my name is taihee gibson and i'm the creator of the personal development school this is your daily breakthrough video and in this video i want to talk to you a little bit about my dax blocked me on everything why is this so this is quite a common topic that comes up and i really wanted to highlight some key reasons that this tends to take place and sort of help you gain insight and understand it a little bit more before i dive in we have a seven day free trial um to our all access pass you
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you're going through that right now into a place of like closure and peace and understanding and of course you can still have like unmet needs and miss the person but it will also give you action steps to even move in the direction of what those needs are so that you can heal further and actually come out of the breakup like the thriving version of yourself long term so that first hour and a half you should see a really powerful shift um that really like releases a lot of bad feelings and and then it'll give you
in the next steps for that last 20 of healing that's left um direction strategies what to do so you can get to a really good place and have grown through the entire process so anyways you can actually check that out for free using the link below um and you have a free trial for seven days which will give you more than enough time to work through that course um so with that being said um wouldn't dax block somebody off of everything honestly generally it's because they are hurting um there can be exceptions to this rule
sometimes they'll block if somebody's reaching out to them too much and they're trying to send a message or shut down sometimes they'll block if they feel really shamed like by something that they did feel like they messed up and they just feel embarrassed and just want to get away from that feeling um but for the most part dismissive avoidance they won't really think to do stuff like that um because if they're healing and hurting they're kind of focusing on themselves like sort of involving themselves in their creature comfort so if they are in pain enough
where they're like really missing somebody that's when they'll go to a great extent to be like let me shut down my social media let me not have to run into this person on social media look at them you know look at their pictures think about them and it's their way of trying to soothe themselves essentially is to get as far away from their bad feelings as possible by trying to get as far away from the person that's causing those feelings of longing or missing as possible and so generally what i'll see is when dismissal points
go to that great length to do something unless it's right after a fight or to make a point it's usually because they're hurt and they're actually having a harder time than you than you may realize to process the breakup to heal and to be able to move on and you know dismissive avoidance they may take longer to feel right after a breakup but sometimes they can be the longest attachment style to heal um around surface relationships not the case but when they've really made a connection in a bond because it's really hard for them to
open up in the first place i've often seen that it's actually most difficult for a dismissive avoided to reconnect to heal to get back together with somebody or sorry not get back together to get over somebody um because they sort of feel like oh my gosh it took me so long to open myself up i don't want to do it again so some important things to keep in mind and what you can do as well is ask yourself like what stories am i telling around this am i taking it personally am i making it mean
that you know i'm rejected i'm exiled i'm not good enough and question those stories because a lot of the time it's actually hey just my ex is having a hard time coping and this is the strategy they're using to suit themselves because that's what days do they push away their feelings they repress their feelings where things associated with feelings so they don't have to get brought up and feel them in those more extreme cases when they are really hurting over somebody so um i hope this makes sense i hope it answers your question um thank
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