you are about to be blessed with the gift of love the question is are you receiving this in the proper way God wanted you to come across this message for two possible reasons one there may be someone trying to pursue you right now or two he is giving you a heads up that someone special is coming your way very soon so answer this how sure are you that your heart is open to the person God is sending you new things are scary this is a belief we tend to hold on to you've probably been in
a few relationships without success you've probably been hurt or deceived when all you ever did was love these people now I get why trying again seems like an unappealing idea for you especially when your trust has been broken several times you don't want to get your hopes up and this is an attitude that can conflict with God's will for you Romans 5 5 says and hope does not put us to shame because God's love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us you don't always recognize God's
gifts he pours so much into details but we often don't have the ability nor the patience to notice his divine intervention do you know what fuels this nearsighted vision a lack of hope and trust in the Lord when someone doesn't want to engage in something they'll find a lot of reasons not to in the same way when one's heart is not filled with hope they'll find ways to dissociate themselves from the Lord's Grace they will let opportunities pass by and steer clear of any chance to develop a connection with a potential partner they are convinced
that they have given up on love and have locked their hearts up and in some scenarios they strictly adhere to their unrealistic worldly standards and automatically reject individuals without giving them the chance to prove themselves do any of these resonate with you look I don't want to force you to be romantically involved with someone just hear me out on this you find yourself with an opportunity to entertain a potential partner there's a big chance that this is the relationship God is orchestrating for you God is orchestrating for you and your chosen spouse we've already talked
about the signs to know if God sent this person but in this video let's delve into a more specific aspect of this relationship it's having your heart open to accept this person even when you don't really like the idea of it there's no doubt that everyone wants to meet their soulmate however there can be times when your soulmate is not who you are expecting there can also be situations where your zest for a relationship has diminished because of your failed attempts in the past so when you're caught in these types of situations not to welcome
your soul mate warmly in fact you might be pushing them away let's try and unpack the most common reasons behind this resistance so that you may avoid them the first possible rationale behind it is that you may be repulsed by the idea of falling in love again because you don't think they're right for you we know what we want but the truth is we don't really know what is best for us this applies to the people who come into our lives the human heart caves in easily to affection and shiny things so it can't be
a good critic of who our future spouse should be Proverbs 16 9 tells us in their hearts humans plan their course but the Lord establishes their steps you may not want to admit this but your heart has probably deceived you a hundred times without you even being aware of it especially when you're in love you tend to make excuses for these people because your heart is trying to trick your mind into thinking that this person is good for you as confirmed in Jeremiah 17 9 the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately sick who
can understand it have you ever Justified the misdeeds and red flags of the person you love being in love entails wearing rose-colored glasses we cannot actually see their true colors because we are blinded by love do you know how spouses that are victims of domestic abuse often cannot leave despite the horrible situation it's because some of them only see their abusers love for them they defend their abusive Behavior by saying that their abusers are loving and kind most of the time My ultimate point is that we often cannot rely on ourselves to decide what's best
for us because our hearts trick us only God knows who you need and he will guide you in this direction Proverbs 14 12 reads there's a way that seems right to a man but its end is the way to death the scripture is not only referring to literal death it can be the death of Hope and Dreams every single time that we trust our knowledge more than God we end up getting hurt and upset we have to acknowledge that we are very vulnerable when it comes to relationships and we need to start lifting this up
to the Lord he will lead you to your one true love in fact he may be doing so at this very moment give this person a chance to show you their true colors this is also the case with the denying someone a chance because you find them intimidating or challenging and you think them undeserving of Your Love God will put you with someone who will bring out the best in you and you have to be ready for this big challenge your soul mate will help test and strengthen your character and this can't be achieved by
someone you find easy trust God's judgment on this another possible explanation is this pushing someone away might have something to do with your Wounded Heart a broken heart is one of the biggest obstacles to entertaining someone new you may be hung up on someone else or still wounded from something in the past to cite Philippians 3 13. brothers and sisters I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it but one thing I do forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead see risking getting hurt is always there there may be
an unsettling feeling in trying again but the vision God has for your future relationship has so much to offer as Jeremiah 29 11 reminds us for I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord plans to prosper you and not to harm you plans to give you a hope and a future you can never get the full picture of his Majestic plans for you if you don't have the courage to perform a leap of faith you have to give this person the benefit of a doubt as long as their character reflects God's love
I'm not telling you to let this person heal you but rather let the opportunity of finally meeting your future partner motivate you to move forward from your unresolved issues so that you may welcome them with the utmost warmth they won't go anywhere no matter how hard you try to resist you might as well give in and let go of whatever is holding you back there is actually a myth suggesting that soul mates have this invisible string tied to their fingers if they are truly destined to be with each other the truth is that we don't
need to believe in the existence of this string of fate but we do need to know that God watches over both of you to make sure that you won't get far away from each other he is overseeing your growth as individuals and your progress when together the hypothetical string is just there to make sure that the two of you will eventually find each other but God aims to constantly provide wisdom to your relationship he puts in so much work on this sacred Covenant there is nothing that can alter his will even if you keep on
resisting this person will always be by your side his plan for the two of you will prevail in spite of your stubbornness if there is one thing we have learned from the story of Jonah it's the fact that we have the free will to neglect God's instructions but you won't get very far because he will continuously redirect you to his path Jonah's Escape was temporarily successful until the unthinkable happened he was swallowed by a big fish to send him back where God wanted him by pushing this person away you are following in Jonah's footsteps all
it does is delay you and your destined partner from sharing the love you both deserve you Foster fear and distrust of God's plans you are giving the devil something to be pleased with you might think so what if I can't deal with this person right now if they are truly the one they'll always come back right you're partly correct however this is a form of taking advantage of God's patience God won't let you meet your partner when he knows that you're not equipped to entertain them he knows that the two of you are ready for
each other he only needs you to get rid of the impurity in your heart that hinders you from receiving his message whether it's Pride or fear he is telling you that you have to let go of this because it is the season for you to engage with the right person what's meant for you will come in God's perfect timing now this may coincide with your preferred schedule but this shouldn't be a reason for you to turn your back on someone God has sent your way remember you only have one chosen partner there are no backups
and no replacements are you sure you want to distance yourself from the only partner you are meant to be with who would you rather be with than God's appointed spouse for you the Lord says in Isaiah 48 17. I am the Lord your God who teaches you what is best for you who directs you in the way you should go when someone attempts to pursue you God may be directing you explicitly to a special and blessed relationship all you have to do is open your heart to the gift of true love would it encourage you
if I told you that God is using this video to tell you that your time is coming and he's bringing a partner for you I'm sure you'll be encouraged you may have been praying over this matter for a while and beginning to think your time is passing you by but weep no more your time is coming trust in your heavenly father and he will give you the desires of your heart in this video I want to share five signs that God is bringing your partner or is about to bring your partner to you these signs
are divided into two categories spiritual and physical the purpose of these signs is to prepare you for the one God is bringing into your life you see God wants you to be happy and fulfilled in life this includes both your trying times and your triumphant times some people think that carrying your cross after Jesus means that God will stand against you having some of Life's good things that make you happy but that's not true Paul once asked the church the same thing in one of his letters to them in First Corinthians 9 3-7 [Music] my
defense to those who sit in judgment on me don't we have the right to food and drink don't we have the right to take a believing wife along with us as do the other Apostles and the Lord's Brothers in cephas or is it only I and Barnabas who lack the right to not work for a living who serves as a soldier at his own expense who plants a Vineyard and does not eat its grapes who tends A Flock and does not drink the milk like we say in all our videos concerning marriage you have to
accept that God has called you to a life of marital connection with someone then you deserve to have that as a blessing from him if God calls you to be a Christian rewards and glories are attached to that even if there are trials and challenges too therefore let these words be an encouragement to you as you see these signs connect and cooperate with God's spirit and open yourself to the blessings he is bringing into your life the first three signs that say your time is coming fall under the physical category this means you'll see them
around you or feel them within your heart and mind Although our feelings are sometimes unreliable God can use them to speak to us and guide us to his will the first on the list of the physical signs that your partner is coming is that you will develop a stronger sense of responsibility [Music] what does this mean dear child of God you see from the day you were born until the day you die you will go through different stages of life each of these stages requires changes in growth for you to survive them for instance an
infant will be nurtured for some time before they become ready to receive a formal education in a school setting then they are sent to school when that time comes they won't be handed a certificate or diploma at once they will have to start from the most basic class receiving their education training until they graduate from school alongside that at home they'd grow up to a point where they can start doing chores until they can live independently and fend for themselves as a healthy adult your son would not expect you to clean up after him like
you did when he was a year old infant similarly when you get closer to or reach that point when God wants you to be with someone he will begin to give you a more mature and robust sense of responsibility at that point you'll start thinking of two people yourself and whoever God will give you for a partner someday this mindset will become your motivation for financial responsibility a mature approach to life commitment to tasks and overcoming laziness or procrastination someone once said the most powerful person to ever encounter is the one with everything to lose
he will commit himself to protect it at all costs when you notice that even without much cajoling from anyone you find yourself thinking about how to improve yourself develop your skills learn communication break bad habits and become the best thing that can happen to someone else it's a sign that God is bringing your partner for you and your time is coming keep at it and let them meet you there [Music] the second physical sign that God is bringing your partner to you is that those around you will start inquiring if you have someone in your
life when people start talking a lot about someone in your life sometimes even confusing you for a married person it might be a sign that your time is coming however this might put some young people under pressure but you must not let it get to you answer inquiries wisely and politely don't accept any pressure ensure you shut out the noise that tries to force you into a premature Miracle remember your time coming does not mean your time is here instead be patient and trust the Lord answer those who ask kindly and continue to encourage everyone
around you to trust God with you you know it's your sign but they don't therefore without telling them place them in a position where they can help you practice your faith in God without any pressure so are there people asking you about your partner don't blush or shy away from it instead accept it by faith and tell them that God is working on that and you are waiting on him for the right person no one who trusts in God will be disappointed so don't worry about the inquiries it's God's sign that your own time is
coming foreign the third physical sign is that you begin to feel whole and complete in your singleness one of the most significant signs that you are not ready for a relationship or marriage is desperation if you are so desperate that you are open to accepting anyone into your life or jumping into the next relationship without finding out if it's from God you are not ready for the marriage you prayed for when you have come to deeply embrace your wholeness in Christ and you feel at home with yourself saying whether someone comes or not I am
choosing to be whole and enjoy my destiny the way God designed for me to be this is a sign that you are entering your season to receive that arrival of the chosen person when Jesus becomes most important in your life he will give you the things you need at the perfect time have you reached that point in your life where you are even willing to let someone you are emotionally attracted to walk away because you want to get it right with God and please him alone it's a sign that you are coming into your season
to meet your blessed partner then finally we have the last category spiritual [Music] these two are self-explanatory but let us quickly see them as we wrap this up the most important sign on the list is that you will receive an inner witness or revelation the thing with inner convictions is that they are challenging to put into words however deep down you know them it's how you know you are a child of God and keep following Jesus even when you feel like the worst sinner the inner witness or revelation of the Holy Spirit to you either
through dreams or visions is the foundation of faith in the work of God whether in marriage or in any other area of life when God speaks to you through whatever means he uses that's an undeniable sign that someone is coming to be your god-ordained partner start getting ready for their arrival so that the two of you can Journey the road of life together and become all that God wants you to be second on the list is a stronger sense of prayer and confidence in God Psalm 37 5-7 says commit your way to the Lord trust
in him and he will do this he will make your righteous rewards shine like the dawn your Vindication like the Noonday son be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him do not fret when people succeed in their ways when they carry out their wicked schemes when you receive and notice a more powerful inclination to pray and find rest and trust in God it's a sign that your time is coming in fact peace in the place of prayer is a sign that God has heard you a great sign of faith and a reason to
trust and praise God even more Prayer Changes Things it breaks and builds stuff inside you it helps you depend on God more the more you pray according to the word of God in faith without desperation you prepare yourself to receive the blessing he has for you have you started praying my friend know that God answers prayers when they are prayed with faith and an obedient heart don't forget that a good partner prays and a good home is built by Working Hands United hearts and praying knees be patient keep praying and wait on the Lord while
you build yourself to be all he wants you to be that special man or woman will come at the right time in our journey of love and companionship it's crucial to seek Divine guidance a pivotal question you should pose is what's God's message about this person in my life this question is of utmost importance as we navigate the tumultuous Waters of decisions and Life Choices often we might act hastily leading to outcomes that don't align with God's grand design for us so let me urge you to take a pause and sincerely ask God's counsel when
faced with such a crucial decision now you might wonder have I consulted with God about my relationship have I sought his opinion on my partner Divine communication is an ever-present ongoing dialogue discussing every facet of your existence however you may sometimes feel disconnected from God's signals not because he's silent but because your attention might be misdirected remember God in his Almighty wisdom has countless means to converse with you you may yearn for a spoken word or a clear signal feeling distressed when they don't materialize however this lack of perceived communication doesn't indicate Divine silence instead
it could suggest that God's reaching out in a different perhaps more subtle way God's love for you is unwavering and profound as a beloved child of God your well-being is his utmost concern his love for you is so strong that he even uses rebuke and chastisement as tools of instruction this is clearly stated in Revelation 3 19-20 where it reads those who my dearly and Tenderly love I tell their faults and convict and convince and reprove and chase them I discipline and instruct them so be enthusiastic and enernst with burning and Zeal and repent changing
your mind and attitude behold I stand at the door and knock therefore it's essential to hold on and not let go of your partner when you recognize God's signs it may not always be as clear as you'd like but rest assured that God is guiding you you might not be able to hear his voice audibly but he could be talking to you through your circumstances your friends and family or even your conscience his messages could be hidden in the beauty of nature or in the challenges you face each day when you truly lend an ear
to his wisdom much like Revelation 3 20 suggests a Divine banquet of understanding is shared inviting God into your heart making space for him at your table permits you to fully comprehend his plan for your union at times The Winds of conflict May blow against your relationship stirring storms of misunderstandings or differences despite the turmoil remember that the Creator with his omnipotent view is fully aware of your tribulations his gentle whisper might be prompting number one if you've been led to someone with immense potential yet presently immersed in their sanctifications early challenging stages Divine guidance
might be nudging you not to lose hope but caution is key here for we mustn't let our desires Cloud our perception as Believers we acknowledge the Bible's guidance for nurturing healthy god-honoring relationships yet aligning to these mandates requires maturity sanctification is a transformative Journey God gradually matures his followers through his grace leading us toward the path of righteousness it's often fought with trials and tribulations particularly in its early phase embracing Christ in the new life he bestows one must sever ties with their old self and their sin nature this is a Monumental struggle for as
stated in Romans 7 20. now if I do what I do not want to do it is no longer I who do it but it is sin living in me that does it even though we're New Creations the residue of our sin nature remains with us consider Colossians 3 1 . since then you have been raised with Christ set your hearts on things above where Christ is seated at the right hand of God which encourages those reborn in Christ to seek Heavenly Pursuits however in verse 5 put to death therefore whatever belongs to your Earthly
nature sexual immorality impurity lust evil desires and greed which is idolatry the same chapter reminds us of a responsibility to eliminate sinful inclinations still harbored Within the subsequent verses urge us to embody virtues granted by God through Christ advocating for kindness humility patience and above all love the Cornerstone that harmonizes everything beautifully in this sanctification Journey remember growth is a process not an event it's gradual filled with trials triumphs and tribulations recognizing the difference between someone stuck in sinful habits without signs of repentance and growth and someone going through the early chaotic stages of sanctification
is crucial therefore if you see potential in an individual undergoing the tumultuous early stages of sanctification it may be a sign from God to remain hopeful yet exercise discernment if there's a persistent pattern of sinful Behavior with little evidence of repentance or progress that might not be a relationship to hold on to invoking Divine wisdom is crucial in this situation trust in God's promises to guide you he will shed light on whether it's a case of someone struggling through the sanctification process or simply living in unrepentant sin stand firm in faith allowing God's wisdom to
steer you right while fostering love and patience throughout this journey number two perhaps there are times when the Allure of Freedom calls out to you the promise of solitude appears comforting in the prospect of exploring potential connections elsewhere seems enticing you find yourself caught in a complex web of emotions yearning for a release but struggling to find a sound reason or a gentle way to initiate the separation it's as if an invisible force is holding you back compelling you to reconsider to hold on to endure do these moments of confusion and indecision seem familiar it's
possible that this is not just a random tug of war of feelings this could be God speaking to your heart urging you not to surrender not to let go of this person just yet when you find it challenging to put an end to a relationship despite your deep-seated desire to break free it may be a Divine sign it may seem as though God is withholding the go-ahead for you to execute your exit plan you might find yourself questioning why do I still feel Tethered to this person why can't I sever this Bond this invisible force
this lingering connection that makes you pause could be God's way of telling you that he's not granted you the green light to end things there's a reason why God might be sending you these signals compelling you to remain patient to hold on to love the shared Memories the companionship and the mutual affection and perhaps you've tried to let go to experience Solitude only to find peace elusive not because you're undeserving of happiness but because God has a grander more Splendid plan for you a plan beyond your current understanding or foresight this divine intervention is profound
because it serves as an emblem of God's desire for you to persevere to hold on to this person it's not a mere coincidence that you can't find an easy way out it's a signal from God urging you to remain patient to persist through the challenges because he has a plan for the both of you this is God's way of telling you hold on don't let go of that person when you notice these signs number three when the person in question who might have wronged you displays not just remorse but a genuine and sustained repentance in
every relationship there are moments of pain and strife some wounds so deep that it seems impossible for trust to bloom again yet there are also instances when a hurtful action albeit not cataclysmic still results in an irrevocable change in our emotions towards the other person now as followers of Christ Our ethos guides us to always forgive be kind and compassionate to one another forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you Ephesians 4 32. eat in a romantic liaison a friendship or a bond with a family member forgiveness is our Christian Duty however it's
crucial to remember that in the realm of dating forgiveness doesn't necessitate an everlasting Bond you're not obligated to continue a romantic relationship despite forgiving the person who's wrong you it might sometimes be necessary to put up boundaries or end a relationship even while be still in forgiveness yet the Divine tapestry of love and life is complex and unpredictable sometimes a person might inflict deep pain but the almighty could bestow upon you the grace to forgive and reconcile now this reconciliation isn't merely superficial forgiveness it's about restoring the relationship to its original state before the hurtful
event occurred and remember such reconciliation should only be considered if there's a genuine willingness on both sides to reunite and if there's authentic repentance this authentic repentance isn't a hollow fleeting apology not just a regretful text message followed by an attempt to brush the issue under the carpet no genuine repentance manifests as a sincere plea for forgiveness and is accompanied by tangible consistent efforts towards amending past mistakes so if you find yourself in the position where you deeply care for someone who has hurt you and you perceive God granting you the grace to reconcile coupled
with the person showing you signs of sincere repentance then it could be a Divine hint that you shouldn't lose hope in the relationship God might indeed be urging you to hold on and not let go Embrace his wisdom listen to his Whispers and let his Divine guidance illuminate your path remember relationships can be complex and love is a beautiful challenge but above all it's our faith in God and His Divine signs that can help us navigate these intricate paths because God is specifically hand-picked someone to be your life partner we know that only he can
lead us to this person as God tells us in Jeremiah 1 5 before I shaped you in the womb I knew all about you before you saw the light of day I had plans for you however he does not intend to keep this information to himself a common misinterpretation about God's wisdom is that he is not available for ordinary humans like us some people think that we have to beg for his knowledge and assistance they mistake God for a selfish father that leaves them out of his plans involving our relationships why can't God just reveal
who our chosen partner is from the get-go this question seems frustrating doesn't it what makes us different is this we know that our faith is not a form of begging but rather an expression of love when one begs it means that their hearts are conquered by fear and Desperation on the other hand our faith in God is rooted in the complete confidence that he will show us the right path if any of you lacks wisdom he should ask God who gives generously to all without finding fault and it will be given to him God is
Not withholding information from us he gifted us his holy spirit for a reason can you imagine that he gave him to us so that our hearts are filled with his wisdom well this is the reality having said this you should know that one of the responsibilities of the holy spirit is to lead you to your chosen partner yeah God never left you on your own in the dating scene you have the Holy Spirit as your personal counsel and I assure you that he is the only one who can correctly tell you who your future spouse
should be as per God's plan here are undeniable signs that the holy spirit will give you to let you know that someone is the one God has chosen for you the first one is when he brings the two of you closer through Godly ways let's revisit one of the responsibilities of the Holy Spirit within us he brings us gifts as we obey the word of God Galatians 5 22 says but the fruit of the spirit is love joy peace forbearance kindness goodness faithfulness you see you are entitled to joy peace kindness and all the other
fruit mentioned earlier because the spirit is already in your heart the amazing thing about this is that his presence will attract light-hearted Souls first John chapter 4 verse 12. no one has ever seen God if we love one another God abides in us and his love is perfected in US they say that you attract who you are and knowing that you are a loyal and blessed follower of Christ who has so much love to give you are bound to get closer to someone who is the same when this happens there is a very high possibility
that you are already looking at your future soulmate the holy spirit will help magnify both your characteristics and put a spotlight on The Lovable qualities you exhibit so that the two of you can develop a stronger connection in the story of Ruth and Boaz can you remember what actually ignited the spark between them Boaz fell in love with Ruth's selflessness and diligence while Ruth admired his generosity and fairness both are exemplary models of God's servants and the fruit of the Holy Spirit radiated with so much magnitude in them so it was very easy for them
to get closer to each other know that when God lets you meet your chosen partner he will make sure that your relationship is grounded on a solid foundation of his love First Corinthians 3 verse 11 reads for no one can lay a foundation other than that which is laid which is Jesus Christ everything should start and end with our Almighty father including your blossoming relationship this entails bonding through activities that benefit your spirituality someone who is able to nurture greater connections to your faith is very rare but this is the exact type of person God
wants for you believe me there is no margin for error on this I want you to look at how your relationship with this person progresses are they influencing you in the right way love is so powerful that it can either make you or break you I'm saying that it's an element that plays a huge role in shaping you to be a more faithful believer but if love is given by the wrong person it can take you away from God's grace a famous saying goes to love at all is to be vulnerable and if you're going
to put all your cards on the table and open your heart to someone it's very important that you are doing this for the person God sent to be with you in first John 4 19. we are told that we love because he first loved us the holy spirit will let you see how the Journey of love you are about to embark on reflects God's eternal love for you and the most noticeable demonstration of this is when your faith grows as you bond with each other the next sign is when your heart is prepared for marriage
with this person I'll start off strong here by reciting Romans 12 9. let love be genuine abhor what is evil hold fast to what is good get this genuine love is the ultimate thing God wants you to share with your future spouse something that this will never include is dating without the end goal of marriage in mind can you imagine dating someone you know you won't ever marry it says a lot about The Superficial kind of relationship you're going after it speaks volumes about your intentions for this person because if you don't want to have
this person as your future wife or husband then what do you want it could be just affection attention or pleasure and this is worrying if this is your outlook on relationships at the moment there is a great chance that you're not with your destined partner yet the problem with people nowadays is that they keep choosing to be with Partners who can keep them satisfied in the short run without consideration for the plan of marriage God has authored for them the moment they were born if you date someone Unworthy of marriage all you're going to get
is a broken scarred heart the Holy Spirit anticipates the arrival of your partner and so he makes sure to prepare you for them he helps guard your heart and ensures that it is pure and pleasing in God's eyes when he lets you meet the one he wants for you you will feel in your heart that you are willing to indulge in a lifelong commitment with them because the spirit is your ultimate counsel he will never ask you to be with someone Unworthy of your genuine love another sign is when you are not held back by
anything at all you know that you can go through anything and everything with this person [Music] first John 4 18 reads there is no fear in love but perfect love casts out fear for fear has to do with punishment and whoever fears has not been perfected in love [Music] perfect love casts out fear believe it or not we are consistent recipients of God's perfect love God is the only one who loves you perfectly 24 7. the reason why he does this is for us to share this gift of love with our neighbors most especially with
our soon-to-be spouses so if they are the right one the spirit will strongly encourage you to be with them without anything holding you back without past issues trauma or doubt but only with overwhelming and genuine love do you think that God has ever had reservations about loving us Humanity can bring out the worst in ourselves honestly we are guilty of so many sins every day we are prone to Temptation and we often lose our Direction but not once did God disown us his love isn't conditional it's not do this and I'll love you after and
this powerful Spirit of love envelops us so that we should not dare to have the audacity to be afraid to give and receive love it wouldn't be right to profess and believe that God is love while you're out there being prevented by fear from loving this person with all your might for example you may have met the love of your life but can't pursue them because of matters such as differences or socioeconomic status there may be a person who you truly love but you can't take a chance on them because you think they're too good
for you or they deserve someone better than you if you feel this way about them and you really can't get over your fear of going all in they aren't the one for you Bertrand Russell once said to fear love is to fear life the love your future partner deserves is Limitless it should overpower all your worries and insecurities it should make you stronger this is what the spirit will put in your heart when you're facing the one God sent you you have a compass a map a tour guide in every tool possible to help you
find your way to your chosen partner and this is the holy spirit of the Lord he is accessible anywhere and anytime actively seek God and ask him to purify your heart and mind so that you can be confident in listening to what is being communicated to you God has been telling us that the right one will find us with ease the only thing you have to do now is to verify if this person is who he was talking about let me guess you're in an extreme state of confusion about the path of your relationship with
someone your heart and mind seem to be panicking about this person but they're not really against each other it's more like your insides are feeling a little shaky with the thought that you may have just found your one true love all I can tell you right now is the fact that you're feeling confused is a good thing it's one of the indicators that you're carefully assessing your way to God's promise of marriage you know many will tell you that when you meet your chosen partner you'll just know in an instant you'll feel at home even
if you don't know each other that well your heart feels safe and secure with this person and ultimately they have a Godly character while this can be true it's possible to feel this way even with the wrong one not to burst your bubble or anything but these things can be manipulated unconsciously it can be caused by emotional vulnerability or deception from the enemy let's be honest how many times did you enter a relationship because this is exactly what you felt with them Maldives are very good signs they can't fully guarantee that you're with the one
you're destined to be with knowing instantly is not all it takes genuine love is slow and steady it takes time to develop what makes people think that anyone can figure out who the right one is in a snap so even after these feelings being confused is better than carelessly going with the flow it means that your brain is doing its work exercising your wisdom because if you have nothing to be concerned about your heart is most likely onto something but you know what they say the heart is always after shiny nice things Proverbs 19 2
reminds us desire without knowledge is not good and whoever makes haste with his feet misses his way the Heart Wants What It Wants but it's not always what's right for you that's why your mind chimes in and creates a desire for clarification which can only be achieved when you're confused and curious with this let me tell you three solid reasons as to why God's allowing confusion in your heart even if you've already met the one first the Lord is testing your faith in order to drive you closer to him was there ever a follower of
God in the Bible that instantly knew what the right choice was all who believed in him sought his word they cried they screamed they prayed day and night to alleviate their pain they were all confused at one point in Amos 5 4-6 for thus says the Lord to the house of Israel seek me that you may live see the responsibility of seeking the Lord is not paused just because he already sent you your destined partner it's not your happy ending yet nor your final destination you're feeling confused because there's still wisdom and guidance God has
yet to provide you it's a sign that you need them now more than ever because if God gave everyone the confidence to declare who the right person was he knows that our faith would inevitably decrease you wouldn't seek him anymore because you wouldn't need him for anything and what kind of life would there be to live when one didn't need a God to guide them is this how you want to live the ultimate sign of knowing that you've met the one is when you connect with God more strongly confusion is what drives you closer because
it entails seeking answers from him the description of God in Isaiah 26 3 states you will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast because they trust in you our God is a God of Peace he'll Supply your heart with the Tranquility it so desperately begs for but the key here according to the scripture is that God will only fulfill this when you have absolute trust in him that's right he needs Assurance from you that you're committed to a give and take relationship with him before you can pour your heart out to your chosen
partner now confusion is a temporary element that brings out your ability to trust him this is temporary my friend it's normal to feel it but it's not meant to last Psalm 119 165 further confirms great peace have those who love your law and nothing can make them stumble by conquering this emotion you demonstrate your love for God's word many people don't realize this particular emotional state is an opportunity Allowed by God not a punishment from him viewing it is a sign that God is inactive and unresponsive will make your faith falter and this is not
God's intention at all do not let yourself be discouraged by this emotion it's something that calls for a response that glorifies his name and strengthens your relationship with him don't run away from confusion instead wholeheartedly accept it and run towards God knowing that your relationship with him is stable he will surely bless the lifelong partnership you're set to partake in one thing you should never forget is that God's loyalty is unmatched the second reason is this you're going through a big adjustment in your life's seasons Daniel 2 21 reads he changes times and Seasons he
disposes Kings and raises up others he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to the discerning God appoints kings in the same way he equips us for the right relationship after all your duties as partners involve leading each other and your family towards Christ you know how God anointed leaders in the Bible such as David Saul Solomon and many more well he had criteria these were king's crown based on God's standards and let me Loop you into what God looked for in first Samuel 16 7. do not consider how handsome or tall he is I
have not chosen him I do not look at the things people look at man looks at how someone appears on the outside but I look at what is in the heart God is looking at the content of your heart right now I'll tell you what he sees a confused heart with extraordinary determination to seek his wisdom this is a scientific fact right here experts believe that confusion highlights your qualities because it serves as a motivation for you to continue persevering your mind is boggled 24 7 because of your future life partner and in turn your
desire for understanding and solving this matter grows greatly it gives you more room for growth psychologically emotionally and spiritually you're most likely to crave more wisdom and knowledge from God when your confusion cannot let your mind rest and in this the Lord will notice that your heart is going after his confusion fuels your hunger for God's response this is what he wants to see in your heart before he gives you clarification on your relationship with this person the bottom line here is that he's preparing you for a chapter of your life that will undeniably be
tougher than before this sacred commitment requires a better version of yourself don't you think you'll soon be responsible for the upbringing of your family while you're fulfilling your Destinies as a Believer it involves double the work but a hundred fold the blessings and so God wants to confirm that you are independently up to his standard lastly being in a state of confusion is a checkpoint that requires you to recall all the lessons you've learned before and prepare to apply them to the next chapter of your life with your soulmate now you've met the life partner
God wants you to be with this isn't a simple shift in your life all right meeting the one for the first time is a unique event that you can only experience once given this you won't be a hundred percent sure how to proceed with this kind of relationship it'll be overwhelming in both good and bad ways but guess what being confused is a promising factor for you to learn how to respond to this new and complex situation it helps you to look back and recall all of God's efforts in guiding you through every trial including
all the lessons you've learned from them have you ever struggled to solve an issue but then you realize that the solution was the same as in the previous situation we were taught in school that as we move up the academic ladder we start with learning the basic lessons so that we can apply them to more complex Concepts similarly when you're confused God's asking you to take a moment and recollect the lessons you've learned from your past relationships what worked what didn't what needs to be improved by answering these you can become more confident in handling
your relationship with your partner let's face it if you're not even puzzled when meeting your future spouse would you even think of pouring more effort into entering this relationship God can let you feel mystified when you meet the one in order for him to connect you with more confirm the preparation he's done for you in this new season of your life and recollect his past teachings the moment you let these sink in you'll know that being confused is not a power play from God it only shows the amount of care and thought he puts into
your relationship with this person remember we're talking about God's designated partner for you naturally he wants to ensure that you're prepared second Peter 1 10 emphasizes therefore Brethren be all the more diligent to make certain about his calling and choosing you for as long as you practice these things you will never stumble the right relationship will challenge you fully challenge entails confusion which will drive you to be diligent if you escape from it you're not giving God the chance to Enlighten you about the blessings of love in front of you on the other hand once
you embrace it you can take confidence in the fact that you're doing everything that you can to confirm his calling for your relationship as long as you trust Our God of Peace you can never be confused for too long
