in this video I'm going to teach you how to talk to an attractive girl and never run out of things to say so many times I I hear this complaint from a guy how do I keep a conversation going what do we say on a date all right you guys struggle with approaching girls or even on the date or a girl you've been seeing you want to you want to have that aura about yourself that you're the kind of guy that can just have a great conversation with a girl regardless of where you are and
I'm going to teach you how to to do it right now let's jump right into the video the first thing that you must do when you're talking to an attractive girl so you don't run out of things to say is to forget that she's attractive forget that she's attractive and as a matter of fact focus on a flaw a lot of guys get nervous myself including in the past where you're talking to a girl and you let her looks overcome you you become damn near paralyzed because the girl is just so attractive you start fumbling
over your words and you you're wondering why you can't have a good conversation is because you're so worried about making a good impression because you find her so attractive I need you to start looking at the girl like a human being start humanizing her no matter how beautiful you think she is forget that focus on the floor does she got a nostril hair coming out of her nose or her eyebrows perfectly done or they look kind of weird find something you don't like about her maybe one of her teeth is crooked or maybe her side
you know she got one one teeth that's y more yellow than the others find something you don't like it will allow you to be more present humanize the girl and be more nonchalant one of the things that helped me with this that I think I've mentioned here on YouTube before is when I was in Colombia I used to go to a gym for like 3 years with some of the most hottest girls I've ever been around in my life I can't stress enough how this helped me tremendously with women not because I went to the
gym and I was a thirsty dude it just got me comfortable being around hot chicks it got me so comfortable being around hot girls if a girl wasn't super hot I would barely even notice her and even if a girl was super hot it would be like well whatever I see this every day that to me was probably one of the biggest elevations of my game going to that gym like I don't know what it was about that it was just like being around super hot chicks I was a social person somebody came up and
talk to me I would talk to them right but I kept to myself and what I ended up doing was even though girl I saw girls who were beautiful I will find flaws in them right I wouldn't be gking at them I wouldn't be staring at them I would be like yeah she look good but she don't got this going on she look good but she got this kind of messed up she like she got this but her swag is off I'll be used to seeing beautiful girls communicating with them and not being overwhelmed by
their beauty so humanize the girl bringing her back down on Earth find a flaw and as I can take it a step further put yourself around High chicks if you're put if you put yourself around hot girls man I'm telling you bro it's going to make it you're going to be like talking to hot girls is going to be like a way of life for you the second thing you must do is speak with your eyes as much as your lips what does that mean guys the eyes never lie you can you can display a
lot of confidence a lot of being calm a lot of non blindness with your eyes you can display a lot of thirstiness a lot of hunger a lot of neediness with your eyes your lips can say something but your eyes can say a different thing women can tell when you're super into them based on how you're looking at them based on how you're looking at them she can tell how you feel about her you got this Blank Stare she know you're into her she keeps catching you looking at her ass she knows you're into her
she keeps catching you looking at her boobs she knows you're into her you can't maintain eye contact without looking so stargazed she knows that you're into her you got a twinkle in your eyes you're blushing you're looking down you're looking left you're looking right she knows that you're into her eye contact matters just as much if not more than what's coming out of your lips you can be saying the best things out of your mouth but if your eyes are telling something else or saying something else they don't look confident they don't look sure you
look nervous and hungry or you look like oh my god I've never been around a girl so hot before your eyes are going to show you see how confident I'm looking at you I ain't trying to sleep with none of you [ __ ] I like girls right so you see how I'm looking imagine when you're talking to a guy you're you're a guy you like girls like you're not thinking of other thoughts you just having a conversation that's the same way you should talk and look with a beautiful girl you can maintain eye contact
with your fellow man you should be able to maintain eye contact with a girl if you struggle with eye contact in general this is a problem of yours that you need to fix because if you're not sure of yourself if you're looking away looking down looking up looking right looking left or you just look star struck a lot of you guys be looking Star Struck you with a girl you oh my god oh she's so hot oh my God look at those boobs look at that CH look look your eyes tell it all so do
as much speaking with your eyes be so calm M make her nervous when you're looking at her when you're talking to her make her nervous not by gawking and staring and having a Blank Stare by just being confident with your eyes your eyes don't look they're not jumpy they're not startled there's no stargaze in your look you look very calm you look very very very nonchalant you got to take it or leave it look you're not overly smiling overly geeked out overly frowning you're not not trying to force like you're so angry either you just
have a a poker face you can't read any emotion from me I'm not sad I'm not angry I'm not upset but I'm not super excited I'm not oh my Lord I'm talking to a girl I find attractive number three you want to listen to understand not respond this is something that I see guys struggle with so much so I give my guys I give my students to record themselves speaking so I can hear it right whenever they speaking to a girl record yourself speaking so I can hear that conversation and give you feedback on how
you can improve a lot of guys what they struggle with is when they're approaching a girl or they're talking to a beautiful girl they'll listen more to respond you're waiting for her to say something so you can just go on with your script in your head you should never be going up to a girl or having a conversation with a girl and you have a script in your mind the more scripted you look the more tried hard you look the more forced you look you don't want to look forced you don't want to look try
hard all right so take the scripts out of your mind and listen to understand like a a lot of what being a good conversationalist means is you're understanding what they're saying and then you can you can resonate the way you stay in tuned and you look like you're actually paying attention is to pay attention don't just let what she's telling you go in one in out the other if you're asking her things about herself and she's told you oh yeah I'm from Jamaica I'm from I'm from the Netherlands right and then you say this or
you say that and it comes across like you didn't even hear what she just said she could tell that you're not really paying attention you're just following the script or worse you repeat what you asked her before oh my Lord if if you're talking to a girl and you ask the same question twice they give away that you're not paying attention they give away that you're not present they give away that you're not confident because if you were confident you would be able to stay present a lot of this just means staying as present as
possible when you're talking to women the more present she she deems you as the more the more open she's going to be and the more comfortable she's going to be and the better she's going to allow you to leave this conversation to where it should go where it should go is where you want it to go number four ask followup questions this leads from the last point one thing that I've gotten really really good at is asking people follow-up questions and especially when talking to a really attractive girl if you want to have a really
good conversation all you have to do bro is just ask her follow-ups the the conversation is in the follow-ups the conversation is in the follow-ups say it with me the conversation is in the follow-ups if you're not familiar with sales like there's a common saying you know the sale is in the followup like you got to follow up follow up follow up and that's it with the same thing when it comes to women in conversation when when I'm talking to her it's not so much what is said at this moment what is said the deeper
breakdown of what is said how deep can I get into one topic I can literally have a 30 minute conversation guys I got so good with conversation with women that I had to stop I had to stop when I was just getting into approaching I got so good at being able to conversate that I would be sitting up there talking with a girl right for 20 30 minutes I'm like bro I gotta remind myself hold up I can't get too into the damn conversation we got to get to the date why I would just ask
follow-up questions I would legitimately be listening to understand and I will be asking follow-ups of what she's telling me and she would do the same she would be asking me follow-ups of what I'm saying and before you know it you take a simple question like where you're from and then you've drawn it out to a 30 minute conversation where you knew where you know exactly where she grew up what she used to do when she was little this this this this this this that it's like connect plots all from a follow-up question so make sure
that you consistently are following up when you're talking to the girl now don't follow up to that don't be following up like me and I would just be talking to a girl for for no damn reason for 30 minutes this brings me to point number five right don't let her put you in the friend zone rejection is better than humiliation so once you followed up enough and you deemed her as a girl that you want to see again all you have to do man is invite her to come be a part of your life but
don't you under no circumstance accept accept humiliation what is being humiliated being in the friend zone this is the worst possible thing you can accept as a man why because you're giving her free attention and you're getting nonsexual attention back women don't mind getting all your free attention as long as they don't they're not trading it for sexual attention us men we don't mind sexual attention as long as we not Trading a bunch of nonsexual attention basically us men we want as much sex as possible without having to talk to you all day women want
to want to want to talk to you all day without having to [ __ ] you we want ass they want conversation without giving ass so I'm not going to get I'm not going to accept being one of your your orbiters I'm not going to accept being one of the dudes that chitchat with you on Instagram for no reason I'm not going to be one of your followers I'm not going to be one of your Bots what I used to make the mistake of and I will be honest about it is I got so good
at everything else I just told you guys about it will make I would be like damn this conversation went so well she doesn't want to go on a date with me but maybe I can change her mind maybe I can get her number and my conversation skills can sway her to be attracted to me never works she doesn't mind that free attention especially if you gave her a good conversation she's more incentivized to put you in a friend zone she will be willingly trying to put you in the friend zone because she doesn't mind chitchatting
with you so you want to have good conversation you want to be able to talk to the girl you want to be able to follow up you want to you want to be able to s present but you still got to be masculine you still got to you still got to know when to draw the line okay we've had a good conversation I now know that I like you enough to see you again that's all conversation with hot girls is guys you might be a hot girl but you might be a Airhead there's no reason
for me to go out with a girl that I find attractive that doesn't have anything else up here cuz I can just go out with a girl who I do find attractive who is at least intellectual at some degree who I can at least have a conversation with so if I've deemed you as somebody I want to have a conversation with cool now okay let's get this let's let's keep this up on a date let's keep getting to know each other on a date there's no need for me to talk for 30 hours with you
on here so don't accept being in the friend zone don't accept being put in a friend zone if she offers you her Snapchat if she offers you her Instagram and you asked her on the date don't accept it the first thing you must do is tell her hey let's go get ice cream some other day let's go bowling some other day let's go shoot poo some other day if that's not what she wants if she's not okay if she's telling you anything but sure I would love to you said well it was nice talking to
you have a nice day all right if you follow this framework guys right if you focus on the floor if you stay present if you ask the follow up right if you don't let yourself be put in the friends on if you're listening to understand not just to speak you're going to be able to maintain a conversation with any hot girl and and those conversations will lead to more dates those dates will lead to more sex and you will start having better relationships with the women you want and that's it guys like comment subscribe share
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