it's time to break free and wake up to your potential download mindset daily motivation today and start taking control of your life kill the boy and let the man be bor the difference is how do you look at it how do you approach it how do you deal with it how do you admit it and see it for what it is and then what do you do about it what do you do about it you cry about it you mope about it you drink about it you sleep around about it you get mad and getting
fights about it you just hang around just turn the world out just zombie about it you fry yourself a marijana about it you say Dwayne I'm sad dude that's a part of life you think you're the only man on this planet that's sad say Dwayne I'm going through depression well welcome to the world welcome to the rest of us if you look at the stats around suicidality in the UK the thing that's most likely to kill someone between the age of like 18 and 40 years themselves for a man do we really not know what
it is to be a good man and and I would go so far as to say to be a good human being right because take responsibility for what you're doing take take ownership of Your World take ownership of your life go try and accomplish something that's hard you may win you may lose you may succeed you may fail I'll tell you what you'll be better if you avoid those things that are hard if you don't accept that challenge if you don't step up and step into that cold water and you sit on your couch and
eat Doritos I I I can tell you this is not a good move this is not a good move don't do that don't do that just get up move towards that challenge whatever that challenge is move towards that challenge and go attack it it's wake up stop sleeping on yourself step into your authenticity step into your intelligence and your Brilliance release your gift God is giving you something great release it into the Earth whatever that goal is whatever that insurmountable feat has been whether it's weight loss Financial mind relational I don't care what it is
career to be a CEO or an investor whatever it is get it done this is not the year you sleeping yourself there's nothing going to stop me if you didn't make me you can't break me if you didn't make the sun come up you can't stop me if you didn't make the moon shine at night you can't stop me my purpose my will my dedication my motivation is all about doing the business because guess what ladies and gentlemen that's what I'm about I'm about that business I'm about that life what are you about man up
stop crying my teacher don't like you why maybe you disrespectful why don't don't say she don't like you go look in the mirror and take full ownership why does she not like me you watching LeBron make his dreams become a reality you watching the black Mumble make his dreams become reality if you put the same time LeBron put in and I start studying and I realized as an African-American male I need to get a master's degree in a PhD in order to do I'm doing and guess what I had to get up even though it
was hard and I had to take ownership of my life take ownership of my time take ownership of my day change happens when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of making a change like if you are angry use it if you are sad use it because like what else are you going to do with it like like you might as well let it help you like or it uses you there's a moment when every boy realizes no one's coming to save him and that's when he becomes a man and some
boys never get there and stay children forever no one's effing coming to save you no one's going to make you better at your business no one is going to get you to be a better Persuader of people or framer of people other than you there's a lot of grown men and women that are are still boys and girls cuz they think someone else is coming to change their life the only thing that's valuable guys is how you see yourself in the mirror how you look at your shadow of life and are you happy walking next
to it no one's coming no one's coming everyone no one nobody is coming to take responsibility for your dreams nobody is coming and going to get that project done that you've been thinking about doing no one is coming coming to grow your business to heal your pain to improve your marriage or to make more money for you it is up to you it has always been up to you your life is your responsibility so what you slip up you fall down big deal that doesn't mean you stop do you give up or do you keep
going no one else forgives you learn to forgive yourself hold yourself up when everybody else says no you say yes it's time to take ownership you want your clothes wash Mama make the boy wash his clothes teach him how to separate the colors from the white mama let your boy cook teach him how to cook let him take ownership make him go grocery shopping he said well he'll not how to cook like me give him at least a day in give him two days take ownership teach him how to change the oil make it can
put gas in the car ownership I love my daughter to light but when we go when we go to the gas station my baby girl get out my baby girl get out and pump the gas somebody said why you make your why you make your queen to be why you make her why you make her pump gas cuz I need to teach her one day I might die on this plane and she need to know how to put the gas in the car and I was thinking about all the things you got from your time
in the seals and it's almost a bit of like a microcosm of what I think a lot of men are looking for you know that sense of Purp purp that Brotherhood and they find it these days in like video games and stuff right which I video games I've got no you know I cost no judgment on people that play video games I've played video games my whole life but there's a it seems like there's a reason we're getting like increasingly addicted to these video games because they're giving us something that we're searching for in real
life and not getting you use the words Brotherhood purpose these are things that the seals clearly have in huge huge amounts is there anything else that you'd add to that list of what it takes to feel fulfilled yeah Jiu-Jitsu it's it almost has become a joke amongst me my friends people that listen to me is you got some kind of a problem in the world you got some kind of problem in your life GO train Jiu-Jitsu there's a reason why I say that cuz the things that you just mentioned discipline guess what you need to
go train jiujitsu when you're tired and you don't feel like it discipline guess how you feel when you're done you feel awesome you get a bunch of dopamine guess who you're there with a bunch of dudes that you can relate to and guess what you're going to do together you're going to struggle you're GNA go through some some hardship together you're going to sweat you're going to choke you're going to get your arm broke and like these things are going to happen not going to get your arm broken but you may but you're going to
you're going to be with a little Brotherhood and by the way women train Jiu-Jitsu too my daughters all train Jiu-Jitsu it's all good it's all good so yeah Jiu-Jitsu is one way now look could you go to the Rock Climbing Gym yes you could could you go to the CrossFit gym yes you could could you go to the to the yeah the soccer field football field whatever yeah you can do that stuff so yeah go do that stuff go do that stuff that's shared suffering together with a group on a regular basis whether you want
to or not that's some that's those are all little components of being in the military being in the SEAL Teams that's what it is is that's what you're doing that's what what does a steel platoon do they train to get ready for go to war how do they do that they go to the desert they carry their guns they run through little choreographed moves they get hot they carry weight it's suffering it's just shared suffering and they're working together and they're learning skills that's what you're doing in a Jiu-Jitsu gym that's what you're doing on
the soccer field so go out and do those things with other human beings and it's going to make it's going to make things better for sure let's show me very closely make these boys grow up fellas take ownership don't you ever say you don't have some because of what somebody's doing so I need you to take ownership of your time of your what of your mind of your what oh come on y'all playing I used to get so mad at jayen Jaylen would get up I knew it was football day cuz he'd get up 6:00
in the morning his uniform was ready his shoes was ready and he would eat breakfast I'm like what's going on he like game day Friday Night Lights game day and I would be so upset and he like why you hating on me you hating on me dad like you can't stand I'm going to be a football player I'm going to leave you hating on me I said I'm not hating on you but what I hate is that the energy for school and the energy for life you don't have the same energy for that that you
got for football and girls all I'm asking for is the same energy you put in sports I'm asking for the same thing in terms of your mind [Music] [Music]
