Is Dating In The West Rigged?

yes yes it is I can say with 100% certainty that the dating markets in Western countries are way more rigged against men than most non-western countries globally if you're struggling to meet looks matched goals in countries like the UK US Canada Sweden Norway Australia is because these countries are rigged so rigged that even if you're an above average looks guy it is so hard to find your looks match nowadays now as a man you might already feel this way as you've experienced how much struggle there is to get decently attractive matches on dating apps or

you've experienced how dry and Flaky the average woman is when trying to arrange a date you know the short answers the taking ages to respond the sudden disappearing even if she seems somewhat interested at first we've seen it all before however what many men don't realize is there is a deep and in grained reason in Western countries for why this is inevitable and to waste minimal time on this video I'll just say the reason it's because of the culture of the general mentalities women have in the west that are increasingly shifting towards the low desire

and low interest in Men In other words many Western women out there just don't like men that much anymore this is why dating in the west feels so riged believe me when I say mentality is everything everything in cultures where women have strong mentalities of wanting to desire guys then dating is a lot easier but in cultures where women have mentalities of not having much interest in men then it leads to dating feeling rigged against you and it makes it almost impossible for you as a guy to find a woman who will take you seriously

anyway to paint a picture elaborating on what I'm talking about I'll share some of my personal experiences as a guy who's tried dating in both Western Nations and E and European ones but first I want to share the responses from the internet's finest chat GPT for four questions you'll find this interesting one as simply as possible as a nation becomes more Progressive how do the ratios of women wanting long-term dating short-term dating no dating change it said that women wanting long-term decreases short-term increases and no dating increases two then I asked the same for men

and it said that their shifts in mentalities are similar to women's then three I asked whose mentality shifts faster as a nation becomes more Progressive out of men and women and this was the most interesting one it said generally speaking women's mentalities tend to shift faster as a nation becomes more Progressive in other words women's desire to date declines faster than guys and finally four does this mean dating will feel more or less rigged for average guys when a country becomes more Progressive and lo and behold it says ultimately dating may feel more rigged or

harder for average guys in a more Progressive country especially in the short term this is because women often have more freedom Independence and higher standards due to increased social economic and personal options as a result competition can feel tougher and traditional ways of attracting women EG Financial stability or social dominance may carry less weight so basically as a country becomes more Progressive men's desire to date girls goes from this to this women's goes from this to this and when women's desire collapses at a much faster rate than guys it means dating becomes R against men

then a loneliness epidemic emerges and you have a lot of young yearning helpless men who get left waiting on the sidelines now getting more into my own experience what I found intriguing about reading gpt's responses is I actually knew all of this from my own feelings and reactions trying to date in both Progressive nations of the West and the less Progressive nations of the East it was painfully obvious when I kept getting rejected in Western countries that many girls nowadays just don't have much desire for guys here for example in the UK where I've spent

most of my time trying to date on average I had to introduce myself to 50 girls to get just one date in Eastern Europe it was at most 10 in my opinion the Eastern European dating markets are at least five times less rigged than how they are in the west and it's because of the difference in mentalities I've been talking about this showed even when I ask girls from both places how they felt about dating if I asked a woman in the UK what are you looking for in the dating world they'd often give vague

answers like I don't know really I'm not particularly looking for anything I guess if it happens it happens I'm just going with the flow I'll see what comes around but if I ask Eastern European women the same question they'd be more likely to say I want to get married I want to start a family I only date for long term here are two screenshots of messages I sent to girls when in Eastern Europe both said they have dreams of a marriage with a man and most girls were like this here the mentality of wanting to

have a man in their life was and still is very strong and this was coming from girls as young as 18 conversely could you imagine girls saying something like this in Western Nations how on Earth are you supposed to influence a western woman wanting to date you when their desire is so low for me I found it very rare besides some small religious groups in the west that girls take wanting a man in their life seriously and most of these are already in relationships on marriages anyway check my video on selection bias for more information

on this sharing more of my experience in my life I've had a lot of conversations with girls about dating probably more than 99% of men the same age as me so I know much of how they feel and what they're thinking additionally girls love talking to me about this subject they often ask for advice share experiences thoughts and feelings because they know I'm one of the few people that will give them the unfiltered truth about their situation anyway one time and this was in the UK a girl was complaining about her dating life to me

saying awesome it's really irritating guys don't approach me in real life I really want them to and it'd be so nice why don't they do it anymore and you know what I said I straight up responded by asking are you looking for a sexual relationship with a man and she responds um that's a bit of an intrusive question why are you asking me that then I say I'll get to that in a second but first tell me yes or no is that what you're looking for and she says I don't know maybe I haven't really

thought about it much I'm more of a go with the flow person and if I meet the right guy then something might happen and then I said well there you go there's your answer that's why men aren't approaching you or most women anymore she asks why I say because if a man approaches you what's he going to get out of the situation if he goes up to you and you are totally uncertain and unsure of what you want or what you can do to make his life better and happier then what's the point of him

even going up to you in the first place she asks for an elaboration so I say what's the average outcome if a man knows before he approaches a girl there's a 90% % chance he'll get insta rejected or at best maybe he'll get her number and she'll later flake after slowly fading away on text then is this going to bring any positive outcomes to his life or negative outcomes because to me it seems only negative she then asks for the solution I say ultimately until you have the mentality that you want to meet guys and

start something serious with them and you can show this by addressing invitingly giving choosing signals communicating in the first conversation that you are looking for a relationship which could make his life better until and only until you start showing and doing these actions then guys will continue to not approach you because they know it won't benefit their life in any way before this happens guys will keep ignoring you because they know if they approach it's only going to make your life better as it's nice for you to get complimented at random like that which is

why you want it but he knows it won't bring him anything positive in return now I wasn't this lecturing when we were having this conversation it was balanced I explained diplomatically and she understood and agreed with me but at the end of the day she knew it really was this simple she knew she had to have a long think about what she wants from dating and what she can do to provide value to a man's life in order to get that personally I've always believed value is only received by giving value to others first if

you can't show other people that you can provide or promise future value for them I think it's a selfish mentality and at best you are banking on generosity from people which isn't very common nowadays and for the girl I spoke to from the story I think her mentality insinuates she only wants to be approached because it will make herself feel better about herself as it's nice to be complimented but without thinking about what she can add to a man's life in return now from my own dating life I've encountered many women with this mindset so

as a protective measure I adopted a strong vetting process to ensure I would be valued and could find what I'm looking for from the dating world what I mean by this is often times when I've approached a girl in public after stating initial romantic interest I'd start to sense several minutes in she's enjoying the conversation maybe over speaking a little but she's lost track of the reason I approach and complimented in the first place so if this happened I'd hold the conversation in its tracks and communicate hey I can tell you're enjoying us speaking right

now but I don't want this just to be a short conversation I want us to get to know each other more and see where this will go later down the line if you are interested how about we exchange numbers and Instagrams and think about going on a date in the near future and when I've said this it leads to a few responses some girls have said oh I'm sorry I'm not looking for anything at the moment but thanks for coming up and speaking to me anyway some have said oh my God I'm sorry but I

actually have a boyfriend in these situations I respectfully leave because I know we're not looking for the same thing other times girls have said yes I understand and that sounds like a good idea I'd like to go on the date you suggested and see where it goes in these situations it leads to desirable outcomes because we know we're both looking for the same thing in other words what I'm trying to say is as a man your focus should be ensuring your desires have the potential to be reciprocated especially in the early stages of interactions before

you've established you're looking for the same thing I'm not saying you shouldn't be generous and always need to be moving to the next stage of a girl like it's a factory line but after you have a foundation set in stone that you and the girl know you're looking for the same thing then you can be more flexible more generous and allow more freedom in getting to know each other but only after is establish you're looking for the same thing so you know later down the line it will lead to the desired outcome you agreed initially

but doesn't feel so forced and pressured at the same time I think it needs to be this way because the number of girls in the west who are both single and have a mentality of Desiring guys is so low that you need to vet heavily to find the ones who tick these boxes and as explained that's because in the west I think the culture is Shifting more and more focusing on women being independent so many women feel they don't need a man in their life anymore and when women feel they don't need a man in

their life anymore what would you anticipate is going to happen quite obviously women will increasingly lose interest in men and the dating Market becomes more and more riged before finishing this video I want to share one final story that shows what I'm talking about this story will blow your mind because it highlights that even for women in the west who think they are interested in men and want a relationship in reality for many of them their true feelings deep down are not even close to how they think it is so I was getting videos in

my Tik Tok recommended from this girl a similar age to me who makes content about how hard it is to find love as a woman in the Modern Age I watched a few of her videos and I thought she was reasonably smart however I was never quite sure if much of what she was saying was true and in fact being completely honest I thought the majority of what she said was totally the other way around anyway since I was convinced and certain it was the other way around I reached out to her and we got

chatting then I offered a phone conversation to discuss the topic further she agreed and she started the conversation by stating how there are many girls wanting to find love but they can't find it in today's dating Market I responded by saying how women don't really want that even if they say they do in reality they don't then she was like no we do it's really hard as a woman out here but then I started explaining my point of view bringing up ideas such as how women are outpacing men in universities so most girls have jobs

with equal if not better pay than men or how many girls have mommy and daddy's money to get them through their teens and 20s therefore they don't need the man as much we continued talking about these topics for over an hour and after all was said and done this is the part that will blow your mind she said you know what I think you're actually right I don't know why I've been obsessing over finding love all this time maybe I don't need a man maybe I might just be better off single I couldn't believe what

I was hearing in this one conversation I convinced her that she doesn't need a man in her life through pure reasoning and logic and to be completely honest if I was in her shoes or any other Western woman's shoes for that matter I'd probably reach the same conclusions I'd probably adopt the mentality I don't need a man and want to stay single because when you think about it from the perspective of a woman what's the point in starting a relationship with some dude what does a woman get out of that as people often ask what

do you bring to the table and nowadays and increasingly so in the West for the future the answer is becoming less and less as a man which is why so many women have and are continuing to check out of dating anyway that's enough BPS for today if you enjoyed you might be interested in two products I have the two main products are face ratings and personalized looks maxing reports and my book both will have more information at an affordable price in the description