what I'm going to be showing you today is seven bad boy traits that women fall in love with this is also going to show you how my game has evolved as I've gotten older and this is going to show you some higher level tactics strategies and techniques to make sure that you can actually attract and retain the women that you like to keep seeing so keep in mind I have been evolving over the past two years as a man it is your job to evolve okay if you're not evolving if you're not learning new things
you're not growing so with that said I hope that by age 35 the way I do things and the way I communicate is different than how I do them right now at 28 it is your job as a man to push forward and constantly keep seeking the best ways to do things today I'm going to ask for one favor and one favor only we are so close to having 700 guys inside of our movement inside of our community that I want you to join us in this today because I'm watching guys every single day Master
learn and understand the language of women at an even deeper level and I know that I can help you based off how many men I'm watching every single day have real life results inside of their dating life so the first bad boy trait that I start to adapt and that I have started to do is I don't set dates anymore never I never set dates anymore here's what I do I started to realize and I started to understand that seeing them is validation okay wanting to go out on a date with her is validation so
let me give you some examples maybe I'll get a girl's phone number from meeting her when I'm out in a about maybe I will you know meet a girl let's say you meet a girl on a dating app whatever the case may be now what I do is I text message them and I never set dates because here's what I notice and here's what happens when you try to set dates you've instantly revealed your interest level and majority of women here's what you have to understand if you are somewhat of a stranger and you weren't
necessarily born with model quality good looks okay or whatever the case may be you have to understand that if she is getting a lot of let's say matches on online dating or has a lot of options or she's very attractive okay she's going to have to fit you in and make you a priority and to assume that you're going to get moved up to her priority list where she wants to see you instantly is typically not going to happen which means with women you need to be patient okay so let them reach out to you
now here's what happens I don't ask to set dates anymore I will text them for days or weeks or sometimes I will just you know randomly check in once a day or every other day and respond to their text messages as they come to me and eventually they say so why have you never asked me to meet up why have you never asked me out are you ever going to see me are you ever going to ask me out or for example I just got a message today from a girl pops up on my phone
it says what are you doing today hm why would that be probably because I haven't tried to see her you have to understand that majority of men are far too needy they are far too agreeable and they are far too open with availability I have enough time to send you a message or two today I don't necessarily have enough time to go and see you today and no just because you're pretty doesn't mean that you're going to get moved up to my priority list where I'm going to go set a date with you or take
you out for drinks or whatever the case may be as I've gotten older I don't set dates anymore so you might be saying well Casey what's the benefit of that the benefit of doing it this way is this you can now get 51 15 20 30 phone numbers and you text them as they come and she sees he's not pursuing he's not trying to see me he must have options you actually will start to appear more pre-selected because you're not trying to see them and it's like okay you're validated from or she's validated from the
attention a little bit but now over time she's going to wonder what qualities and what traits do you have about you and she's going to want to see you the way that I have been adapting my methods over the years and over the course of definitely this past 6 months is I'm constantly working the angle and The Leverage of the frame of getting them to want to come to see me or of getting them to want to reach out to me the dating game right now or the dating Market is so skewed where women oftentimes
have so many options and so many men wanting to see them that you have to reverse engineer how this is playing out because most guys are constantly trying to say hey let's set a date hey can I take you out for drinks hey when are you free hey what's your availability hey this hey that if if you can reverse it where it's her coming to you you are now far more pre-selected so that is the first thing that I have done is I shifted the dynamic I will be okay with text messaging them longer and
I want them to come to me it's an entirely different strategy and for those of you out there who say well that's too much validation too much free attention you can do it your way then because I'm going to tell you what the world is getting more digital social media is playing a bigger effect on how women are dating and often times dating apps are becoming more of a way that women are meeting people because of that you have to understand if you don't adapt it's very very tough to keep things progressing that's number one
number two the second bad boy trait that I have started to adapt I will now deny sex if she isn't bringing the right Vibe with feminine energy to the table oh yeah and I don't necessarily care if she's super pretty and if she's super gorgeous you see when you can detach from how beautiful the woman is okay and you are actually now sensitive to and caring about the energy that they are bringing to the table keep in mind this takes maturity this takes me getting older it takes me wanting a different sort of person in
my life and it takes maturity if you would have told me this at age 22 there's no way I would have been able to listen but because I see the world through a different lens often times what I remember too is I'm like okay is this actually serving me the right way another thing as you guys can see as I've used scripture and verses in some of my past videos over the the past week or two I have started to actually redefine how I view intimacy and sex because I say to myself okay what if
I will be punished one day for this Behavior right indulging in lust what if I'm punished and I don't think enough Men actually consider how they feel about their own soul and they don't necessarily think about what could happen in the future when that day comes so keep that in mind what I do now is I will deny the sex because here's the thing is I've gotten older I've already had all of these fun experiences I don't necessarily need to indulge in more pleasure I don't care I'm much more interested in the energy and what
that woman is bringing to the table number three okay past the first date I don't reach out anymore to see them ever and I don't care if we slept together or not I don't reach out anymore past the first date the reason being is because if she has all of these options if on that first date she doesn't have enough interest where I am now her best she will never have true genuine desire or true genuine love for me out of all the women that I've talked to over the past let's say year I've asked
the question a lot of times and I say do you think majority of women have one specific guy that they liked more than all of the other men that they've ever been with they all say yes and I say do women constantly think about that guy every single day they all say yes well what does that tell you that tells you that she has already been impacted by a different level of masculine man that other men are not stacking up to since women are hypergamous and will often times optimize for the best if I am
not that guy where she is now pursuing and she doesn't view me as that number one Contender spot once she has met me in real life I don't have any interest in pursuing that because you can't try to create genuine desire and attraction that has to just happen and that has to just be there and that is out of your control so keep that in mind this goes into everything it goes into how you look your personality the way you communicate everything about you as a man the older you get as a man the more
solidified you are you start to know yourself well when you start to know yourself more she's either going to like you or she's not and as you get older and you become more mature you have more of a mentality where you're kind of a bit set in your ways like I am how I am to some degree I communicate the way I communicate I am how I am and some women are going to really really like that and think it's very attractive and other women I might not be their cup of tea and that's okay
so keep that in mind past the first aid I don't reach out to see them anymore now number four from time to time now I will flake on dates yes I will set a date and from time to time I will flake I will say something came up or my priorities with work right now are busy or I can't do this sorry maybe we can reschedule in the future not for sure but maybe now does this piss off some women absolutely and the reason why it pisses them off is because this is the stuff that
they do to men if they wake up and they don't necessarily feel like it they just won't go okay so I do that too and the reason being is because as you become older as a man you have to have priorities in life priorities this is important with maturity if your priorities aren't work rated as you're getting older I definitely hope they're family related I definitely hope if you let's say you have kids I hope that you have different priorities with how you're building your family right now me I don't have any children but I
do have people who work for me so because of that I need to make sure that we're doing the right things dayto day inside of you know the brand and business and making sure everything is on point because of that I have career priorities well I hope you have priorities too women have to see or the women that you're dating need to see that you're doing other things in life and once again this is why I'm so heavy on detaching from lust detaching from you know needing that or detaching from needing that intimacy because that
is what makes men weak you have to understand that I already experienced pleasure and it doesn't bring a lot of fulfillment I hope I really do hope you experience all the pleasure that you want or that you tell yourself that you want I hope you experience all of it one day so that way you can see it wasn't necessarily worth it the way you thought it was I hope you can live a more fulfilling life in other ways now I flake on dates why also this shows a discrepancy in sexual market value it gets them
to reconsider your dating value completely they say okay does he have other women who are more attractive than me does this guy have other things going on is this guy rich and he's working a lot right is this guy going to college and he's going to become a famous neurosurgeon one day who knows but you need to show you have other things going on and that's number four now number five tell them how much you miss them if they've been wanting to see you but never set a date think about that for a second they've
been wanting to see you or they keep text messaging you maybe it's for a week maybe it's for two weeks maybe it's for a month tell them how much you miss them how much how much you loved seeing them but never set a date well what does that do it gets them to wonder why you won't set that date it gets them to wonder what you're up to it gets them to fantasize about you and the way that I learned this was I would constantly see that women want what they can't have not what they
do have what they do have is already there and solidified what women do have is already right in front of them what women don't have gets to stimulate their imagination their imagination controls that fantasy that fantasy gives the wh if factor of this other guy and that's how a woman's love grows in time apart so this is going to take a different level of thinking this is a different Paradigm of thinking and you probably won't even be able to comprehend this until you have repetitions in in your dating life I have been through tons of
dates over the years so many and because of that I can see how the behavior and how the patterns are it's going to be hard for you to even comprehend what I'm saying if that's not you so you need to work on getting repetitions in you need to go on dates you need to experience things that's number five okay number six I now focus on painting illusions of value instead of real world value here's the hardest thing that I've had to come to terms with over the years women don't give a [ __ ] about
your real world value a lot of times you can be rich you can be whatever you can have high status whatever they don't care and they can't tell women can only tell or women can only see what is in front of them so instead of focusing so heavy on real world value I now focus on painting illusions of value well what does that mean that means if you're a millionaire and you're all by yourself she can't see any social value if you only have $10 to your name okay but you're with five other friends two
of them are let's say guys the other three are girls and you guys all are hiking and you smile like this with your phone and take a picture and you post that on social media or you send it to a girl that you're talking to and you say wish you were here right now or you totally missed out that's an illusion of value she sees popularity and social status meanwhile she doesn't know what you do in your free time and truthfully you might not have purpose or priorities at all but she can't tell but she
does see four other people by you or five other people by you smiling I now focus on painting illusions of value I don't care anymore about real world value when it comes to my dating life now do I care about real world value for myself absolutely right I have goals I have priorities all of that but I'm giving you the truths of dating and I call these bad boy traits but this is also how my dating Dynamic and my game if you want to call it that has shifted now number seven last but not least
I will now show the new girls the messages that other women are sending me especially if the other messages that these other women are sending me have a lot of romantic interest I will just show the new girls that I'm seeing and I'll say oh my gosh look what she just said isn't this funny don't worry about it we're just friends or she's just a friend why because this is what girls do women will often times show you tons of messages from guys and you will see all of the sort of messages that they get
and a lot of times all this does is it demonstrates pre-selection this even goes deeper if you have a lot of dude friends right some of your guys or bros that you hang out with if you have cool experiences with them cool photos from going out maybe you guys went hiking maybe you guys rode motorcycle whatever show them show them pictures show them proof show them anything you doing cool stuff but especially women that are giving heavy romantic interest into you demonstrate that pre-selection women only know what you put in front of them and often
times if you put the right things in front of them they will desire you so I invite you to do one thing I want you to join us inside of this community that I built we are so close to 700 guys and on top of that what I'm going to tell you is this I'm watching guys every single day understand the language of women at an even deeper level because I created a whole system and in this system we broke it down into three pieces front-end game and how to act when you first meet the
woman middle game or mid game I call it and how to act when you guys are on that first one to three dates and then backend game is how to carry out proper relationship Dynamics if it goes that far and because I have this whole overarching system I've been watching this system transform a lot of guys dating lives and every single day we have comments in this community where guys are talking about this and it's helping them so we are so close to 700 guys hop into that with us because this is a great Community
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