what's going on man where you calling from uh New Jersey all right man what you got for me to make a long story short uh I recently turned 24 and um I'm living with my mom um got no job uh my confidence is like I got no confidence with de with women like I got no like I like the the thought of just approaching the girl like makes me you know what I'm saying I was I don't know fearful would be the right word but like I just I I just I I just can't do
it so so let me help you out let's start off let's stand up and take the shirt off let me explain to you why all right all right okay look at how obese you are and I want you to look at yourself in the mirror right now I want you to have a true moment with yourself why the hell would you be confident talking to women looking like that what in the world makes you think that looking like that you looking at yourself in this screen right now you're looking at yourself in in this Mirror
Image what in the world will make you think that you should be confident talking to women you guys think that confidence is something that comes out of thin air how you're obese how tall are you 57 and 34 you're 57 and what are you 350 pounds uh 322 oh man how where is the confidence gonna come from bro that's a good question all right so you're not even proud of what you look like you're not even proud of the man in the mirror how the hell did you let yourself get to this point sit down
sit down come sit down come sit down come sit down how did you let yourself get to the point where you're 300 pounds and your 57 living with him how the hell did this happen well uh I would say you know this like like experiencing um trauma through life you know you know I you know uh for for example I don't really have much friends um that's to my anxiety you know like I'm I'm I'm afraid to S it's not it's not even just with girls like it's just people in general like you know I
don't have a lot of social skills you know and I got the traumas you know my past a lot I dealt with a lot of trauma you know what tra what trauma give me give me an example of what trauma You' dealt with like bullying to be specific uh High School okay is it anything related to your weight yeah my physical appearance uh my way uh the way I look you know stuff like that so okay so what I want you to understand KL is this you have to have so much pride in yourself as
a man that you're going to be the best version of you you're going to be prideful of what you look at in the mirror and other people will treat you based on that Pride what you guys don't understand about human beings is this human beings will generally treat you how they they feel like you view yourself you guys look at me you can tell I'm very confident people treat me with respect that's because I have a lot of pride in the way I look when I take my shirt off I'm proud of the way I
look when I when I'm when I stick to my word I'm telling myself why other people should treat me a certain way I'm setting the standard for myself if you don't set the standard from yourself people won't treat you good because they look at you and say bro you're fat as [ __ ] you're not working out you're you you like they're like bro what are you like people people are literally trying to tell you that you should be doing better so at what point do you get tired of looking like that right because all
of that all do you looking like that is increasing your cortisol you have high level high levels of cortisol low levels of testosterone that is naturally going to make you feel more depressed and anxious because you're excessing weight your you're obese you're not going to feel good about yourself being 320 pounds so it starts from there it starts from being sick and tired of being sick and tired of looking like that and then what you're going to do is okay I'm going to get my body in shape I'm gonna have pride in the way I
look I'm gonna get a haircut look at your hair bro drop your hair why is it why you why why your you literally have three ball spots on your head why haven't you gotten a haircut uh um well uh I what I used to do fit was I I would try to get I would get a haircut like low so it wouldn't show um but uh I I haven't I would say it's been like a month or two since I got my last haircut how Okay Kyle how much how often do you masturbate bro uh
I would say once or twice a week okay is that's on that's on the low end or the high end uh I no I was say about yeah I would say about once or twice a week I I used to when I was younger I used to do a lot more but but now that I'm older and I and I've been watching your stuff like you know the video you make I know like it's it's a bad habit so I've been trying to cut down on it okay so why haven't you picked your ass up
and gone to a gym well I actually sign up for a gym because I haven't gone yet like I signed up like three weeks ago but like I've been procrastinated and being lazy and not how can you afford to be lazy lazy when you you're you're invisible you're literally invisible to people people don't know this you the women you want don't notice you how in the world doesn't that piss you off you're living with your moms you're not having sex when's the last time you had sex I would say be honest lie to I would
say 2019 but even I would fresh I wouldn't even count that because like that was like I I went to my family from Jamaica we went to Jamaica and we went to like like a strip club or whatever and so I would even the last the last the last piece of booty you got was was one you paid for yeah okay and before then nope never never so you're essentially a virgin I would say yeah technically okay how in the world K does this not piss you off that's a good how like you if I'm
a man and as tough as life is as hard as life is as a man I'm invisible women don't even notice me I haven't had sex that I didn't pay for I would be doing everything in my power how the [ __ ] could I be what I would suggest maybe you need to go get your testosterone check because there's no way you have to have low low te you have to because do that you go to a clinic a testosterone clinic and you let them test your testosterone because at 24 years old there's no
way you should be in this position and you're okay with it what city do you live in I live in New Jersey so are you close to New York right next to New York all all those women all those beautiful women you can have access to you just don't even want that's crazy that [ __ ] ain't funny bro you shouldn't be laughing you should be pissed off you should be crying when I say that sh you should be like [ __ ] I'm upset I should go do better there's no there's no laughter that
should come out of your out of you you should be angry that's the problem you're not angry enough about where you are so you just like oh well you know fit says do this do that and yeah it sounds great but you know once I'm done this conversation I'm going to go back to being a loser like you got to say you know what today is the day I'm I'm tired of this I'm going to get in good shape I'm going to I'm going to get a haircut I'm gonna start going to gym I'm gonna
start applying for jobs why the hell are you living with your mom and you haven't applied for a job yet yeah that's that's a good question you know I've never been on my own so it's like but uh I think you're right I think it's about time I4 at what point you at what point you gonna start at what point 30 35 yeah hey bro you gota be a listen I can't make you a better man where is your father passed away okay when did he pass away uh 2019 okay sorry about your loss so
2019 it seemed like everything just went down to [ __ ] for you yeah after that yeah okay so was it were you was your father Heavenly in your life uh here and there uh he actually lived in Jamaica so I would I would visit him like he wouldn't come over here so during this every summer I would go and spend some time with it for I want to ask you something right so all right so let's start with the hair right so do you think that I should try to do something about it or
do you think I just get a haircut and maintain my haircut and keep it like that or like what do you think I should do you got so many different problems right now that's the least of them they drop your hair drop it like you're bald so like you got a severe ball spot I would say if you want to just try to keep it maybe try to grow it out for as long as possible and see if it can cover some of the ball spot but you're generally gonna have to just go bald you're
gonna have to just cut it all off you need to start going to the gym all right so you can lose your 322 pounds you need to lose you need to lose almost a 100 pounds that [ __ ] not just 100 over 100 you got to lose like 150 pounds that is a that is a that is a task that I need you to take on today right because listen you haven't had sex ever let's not count the the the the the stripper in in Jamaica you are not gonna get no ass there's no
girl that's gonna look at you K and be like yep I'm gonna pick him not a chance so you should get angry not angry at the world don't turn into an Intel don't turn into one these guys who ha swiming you're going to turn into a guy that takes action every single day if you sign up for a gym start going to it I need you to be applying for jobs every single day work somewhere going person or online yeah online which on who the hell gonna hire you to work online you need to go
get you need to a regular job you don't have no income you got to start I me like apply online or like go in person with my resume in in person bro and but on online you need to go online and in person and you need to go start applying for some jobs I need you to be in the gym four days a week I Ain be doing an hour of cardio every single day every time that you don't want to do it every time you want to sit down and do nothing think about all
the women that don't even notice you should piss you the [ __ ] off all right bro all right I really appreciate it all right man get to work bro
