The Purpose and Power of A Kingdom Woman | Charisa Munroe

Thank you for joining us for another power-packed message provided by monroe global incorporated and monroe global calm we transform followers into leaders and leaders into agents of change we hope that this message is a blessing to you as you advance your life and discover your purpose now let's go into the message of accepting the baton and moving forward and so in that we have recently launched their mouths and Ruth Monroe foundation and that is our baby and that's what God has given he and I to do to continue what my parents have started but also

to start and establish what they haven't done yet because it doesn't end with them what they were supposed to do with end and now it begins with us so with a foundation we want to continue a lot of what my dad has started using his intellectual knowledge for a lot of his teachings and on leadership and Kingdom and purpose But we really want to take it to the community we want to take it to the world globally locally and we want to touch the lives of persons that my dad haven't even touched yet you'll be

surprised yes there is the world it looks like the world knows him but there's still someone out there that has no clue and so my brother want to reach those that have no clue and so the foundation is supposed to also support them the Monroe Institute and we're Looking at partnering with universities to have a Monroe Institute that for the first time is going to speak on the kingdom of God and so we are always going to be looking for supporters for legacy supporters who are going to help us carry this vision forward and I'm

gonna be talking a lot from gonna I'm gonna talk from my heart today I don't want to preach to you I don't even want to teach I want to just have a straight talk from woman to woman And I want you to be able to stop me in the middle of what I'm saying and ask me a question let's have a conversation because where you sit I've sat there as well listening I'm no better I'm no bigger than anyone we are I understand in this room we pretty much have a soup we are all from

different walks of life we have all been through stuff so just like how you can learn from me I can learn from you and so this is gonna be the book that I'm Focusing on this is a book written by my dad understanding the power and purpose of a woman and he just basically broke us down to what we are but yet making us so great and allowing us to understand the purpose and power that we have and so I've this book has touched and changed my life and so I'm gonna be talking from it

a lot but a lot of what I'm gonna talk to you today is just what I've learned over the years as a woman and being under a dad being under God Who allowed me to be that woman allowed me to be as strong as I am as powerful as I am did not degrade did not put down so they understood that even though we are different me woman you man were equal so like I said we're gonna have a straight talk I don't know if you can see that picture very clearly but that is my

mom so she's gonna be on the back end of all of my slides because that woman that my dad talks about is her everything I know as a woman I learned From my mom and some and so I want to just teach you what I've learned from both of my parents together so the topic tonight we're gonna talk about the purpose and power of a kingdom woman so you know if you hear everyone say they want to be a proverbs 31 woman and we all know what that looks like and we know that just by

reading it's in the words in the Bible proverbs 31 verse 10 to 31 is a long verse but I wanted to focus on just a few key points and They're in yellow so profit a proverbs 31 woman is the wife of noble character who can find she's worth more than rubies she's she's chic oh she is all about bringing good and not harm she stays up all night while others are sleeping she provides food for her family she plants a vineyard she works vigorously her arms are strong for her tasks her lamb does not go

out at night her arms she give to the poor she opens to the poor she extends her hands to the Needy she has no fair women she has no fair and let me interject right here the only person that she fair fair is is who she's clothed in fine linen and purple clothed with strength and dignity she can laugh she speaks with wisdom and gives faithful instruction she watches over the affairs of her household she watches over the affairs of her household as soon as I read that I was written as again today and when

I read that we have so many women that are Watching over the affairs of other people's homes they're so nosy want to know what's going on in this woman that home and then they wonder why five years later their home fall apart her children arise and call her blessed her husband praises her she fares the Lord and deserves honor her works bring her praise so all of this is what a proverbs 31 woman looks like but like any diamond every crown has diamonds has rubies has Precious jewels but like any diamond it takes a process

it takes pruning and it takes persistence so it's it's not easy it's easy to look at that and say I want to be a proverbs 31 woman but how many of us are willing to work how many of us are willing to go through the fire how many of us are willing to go through the challenges and stick with it no matter what so how many of you in here consider yourself beautiful you're beautiful but You're dead you're beautiful but you're empty how many of you are beautiful and have no clue you're even ignorant to

your beauty and I'm not talking about what you see in the mirror you know in the Bahamas in Nassau they recently built a massive hotel a conglomerate of hotels beautiful beautiful from I'm talking from one end of the street to the next they build hotels water park in this area it was supposed to open he's number two December 2014 never opened was the open March 2015 never opened June 2015 still hasn't opened the fight between the government and the person that resold it though now it's not gonna open I mean if you see the buildings

if you see what was built it's beautiful but it is empty electricity still runs through it water still runs through it but it's empty every time I pass I say man this thing is beautiful and not being put to use no One can live in it no amount of money can bring it to life my name is beautiful you would have fall on the outside but completely dead and its beauty it has because it's just a building it doesn't even know how beautiful it is because it takes the person living in it to tell it

you're beautiful but doesn't even have that so I want to crush this ignorance right here tonight because a lot of you are beautiful all of you are Beautiful but I want you to be alive with your beauty beauty should not be dead your viewer your inner man should not be empty and you should just know that you're beautiful no one has to tell you that we were made beautifully and wonderfully that's what we were told just believe it so before anything before and we talk about Queens but before you are a queen you are female

that's just God made male and female that's the basic that we are before you Are female you are a man and not only are you a man but you are a woman the only thing that separates me and you from these two men sitting here is the fact that we have a wound which means that we can book bear children that's the only difference but when God spoke to them and when God spoke to us he said the same thing he wasn't standing in one corner with me the female telling me this is what you

were supposed to do and this is what you do and then different Corner he said I mean to a differ to a man he said the same thing to female that he said to me he said the same thing to mine that he said to women before you are a woman you were gods I deal so he knew exactly what he wanted when he formed a woman he knew exactly what he wanted when he created man which means you actually you are special each and every one of you are special individually plain and simple the

difference however Between man and woman is the woman's please that her her her positioning not only her positioning but her function so once you understand that your position and you once you understand your position understand your function no one can tell you differently and your position is based on your purpose and your design that's why when my dad kept saying years ago discover your purpose discover your purpose live your purpose I know fulfill your purpose that's Because once you discover that your position becomes obvious the opposition becomes evident your position becomes concrete and no one

can shake you the problem is some of us do not know our purpose we do not know why we are here why was I born what am I supposed to do so what's happening is anyone can tell you anything someone tell you one day you're supposed to do this so you're over here the very next day someone tells you something else and you over Here so you're doing this wavering but he wants you to be standing firm right here because you only take one instruction from one person and he's telling you this is your purpose

this is what I want you to do and you stay on that course women do not let anyone tell you don't let a man tell you don't let another woman tell you that your position is in the home your position is in the home if how would you choose I wish somebody Would tell me my position is in the home I love to be in the community I'd love to be to work yeah I make sure I take care of my husband I will make sure I take care of the affairs of my household but

you and no one is gonna tell me that you're supposed to be in the home you're supposed to be domesticated mm-hmm your first position first of all is in God and then if you choose to be a homemaker and you choose to give 100 percent or 85 percent of your self to The home and that's up to you but don't make that mine I don't have no one tell you that's where your position is supposed to be and then your position is not in the world the Bible says clearly we are in the world we

are not of this world your first position and your only primary concern over your position should be in God it should be tied to your Creator if he wasn't your creative he wasn't the person that made you I Would be telling you differently but if you want to know why you were born why you were created why are you here then the best person that acts is the person that made you the person that created you you want to know how this TV works this monitor works I mean don't even ask God because he didn't

necessarily create that he provided the means yes but he didn't make that so you want to add LG life is good the company It came with a manual it'll tell you exactly what it's made for how it was function so you believe that about this lg monitor then why for us do we go everywhere else to find out why was I created what am I supposed to do how do I get power why and then how many of us just don't know that man my Creator was Jesus Christ my Creator was God who saved me

Genesis 1 verse 28 gives a clear instruction of the purpose of women to be fruitful multiply fill the Earth and have dominion over the earth period to be fruitful multiply fill the earth and have dominion over the earth rule over the fish in the sea the birds of the sky and every living creature that moves that is the instruction that God gave that is the purpose that God gave to both man and woman now that is a very loaded statement that has purpose in it that has power in it that has leadership in it that

has potential in it but we looking everywhere else what Am I supposed to do the charge that God gave to everyone is to Genesis 1 verse 28 which means even though we as female look different from man from male even though we have a different function even though we are different we are equal in what we are supposed to do on this earth that's why I don't understand why man on man crime you and I as opposed to be working together with your vision and my vision your purpose my purpose together to make this world

a better place Dominating the earth the problem is we don't understand there's no way and there that says rule over the fish of the sea the birds of the sky and every living creature that moves on the ground and my neighbor and my wife and my children there's nothing in there that talks about ruling over another human being but we do it every day we want power and control over the next man husband's do it two wives everyday wives do it two husbands everyday parents do It two children everyday you cannot control and that's where

we get Wars that's where we get crime that's why the world is getting to be not a better place because of a lack of understanding of this verse right here so let's talk about some facts women and I'm just gonna tell you the facts I'm gonna tell you what I believe and they're factual they may be against what you understand but before you leave here today you and I are gonna share the same facts about You because I don't want anyone to tell you differently and if you have been being told differently over the last

years of your life let me be let me visit Houston today from the Bahamas by way of Florida to tell you you've been lied to women you have purpose we just saw that in Genesis 1:28 woman you have potential for every purpose there's a way and there's a means to fulfill that purpose you've been given talents you've been given passions you've been given Abilities to fulfill that purpose on top strength not because you haven't used it doesn't means it's not there it just needs to be discovered women have talents and abilities you have authority to

dominate Genesis 1:28 the authority was given to you but you just have to understand it and then understand where you are to gauge your authority not all authority is permissible but we all have it let me give you a prime example my brother and I decided to work in my diet about four or five six years ago once we decided that we had much authority as my dad's children pretty much to do anything that we wanted to if we wanted to we had the authority of his kids but because he did not give power to

that authority we had no power to perform in our area of authority so we could not just function under Myles when our international just because we were his children however When he moved us into a position of leadership and said this is what you ought to do and then he made it clear to everyone like you these are my kids this is their position this is what he do not only did we have that authority now we had the power to execute big difference some of us however have Authority and we are executing that before

time or we're executing that wrongly we all have Authority what Authority needs to be managed Authority needs to be instructed It needs to be released in order for you to use it and once you can use and execute your authority that is power but God gave us the authority and he told us exactly how to use it in Genesis 1:28 when we start using it differently we a miss using our authority therefore we've misusing our power and each of us have the power to use our authority the minute that Jesus Christ died and the minute

that he left us with someone who did he leave us with he has given us the Power to do every thing that we are supposed to we must know this we must understand this you and I have the authority and we have the power to be so great we cannot do it on our own because it's gonna be a misuse and abuse of the authority that we have as women women you have the power to rule in the facts women you have vision let me stop right here for a second look at my parents I

love to use my parents as example because my dad was The visionary it didn't mean that my mom didn't have a vision didn't mean that my brother and I didn't have a vision but he had he had a vision and so did we however when you look at unity that's why I say why can't your vision and my vision come together for a greater cause that's why the two of them were like white on rice they were like glue because they complemented each other they were compatible for each other she knew who She was as

a woman he knew who he was as a man and there was no confusing the tool there was no confusing the two so when my brother and I watched that and now here we are having to share the same baton I Know Who I am as a woman he know who he is as a man and he and I are not competing with each other there here he has a vision I have a vision of how he would like to see things done and carried on from this point forward but because operate it doesn't make

him Any more or any better than me and it doesn't make me any better than him but know that you were given a vision you were giving a purpose you have a passion that you would like to see come forth bring that passion out and then find other people who have similar passions who can help you stop competing with other females stop competing with your husband stop competing with your marriage stop competing with siblings competition is the worst thing in the Kingdom and it just should not be there [Applause] every visionary is a leader so

these two go hand-in-hand because if leaders have no vision my goodness you should not be a leader but every leader should have a vision every visionary should have a that should is a leader so if I tell you that you're a leader if I tell you that you have vision and you're a leader in your own right if we were all born to leave the Problem is again ignorant we have no clue we just don't know who can lead in the area gifting so we are leaders who are leading in the and the best way

to lead is in your area of gifting and I say this because we're all different I have a I have something that I do better than someone you have something that you do that I can do that's why we need each other I'm not good at accounting I'm not good at technology but I'm sure there's other women in here that are so you need Me and I need you it's that area of gifting that you are supposed to serve to the world is that area of gifting that separates you as a leader from someone else

as a leader but you're both leaders you're both beautiful you both have an area of gifting that you need to serve the problem is we're sitting on our hand and we so want to I have an area gifting will be looking at our fellow woman who and hurry you're a gifting she's rising to the top and we Want to figure out how do we get there so let me do the same thing she's doing I know you can't do it better than her so yet you're trying to do what she's doing which is not your

your gifting so you're falling short anyway not knowing that if you were to put your own area of gifting to the test you could very well surpass her but you would never know so find out with you what your passion is find out what your area of gifting is what Is that you wake up every money thinking about and then what makes you angry my dad always says your purpose is tied to whatever it is that makes you angry no seriously I hate seeing sick people I do not like seeing oppressed people because of their

health I have been in health for the last 16 years because I do not like I am angry when I see someone who is sick and and as far as they're concerned I have nothing else to live for so I want to focus on yeah you're Sick but you can still do this yes you're sick but you still have life yes you're sick but you're still and figure out okay so how can we yes you have a fall in this way but you can be better in this so what is it that makes you angry

you may you may just hate seeing people with bad hair so you figure out okay so how come how can I change that how can I fix this hence your cosmetologist you hate seeing bad nails then do something about it you hate Seeing ugly feet so you go into foot care what is it that makes you angry and I'm talking that makes you angry over no one over again that's your purpose that's your passion focus on it and sometimes that only means that you have to look into yourself take time out in a day sit

down by you and yourself and God and say okay what is it the problem is we want to be with people all the time why because people tell us exactly how we look what they think about us and we Love hearing that but sometimes sit in to sit in a corner and let God tell you or let you tell yourself I tell myself I don't need no one to tell me anything and then I let God tell me so before anything we taught a god first for you religious people in here Oh God god this

God that I'm sorry I know who made me just like all this wanna turn those who made it so as far as I'm concerned he is first so before anything Let God be first in your life because in God man was created equal we were made in His image and likeness in God purpose is discovered in LG's manual this monitor knows how it's supposed to run and wide was created in God we know why we were created what our purpose is what our potential is in God destiny is established so in God we can find

out where we are going and then we can also find out how we could get there and sometimes how you gonna get there isn't Gonna be plain he isn't gonna just tell you because he wants you to grow along the way so here you may have to take a left because as humans you're gonna want to take a right and a left anyway but if you stick with him he's gonna bring you back on course but by the time you went around the way you would have grown you would have overcome you would have built

character in God potential is revealed in God identity is created and executed who are you women and men were created Equal but they function differently we are equal but we function differently 1st Corinthians 11 verse 12 says for as a woman came from man so also was man born of woman so you see that figure-eight already so don't let no mind tell you differently without you there will not be them without us let's look at these two men here and say one two three without us there will not be you so we already know what

our number one purpose Is to fill the earth as women only women can do it that's why I don't understand how man and man anyway I'm older for teaching for a different day so for us woman came from mine also mine is born of woman but everything comes from God everything starts with you having a relationship with God when you open this LG box whether it's on the top on the side there's a manual there's a close relationship between that manual and this monitor that's how close that Manual and you need to be the problem

is how many of you I do it I do it all the time you open the box take the man you only throw it I'm better yes you never take the manual out you take this thing out and put it down and you just start pressing buttons and plugging it in and forget the manual as far as you're concerned you know what to do or we use the worst thing I have experience so I'm sure I know how this works they say experience to be the best Teacher but it can also kill you so always

revert to the manual my dad used to say it all the time we've worked to revert to the manual the manufacturers manual had that relationship with the Word of God that's why reading your Bible and praying every Gaede every day from I was a kid they said it in Sunday school there's a reason for that because that manual that Bible have so much instructions everything we need as women Is it there there should be no one that should be able to tell us anything different and we say okay I believe you oh I agree oh

I accept know the word know who you are for yourself sometimes someone comes and tell you you say no I don't believe you oh I don't believe that obedience and then when you read and then cuz I do it all the time you get a manual you open and you read it okay fine so you said okay I'm gonna read the Manual the first thing it says is plug me in first now how many of you say yeah I need plug it in it's already charged so you don't do that and then you continue pressing

buttons and so forth and so on when you gonna read if you're gonna read the manual okay at least show us some respect and obey what it says you know my mom always says obey first obedience is better than sacrifice obey first and then you wouldn't have to worry about Consequences you won't have to worry about repercussions punishment so you're gonna have that relationship with your with your maker and then you are going to read and then you're going to abide and you're going to abide first because whether you like it or not whether you

plug this thing in right away or you plug it in five days later you gotta plug it in five days you wasted of what this monitor could've actually provided for you you have five Days behind and will forever be five days behind God's Word is the manual for your life you can try life for yourself and you may succeed for a time but it will not last because true eternity isn't God only after God is first make you second you must love yourself first and there's a chronological order to this because God is love yes

we agree if you don't put God first you don't really know what True love is which means you cannot love yourself truly and if you cannot love yourself truly I don't want you loving me the problem we have as women is we don't love ourselves we'll be trying to show love to everybody else we're trying to show it to our husbands we're trying to show it to our children and we wondering why can't I do this properly once you love God loving yourself is gonna be so easy and you're gonna know what that feels like

you're gonna know What that looks like I love me you don't want to tell me I look good tonight trust you me when I looked in that mirror for the last time I said gone then okay you look good love yourself love yourself let me tell you when you love yourself it's so easy to love other people better yet forget that is so easy for people to love you because then they say man she just you know people always ask me well you know how you get so Confident I just look I love God so

loving me is easy and if I love me then I have so much love to give to you and then I just automatically become a love lovable person my dad was such a selfless person he gave his life in pieces to the world and everyone loved him a lot of preachers a lot of pastors are not like that why you cannot even get to them to touch the hem of their garment because they believe my own TV my life okay because they believe they Better than you and me [Applause] next to God self-love is the

foundation of all relationships I've been saying that all night so now you're wondering why the marriage isn't working you're wondering why you and your mother don't get along you wonder why you and your mother-in-law don't get along self reflect on how much you love yourself self reflect on now where your love is Coming from where you're pulling that love from women you are not ready to date and I'm how many single women I have single unmarried or divorced there you just single unattached okay so I'm gonna talk to you the statement is for you you

are not ready to date or get married until you have first learned how to be alone [Applause] and I learned this I heard it from my Dad I learnt it and then I put it to work in my own life because I'm still single unmarried unattached and happy love be by myself have no problem being alone it doesn't make me lonely because there's a difference but when you have no problem being by yourself then you could consider being ready we have so many women who must be with a BFF they must be with their twin

sister they must be with their mom they must be with people because they don't want to hear Their own thoughts they don't think they're beautiful so the people that they're with are saying are lying to them I think are you look good let's call this place I love your dress this time someone like me sensible or someone else comes along I think what in the world is she wearing but you gotta blame her friends but when you don't need when you could look in a mirror and look good and look sensibly good - there's a

difference [Applause] when you are ready when you when you can go to it I used to do it all the time go to the movies by myself go out to dinner by myself and you always get them eyes how many one I'm sorry yes one and I go what I order what I want pay for my own meal sit down there taking didn't care didn't care what anyone said didn't care how they looked didn't have to have someone there to talk to me if cooking may have taken my iPad got some work Done didn't have

that distraction when you can be just you and God by yourself reading the word praying you don't need someone to say come let's go pray come let's go to church let's let's is like experience okay be careful with let's let's always lay company you must be a whole person not a half person you know my dad back in the day he used to say oh I want to have my better half and then my mom put him in his place And she said she's not his better half she is his better whole you are not

half a person you are not half a being so you don't need a better half to make you whole so until you can be alone you ain't ready to attach to someone else until you understand and believe and you're okay with being hold by yourself and you're not ready to attach to someone else cuz then you only come and be a problem to me and I wish there were Melanie because I would say the same Thing to them men always looking for someone to complete them mm-hmm got time to complete you I got time to

teach you and try to make you a better person I need you to come already completed cuz I complete women know that you are a whole person with your self concept and self perception would you perceive about yourself is more its most important I'm not saying however don't hear hear what others are saying around you because sometimes Others may see a part of us that we don't see okay fine and then you know take it with a grain of salt especially especially if that person that's telling you is someone that loves you has your best

interests at heart then you take into consideration okay if you if that's how I am then be ready to work on that or whatever have you but it was someone that just hating on you yeah you and you know the difference so once you have put God first and then you have put yourself first your identity should automatically start to come into play you should automatically know now what that looks like and Who am I why are you here where are you going what can you do these are questions of the heart we ask them

to ourselves every day and we don't know it what am i doing why am I here how am I gonna get where I'm going these questions can only be answered by your Creator why was this this monitor Created why did it get here how is it supposed to operate how's it supposed to press play that's all and in the manual your manufacturer left you with a manual of why you're here of who you are and where you're going women when you settle into your identity into your purpose all of your insecurities are going to go

away we all have them we are all insecure about something the first step let me say this again we are all Insecure about something I am honest enough to say it made that statement because as long as I say we I've included myself the first step to working on those insecurities is admitting it to yourself and then figure out where that root cause of that insecurity is and why and for the most part it's gonna be because you do not understand who you are and what you are supposed to be doing because as soon as

you do then you're Gonna start working on it I am insecure about my weight insecure about my weight so I know what I have to do and I work on it period you ain't gotta tell me I know exactly what I have to do I don't like my arms I think they're big I know what I have to do and I deal with that how many of us don't like our arms look at that look at that welcome to the arm Club it's good to know that I'm not alone and that is a very good

example women you Would be surprised the insecurity you have it's the same insecurity your neighbor have yet that is the same person you run a competition with both of you all have the same insecurity but yet you've got a competition what I want to do is find somebody whose insecurities not their arms and then I want to be able to say okay so how you get those arms and then you learn from them don't wear yourself out trying to please people because that's exactly What you're going to do you're going to wear yourself out have

an identity for yourself that no one can shake make or break remember earlier I talked about I weigh in and sway have an identity that's so strong in your purse in your purpose that there is nothing that anyone can say to move you they can make up an identity for you because people are gonna do it every day they can shake you and they show can break you so I want to talk to single women and no I Don't want to talk to single women I want to talk to every woman in here because every

woman in here whether you are married or unmarried you are single okay so this table got it let me say it again for everybody else whether you are married or unmarried you retain your singleness because it's it's as a single person that you are whole and unique that should never go away that's why I can't have someone come who want me to complete them and I don't need anyone to Complete me because whether you are here or not I'ma be that complete and a whole person a unique person which means I am gonna be forever

single so you don't talk with my singleness that's why I can give myself to you and share myself with someone as a single person you're you're so free and not free to mingle but you're just free to seek first the kingdom of God especially those that are unmarried if you're unmarried and you're and you're not not dating but you just You're not attached now is the time to do exactly that see versus Kingdom Kingdom because everything you want that man you're looking for that job you want the money you want to make it's gonna come

everything you want is gonna be added do not be anxious philippians 4:6 says do not be anxious about anything I'm talking about the unmarried but in every situation by prayer and petition with Thanksgiving present your requests to God show me my single people again anything you want if it's a man you want a better body you want a better job you want different friends you want to notice what your purpose is plain and simple request of God exactly what you want to know or exactly what you want keep praying never stop use this time in

your unmarried Ness even if you've been divorced use this time to elevate yourself and elevate your relationship in him so he can fill you Because to be very honest we are alone but sometimes it gets lonely but you want him to fill that because you don't want that loneliness and now turn to depression and the peace of God which transcends all understanding with God will will guard your hearts and your mind in Christ Jesus so use this time as your single even the ones that are married know when to pull away from your husband go

into your closet and pray know when to go and be by yourself That's why I can't find can't have no one who need me to complete them you could imagine having someone on your tail all the time women how many of you believe I want excuse all the men you are you are hair at your own risk but how many of you believe that men are big babies I love my table over so they already Bay babies and then they want to come high-stepping women you must you must be strong within yourself and you must

know You must retain your singleness because men already gonna come unfortunately with the notion that they're stronger than us not so much physically but just in power and in function and God created men first and he has put them as the head of the home so women just know what is the fact and that's what it is men are the head of the home they are supposed to provide where the head goes the body goes that's why you want to be careful the mind that you choose to be Your head that's why your head first

of all needs to be so strong and it's so steadfast so the hair that you choose to put on top of that doesn't sway you doesn't break you doesn't make you you know I love to talk about Queen Esther mine she was one of my Esther with my mom's favorite book and she talked about this woman all the time my mom resembled her so much you know Queen Esther she was lovely she had she had a lovely figure and she was Beautiful like a whole lot of us in here she was presented to the king

but she was not presented to him until she went through 12 months of beauty treatments remember early I said if you anyone can be any one can desire to be a proverbs 31 woman but you have to go through you have to be willing as a woman to go through the training to go through whatever it's gonna take to get you there and to be the perfect woman I'm the perfect queen that you're supposed To be the problem is you know my dad was a purpose guy but my uncle doctor a defender who also died

in a plane crash his main focus of teaching was on process and so when you combine the two of them you can't have purpose without a process and then you can't be going through a process without a purpose the problem is a lot of us we want to get from one end from A to B forget Z we want to get from A to B without this middle piece so we don't jump we don't Fly you can hold miracle happens and we just a pair from one to the next but we don't want to go

through this piece right here however it is this process that's going to make us strong enough it's gonna make us wise enough it's gonna give us the power that we need to even withstand would be is going to bring because B is gonna come with its own challenges here is gonna come it with its own if you have bypassed the process of getting Here you're not gonna with Stein here if Esther did not go through those 12 months of beauty treatments with oils and perfumes I can assure you the king would not have looked at

her would not have chosen her you know how much time those women meet disappoint God because we don't want to go through the process we want everything he has for us now we want everything we want now and sometimes because he's the God that he is he gives it to us when we wanted and Say okay here you go and then we fall or we fail and then we wonder why because of going through the process King Esther warned the King's favor an approval God wants to give us his favor we deserve his favor as

women and not only the favor of God but we deserve the favor of man and I'm talking both male and female and we deserve their approval after we have been prepared and gone through Beauty Esther she had a beauty of character that kept Her on the throne now character is so important because again she was beautiful she went through these treatments she got chosen now she's there she's able to wear this crown now how many of us know what is needed to stay there because now that your hair @b it's gonna take work to stay

there and then also to keep going from B to C all the way to Z you have to know now how to stay there your character needs to be intact so That you can stay there my dad always compared character to statue statues doesn't matter what you do to it it stays there looking the same doing the same thing you can paint it you can put graffiti rain come hurricane tornado snow sleet it does not move that's what your character as a queen should look like that's what your character as a woman should look like

but means you're living according to your manual she obeyed all of the Principles of Mordecai she was loyal to her faith she was self-confident she was courageous she fasted and prayed prayer and fasting is important for every Kingdom citizen she pleased the king she did everything to please the King in order for her petition to be fulfilled and petition here we're talking about prayer so her prayer requests and as a result of that not only did she save her life but she saved her people but look at What she had to do before she can

do that we are beautifully made you know I saw this man I saw this somewhere I was reading and they said in beautiful you know anybody you look at the word beautiful it means be you fully be who you are all by yourself fully be the best that you can be fully and that is so much that means you should be learning about yourself every day you should be asking God okay So what else am i I know they saying all there is about me so he can tell you what you are fully and from

the inside out be beautiful not from the outside and beauty is so much deeper than the skin that's part of the reason why as much as I don't like my arms I'm okay with them because I know that yeah my arms may not be as small and as firm as I would like them to be but it doesn't make me beautiful Who I am on the inside makes me beautiful your inner beauty or Your stench will always come to light so you can put on all the makeup you want you put on all the fine

linen and clothing you want and you can wear that mask for some time but eventually we are going to know who you are on the inside and either that's going to look really beautiful I was gonna have a stench challenges should come to define you I'm sorry challenges challenges should not define you they should refine you we all hate them for the last 365 days plus I Have had to go through the challenge of losing two parents not being able to grieve properly because now I have a weight of responsibility but it has not crushed

me it has not oppressed me it does not make me saddened to the point where I cannot do not want to live but it continues to refine me I thought I was a strong woman before November 9 - last year you guys have no idea I thought I was strong then but I know that I am It's the only way that I could have endured and continued to endure what I go through and I have to believe that there is something far better in it for me women we function by way of influence that's the

difference between us as women and men they function by way of power we are so influential we live by influence power so when you look at anything that influences something it's always gonna be some kind of change So women we are receivers we always receive we love to get gifts you know anything a man has to give we receive physically mentally emotionally but everything that anyone gives us if we have to ever give it back the way that we got that thing is not gonna be how we give it back if a man gives us

a seed we are gonna nine months later he's gonna have a full-blown so full-blown son or daughter anything anyone gives us as women we are going to ink you baited It's going to grow and it's gonna develop it's gonna transform women this is what you do this is your power men don't have that power so I don't care how much seed a man give another man it ain't gonna wear [Applause] what is a waste of seed but if a man give a woman's seed he's going to get a nation women that is the power that

we have when you look at Adam and even the story of how sin happened God gave Adam The instruction do not touch that tree do not eat of that tree he never told God never told you and me not to touch that tree not to eat of that fruit he told that to the man however notice men Eve picked the tree nothing happened she picked the fruit nothing happened nothing happened when she picked it she came to Adam blinked her eye batted her eyes looking all naked beautiful form said honey please you must try this

Adam Forgot that God told him Beauty boldness courageous of standing before him yes there please and he bites and the world stopped and then they blame it on me and you that's why your head women the head that you choose to be the head of your home is so important because God has given man so much instruction the mailman but that means we must also know the power that we have because really and truly even fluence Tim she didn't even know She was doing it but she did now he should have known better but she

influenced him and she did not know it that's why when God said we must submit to our man he had to put some type of controlling mechanism over us or else we would just be fire bombs just cannons just influencing everything and anything without any proper order so submission as women do not look at it as a bad thing God is giving us these beautiful creatures called men to help manage us So we don't kill ourselves and kill everybody else around us so just like how they need us we need them wisdom is so important

as women you know we seek nothing else we must seek understanding so that as we apply whatever it is that we know to our lives and we speak words of wisdom a woman who seeks to develop our components is a wise woman wisdom is the application of knowledge and information that means before anything we must be Always seeking knowledge and information and understanding about ourselves proverbs 4 7 says wisdom is supreme therefore get wisdom if it costs you all you have however get understanding and tell you why that's important because you're only going to apply

what you understand and you're only going to understand what you know so make sure that the information that you're getting you have a correct understanding of what it is so the cost You anything because what you apply to your life is gonna be what you understand make sure you're not applying the wrong understanding so I'm always asking questions and I'm always reacting and I'm always seeking God for understanding so though when I apply what it said to me when I apply what I know what I understand not only am i applying good knowledge but I'm

applying a right understanding that's what makes you a p31 woman wisdom will protect you From the dangers of knowledge understanding is important because you will only apply to you what you the the knowledge you have based on the understanding that you have of that knowledge that's exactly what I said so don't just know but apply what you know but I know as religious people and I know just as mere humans we do not apply a lot of what we know you'll be said I would be surprised how much of you know a lot in here

and you aren't applying it To your lives and that can be for various reasons it can be just out of fare it can be out of a sueance you know that you as soon as you start applying then you're gonna be held accountable so that means a lot of you are lazy and you're lazy because you don't want the accountability and the responsibility that's gonna come that application but you're killing yourself usually you're shortchanging yourself which means you're shortchanging me of whatever it Is that you have to give to the world when you do not

apply what you know that I know a lot of you know more you're killing yourself you're shortchanging yourself which means that you are shortchanging others of which you have to give to the world so let's get rid of garbage and let's get rid of baggage because we all got it if you over 20 you got baggage so let's start to be as women let's start to be honest with ourselves And not only ourselves but let's start to be honest with others let's forgive ourselves remember I said God first and then you second so be honest

with yourself and then you could be honest with me forgive yourself of some of the things you've been through in life forgive yourselves about you from your past forgive yourselves of the wrong things you may have done and then you can forgive those around you who have wronged you know unconfronted Insecurities no one confront your weaknesses know them admit them to yourselves and then deal with them nothing that God made is bad or ugly so don't ever let anyone tell you you are ugly in Genesis the Bible says and everything when he made it he

said this is God will not choose your maid for you this is for my fingle people and this was just God being very wise and smart because he knew if he choose you're me And you and yo mate don't end up staying together or your mate does this sudden ex he knew you would blame him so he gives you options and then he allows you to choose but he is going to help you based on his instructions and then you choose accordingly remember you are not a better half you are a better whole and unique

person so when you are understood and you are ready to apply all that to your life then you can say okay I'm on my way to becoming a p31 woman you can Now wear the crown of a queen because just putting on this crown isn't gonna make you a queen automatically that's the mistake a lot of us make we read his crown and we fake it we can do it very well a woman is ready and prepared for whatever and whom ever God has for her when she is ready to put the work and becoming

a p31 woman a p31 woman is a woman that knows who she is and knows her purpose she's a woman of character She's a woman of love loyalty and Trust and she is the woman that Affairs no one but she was my p31 woman she was my example and she continues to be my example and she was the example to so many other women I just want to recap and you can repeat after me God first you second character is so important beauty is automatic identity significant faith a kingdom must as a kingdom woman you

must have faith you know my dad always says faith Is the currency of the kingdom of God that's a topic for another day the submission women submit submit not only to yourselves not only to your husbands but to God let words out of your mouth be filled with wisdom know that your influence as a woman and only use that influence to bring about positive growth and positive change because we can use our influence for bad and not know it or we can intentionally do it but any influence that used for bad is what we Call

manipulation but let's start to use our influence for positive change and growth how many of us are gonna do that how many of us know who we are and believe that we are exactly what our maker said we are how many of us are willing to use our power to you to know our purpose discover who we are and say yes to God they know the man and put God first thank you once again for listening to this message as we hope that it has been A blessing to you our goal is to show you

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