all right stick with me as you can see based on how much I have written down right here on the marker board we are going to be discussing three ways to facilitate women's fantasy land to maximize her desire her attraction and her arousal why is this important this is so important because anything that is logical okay if you're having logical discussion will turn them off so what you're going to notice is even if you're the perfect guy on paper right you'll protect you'll provide you make this amount of money you are tall you're good-looking you're
handsome whatever the case may be you have good style if the energy and the dynamic between you two is incorrect the whole thing is going to crumble and then you're going to notice that she pulls away or she ghosts you and then you don't hear from her ever again so this is very important so stick with me also I decided to be just like Santa Claus this year and since Black Friday is right around the corner I created something super cool for all of you it's in my bio it's in my description it's down below
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life over the past 10 years I can tell you that this is very far from the truth women do not want masculine men women want men who can facilitate her emotional fantasy world so she can escape from real life in her mind as much as possible that's what I have found to be true so women care about having fun and women care about a good vibe and good entertainment so what I have noticed after my own dating life and seeing you know numerous other students over the years that have you know been inside of my
mentorships or just all of the comments that I've seen on my videos whatever the case may be what I can tell you is this all they care about is Vibe all they care about is feeling good okay and they want to basically feel no negative emotion ever and she wants to get as furthest away from any kind of negative emotion okay and live in a playful Fantasy Land of words as much as humanly possible if you can Ace this you're going to be in a really good spot so this is the truth okay this is
a lot of times a very harsh truth for most guys but it's one you'll have to accept because her idea of masculine is far different from yours so what I can tell you is this you can be the perfect guy right you can be the most perfect man let's say she can have the perfect guy right in front of her and she will often times leave him because of something he said she's like oh he said this or you know I didn't feel right I didn't feel a connection the word words right so women will
often times pass up on perfect guys on paper all because the words doesn't make them feel the right way well what does that tell you that tells you that often times her emotions will control her decisions okay and on top of that we will get into these three things that you can do to make this easy in just a bit but we have to kind of understand this stuff first like this is the prerequisite material needed to make these three things work so objective reality and logic will never sit well with them as they feel
it's anti- seductive and it will turn them off this is what you will find so any real masculine traits okay when I say real masculine traits these are the things that we've all heard right protecting providing being good at making money okay this is what I can tell you they don't care about these things until they are older okay so what does that mean that means at 23 years old she's more worried about fun okay and having fun not about bills she's not thinking about her long-term security when it comes to you know being provided
for or anything like that so what I'm going to show you okay this I have found true in not only my own dating life but numerous other guys that I've talked to any form of discussion when it comes to like truth of how the world works or how things operate day-to-day in life any form of rational discussion and any form of logic she will just stop talking to you and you'll never hear from her okay all they truly want is fun and to feel good this is very important to understand so if we understand this
and we understand that these things turn them off now we can actually move into the three things that will maximize her desire her attraction and her arousal so step one okay women will have conversation and enjoy conversation just for the sake of having conversation okay I'm going to say this one more time women will have conversation and enjoy conversation just for the sake of having conversation okay so that means what I've noticed okay with having girlfriends over the years or you know going on dates having relationships things like that okay if you'll ever notice this
like if you're dating your girl she'll just call you and the conversation just seems very random the conversation a lot of times needs no starting point and no ending point the conversation a lot of times okay needs virtually no substance or meaningful topics that are discussed within the conversation okay and a lot of times they feel a connection just off talking alone this is what you're going to find with women that you're going to probably be dating is they will feel a connection just from talking alone okay so let me give you an example okay
let's say you're on a dating app okay and she messages you and says I love your cowboy hat the only answer you need to say is yeeha okay any form of going deeper when it comes to topics discussion any of this type of stuff where you are now actually engaging in what would feel like a real conversation their interest level will just go down okay because their words and the emotions around those words is what dictates their interest level if they like you okay keep that in mind why is this so important because women are
optimizing for attractive men because in today's living circumstance and situation women don't really need men for very much of anything anymore right so what are they doing they are optimizing for attractive men only very important to understand so what I want you to do is listen to any conversation okay let's say you see a couple women at a coffee shop and those two are sitting there uh you know getting coffee together just listen to the conversation for a few seconds okay or let's say you turn on um a podcast or a video where women are
having a discussion okay A lot of times it's only words and it's Vibe and for any of you who you've ever dated a woman long term or she's your girlfriend you'll notice this example right your girlfriend might just call you and tell you that she's going into the grocery store and she's calling you to tell you that she's getting a few things she's going to shop for this and she's going to give you all this information and you're listening to it and part of you is sitting there thinking why did you feel the need to
call me to tell me this okay but to her that's how she feels a connection just through words right so your girlfriend will be like hey I'm going grocery shopping and I'm getting this this and this and you're like Okay so this brings me back to my point that I made a little bit ago the conversation a lot of times has no starting point and no ending point the words just are the words that's how women view relationships and conversation so this is the first tip that I can give you the first tip that I
can give you is women will have conversation and enjoy conversation just for the sake of having conversation now number two okay if you're smart what you're going to need to do is you are going to need to dumb yourself down so if you hear this don't give me any of that BS where you're like oh I'm not going to you know lower myself intellectually just to have conversation okay great if you want to live by that here's what's going to happen you're not going to get a second date so if you try that once you
won't get a second date and what you're going to notice is she'll probably just ghost you afterwards this is what you're going to have to learn and you're going to have to understand you are going to have to almost dumb yourself down a bit to sit in a state where the vibe is playful back and forth with words and that's about it okay so let me give you an example you can be an entrepreneur just like I have been my whole life you can build a multi seven eight figure business you can do all these
things right you can even have success in multiple areas the second that you start talking about your life in terms of facts and logic is the second that she will get turned off so if I'm on a date okay I'm talking about basically very easy to understand things travel food the fact that I eat a lot and I get hungry a lot really quickly uh going boating right and how much I like being in the sun and sunshine and going on walks easy to understand stuff that's what you're going to have to talk about and
the whole time you say it with a smile on your face and like you're the most Carefree dude in the world so Point number three you wear it with a smile okay you wear a smile and you act always as if you were in a good mood this is very important and I'm going to explain why you want to appear as if life is effortless for you and that your energy okay is as light as a feather and you have never never had to go through anything hard or difficult any form of struggle basically says
hey in the past life has been harsh to me okay now on the external you want to show that you're able to survive through that obviously and you want to make sure that you're able to have the result in life but the words the vocal tone the state that you're in the mood that you're in the energy it needs to be playful and light-hearted okay people's past life circumstance shapes who they are so this is what I can tell you if you carry yourself with any form of heavy energy okay if you carry yourself with
any form of struggle energy and if you carry yourself with like this attitude of like I work really hard I've been through really hard things you're going to turn her off because it shows that you're not pre-selected if you look at any man who's pre-selected let's say he's at a nightclub let's say he is the social leader whatever the case may be the pre-selected guy always brings a happy and positive vibe with vibrant energy and it's social energy this is the key to all of this so I'm going to say this one more time these
are the three ways to facilitate women's fantasy land to maximize her desire her attraction and her arousal why do we need to do this we need to do this because talking about anything that is rational or anything that is actually logical will turn them off and these are the three things that you have to actually understand and internalize okay women will have conversation and enjoy conversation just for the sake of having conversation number two if you are smart you are probably going to need to dumb yourself down and number three wear a smile and act
as if you're in a good mood and that life is very easy for you okay and that's the energy and that's the world that she would want to be a part of with you if you like this video hit the like button be sure to check out the gift that I made for you it's in the description you're going to like what I put together for you and we'll see you in the next one one
