in 2020 Angel Lyn was a beautiful 19-year-old young woman who had her whole life ahead of her she had aspirations of being a forensic scientist for the police however she'd never get that opportunity for the last year she'd been the clutches of 20-year-old Chay bkill a horrific excuse for a man who had physically emotionally and psychologically abused Angel leaning behind a trail of truly V messages that he'd sent to someone he claimed to Love by September 2020 angel enough and tried to leave bkill but he wouldn't let this happen she was his possession to use
and abuse as he saw fit on the morning of the 17th of September 2020 bkill kidnapped Angel literally lifting her off the street and carrying her to a waiting van this hurrying CCTV footage shows the moment of her abduction just 10 minutes later Angel was found lying seriously injured on the side of the a6u carriageway she' either fallen or been pushed out of the van she was abducted in while she was traveling at between between 60 and 70 mph Angel survived but with horrific life-changing injuries which means she's now severely disabled and would need Round
the Clock care for the rest of her life Bill robbed her of any hope for the future which she dreamed about and which she rightly deserved this case is truly horrific and heartbreaking equal measures not just because of the actions of this monster but also his remorselessness the justification of his actions by his family the lent sentence he received the quality of life that angel is now forced to live welcome to evil Among Us there's little information about Chay Bill's background and upbringing he was born in around the year 2000 and raised in the town
of seon in the county of leerer which lies in the East Midlands of the UK he's the son of Kathy Norris and has at least one sibling a brother called reee Norris we'll Circle back to these two awful human beings later I cannot find any information about his father's name or his early years in court it was St the Bild had a quote unguided childhood which I take to mean that he was never toss any boundaries rules compassion for others and was generally an antisocial yob from an early age he was a men of society
and steel cars joy riding and driving like a maniac filming his exploits I have a particular disdain for Dangerous drivers the car is a lethal weapon and these idiots put everyone else's lives at risk including their own just to get their pathetic little kicks unfortunately when they do crash they tend to kill other people whilst they miraculously survive just to spend 2 minutes in prison before getting out and doing the same thing again anyway bow skill was heavily linked to organized crime as a teenager and we're not talking about selling a bit of weed he
was part of a highly organized car stealing Ring went from County to County breaking into homes stealing keys to luxury cars and then driving off with these and either selling them on whole or stripping them for parts the gang stole at least 51 luxury cars including an £80,000 Audi sq7 and a £75,000 Mercedes C63 in total value of the cars they're known to have stolen came to 1,1 153,00 with many of these vehicles £3 373,000 worth never being recovered clearly Bill thought he was a bad boy a gangster and would post intimidating pictures like this
good old sarcasm they say a picture is worth a thousand words and even from this one image you can tell a lot about bkill he was a pathetic little boy who wanted others to think he was a big man in reality he was a weak poor excuse for a human being whose life revolved around taking things for himself this underlying weakness narcissism and self-entitled attitude would unfortunately extend to his relationships with him seeing his Partners as objects to be used and abused to be controlled so they wouldn't leave him him unfortunately Angel lib would fall
into his web and her relationship with Chay bill would Rob her of her future and almost cost her her life Angel Lim was born in 2001 and was the fourth of six children to her parents Nikki and Paddy she had a very close relationship with her parents siblings and wider family she was described as quote a crazy young girl full of life feared nothing if anybody could hold their own Angel could Angel was an Ambitious Girl she wanted to join the police as a Fric scientist and was completing a public service course at College Angel
was also responsible she had a number of part-time jobs from a young age intending to pay her way and save money for her future she loved spending time with her friends and it was through them that she met her first boyfriend when she was around 17 years old this was Angel's First Love and stood in stark contrast to what came next this boy was attentive caring and there were no secrets between them the pair would spend time at each other's houses and met their respective parents however the relationship ended this devastated Angel not only because
she'd lost her boyfriend but also she didn't feel she could hang out with their mutual friends because it was too awkward after months of nursing a broken heart Angel got back out in the world and it was on one of these nights out in the summer of 2019 that she met at CH B scho and they quickly began a relationship the relationship between Angel Lynn and Chay Bosco only lasted a year and as soon as it started he began to control her like most domestic abusers I have no doubt that he was a predator I
think he sensed Angel's vulnerability she'd broken up with her first boyfriend and was likely looking for someone to fill the Gap as I go through this video I point out the warning signs common to domestic abusers to gain and maintain control of their victims the relationship moved quickly with the pair spending almost every waking moment together the word love was used in the first few weeks by bkill and he would text Angel constantly asking what she was doing where she was and who she was with all of this was part of a tactic Called Love
bombing where the perpetrator bombards their victim with attention and affection in order to manipulate them forming a bomb between the pair quickly and trying to force their victim to see them as the most important person in the world someone who needs be responded to immediately and have their demands met this sort of attention is often intoxicating which of us especially in the aftermath of a breakdown wouldn't want someone to sweep us off our feet but this was all deliberate methodical Behavior by bkill to worm his way into Angel's life boso began getting Angel to lie
to her parents they knew the per in a relationship but Angel would tell them they were just friends he barely spent any time with their parents and instead they'd go from hotel room to hotel room where the pair would off and spend all their time no doubt he used the money from his crimes to fund all of this outwardly this must have seemed exciting to Angel someone with money spending it on her so she could stay at nice hotels however this was to enable Bill to further love bomb her but also strive a wedge between
her and her parents soon Bosco began to dictate how Angel dressed and how she appeared she went from being a very girly girl to wearing baggy tracksuits not doing her hair and also not doing her makeup her family noticed this but it wasn't until later they put two and two together that bosi was trying to make angel unattractive to other men reducing the chances that she would leave him for someone else Chay Bosa would constantly ask Angel where she was and what she was doing clearly this was him checking up on her and he sent
messages subtly implying this including quote never know I might be watching bill would monitor Angel's social media if any men added her he would kick off and demand that she block them boso had no job so plenty of time to spend controlling and monitoring Angel he would sometimes Park his car along routes he knew that she would used to go to college and to her jobs and he would follow her this was seen by others including a friend of hers called Cheryl on one occasion Cheryl asked Angel to take her to Lester so she could
go to her daughter's birthday and on the way they spotted Boo's car parked on the back road it began to follow them Angel's phone was going off every two seconds with Bill demanding to know where she was going and what she was doing when Angel and Sherl got to Lester Angel briefly went inside the house where the party was going on as you would but this was unacceptable to bkill as there were boys there he began berating Angel accusing her of cheating on him without any evidence sending messages such as the following quote [ __
] off Angel you divy little slag domestic abuse perpetrators almost always have issues with their self-esteem and a fear of Abandonment sexual jealousy is common with the perpetrated feeling that because they feel so low about themselves any man is a threat and it's inevitable that if their partner is allowed to interact with any man they will see how inadequate they are and they'll be abandoned so domestic abuse perpetrators often have a particular sensitivity to their Partners having contact with other men don't get me wrong most of us have a Pang of jealousy at some point
or are concerned about who our partner is spending time with and their intentions however what I'm talking about is something else what I'm referring to is Extreme paranoia and jealousy and the purpose tra are having an often disproportionate reaction to even the most trivial of contact between their partner and a man literally them talking to the postman mated accusations of cheating as an example of how twisted this thinking can become in the most extreme case I've come across a man was jealous of a woman's ex-husband despite him having been dead for 10 years and his
ashes being kept in an earn in the house he accused her of having sex with the ashes no I'm not sure how that would work and I'm not joking so these these types of men will in some cases seek to cut off any contact with men including blocking them on social media and keeping their partner away from any situation where they may interact with a male and forcing them to dress in a way they believe is less likely to attract male attention so for example baggy clothes no makeup Etc in early 2020 just months after
the relationship began Justice caught up with bow school and he was sent to prison for 4 months for theft clearly Panic set in as he couldn't control angel as easily from prison but he had a plan she was to be at home to speak to him every day at 6:00 p.m. of course he could have called her on her mobile but by calling the house phone he knew exactly where she was he would use these conversations to interrogate her about whether she'd had any contact with any men and threatening what would happen to them if
she had this was caught on recorded phone calls from prison as shown by this very short excerpt I don't care if anyone's been texting you I care if you've been texting yeah am I don't want to bech after his release from prison in mid 2020 one of the first things that CH Bill did was March around to Angel's parents house storm in and began shouting in Angel's face screaming quote I want my [ __ ] money you spent some of it this is apparently linked to him having given her £80 before he went to prison
and he wanted it back Angel's parents paid him off and told him to [ __ ] off this cash he was demanding was in addition to the money that angel had sent him while he was in prison much of this went on phone Credit in order for him to continue to abuse her when Bill began physically assaulting Angel is unclear it was likely soon after the relationship started with him using violence to impose his will and Crush any Independence that angel had however it is known that he did beat her on the 9th of July
2020 and this was reported to the police by The Neighbors on this occasion they could hear bkill again accusing angel of cheating on him he then pushed her with so much force that she hit her head on a wall and ended up having a seizure the neighbor who called the police said they heard Bill saying quote get up you [ __ ] slag do you want a bit more I have no information about what happened with this incident but it appears that boso threatened her angel if she told the police what had happened so I
imagine she refused to give a statement and no charges were filed as well as physical violence Angel ly was subjected to emotional and psychological abuse 24 hours a day 7 days a week the police recover thousands of vile and horrific text messages with B skill repeatedly calling Angel a woman he claims to love horrific names including slag and making her believe that without him she would be nothing and she would be alone that no one would ever love her this sick cow would regularly quote unquote break up with Angel and they get her to beg
for his forgiveness clearly he had no intention of ending relationship everything he was doing was to make sure this didn't happen but he wanted her to be upset scared and constantly on edge he would Demand contact 24 hours a day it was not unusual for Angel to go to sleep and wake up to multiple messages demanding that she call him asking where she was and then when she didn't respond because she was asleep text accusing her of cheating on him and calling her a slag Chay Bosa would also take Angel's money from a cleaning job
and use it on himself she was his possession to use and abuse as he wanted imagine that sick stomach churning feeling that you get when you're about to do something you're anxious about now imagine that all day every day that's what Angel and other domestic abuse victims have to go through they like Angel are trapped in the clutches of an abusive manipulative and often dangerous partner whose whole life is devoted to controlling someone they claim to love however Angel Ling kept fighting trying to retain some of who she was and she began to defy bkill
and try to live her life she was becoming tired of the abuse of this pathetic excuse for a man trying to control her she wanted to end the relationship her mind was made up when a few days before her abduction bosil again attacked her violently throwing her against the wall but Chay Bosa would not have this and Angel Lynn's decision to leave would almost cost her her life what happened on the 17th of September 2020 will never be known for certain but on this date angel now age 19 years old had been at a cleaning
job in the early morning and when she finished she went to pick up Chay bill and his friends Rocco Sanson and Mason Cooper all three men were 20 years old it's apparent from what I've read the part the controlling this relationship was bosi expecting to use Angel as a taxi service fing him and his friends around when Angel picked up the the three bosil took on the task of driving and at some point along the journey an argument occurred between him and Angel what this argument was about we'll never know but this caused him to
stop the van on lra Road close to the A6 near the town of lfra Angel then got out began to walk away BK then emerged from the van and ran across the street grabbed Angel and lifted her off the ground carrying her back to the van and forcing her inside the van then sped off the time was 10:36 a.m. this time Roco Sanson was driving the vehicle with Angel sat in the middle and bkill sat between her and the door his hand up on the dashboard blocking her potential Escape Route the van was seen by
several people being driven erratically and apparently shaking clearly Angel was fighting to escape at 10:39 a.m. CCTV cameras captured the van arriving in a pub car park and Mason Cooper exited through the Sid sliding door and walked away there's no indication he raised any sort of alarm and it also doesn't look like he was ever arrested or prosecuted for anything at 10:47 a.m. whilst the van was traveling at between 60 and 70 mph down the A6 duel carriageway Angel Lynn fell jumped or was pushed out of the side door of the van landing on the
road suffering catastrophic injuries this horrific scene was witnessed by other Road users and by some miracle they were able to avoid running Angel over the van stopped around 50 m away and bosil got out and came back towards the spot where Angel was now lying unconscious and severely injured in the road this Twisted creature used the opportunity to get his defense in as quickly as possible he told the shock bystanders that he told Angel that he hated her and wanted to break up with her and suddenly when they were traveling along he' heard the slide
door in the van open and angel had apparently jumped out in an attempt to commit suicide because she was so heartbroken their relationship had come come to an end what an absolute load of bollocks clearly whilst his girlfriend was lying in the road fighting for her life Chay Bill's only concern was himself the police arrived and arrested both Chay Bill and Roco Sansom on suspicion of kidnapping and causing Grievous bodily harm Angel limb was flown by air ambulance to Queen's Medical Center in Nottingham in a critical condition and her parents Nikki and Paddy rushed to
her bedside angel had suffered catastrophic injuries to her head including multiple skull fractures there was bleeding which was causing pressure on her brain and this resulted in part of her skull having to be removed in order to relieve the pressure she was ventilated and put into a medically induced coma the horror of what Nikki and paty were confronted with when they saw their daughter in hospital must have made their blood run cold they were told to spend as much time with their daughter as they could as she was not expected to survive in fact doctors
were astounded that she'd not been killed outright by hitting the concrete on the road apparently head first at at least 60 MPH her parents were told that if Angel did survive she would be severely disabled for the rest of her life but Angel didn't die she kept fighting and her survival is Testament to her strength she spent months in hospital and contracted both coid and pneumonia she was so poorly that she was given the last rights three times but she refused to give up I'll talk more about angel survival soon but I want to mention
her courage and that of Nikki and Paddy which stands in stark contrast to the pathetic and cly man that Chay boso is whilst Angel was fighting for her life both Chay Bill Roco Sansom were interviewed by the police bosil didn't remain quiet he needed to get his ridiculous defense over as often as possible to as many people as possible he said that his relationship with Angel was turbulent but that she quote gave as good as she got he admitted verbal abuse but claimed he' never been violent towards her he was not controlling and that he
hadn't kidnapped her despite all of these things being easy to disprove again he claimed that he tried to break up with Angel and then all of a sudden she'd apparently thrown herself out of a van traveling at almost the national speed limit Sansom clearly trying to cover for bow skill claimed that he'd not seen Angel being abducted and also stated that she thrown herself out of the van in an apparent attempt to commit suicide the police didn't believe them and both were charged with kidnapping and causing Grievous bodly harm and remanded into custody in January
2022 both men went on trial at Nottingham Crown Court as well as charges of kidnapping and causing Grievous bodily harm Chay Bosa was also charged with coercive and controlling behavior in his relationship with Angel Lynn both men pleaded not guilty to all charges sickeningly I have no doubt that both bkill and Sanson played the odds and realized that due to Angel's condition she would not be able to give evidence or likely remember exactly what had happened so if they pleaded not guilty they could put down to the jy's mind and potentially get away with it
both men stuck to their ridiculous Stories the angel would decided to end her life and deliberately jumped out of a moving vehicle with regards to the charge of kidnapping Bill gave the most pathetic defense claiming that he decided for some reason to pick Angel up and take her back to the van rather than driving off without her then this he apparently did without any indication that she didn't want to go with him Rocko Sansom continued to play the part of Bill's lap dog and continued to claim that he was both blind and deaf him stating
that he'd not seen the Abduction of Angel and had no idea she'd been taken against her will I mean seriously he's trying to State the angel who was sat next to him just sat there silently Chay Bosco again denied in court that he was controlling and abusive in his relationship with Angel but the prosecution had a key piece of evidence showing the monster this man is and his willingness to abuse and threaten everyone around him in order to get his own way this came in the form of recorded prison phone calls bkill of made from
hmp Nottingham where was on remand with him calling his mother Kathy Norris and abusing her about the fact she'd made a statements of the police saying he was controlling this is part of one of those phone calls hello Mom hello listen what did you say in that statement you gave to the police you better ring the police up now yeah cuz you was drunk when you gave statement as well aren't you I weren't no you best ring them up now mom as soon as you get off this phone and you ring them up and you
say and you tell him you was drunk make sure you tell him you was drunk you've told her that I've been making her do things controlling her telling her where she can and can't go to said you were controlling cuz you were shouldn't have said anything from the start should you no [ __ ] idiot not listening to a load of abuse off you J listen Mom you're a [ __ ] horrible bastard mate I don't know what is wrong with you man why the F you would ever do that his attempt to get his
mother to withdraw her statement which he tried to do landed Chay bosil with another charge perverting the course of Justice the jury didn't believe the men's lies both Chay Bill Roco Sansom were found guilty of kidnapping Angel Lynn bosil was also found guilty coercive and controlling behavior in their relationship as well as perverting the course of Justice however heartbreakingly both men were found not guilty of causing Grievous bodily harm to Angel this was due to the fact that jury could not agree whether she had been pushed accidentally fallen or jumped out of the van and
because of this the men had to be acquitted on the 22nd of January 2022 both men stood for sentence before judge Timothy Spencer KC for his role in the kidnapping of angel in Roco Sanson was sentenced to 21 months imprisonment with regards to Chay bkill the judge referred to him as quite vile and slammed his mother Kathy Norris for trying to rob Angela and a family of Justice the judge then sentenced him for the kidnapping of Angel Lynn abusing her during their relationship and trying to avoid his Just Desserts Chay bosil was initially sentenced to
7 years and 6 months in prison after his sentencing there were two hearings regarding his sentence both in March 2022 the first brought by his defense argued that the sentence imposed was excessive stating that the judge had overplayed the seriousness of these crimes and claimed that he had not taken into account Bill's immaturity and youth at the time of his offending this was promptly rejected with BOS skill apparently shaking his head when the decision was read out however an application from the solicor general to the court of appeal argued that the sentence was too lenient
it did not reflect the gravity of Bill's crimes the the court agreed that the sentence of Chay bosi was increased from 7 and 1/2 years to 12 years imprisonment despite this increase in sentence I think you'll agree when you get to the end of this video that 12 years is not long enough for this animal taking into account his time on Roman waiting for his trial Chay Bosa was likely to be released in around 2026 when it'll still be in his mid-20s I cannot make this video without commenting on the horrific people tied to Cha
bkill by Blood who despite the horror of his crimes justify deny and make light of what he did beginning with Kathy Norris Bill's mother she's proven herself to be a horrific human being soon after the trial in January 2022 it was reported that Cathy had been making comments stating the son was quote not a bad boy but he's not a saint as well as stating that she was standing by her son Cathy has made some disgusting statements about his crimes including quote Chay told me he'd finish with her didn't want her to go so went
after her and picked her up and put her back in the van everyone is blaming Chay for her injuries but he didn't cause them I can't blame my son for her injuries I need to protect him and stand by him what happened to Angels destroyed me it's my son's third time in prison I have to accept what he's done but he's being branded an evil kidnapper and while he took Angel it was to protect her not hurt her in the eyes of the law that is kidnap but the sentence he was given is too long
I know Angel's family feel it it's not long enough we wish she driven off and left her there how does any of that make any sense so he finished with her but didn't want her to go so dragged her back in the van and protect her what the [ __ ] is she talking about he kidnapped her to protect her that makes absolutely no sense Kathy has since been bleaching to the papers about how she's been the target of online and trolls because of what she said and what her son did unfortunately it gets worse
in March 2022 it was reported that Bill's brother Rees Norris have been posting disgusting online posts mocking Angel's disabilities claiming his brother hand done anything wrong and threatening to Rob Angel's parents of money they were raising to try and buy her medical equipment this is essential medical equipment to keep their daughter alive because of what his brother did I'm not going to lie to you guys when I heard about this case specifically due to what I include in the next section I had a little cry I'm not going to apologize for that the fact that
I and I'm sure many of you who feel just as devastated shows how horrific not only Chay bosil is but also his mother and his brother to be so callous and mock a woman whose life has been completely destroyed I hope that at some point all three of these people get what they deserve in some form or another the focus of this part of the video has to be Angel to highlight the devastating impact of this instance on her and her parents was also shining a spotlight on their bravery at the appeal hearing in March
2022 the extent of Angel's life-changing injuries was read out in the court with it being stated quote she is severely brain damaged she does not make purposeful movements she shows little sign of being aware of her surroundings or in interacting with them she receives her nutrition through a tube straight into her stomach that she cannot swallow she is doubly incontinent she cannot communicate she is very likely to be severely disabled mentally and physically for the rest of her life and will be dependent on others for all aspects of care the devastating impact of this incident
on Angel's parents Nikki and Paddy cannot be overstated and it mustn't be forgotten going to play a clip from October 2022 with them talking about how hard they found it trying to come to terms with the life limiting injuries their daughter suffered you want to talk about this sentence let's just remind people what what happened to um Angel she was bundled into a van uh by her boyfriend at the time Chay um and then she fell from the vehicle as it traveled at 60 M an hour this happened back in September 2020 so uh almost
two years ago um as a result of falling from that van she suffered catastrophic brain injury and is unable to communicate and needs round the-clock care now this young man Chay uh received a jail term of seven and a half years yeah when you heard that that was the sentence what did you feel in devastated and tell us why because Angels just she's got no life now ever we don't know if she'll ever walk talk eat she was 19 at the time of what happened don't Paddy just describe your daughter you're a 19yearold daughter oh
she's beautiful she's amazing beautiful tell us a little bit about her she's good fun mhm she was just really happy before she met him mhm she she had lots of friends and now he's just taking everything away from us our family she had she had she had a whole life ahead she had an hopes dreams yes she did um and he's taken all that away now and I I just can't forgive him now no ever completely understandable P what what did Angel want from her life what what were her hopes and dreams she wanted to
go into the police and do forensic science didn't she know yeah until she met him yeah and she changed you saw a change in her did you as a result of her relationship she changed yeah a lot she didn't want to do anything with family everything she did resolve revolved around um Chay it's so hard when you are a parent I've got two um daughters 1722 if you see your daughter kind of getting involved with somebody who who who who you're worried about whether they are been controlling coercive bullying as a parent it's really hard
to know what to do isn't it I mean how do you did she listen to you when you when you when you raised concerns not really not really no cuz she knew her own mind yeah yeah and uh I guess and afterwards you think could I have done more you that's right yeah you do I mean if we could turn back the clocks we things would be different and your for it yeah the judge seems to have said that he was very immature yeah he did yeah and that is partly why the judge seems to
have given him a lighter lenient sentence sentence but yeah I mean they've left all through Court they've left through the whole court case so you know and the judge spenc the court yeah the was laughing and the judge out to tell them off and because the young lad who was driving driving the van was also yes convicted and sentenced for 21 month 21 months I mean it's nothing yeah and they their quote was um this has ruined the other lad said this has ruined his life he's buried he's not got a clue but you know
what life ruined me and said this has ruined my life are you clear about what happened that day I'm clearing my mind because the images show Chay putting his arms around your daughter to bundle her into the back of the van and then for some reason she's she comes out of the van at 60 M an hour I mean it's no surprise that he says he just putting her in the van to help her look after her and so he didn't want to stranded there but you can see for yourself anybody seeing those pictures knows
what's going on I mean that was coercion and that is what they are convicted of but the the law allows a much much bigger sentence for the crime they were convicted of than the judge gave I think I'm right in saying this is now been looked at again it's been referred by the Attorney General to look at this again it what do you think is the right thing to do I think it should be looked at again um and I think he should get a longer sentence I think that the day before cour the senten
in judge Spencer said um you're looking at a hefty sentence well I don't think he gave a hefty sentence at all convicted of kidnap coercive and controlling Behavior and perverting the course of justice and because of time already served on remand he will become eligible for release in June 2024 meanwhile Angel serves her own life sentence doesn't she and you do as well angel will probably still be lying in bed when he's out ruining some other person's life how's angel doing right now um pretty much the same as she's been all the time um she
can't um walk talk eat drink she's Peg fed for a tum we don't know if she actually knows who we are when we visit how often can you see her every day we see her every day oh the really good way she is we'll see her today when we get home my brothers went to see her yesterday so that you know to make sure she had a visit a care own where she is has been um they're amazing they really are amazing and the car before that was as well yeah yeah really good we've had
so much support really off everybody so it's hard to hard to imagine how difficult it's been for both of you but um pad and Nikki Angel's parents thank you so much for yeah for talking about this with us so so openly and um I mean we've got so much to do as well to get ready for Angel um because you'd like to bring her wouldn't you yeah we do want to bring a room but we've not we don't live in the biggest of houses um there's lots to be done we need so much doing just
we're actually doing some fundraising up thee it don't be thinking about what we need doing well we've got a go fun we pay set up for and okay we've done charity events haven't we Nick yeah well I hope you can raise the money to make the adjustments to bring her home because I'm sure that would mean the world it would yes I love the fact that Angel Lynn is still alive is a miracle it's been recently reported that this Brave woman continues to surprise medical professionals in May 2023 Angel stood up for the first time
and in September 2023 she spoke her first three words since this horrific incident that robbed her of so much one of these was the word mom which must have sent Nikki into a puddle of Tears the strength of Angel Nikki and Paddy filled me with so much respect I wish I could be as Brave as they are I'm sorry but sentences in this country are pathetic especially regarding domestic abusers angel will never have the career she wanted she will likely never have children and her life will likely be a struggle every day I've no doubt
their parents are terrified what will happen to their daughter when they are no longer around their worlds have been turned upside down how this pain and suffering was only worth 12 years in prisoners Beyond me this family are serving a life sentence and I believe this was the only appropriate punishment that should have been passed in this case I've given little snippets on the profile of Chay bosil during this video he is like so many other domestic abusers a weak and pathetic man whose feelings of inadequacy bled into his behavior him clearly being emotionally dependent
on Intimate Relationships but fearing being abandoned so the only way he felt he could ensure that things continued was not trust love and support no it was to destroy the person that angel liy was and leave her a shell of a woman he worked quickly making her feel loved and special like he was her knight in shining armor all the while placing himself in a position where he wanted her to be dependent on him too he isolated her from her friends her family got inside her head making her feel unattractive inadequate like he was the
only person who would ever love and care about her bosil didn't want a partner he wanted a thing that he could use to bolster his self-esteem he saw Angela's milon object something to control and abuse he could treat her in any way he wanted but God help her if she defied him a good example of this was him repeatedly breaking up with her and then forcing her to beg to reunite and for him to forgive her it was fine for Bill to do this he was in charge but when Angel wants to break away from
him she deserved to be punished I've no doubt that this is what triggered the abduction I believe the angel was starting to break away from Bill and told him on that day that she didn't want to be with him anymore I imagine bosil was incensed not only by her daring to break up with him but also that she the woman who he considered his possession was walking away from him he couldn't stand that so he bundled Angel into the van and snatched back control from her when she was trying to break free we will never
know what happened in that van but I think it's possibly one of two scenarios the first which I think is more likely is that bosi pushed Angel out of the van using this act as punishment to show the consequence of Daring to break up with him and question his authority in the relationship with him potentially saying if I can't have you no one else can however the seconden iio is that angel did actually jump from the van whilst I think this is unlikely this speaks to another potentially terrible realization the only reason why anyone would
ever do something like this is because this seemed like the lesser of two evils I think if this happened then was out of sheer desperation as Bosco would indicated to her that she was being driven to her death that she would never go home or be seen alive again so if Angel did jump I have no doubt this is because she thought she was going to to be murdered by Chay bill as I've already said I firmly believe that Chay Bill's sentence should be in line with the life sentence that angel Nikki and Paddy are
now serving however he'll be out of prison in just a few years I've no doubt this horrific excuse for a man will seek out and abuse women as soon as he's released unfortunately I fear we've not heard the last of Chay BOS skill I think it's important to highlight signs that someone including potentially you maybe in an abusive relationship abusers don't walk around with signs on their head and they're often masters of manipulation their tactics can be extremely subtle but no less Insidious these features may not necessarily mean that it's an abusive relationship but it
may suggest the relationship is unhealthy or one-sided and that you or someone you know needs help to get out of something that will only harm them and not Elevate them as relationships should do obviously this is not an exhaust I list please feel free to include more in the comments so a big one which I've mentioned in this video is the concept of Love bombing domestic abuse perpetrators are often emotionally dependent on relationships and want to establish control as quickly as possible the way they tend to do this is to progress the relationship extremely quickly
using words like love within 2 minutes of the relationship starting showering the person with gifts and attention other signs can include suggestions to move in together or even get married or have children extremely quickly all of these behaviors are intended to lock in the victim create a bomb between them as quickly as possible in order to solidify control so if someone tells you they've met someone and they're already talking about moving in together after 5 minutes then be on your guard another huge warning flag is a change in someone's routine compromising a relationship is normal
if someone is changing everything about themselves in order to please the other person this can be an indicator of coercive control if someone you're with tries to stop from dressing how you usually dress going to places you usually go and talking to people you usually talk to this could be a sign of someone trying to mold you into someone who is isolated and under their control running alongside this is a change in someone's personality relationships are exciting it's wonderful to find someone you can spend your time with so someone is anxious on edge withdrawn and
has lost the spot that makes that person them then you need to consider whether this relationship more specifically the person that with is the one causing them to change this may be an indicator they're trying to destroy the person their partner is and replace them with someone they feel more easily able to control and abuse it's also important to look for signs of physical trauma in others keep an eye out for bruising and especially look for marks around the neck area which may suggest strangulation I cannot overstate how dangerous strangulation is and how much of
an indicator of potential homicide is I read a statistic that around a quarter of all domestic murders in the UK are as a result of strangulation in terms of support I want to reiterate services that can help you or loved ones Escape domestic abuse as well as schemes that can help you get information to check if you or someone close to you is in a relationship with a domestic abuser so if you're experiencing domestic abuse and need advice and support in England you can call refuge's National Domestic Abuse help line on 0808 20247 in Northern
Ireland call the domestic and sexual abuse helpl line on 0808 8021 1414 in Scotland call the domestic abuse and forced marriage helpl line on 0800 0271 1234 in Wales call live fear free on 0808 8010 800 if you're in the US call the National Domestic Violence Hotline on 1 1800799 safe so that's 7 7233 you can also get additional support from websites for each of these organizations and I'll put contacts information in the description box also please don't forget about Claire's law in the UK which enables you to gain access to information about men who
you or a loved one or in a relationship with the best thing to do with this is to go into your local police station and ask for a disclosure under cla's law and there'll be someone to help you fill the forms in it's about proportionality if the police fill those information you or someone else needs to know then this will be disclosed this disclosure scheme exists under different names in Wales Scotland and Northern Ireland and I would advise you to go into your local police station if you want to make these requests most forces will
look to give you the information within 28 days I'm Unapologetic about continuously returning to the issue of domestic abuse two women a week in the UK alone are murdered by their partner or former partners domestic abuse is one of the most dangerous pervasive and least understood stood or punished crimes which extends across gender race sexuality and age if I can help save just one person or give someone a bit of a light at the end of the tunnel I will consider my time on this Earth well spent as a final point please do not be
scared about seeking support people only want to help you not judge you survivors of domestic abuse are some of the bravest people I've ever met please don't believe the lies you're being told by a partner who's so weak then not fit to shine your shoes let alone dominate your attention and your life so what are your thoughts on this case please feel free to comment below if you like the content please consider becoming a channel member by clicking the join button which is $.99 a month or around $4 you get early access to videos and
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