it. Say it out loud. Pray it out loud.
The voice that names the fear is the same voice that cancels it. One of the enemy's greatest strategies [music] is to keep your fears unspoken because what remains hidden usually grows. Like a seed is hidden in the ground, right?
The moment you bring it into the light, it [music] begins to lose its power. So that is why confession is powerful. Not because God does not know, but because [music] secrecy gives fear room to grow.
The next time worry starts filling your mind, don't just think. Pray it out. Tell God exactly what you are afraid of.
If it is overwhelming, talk to a trusted mature believer who will point you back to Christ. Don't let worry live rentree inside your head. Bring it into God's presence.
The second thing you do, you ask yourself questions. Ask yourself, has God ever failed you? This has helped me overcome worry.
Ask yourself, has God ever failed me? Not theory specifically. Go back through your own history.
Remember that bill you did not know how you will pay it and somehow God provided. Remember that door you thought would never open and then it did. Remember that season when you thought this is the end but somehow God carried you through.
Jeremiah writes in Lamentations chapter 3 21-23. This I recall to my mind therefore I have hope. It is of the Lord's mercy that we are not consumed because his compassions fail not.
They are new every morning. Great is thy faithfulness. Did you notice that?
Jeremiah said this I recall to my mind. Hope did not just happen. He chose what to remember.
Your memory is one of God's greatest gifts against worry. Worry survives by making you remember everything that could go wrong. Faith grows by remembering everything God has already done.
The enemy loves selective memory. He wants you to remember your failures. But he wants you to forget God's faithfulness.
Remember your delays, but forget how God delivered you. Remember the battle, but forget the victory. David understood this.
He prayed. He said, "Forget not all his benefit. " Psalms 103:2.
Because if you forget what God has done, you will start doubting what he can do. I have started doing something practical. Whenever worry starts speaking, I start rehearsing my testimony.
I remind myself, God brought me through that. God, I remember how you opened this door for me. I remember when I made this prayer and you answered.
God, you made a way when there was no way. Why? Because my history with God is evidence against my worry.
Let me say that again. Your history with God is your evidence against worry. Worry has a short memory, but faith remembers.
The God who was faithful yesterday has not changed today. If he carried you through your past impossible situation, he will not abandon you in this one. The other thing you need to stop doing is stop trying to solve what is not yours to solve.
Most worry is not about your actual problem. It's about a problem you have borrowed from the future. A scenario that has not happened, a conversation that may never come.
In Matthew 6:34, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. how to guard against it. When the thought comes, ask yourself, is this happening right now?
If the answer is no, return to today. You are only given grace for today. The fourth thing, learn to interrupt the cycle.
Here's what I have discovered. Worry is like a loop. One negative thought produces another, then another, then another.
Before long, you're no longer thinking. You are spiraling. And here is the mistake most people make.
They try to think they are way out of worry. But you can't break a mental cycle with more mental effort. Sometimes you have to interrupt it physically.
Stand up. Go outside. Take a walk.
Change your environment. This is very very important. Lift your hands in worship.
Kneel in prayer. Go for a jog. Go to the gym.
Open your Bible. Do something that tells your mind we are not staying here. Most people think stillness means doing nothing.
No. Biblical stillness is not passive. It is surrender.
It is releasing your grip on what you cannot control and placing it into God's hand. So it's like saying I leave this thought here. I continue with my life.
Your body and your mind are deeply connected. Have you noticed what happens when you are anxious? Your shoulders tighten.
Your breathing becomes shallow. Your jaw clenches. You see your posture changes.
Your body begins agreeing with your worry. So sometimes before your mind can experience peace, your body needs to abopt the posture of peace. I have found that when worry starts taking over, one of the worst things I can do is sit there and feed it.
Instead, I will get up. You see, worry likes to be fed. I will go for a prayer walk.
I will worship. I will pace while praying. Not because movement is magical but because it interrupts the cycle.
Your mind has found other things to explore and leaves that thought there. So the next time you find yourself overthinking, worrying, don't stay there replaying your thoughts. Get up, walk, take 10 minutes [music] outside, pray out loud, breathe deeply.
If you can do some push-ups, you see, give your mind a new direction before worry gives it one. Worry wants you to stay stuck, but faith keeps moving. Sometimes the first step toward peace is simply refusing to remain where worry found you.
Then the fifth thing, worship before you have the answer. This may be one of the hardest because it is the opposite of what your emotions want to do. Most of us think, Lord, if you answer my prayers, then I will worship.
But the Bible teaches the opposite. Worship comes before the breakthrough, not after. It is not pretending everything is okay.
It is declaring that God is still worthy even before your circumstances change. Look at Paul and Calas in Acts 16:25. At midnight, Paul and Silas prayed and sang praises unto God.
And suddenly there was an earthquake, and immediately all the doors were open. Notice the order. The prison doors did not open.
And then they worshiped. They worshiped while they were still chained at midnight. The darkest part of the night is when the doors open.
So worry rehearses your problem. Worship rehearses God's greatness. Whatever you rehearse the most becomes the loudest voice in your life.
That is why the enemy hates your worship because worship shifts your attention away from your fears and back to the faithfulness of God. I have noticed something in my own life. When worry begins filling my mind, I don't just sit there trying to think positive thoughts.
I put on one of my favorite worship songs. Sometimes I don't even feel like singing, but I will sing anyway. Sometimes it's just one chorus over and over again.
Sometimes I will turn everything off and simply begin worshiping with my own mouth. Before long, my circumstances have remained the same. But I have inner strength.
I have inner confidence. Peace begins replacing the panic. Faith begins replacing the fear.
Not because the problem disappeared, remember, but because God's presence became greater than the problem. The next time worry starts taking over, don't reach for your phone. Reach for worship.
Play that song that always reminds you of the goodness of God. Or better yet, lift your own voice. Sing to him.
Even if you are off key, God is not looking for perfection. He's looking for trust. [music] Give your trust a melody.
Worship is not the response to victory. Worship is often the weapon that leads you into it. Never forget that.
And then also shrink the timeline. You see, worry always operates in the future. So shrink it.
Don't ask how will I survive this year? Ask what do I need to do today? Just today.
God gave Israel mana one day at a time. Look at Israel in the wilderness. Exodus 16:es 4.
Behold, I will rain bread from heaven for you, and the people shall go out and gather a certain rate every day. Do you see that? God could have given them enough mana for a month.
He had the power to do it. But he chose one day at a time. Why?
Because dependence is built one day at a time. Trust is learned one day at a time. Faith grows one day at a time.
I have often wondered what if God had given them 30 days worth of mana. They might have trusted the mana instead of trusting God. That is very very important to remember.
Not a weak supply, not a man's one day because he knew if you learn to trust him for today, tomorrow take cares of yourself. So when worry starts projecting your six months into the future, bring yourself back to today. Instead of asking how am I going to survive the whole year?
Ask what has God asked me to do today? Can I pray today? Yes.
Can I obey today? Yes. Can I work towards my skill today?
Yes. Can I trust him today? Yes.
That's all God is asking of you. Tomorrow's grace will arrive tomorrow. Worry borrows trouble from tomorrow.
Faith receives grace for today. Don't try to carry a year that God only asked you to carry one day at a time. And then the seventh thing, replace the narrative.
The one thing that helped me overcome worry was replacing the story I kept telling myself. Here's what I have learned. Worry is a storyteller.
It keeps narrating your future. You are going to fail. This isn't going to work.
Something bad is about to happen. God has forgotten you. The problem is the mind believes what it rehearses most.
If you keep replaying fearful thoughts, eventually they begin to feel like facts. Paul writes in Romans 12:2, "And be not conformed to this world, but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind. " Notice that transformation does not begin when your circumstances change.
It begins when you are thinking changes. You cannot remove a negative story without replacing it with a better one. Nature teaches us this.
If you pull weeds out of a garden and leave the soil empty, more weeds grow back. Why? The same is true with your mind.
If you remove worry and don't plant God's word, guess what? The old thoughts will still try to catch up with you. They will return.
Jesus said something similar in Luke 11. The empty house became occupied again. Why?
Because it remained empty. Don't leave your mind empty. Don't just remove the worry and don't fill it with another story.
Fill it with truth. What this looks like when worry says you are alone, God says I will never leave you nor forsake you. Hebrews 13:5.
When worry says you will never make it, God says my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory [music] by Christ Jesus. When worry says everything is falling apart, God says, "We know that all things work together for good through them that love God. " Romans 8 28.
Every lie deserves an answer. And God's word is always the better story. Find one promise that speaks directly to what you are worrying about.
Write it down. Put it on your mirror, your desk, your phone wallpaper. Read it every morning.
Speak it every morning. Pray it until it becomes your default response because eventually your mind will stop rehearsing the problem and start rehearsing the promise. The mind moves in the direction of its strongest narrative.
If you continually rehearse your fears, you will strengthen your anxiety. If you continually rehearse God's promises, you will strengthen your faith. Rehearse the promise, not the problem.
I don't know what is making you worried today. Maybe it is your health. It is your children.
It is your family. It is your finances. Maybe it is a decisions you have to make.
Or maybe you can't even explain it. You just know you have lost your peace. Can I encourage you?
You don't have to let worry become your lifestyle. Jesus never promised us a life without trouble. But he did promise us his presence in the middle of it.
The same God who carried you yesterday will carry you today and he will still be faithful tomorrow. So don't let worry rewrite the next chapter of your life. Let God's promises do that.
Practice these seven habits. Not once, not twice. Pick one that you need to work on today, every single day.
Because peace is not found by accident. Peace is cultivated. And every time you choose faith over fear, you are teaching your mind to trust God a little more.
One day you will look back and realize the things that kept you awake at night never had the power to stop the God who was watching over you. The Bible says in Psalms 121:4, "Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. " The beautiful thing is this, you can sleep because God does not.
So rest, trust him. He's already in your tomorrow. God bless you.
Now let us pray. Heavenly Father, I lift up every person carrying worry. Today you know every burden, every fear, every unanswered question.
I ask that you replace anxiety with your peace, fear with faith, confusion with clarity. Help us to trust you one day at a time and remember your faithfulness in every season. [music] Renew our minds, guard our hearts, and teach us to rehearse your promises instead of your problems in Jesus name.
Amen. Remember, worry comes from rehearsing your problems more than your promises. Rehearse on God's promises and worry will turn into worship.
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