Why Having Money Changes EVERYTHING

in this video I'm going to share with you why having money changes everything guys I grew up as an immigrant to United States as you guys can see in the back of me my twoa club award that I got recently made over seven figures in business and I've learned a lot guys and I want to share with you guys and just teach you why this [ __ ] is so [ __ ] important all right and how it changes every single area of your life let's get right into the video guys number one you don't

understand how important money is if you did didn't grow up poor it irks me to the nerve it [ __ ] pisses me off man when I see people that talk about money isn't the most important thing happiness money doesn't bring you happiness what the [ __ ] are you talking about I was born in a third world country guys I was born in Legos Nigeria when I was young guys growing up I had to like we fetched water from whales me and my uncles my uncles raised me my uncles raised me with my cousins

and we would go we would go fetch water from a well to boil it under a stove that we lit with firewood to be able to have boiling water to cook food when we used to [ __ ] literally we used to go like my this was my life I didn't know anything until I move to the US going to the bathroom was [ __ ] in the in the hole there was no toilet there was no flushing there was no shower we showered in the midst of a a a wooden box by pouring water

over ourselves and scrubbing before I moved to America I remember my when we first moved here having water fall on top of me that I could turn on was [ __ ] fascinating fascinating studying for school right the majority of the time there was no electricity my I wasn't rich I was I'm not we these uh Africans that came to America and my family was rich hell no quite the opposite so I grew up I didn't I would to say I grew up in the slums but I we were nowhere close we weren't even middle

class studying studying for [ __ ] exams studying for tests it was through a kerosine lamp we have to light a lamp with kerosine to have light my dear uncle that I love to that he passed away few years ago my like this is this is he was the closest thing I had to a father figure he will walk me to school every morning he will help me shower bring me to school on a bus and then he would come and pick me up after he finished school and bring me back home what money doesn't

are you [ __ ] insane you there's no way you grew up poor right a lot of you [ __ ] in America you grew up literally with a silver spoon you think you you think you grew up poor you don't know what the [ __ ] poor is you grew up with lights electricity an opportunity and then y'all have all this [ __ ] ego and you're not successful how do you let a [ __ ] immigrant that came here nine came here at 9 years old not only look at the the the plaque

on the left of me is my engineering degree that I got at 21 and then the this plaque is the is the seven figures in business how the [ __ ] do you let me come to this [ __ ] country and by 27 years old already have an engineering degree and a seven figure business how the [ __ ] did you let me do this so there's no way in the world you could tell me that money isn't the most important thing in the world if you did grow up poor cuz you will be

so [ __ ] hungry for accomplishment I think a lot of people grow up middle class especially here in America where you you technically have all your survival needs you don't know what it is to survive you don't have family members that are really suffering and you think that money is like oh I don't money a don't me money doesn't bring you you you don't even have enough of it to say that [ __ ] you you had water you had food you might have the nicest of things but there was no true suffering have

you gone without food did you have to boil water to [ __ ] cook food [ __ ] is unbelieving me like it's crazy people who grew up in a similar situation as me will you see the hunger that we have and the importance of money that we have you will realize okay there's a reason why you didn't suffer suffer enough you didn't suffer enough you you had your basic needs met even if you weren't Rich you had your basic needs met where you didn't really suffer money opens doors to Rooms most people never enter

the more money you have guys the more opportunities you have the more networking abilities you have there's a there's a reason why you hear all the time the rich get richer the poor get poor it's not because the the rich just have so much of intelligence they have more resources they have more resources because they know where to get the resources from they know how to enter the rooms to give them more opportunity how the [ __ ] are you going to get that [ __ ] without money how are you going to get opportunities

to become a better man without money how are you going to meet people who are doing great in life without money why would those people want to talk to you if you don't prioritize getting making being more successful making more money in life making as much money as humanly POS possible as much as humanly possible because it opens the doors it gives you opportunities and the the the truth of the matter is most people will never enter those rooms you will never be amongst seven figure eight figure nine figure entrepreneurs who are making more money

a day than you make a year you'll never be able to talk to those people you just maybe see them online all right and that's it and then the majority of online is telling you that it's fake everybody is scaming shut the [ __ ] up that's another thing about money right the more money you have the more you realize why people are poor because it's not because of money it's because of mindset money gives you a different mindset money gives you a understanding of what it takes you realize why the majority of the world

is where they are I was blessed incredibly blessed to be able to come to the United States incredibly blessed love my mom to debt for taking risk remarrying Coming to America trying to give me an opportunity that's why I owe it all to her I'm going to take care of her to my best of my ability because she paved the way for me right but there there's no way you can sit up here and talk about money doesn't matter when you haven't suffered enough your mindset is so [ __ ] up that you don't even

understand that this is what's stopping you from getting to what you want I made a video on Instagram talking about 50k a month is what makes you a man right and the losers gathered up in a circle ah what about the man who works for his he he has a family what about the man who's this 50k a month making money doesn't make you a man shut your [ __ ] ass up [ __ ] making videos and haven't even suffered of course you don't have no perspective loser of course 50k a month is so

special to you or you think that that's so impossible because your mind can't open up to imagine what it takes to work that way that's what money does guys it shows you it it teaches you what's possible they got people making millions a month as a matter of fact I have students guys who make me look like I'm homeless literally students of mine CEOs of companies younger than me will laugh at the fact of how much money I'm making if they made only seven figures they'll be [ __ ] they might be they need to

go on suicide watch literally there are people like that who exist in this world but how would you meet them if you didn't prioritize making money if your brain couldn't open up enough to understand that there are people who are exceptional in this world if you think that 50k a month is such a big deal that you're not even willing to open your ears and understand what it takes to get that you will always remain mediocre it's the reality money forces you to evolve the one thing I would say guys about money is you need

to consistently be evolving yourself to be a better version of you to get more money this is what I mean the person I was before I made six figures is not the person I am now making morti six figures a seven figure company you need to become a better version to get to a different income bracket the person you were to make $50,000 a year you're going to have to recreate yourself to make $100,000 you're going to have to recreate yourself to make 200 300 400 you're going to have to be a better and better

better and better version of yourself to make more and more money that's what's unbelievable about money you got to be a better version of you especially to be a [ __ ] with money and women see that's what [ __ ] want to talk about right they want to talk about just having money but to be a dude that has money and you can attract women un you have to be a phenomenal man you're not going to be a dude with money and women and you're mediocre in any are of your life no [ __

] way that's why that's why I preach even though I tell you to make money even though this video is about money being well around it is what ultimately gets you to be exceptional because money forces you to evolve but the quality of wom you want forces you to evolve as well all right this is why guys I prioritize helping busy professionals create an active dating life right so they can have the dating life of their dreams while they pursue their dreams and goals guys think that I make the videos talking about monk mode is

stupid because I want you to prioritize women no I want you to be extremely successful so your Dae in life isn't hindering you or causing you to be a social reject right so you need to make money because the money is going to make you evolve and then the women are going to make you evolve too because if you have money and women and you're not paying you're not simping you're an exceptional dude and every man can get to that point if you're willing to dedicate the time and energy right if you're a guy right

now man you're a busy professional and you want your da and Life to match your career and your purpose you don't tired of guessing and hoping you want a day in life that is that is that is up to par you want you don't want to have to hinder your work or your dreams or your goals and you want me to be able to help you guide you to get the da and life for your dreams make sure you go on the link in the description all the Ping comments and I want you to book

a free consultation and let me see if it makes sense for us to work together man only only guys who want to be exceptional only guys who are dedicated to Excellence no pansies no guys with a limited mind I don't want to help you I want to help men who want to be exceptional who are willing to put in work who understand that they need to evolve to make more money and get higher quality women the link in the description all the Ping comments book a free call all right money shows you people's true colors

you always hear this saying right money makes money will show you people's colors but it's very very true and I will take it a little further I will say money not only shows you people's true colors but it helps you weed out the people who don't suit in your life to begin with the more money I've made the less friends I've had because you realize that most people are not really most people don't want to be exceptional they want to make just enough money right very few people want to take it to the moon very

few people want to be exceptional so I've had friends of mine that I just don't talk to anymore because all they want to talk about is stupid [ __ ] all they want to talk about is this girl and that girl all they want to talk about that there's no progress in your thinking there's no evolving in who they are because they're okay with the amount of money they make they don't they don't want to strive for more so our conversations are about nothing and for me I can't be friends with you if you're not

on the same path as me you don't want to be as exceptional as me you don't want to make hundreds of millions [ __ ] billions you you're not that hungry for life we have nothing to talk about you live your life I live mine like I'm not we're not on the same path because you're going to stop me the people who don't want to be exceptional guys they're going to convince you why you don't need to work that hard to make that kind of money they're going to they're going to encourage you to be

mediocre oh man making that kind of money is impossible they're going to tell you that it's impossible they're going to make you feel like you got to do some [ __ ] that has never been done to make that kind of money and they will keep you mediocre they will keep you bely making ends me they will keep you just just good enough so I've had to let go of a lot of friends like seriously especially in the past year oh my God I barely talk to that many people anymore because I don't know that

many people that want to be that great and the people who I do know now I do talk to now who I know want to be exceptional it's very it's not even a handful I I wouldn't consider that many people my friends right I don't know that many people that really want to be that great at least that I know of all I I would say money money will lose you friends it will show you that people are just not willing to take the risk people are not willing to put in the work they don't

want to be phenomenal they want to be just enough they're okay making six figures seven figures they even if it's seven they're okay it's they don't don't want to aim for the moon and then you got family who once you have money they want you to give them [ __ ] this [ __ ] is unbelievable bro money money will show you people's true colors your own family will [ __ ] stab you in the back your own family will sell you out your own family will come after you because of money your own family

will try to expose you will try to will try to Blackmail you will try to extort you so when you're nobody when you don't have nothing they don't got nothing to worry about when you got money they want everybody wants a piece of it right everybody wants a piece of it without having to work for it everybody wants a piece of it because by default they want you to get them some money because you know me man [ __ ] you you want to get some bread because we know each other [ __ ] you

you want to get some bread because we got the same blood [ __ ] you when you was suffering and grinding and trying to be a better person they weren't there they were telling you ah you don't got to do all that but the moment you start to do a little bit better in life here they come hey man hey big bro man you know man things are hard man can you help [ __ ] you that's how money expose [ __ ] bro money makes you respected at the end of the day guys Money

Matters right and Money Matters because of respect like women are not going to respect you when you're broke let's call it what this men won't respect you the more money you have guys the more respected you are the reason being is because money is hard to get nobody's going to give you a [ __ ] penny nobody's going to give you a penny a penny that's why that's why I love business so much right because because it's so [ __ ] hard right you have to create so much value because nobody nobody's walking around saying

here for X years a dollar for nothing [ __ ] no so people know inherently that the more money you have the better you are at creating value or solving problems nobody's going to give you [ __ ] money so the more money you have guys the more you're respected women have no choice but to act right especially when you have money and you're good-looking there is no weakness especially when you have money and you got gain there is no weakness especially when you have money gain looks and you're fashionable and you have status there

is no weakness other men know how hard it is to make money we judge each other on our financial stability on our financial status we understand that it's difficult to make money so what money will make you a respected man money will make you okay he earns my respect without saying the world you earn people's respect you respect Jeff Bezos you might not know that [ __ ] I don't know him either but he you respect him you respect Elon Musk they had to do some phenomenal [ __ ] to get hundreds of billions cuz

everybody don't got it money can buy you status which can make you famous when you are a man that has money what tends to happen is you can buy yourself into some rooms remember earlier I mentioned money can get you into rooms that most people don't enter here it is money can buy you status you can be the local Baller in your city and you can get into the clubs because you got money you can get the tables because you got money and the table will make you look better in front of women the jet

will make you more interesting than women the Rolls-Royce will make people look and that status can make you famous if you have enough money can buy you enough status to make you famous look at Dan bazaran right he had a lot of money people want to have that kind of Lifestyle like him and then he got famous from it you can literally become famous because you got rich and then you can get you can get rich teach people how to get rich and then get famous that's what that's how powerful money is because people know

making money is hard they know making money is hard guys they know it's hard so when you can teach people how to make money or you can inspire people to make more money they want to listen to you because it's tough to get money allows you to see women's true hypergamous nature I will say this guys and I've told you guys this once I've moved to Miami my results have increased with women because now they see the nice apartment in the nice area the the nice car all these things they women are not stupid guys

women tend to behave a little bit better when they know you're stable when they come across and they see the 360 balony they're like oh they start to act a little different I'm somebody who has game and I understand women so I was getting [ __ ] before I started making money so I know when a girl is full of [ __ ] but it shows you man women are good actors they don't mind pursuing no more oh they see that balcony they don't mind saying hey how's your day going oh you care about how

my day is going now interesting when I was in that small ass apartment I didn't really get that many girls hitting me up after sex huh interesting huh but now you know hey how's your week hey when are you available to hang out again oh interesting oh so before my looks would give me [ __ ] but now the looks and the status and the money is like oh okay they don't mind pursuing imagine what they're doing to celebrities this what I'm telling you guys the better you get as a man the more women are

willing to do the more they're willing to do imagine you had extreme status extreme money extreme looks all combined these girls will be [ __ ] moving mountains to [ __ ] with you moving mountains the more status I've gotten the more the better looking I've gotten the more money I've made women treat me better the less games the less flaking like it it's why I'm telling you guys you can get all this [ __ ] don't lead with money you never want to lead with money but your money your looks is it should be

a combination of who you are as a man because you you're calling her Bluff or you want to play games with me go ahead I'm sure another girl would like to sit over my balcony overlooking the city I'm sure another girl would like to ride in a nice car I'm sure another girl would like to uh uh uh go to fancy restaurants travel all over the world first class I'm sure I'm so sure you want to play games with me that's what money does guys it forces women's Bluff it's one thing to get a dude

who's handsome it's nothing to get a dude who's handsome and has status and has money and those experiences is what you can buy with money so the girls don't have a choice but to act right oh you want to play games I'm sure another girl wouldn't mind come [ __ ] a handsome fit black dude with a with a penthouse apartment that that flies first class everywhere all over the world I'm sure another girl wouldn't mind that oh I'm woo I'm sure I'm sure I'm sure they' be waiting for you to [ __ ] up

baby and women understand that so they they act right that's what that's what money buys you money buys you Freedom this is the ultimate goal I have with money guys and I want my guys to have is that at the end of the day exceptionalism makes you free I want to be able to be free to take care of my mom my family you know when I do decide to have kids I want to be able to take care of them I have a sense of pride in making sure that that that my next generation

gets the best and I think that's extremely selfish right of most men to not be hungry for exceptionalism to not be hungry to make as much money as possible cuz it's like damn even if you don't do it for yourself bro what about your parents my mom suffered to bring me here suffered taking care of me my dad died when I was one years old taking care of me and my uncles brought me to America to give me a different life she didn't have no [ __ ] Instagram she didn't have no YouTube she had

to figure this [ __ ] out damn bro can't even get rich for her can't even make as much money in the world to take care of her to buy her a nice house to make sure she doesn't have to worry about anything if I bring kids into this world bro make them suffer not give my son the best life has to offer look at LeBron James his son is in the NBA because he's exceptional he gave his his [ __ ] seed the best opportunity because of his exceptionalism that's what I want I want

my child's life to be exceptional because I bust my ass I don't want him to have to [ __ ] suffer I want when I bring a a son into this world he has a easier life because of me that's what moves me man I want to be free I want to be able to say I did my best to make sure the people around me are taken care of to the top and my sons and my kids they have the [ __ ] best I don't know how you could be a man and not

be motivated by it I don't know how it's possible I don't know how you could be a man and live a life where your barely making ends meat your barely making millions and you're just okay with that [ __ ] I don't I don't I don't know how that's possible all right and that's how money that's how Money Changes Everything guys but at the end of the day guys you never want to leave with money because you don't want gold diggers once again if you're a guy that you're working on your purpose you're working on

your career and you want to Dame life on your terms you want to evolve in every area of your life make sure you check the link in the description or the Ping comments book a free call man let's see if it makes sense for us to work together all right I'll get back to you guys next time