in order to improve your relationships or in all relationships are based on who based on who yourself that means you will not let somebody who doesn't fit your model of thinking in your life say for example this guy or this girl comes in your life and they're honest and they're true and they would make you happy forever but you're not used to that you know what you do say you're just too dead i'm boring i don't have anything to relate to you with and then you have another guy comes in and he is just like
your mother or your father or your brother your uncle whoever it is then all of a sudden just feels comfortable i mean just somehow just i mean it's just sparks are flying and of course they always say they weren't like that when i first met them but you probably trained them right all right some of you may have seen this before but this is a fact in order for you to get something better in order for you to have a better loving relationship in order for you to become more spiritual if you believe in spirituality
in order for you to be emotionally happy there are several things that must occur and it always occurs we're all on different paths and we're all different levels [Music] of course when you come into this world they whoever they is in your life are teaching you and programming you to be like them that means if your mom has jealousy issues anger issues lonely issues rejection issues or your father or your brothers or your sisters or somehow you magically created these they're going to pass down their best that means it's going to go in you you're
going to watch them do it and then all of a sudden you're just going to be picking up the stick as if it was a cigarette you see the little kids do that don't you you do the exact same thing you keep repeating the pattern the only way you're going to ever outgrow that is you have to let go of one one major major the only way you're ever going to outgrow that is you do one major thing but you must there's a level to getting that to that one major thing first of all you
must understand that you must take full ownership of self now of course if you don't take full ownership of yourself you're always going to blame who it was my mother's fault that's why i'm screwed up it's my past that's why i'm screwed up it's my current boyfriend my ex-boyfriend my current girlfriend my ex-boyfriend that's why right so when you start taking full ownership of self you have to also begin to understand that within yourself there's what they call the power of the mind body connection now what does what does that mean power the mind-body connection
a few moments ago i asked you to remember a time you felt love now you went inside your mind and as you went back inside your mind you began to look and you found something and all of a sudden it became real in your body didn't it and your blood pressure and your heart your kidneys your liver your spleen all your organs begin to manifest after the mind and so what we want to understand is the power of the mind body connection now let's think about it if you're angry and upset that is because of
the power of the mind body connection why are you angry and upset because one we realize i'm the one doing it to me full ownership right and that's the key now again even though you know this part even though you say i know it's my fault i know that i know it's all me and yeah i know it's my body and my mind and this that's not going to solve your problems you realize if you know this it doesn't solve your problems isn't that right okay so here you take an ownership i understand it's me
all right i realize it's because of my mind my body i don't know why it's to other problems i'm still doing it the second part is you must make peace with everything in you with everything in you you must make peace with everything within you now what does that mean make peace you know we talked about earlier we're talking about when you go to a memory and within this memory you're creating it you're manifesting and you're remembering something and you're you're say you're playing a movie you're watching this movie inside your mind you're watching dad
or mom or you and somebody and as you play this memory you feel it all right so each and every character each and every memory within your mind is you now if you're playing this memory and it's not a good one i suggest making peace with it making peace with it means i forgive you dead i forgive myself but you still play the memory you didn't make peace with it that means what i believe is when you make peace with it you actually do what the bible says what jesus said not understood the bible but
jesus and the and what he is saying is making peace with the enemy and the enemy is within us so when you turn over to god you turn it over completely where it's not within you does that make sense that would be completely releasing all and every emotion attached to it that means it will never play within you ever again truly turn over to god you know how many christians i run to and said oh i gave it to god and i found out they were lying i mean they just were bawling and angry and
pissed and bothered because they held it when you turn over to god it's god this means it's not yours anymore and turning over to god means this doing what god would do what would god do so when you make peace with it that means three or four make peace forgive forgive now forgiveness is not saying i'm sorry forgiveness is not saying you know whatever forgiveness is truly let it go it happened to happen big deal is over now and five become non-attached non-attached it's not me anymore non-attached it's not me it's just something to happen
to know it's made up you know i've told the story some of you may or may not heard at the story about my father beating me with a hammer you know it was a real story but now it's not it's a fairy tale it's not real at all it's all made up at one time it was real even years afterwards real until i i did this process right here i made peace with it completely changed it so so the real deal with all this stuff you're truly doing what you're truly letting go of what well
definitely memories but what are you truly doing well triggers definitely triggers you're truly letting go six truly letting go i can't even spell i can't write this way go of p a i n pain this is what you're looking for releasing the pain releasing now pain is also hurt sadness fears rejections abandonments betrayals and anything else that is not healthy that's that's not pleasurable does that make sense all right so this is the process in which you want to get to the top of this pyramid all right these are the different levels of love you
hear what i'm saying these are the different levels of love how do you get to this top part one you release the pain now how do you release the pain you follow the process now the the process is truly making peace with everything within you making peace with every character that you interact with making peace and releasing the pain forgiving being non-attached and truly letting it go that means the character which will probably be your father or your mother usually you know that's where it all began you know i think i worked with a couple
of young children like one of them was six the other was nine and one of them had big time i would say let's see what do you call that correct linda was that called that boy switched it backwards yeah really severe like 96 dyslexic you know teachers you know he'd write his name in the snow completely backwards i mean they said chronic dyslexic you know and of course they call me and i'm working on the phone and then we started cleaning all this stuff and i worked with them again and i worked with his little
sister and it's a funny thing you know because you know i know you know most of our problems we're kids where they come from our parents no because well well it could be whoever raised you but usually most of us are raised by parents so so here it is how are you going to move up you're releasing letting go of pain releasing letting go of pain you're addressing emotions you're addressing the memories you're adjusting the experiences you're addressing the relationship with your mother your brother your boss your coworker whoever it is that pushes your buttons
now right as you do this what happened you'll naturally start to evolve and the more you evolve the healthier your life is the better your life is because you are in control emotionally you hear what i'm saying it's all about the emotions all of it if anybody ever really read what jesus talked about he's talking about emotional intelligence that's it you know he never used the word sin either did you know that some of you may went to church do you know he never used the word sin ever it was sin came into existence and
when king james translated and jesus used a phrase you're missing the mark is what he said you're missing your divine potential and what what really he's saying is that you're missing what you're supposed to do that's it just a mistake make adjustments when you start making the adjustments letting go you start to evolve if you think about you know any any issue that you will have breaks down to how do you know you have it it's an expression in the body you feel it stress is lean cause of death stress lean cause relationship problems stress
clean cause of illness 75 to 90 percent of all doctors visits or stress related complaints stress is what he was talking about he called it expressions of the body lust of the flesh he called it it was translated probably translated to sin you make a mistake that's it so if you start releasing if you believe in this stuff if you start releasing even if you don't believe in even if jesus never existed you know it doesn't matter this here makes good sense and you know the interesting thing is you start letting go of your stresses
your pains and all your worries guess what happens to your life it's hard to feel bad unless you work hard at it and you have to work really hard because if you start tapping on this stuff you're gonna have to dig deep find it you're gonna have to start going to family reunions to find problems i mean seriously does that make sense i'll tell you this i'll use this uh uh this is what happens this is this is the structure of problems let's say for example this big event this emotional thing happened to you okay
and we're gonna do the emotional level of this from zero to ten ten is really big all right so whatever your father did five years old okay now when you're 10 years old or 15 years old 20 years old when you go think about it it's like boom you don't go there it's a 10. but then you start going to therapy or you go you start writing stuff and burning it and you try and i say it dropped from a 10 to a 9 or 8 and a half now the the structure with problems is
problems has its layers and it'll take a lifetime if you don't understand the structure of problems that means it could lessen over 30 years but i prefer 30 minutes i mean it'll save you lots of time lots of money lots of effort but you have to have something that is thorough and addressing the entire system all at one time that's what this does it's a clean concise clear way to make deep profound inner shifts the key is truly releasing the pain and you'll find the pain inside the memory changing the meaning and internal representation of
that memory will completely change your life period that's the key now of course when i first started this work and i started getting people getting mad at me because i wanted to screw up with their bad memories then i found out that's where the problem is people didn't want to let go of their pain because they thought they would lose their identity i said funny thing you picked bad things to create an identity with what about all the good things why don't you focus on those does that make sense so what what it is is
that we're knocking layers now some you know i've had people who've been in therapy for years matter of fact they're therapists what sorry my pronunciation did very well and they said i've already dealt with that i said okay let's just make sure guess what they cried the biggest of the ones they thought they dealt with they did deal with it they kept it right here and we want to do it we go back and you can never ever make it bother you again even when you try that's the key now if you keep them all
there and you can you use this as a program to create an identity you're going to have that identity that's not a good identity so we'll go back clear it out clean it up make peace with your inner self and the only way you're going to do is you go to the memory period if you don't want to go to that memory well enjoy because the mem the saying that i use memories bear alive never die they will show back up in another pair of shoes usually in a bigger more uglier way now that also
happens the exact same way in the positive two by the way guys good memories buried alive never die they keep showing up but i will tell you this if you got a dog fight between two dogs and the mean dog you've been feeding and playing with a lot more than a good one guess which one's going to win the mean dog guys you're going to start playing with the good dog a little bit more and what i mean by playing with a good dog you need to get your happy journal out you need to start
practicing feeling good you need to start focusing on good things you're making a point to go feel good for no apparent reason other than you choose to do so now if you start doing that your life is going to naturally change which one happy for no good reason
