[Music] hey it's Arland welcome back to the tribe accelerator this video is essentially the shortcut of this entire program um if you watch this video very carefully perhaps watch it multiple times through take notes really take time to do the worksheets the two worksheets that are available for download uh below then you will know really how to build a Circle in the Fastest way possible so you know uh th this video will basically be known as the shortcut video because it tells you the the shortest path to getting you know the the tribe that you
desire so let's dive into it here's what we're going to cover today so we're going to talk about the uh principles of Adventure we're going to talk about solo Adventures Adventure projections which is the most powerful play in your tribal trans surfing book we'll be discussing Group Adventures and then branded Adventures it's all about Adventure so first we're going to start off uh with Adventure principles uh some of you may know this this is from when I was in Italy don't worry we're not actually naked but me and my buddy Justin here who's a fellow
Adventurer uh we bonded over sack tanning so if you're not tanning your sack as a dude then you know you're what are you doing you know You're letting the the guys hang out for nothing you know um [Music] [Music] [Music] you know how we uh bonded over sack tanning yeah what I'm going to do is I'm going to put a black box over this right here that's amazing ball going like this this is why We uh me and Justin became friends and why I'm honestly here tan literally tan FaceTime me in Arizona yeah with Palm
Springs and uh uh she's just like uh oh my God Arin this is my friend that also Tans his balls and then like pans out to Arland and arland's like dude you T your sack too I was like let's [ __ ] go so anyway Adventure principles an adventure involves traveling it's not much of an adventure if you're not in a completely different and new environment So that's just something I want to Define right off the bat and then principles Adventure principles these principles are principles you can apply to make your trips your adventures consistently
original and epic and we also utilize 8020 thinking when discussing this so we think about um if we remember if you remember 8020 thinking from earlier in the program this is how to get more out of Life by doing less and we want to apply 8020 Thinking to the way that we design and plan our adventures and then also while we're there uh how you know applying that thinking in order to make them more Unforgettable so you may want to review that module uh I'll review it a little bit here but that's um that's earlier
in week two when we talk about uh goal setting and 8020 thinking and the uh three steps here of really you know um making sure your adventures whether they're solo Adventures group Adventures or branded the main three things we want to do is create a maximization list which is creating essentially a short list of or long list of all the things that you want the trip to include to make it a success and then you remake the list through the lens of 8020 thinking so we'll go through that uh the second is a content maximization
list so making a board on Pinterest or a saved collection folder on Instagram or whatever you know Photo collection photo collection service you want to use platform you want to use uh of all the content that you want to get on that trip which is great because when you have content you know you want to get it it it really uh allows you to mold and shape the trip to exactly what you want it to be and it gives you stuff to actually do and places to see and uh it just makes the trip you
know a lot more exciting so the third part is the power of Adventure Projection which is basically once we've in after you finished this video you have planned uh several Adventures that you are going to go on in the near future but you can actually use these uh before they even happen in order to get closer to people so we're going to break that down with various examples of how to do that so A maximization List um is it's basically you know remembering that um again an adventure is not something that Uh it is in
a is like in your town or in your in your own City it's somewhere completely new and so therefore you want to Define like these these uh these six questions here so what is the purpose purpose of this trip overall is it just for fun and Adventure is it to get to know people you know be creative with your your answer there um you want to think about obviously who do you ideally want on this trip what like what types of people do you want to go with you Want to think about where can you
find those people alt together you want to think about where you're going to stay and using Airbnb um to find some cool spots you want to think about where you're going to eat it's really easy to just use Google or Yelp or Instagram to figure out the best restaurants in those cities and we're going to break that down even further with examples and what to do so you know using YouTube and Instagram and Google To find the best things to do and then also make sure you have something planned for every day um because you
know worse comes to worse you can like if you if you get tired one day and you guys want to you you want to just chill out for a day that's okay you can kind of just go and explore but it's good to have something planned every day you don't want to be like scrambling for [ __ ] to do like while you're there you want to maximize the whole entire uh Length of the trip and then you know you you do that and then you do it again through the lens of 8020 thinking so
we will uh go into what that means which is basically after you've you know answered all the questions on this list for solo branded and group Adventures you ask yourself and by the way this is very high level uh so you know we're going to provide examples don't worry but I'm just giving you the system uh the model and so you Ask yourself how could we make this adventure more meaningful more fun less stressful less expensive and even more profitable and you could even ask yourself how could we potentially get paid to go on this
adventure so these are very strange and mind stretching questions but when you when you think like this it actually allows you to do stuff that's out of the ordinary and remember 8020 thinking is completely different than anything you've ever done And you can use it Beyond this right like this is the really the 8020 um lens of life is the best way to live your life because it gets you living unconventionally and you know the majority of people live average lives so if you want to be exceptional if you want to have an exceptional tribe
an ex exceptional social life then you need to ask weird questions like this that normal people think are impossible so so that's the 88 20 lens there and Then you can also ask yourself you if you could only do one thing each day what would you do each day on your adventure and then what you want to do as I said before is create a content list so a content list you know could look something like this like this is actually the exact one I had when I went to aahu um in December 2020 and
you know I just went on Pinterest I typed in aahu and found all these dope IM and I was able to see uh The vast majority of these places that um that you see here and even get some cool Drone footage so and and just like camera footage as well so yeah definitely recommend doing that because it makes it more real and then you can also add these images to your vision board just so that you're looking at on a daily basis and really ingraining that thought into your into your mind and thus again you
know attracting it more to You so let's talk about solo Adventures here because this is really step one you know applying what we just talked about that model to taking an adventure by yourself somewhere and this is something I still do today even though I have an abundant circle of friends but I've done many times in the past and I'm going to give you several examples here so solo Adventures are awesome when you're building a circle in a completely new city or just you feel like you've Struggled making friends in the past and you just
want to do it um and you could almost view this lesson here as I said earlier in this module as this course allinone video because it's exactly what I would do if I moved somewhere and I and I know zero people uh people and it's great for when you feel like just saying [ __ ] it and breaking out of the Matrix you know like we like this Hawaii trip that I put as a thumbnail here I was just feeling really like fed up with Just honestly just like the pandemic and the restrictions and all
that and like being told what I could and couldn't do and I was just like like [ __ ] all this like people are just listening to Authority like I just want to go do something radical and different and so I was like you know I'm just going to go to Hawaii alone like [ __ ] it that's just what I'm going to do everybody is living in a box in life especially more than ever right now like you're in a box like You're watching a screen on YouTube you're looking at your phone that's a
box you're looking at your laptop that's a box you are living in a box in your house in addition to that there's obviously like the the metaphorical box of stay in the box of society just don't follow your dreams go get a 9 to-5 go to school do your work and I don't even need to wear these headphones anymore that that I have on I don't even need to wear this hat I don't even need these Glasses really I keep the glasses on what I encourage you to do as an action step is do something
crazy you know do do something you wouldn't normally do do something unconventional okay like this week and I don't know if travel restrictions are going to let me but I'm planning a trip to Hawaii you know I'm just going to go [ __ ] it why not like who does that you know I'm just going to go I'm just going to go and we're going to go to Hawaii so I'm going to do it so what you do is you basically just research and choose an event or a place where you're going to meet a
lot of people you know you're going to [ __ ] with and just book a trip there and then you can also you can go and just message no one and just kind of meet people while you're there or you can DM a bunch of people in location tags on Instagram and I'll break down exactly how to do that uh in this video um as some ideas For solo trips you could book you could go you could just right now like put in your calendar art basil you could put in your calendar Coachella Burning Man
healing like any kind of healing Retreats Fashion Week whether it's Paris or LA or or New York Fashion Week Super Bowl weekend um crypto conferences like a Grant Cardone or Gary ve self-help seminar type thing you know these are places that the locations already have very likely you know if you're in this Program the types of people that you want to meet and be friends with and you can just book these now like you can just book your Airbnb or your hotel or whatever hotel tonight is something we'll go into um and yeah it's super
it's it's really pretty simple you know you just figure out like oh these are like large Gatherings that are already curated and like all the people that I probably want to be friends with like cool high value Dudes probably you know investing in like crypto and real estate and all the stuff that you're interested in um and you know pretty girls and interesting girls as well you know like like not that pretty interesting isn't the same thing but you know what I mean um like the people that you want to meet are at these events
already so why not just like do a little research and just kind of kind of book it you know you don't need to go with people you can just go Um or you can just you know do something like I did like just go to Hawaii and just say [ __ ] it you know and then what you want to do is you want to like after you book this trip we're moving down to the the uh come up with a second Adventure bullet point is you come up with a second Adventure off in the
future and that can be like a an envisioned group or even like branded trip and then what happens is when you go on this trip alone like the solo Adventure and you're there and you're meeting people you basically have something in off in the future your which is your second adventure and you can promote it at the current Gathering you come up with a second adventure and you tell people about it on the first Adventure on the solo trip and then once you get commitment week to week like up until that that trip you create
smaller Gatherings like your weekly Gatherings like we went over in 4.1 in order to Strengthen the relationship and that's it like if you just screenshot this like this is how to build a tribe in the fastest way possible this like this is it so here let me give an example of when I um I look so hilarious here my haircut is just what is it I don't know um this is from Melbourne I'm saying it correctly now in this video I'm saying it completely wrong I'm saying it like Melbourne which is not how you say
it it's Melbourne um even though I would Argue with Australians it does look like Melbourne but you know whatever so when I was um when I was in Australia in 2018 I was in Sydney and I got there as 10 you know it's 10,000 miles away from where I'm from and I didn't know a single person and what I decided to do is like I wanted to plan basically a solo trip um to somewhere as fast as possible where I knew I would meet a bunch of people that I would resonate With that I could
bring into my circle so I discovered that VidCon which was like you know for me for what I wanted to meet I wanted to meet like Australian YouTubers and influencers and I discovered that VidCon was in Melbourne Australia which was about a hour plane ride away from me and it was like the first weekend that I was in Australia I was pretty lucky with that but so I I booked a a flight and I just like went down there I didn't have tickets or Anything I just knew I had to be around these people because
if I went to that one event then I would literally meet everyone I would need to meet okay so what was the perf the purpose of the trip you know going through our framework here well was just to have fun but also to make new friends and to like really build out my Social Circle uh my my tribe in Australia you know since I was 10,000 Mi away and I didn't know anybody um I wanted this was like my Method of doing it the fastest way possible you see what I mean here and so who
was I going to invite well I could have gone alone but I decided to bring along a uh actually a guy who had followed my my channel just to basically help document and like film and you know he was he was like a good vibe too um shout out Aaron um and yeah it was you know pretty adventurous like I literally like trusted this person I didn't know from The internet I ended up staying at his uh at his like parents house one night and then we woke up super early and his um his parent
or his mom like drove us to the airport and and then we just went down to uh to Melbourne together and yeah it was sick um it was a lot of fun we're going on an adventure so I'm already leaving Sydney guys and [Music] Then so we're somewhere else in Australia we didn't go too far but should we say no no not yet white we we're here for a very special reason uh those of you that follow YouTube a lot will probably be able to figure it out let's just say there's going to be a
lot of other YouTubers doing the same thing we're doing and probably a lot of other people staring at us like we're [Music] crazy How's it going so we're in Melbourne um we're in a very large Exhibition Center the Melbourne Exhibition Center Melbourne is hosting VidCon Australia oh yeah there's only one problem and that is I don't have a pass so and so again I knew where was I going to find all the people I wanted to network with well at VidCon now you might not want to meet YouTubers and influencers You might want to meet
you know people who are just more adventurous and into like self-development well for that maybe you go to like a Costa Rican Retreat or something or maybe you go to um you know like art basil Miami or maybe you go to some crypto conference in Dubai I know some guys in this program um have done that um or at least scheduled that for the future and so you you know you want to just like do re do some [ __ ] research and like figure Out like like just think about where are you going to
find the people that you want and what like big gatherings are they going to so I knew all the people that have the shared interest of YouTube are going to be a VidCon so I was like all right I'm gonna go to VidCon and where was I going to stay well I use the hotel tonight hack uh if you don't have like tons of money or if you need to book a hotel very last minute you just use hotel tonight it is um incredible You know it's just like the easiest way to book a hotel
let's say you want to book one in Los Angeles uh let's see yeah [ __ ] it let's do Los Angeles tonight and it just basically pumps out some like great deals these are you know pretty expensive but um you can just go through and you can find you know deals all around and um they're typically much better than and La is expensive like period but um they're typically you know Better deals I found than any other site and here look crock and Los Angeles like let's say you just needed to be in LA and
you didn't really care what your room looked like boom there it is you know like if you're going to for example a thing like VidCon where you know you're going to meet all the people you want to meet you probably just want the cheapest option because like you're not bringing people back to your hotel room you just want to meet as much people as Possible so get something basic and that's it super super simple hotel tonight is certainly a life hack so yeah um let's see back here so where do you eat well simple you
just Google trendy restaurants right so let me uh let's go back here let's do Melbourne I don't even know yeah Melbourne okay so I guess they do have it in Australia damn look at the prices here sick right so if I were going to VidCon again I could just book this for $132 and like it actually looks pretty good like that looks not bad at all um that looks like much better than I think what I even had back then so then what I would do is I would go um and I would go and
search like Melbourne best restaurants and I would just search Okay 29 best places to eat and drink in Melbourne Melbourne melbs Melby Australians in this program are laughing right now um Cutler and Co this looks good you Know so you just like you just do some research okay and let's say you know I settle on Mina Mimi m Mina Mimi Shima okay and then what you do is you go on Instagram and you type in the name of the restaurant Mina Mishima and there it is Melbourne and you can then click okay it does it
have a location tag should have a okay yeah there minamishima so now you have uh a Location tag right here and you can click that to then see um if my thing would load like who is actually going to this restaurant because you know you kind of want to know if you're going on a trip like this in order to maximize your time there in order to meet the people that you'd want to meet um you want to make sure that the places that you're going to eat you you could potentially get lucky and run
into someone that um that you resonate with Right that one's not really loading right now so whatever um let's see let's go to that first one that one looked kind of cool Cutler and Co actually wait that one doesn't look super cool cookie looking for something that looks like trendy let's see did we load here yet oh it loaded Okay cool so now you know if you go to Minima in there you're going to meet Maybe a pretty girl like this uh you know maybe yeah so you get the point you got of get the
vibe and you can audit the place before you go and make sure that it's you know the kind of place where you'd want to go and yeah this looks like you know probably place that if I were in Melbourne again I would consider going here so that's what I do and I just you know research a bunch of them and that's it it's pretty simple so then What do you do well what I needed to do was figure out how to actually get a ticket here so I just like I literally just winged this whole
trick but this whole trip or this whole adventure and ended up being an incredible Adventure because of that um but uh but yeah I mean the main thing like you don't have to worry too much about where to stay where to eat it's more so just like what are you going to um you know what do you how are you going to get like in the Actual event and access to the people that you would want to meet you know and you know if you're doing like if you're paying for for example like a like
a I don't know a retreat in like Tulum or something like that well you don't have to worry too much about all the logistics but if you're scrapping it together kind of like I was then you might want to do that kind of research but it's all together really pretty simple you know these these events Already exist where they have a collection of people that you want to meet and you just need to [ __ ] get off your ass and book it and go it's right there for you it's really simple so I'll give
you another example here so this was the Hawaii example so back in yeah uh 2020 I just decided to I was you know fed up with like everything happening in in the world and I was like you know what I want to go to Hawaii and That's it I I just want to go and what I did was I made an 8020 list so I made a list of things I really wanted to do and then I R I ran it through the lens of 8020 thinking okay so what I did was um I went
I wrote that I wanted all these things so I said I wanted to go to Hawaii I wanted to see my friend Kai who I knew lived in Hawaii I wanted to get footage of hot girl in Hawaii and I wanted to get awesome Drone footage I wanted to make a cool video and I wanted To make $20,000 in the week and this is a lot right but this was this is my 8020 list so like this is Gen the list I had going to Hawaii like I was looking at this you know in the
plane like on the plane there saying like these are the things that I want to accomplish now before my thought process was different right like my my prior list which I had written down by hand somewhere so I don't I don't know exactly where where that is otherwise I would obviously put It in here but my original thought process was like I am going to um I'm I'm going to go to Hawaii I'm going to stay in a hotel and like why and like have some fun and and maybe make a cool video and that'll
be it but then I was like you know what no I need to ask myself the 8020 question so I asked myself how could this be even more fun more enjoyable more rewarding more meaningful um I want to make money right well then I was thinking differently so I decided to do a little more research I called my friend Kai he said you have to stay on the NorthShore um I started messaging you know a bunch of girls on location tags in the NorthShore to you know meet up with hang out with get get photos
with um and and you know I planned out this really Dope video that had like a a deeper meaning to it and and then I made the vision board in order to make sure that I was maximizing you know the content that I was getting So here's another uh here's like when I started 8020 right uh this is actually from this isn't like the very original note that I had but this is from the um I believe the plane ride yeah so it says on the plane wondering what would make this trip easier and more
fun and make more money well a full calendar of leads so I can just focus on Art and an easy to run call schedule so see I'm I've been asking myself these questions for years right it's the the questions you Want to ask yourself is how can I make this trip easier and more fun how can I make this adventure you know a situation in which I even make money from it so then I started kind of brainstorming those ways that I could do that and here's the progression of the planning phase so basically you
know I I messaged my friend Kai and then I also just started researching like the island of aahu and I searched on Google this thing on the left here I just searched Like you know traveler guide aahu right and I just read through it and then what I did is I realized that the NorthShore was like the best place to be so I searched it on Instagram Northshore aahu Hawaii and you can see here you can see the top posts from Hawaii so I could see like you know you know there's all these cool dudes
and attractive girls and I just started messaging everybody and you know something along lines of this it was just like hey on my way uh to aahu What are you up to this week you know you can send that kind of maybe like leave the smiley face out for the for the dudes but that was basically it and then what happened was for girls that like responded cuz not everyone responds you know I probably messaged like I don't know 50 or 60 people and maybe like seven or I don't know what is this eight people
here eight girls responded and I had some dudes responded too but I just Didn't put them in the folder like I messaged um this photographer that was like very popular and I messaged you know a couple other guys that I thought you know were pretty cool and probably put pretty popular and yeah you just you just message everyone and say Hey you know I'm in I'm in aahoo for the week like what's going on and that's it and because you've been working on your Instagram people are going to see you and be like oh this
is a cool dude uh And you know if you've been going through the content narration guide and and matching your your photos to that and you know improving your brand then people are going to see you and be like oh this is this is a cool person and they're going to respond so you know then what I did is I started messaging um one of these girls that I I liked she was pretty open and she was like hey not much I'll just be cruising on Northshore I said cool same let's take some picks And
drive around in a big Jeep she said sounds great with me and then um she said how old are you just curious I said 24 haha she said I just turned 25 she said you look like you could be older or younger so I don't really know I said Happy Birthday um I'm just glad you didn't say 17 never know these days she said maybe in La LOL I said I get in tomorrow 2 p.m. what's your schedule next few days she said I'm free Wednesday I said okay cool I'll pick you Up on the
North Shore where are you she said I'm in why Lua I said cool on my way to North short so keep mind too this is like just for as a texting thing and we're going to talk about that in the next video like easiest model to follow is just keep it Logistics based so I'm not like trying to make too many jokes I'm just keeping it like hey I'm going here when are we hanging out when are we hanging out you know just always pushing to what are the Logistics of like where where I'm going
to pick you up what like a little detail about what we might do right like keeping it open and and adventurous and and yeah not you know not too much like getting to know me because everything you need to really know is on my Instagram and if they have questions then they'll ask you so you know your Instagram already qualifies you as a cool dude and if they respond to you then they're probably willing to you Know hang out with you so continuing here where are you staying on North right in Kaa Beach she said
six spot how long you out here I said till Thursday let's do some let's do dirt bikes Wednesday she said okay I'm down and then she said doing anything fun tonight I said pretty lowkey just with some friends in VLAN how about you she said not much going on right now uh on North tonight probably just going to go Cru and I didn't know what Cruz meant uh but It's like basically a Hawaiian term for just like chill I had no idea what it meant um so I just like was like okay well do you
want to do champagne and stargaze on the beach just got home she said I'm down and then she came over and uh and we hung out and it was cool so I do want to point out too and just show you guys like from this 8020 list literally everything happened on this trip like I hung out with my friend Kai who's right there um Kai by the way I met in Bali which was on a group trip um which was a product of the original Melbourne trip so I'll I'll break that down in a moment
um and yeah and then uh so I saw Kai I got footage of you know girl in Hawaii um I got some awesome Drone footage if you know you can see that video and then and I made a cool video and I made uh 20K this was 18K cash in for that week and you know with uh payment plans and everything um for my program Maxi and for at the time what The coaching offer was then it was well over 20,000 I think it was like $25,000 so I was able to accomplish everything and uh
really live that like that that dream that 8020 dream that I had envisioned in my head now the point of me showing you that I made you know $20,000 in a a week is not to show off or you know obviously you might not have that kind of business but the point is to demonstrate that if I hadn't done the 8020 thinking well that never would have Been possible you know if if I hadn't uh thought way outside the box then that never wouldn't even that never would have crossed my mind I probably would have
thought to do all this stuff that I would have had to spend more money in and not make money on this trip um but I was able to do that and everything else and just the the point is that I'm encouraging you to think a lot more creatively and weigh the [ __ ] outside the box and what you're used to and One thing I want to point out because I just mentioned Kai is when I was in Melbourne here I was meeting all these influencers right I always say my biggest piece of advice for
anyone period is to say hi to people before they say hi to you just be friendly basically I said hi to one person this lovely lady right here hello what happened well now we're in this Penthouse s before this we went to dumplings oh yeah the dumplings were Could get any that so not only did we meet some cool people uh we also met Captain America Captain America where are we we are at Melbourne Australia can I tell them yeah we're at bidcon Australia let's go let's go and here's melbour and here we are so
the moral of the story is just to say hi that's it Aaron you doing well hi more of a story done hey guys oh welcome to bcon I made friends introduce for everyone who follows my Channel um okay no this is literally what it is say hi to America hi America hi America I want to see you so bad America is so cool I want to come to America we'll come Australia is kind of like the bootleg version of America like I feel like anyone who lives in Australia is Je of America you guys don't
have too much ride at all I love a Australia can you tell us what do you think tring context like did you just go and tune that girl do you know what a 12 Is yeah a 12 so I'm just going to play out some of this initial interaction with my new Australian friends here just so you can kind of see the light loose Dynamic and also understand especially when you travel to a new culture as like The Outsider it's very easy to make friends you can do something simple and silly like compare language and
lingo and also keep in mind too like don't judge people I know I put that text up a little earlier but like don't judge People when you're meeting them because you never know who they could be and you it also builds momentum you know I I met these people and then you know these girls later introduced me to their friends who were like you know super cool cute and some cool dudes who were massive YouTube followings and then I got a pass to the Instagram Lounge so never judge and always say hi especially in a
new environment like this all right what about this what About this wagged I just wagged today do you know what a Cy is a what a Coy I've never used this word in my entire life I say Coy all the time ter the same category as Coy it's Budgy Smuggler saw a guy wearing his Budgy Smuggler it's the embarrassing thing like oh they're wearing Budgy Smuggler my friend bought some Budgy Smugglers the other day and like he sent a photo of me like not wearing them but like and I was like it's not the same
as waging because this One kind of makes sense if you think about smuggling a Budgy I'm going strictly Sydney it's muy it's mu day at school oh L he he said it oh he doesn't really it's mu day at school what is do you guys Jewel what's that started out with a kiss all right what's up guys welcome to the Instagram Lounge right this [Music] way so just because I was outgoing and said hi to a bunch of people I ended up Meeting these two girls here on the screen the mesha twins who are Mega
famous right now on Tik Tok and just you know and whatever they're doing you know I was telling them all about this trip to um to Bali that I wanted to do and I didn't meet Kai at Mel in Melbourne but I met um all these influencers Ashley mesha and Olivia mesha Lily Bowman um Ben garens you know all these Australian influencers Ella Victoria and I was telling them like hey like guys we Should do a trip to Bali we should do a trip to Bali and I kept telling them this um at VidCon right
and and this was the first time I'd met all of them but they were down because just it's exciting and they're like oh cool like this guy is you know exciting he's creating creating Adventures like creating this group dynamic and pushing the ball forward and so you know I just kept talking about it and then when we all did end up going to Bali you know Several weeks uh or about a month or two after that I met Kai here in Bali okay and then Kai and I had always Adventure projected a trip to Hawaii
where I would go to Hawaii and you know hang out with him in Hawaii and then here we are and now it's like it just comes full circle so we're going to dive into Adventure projection more in a second but here let's go back and talk about these solo Adventures so Mr struggle of course is like I don't want to go anywhere alone And the luck engineer says well you know what going alone sounds refreshing let's do it and has an open attitude so let's now open the solo Adventures worksheet and plan your first solo
adventure and this is you can just click it down below make your own copy click file make a copy and in this worksheet we talk about how to design amazing solo adventures in which you can meet new friends explore new cultures and grow Yourself and solo Adventures are essential parts of becoming a man if you can enjoy an adventure by yourself get some cool content and even potentially meet some people along the way uh you'll become come infinitely more interesting to be around and so you want to answer these questions and this is we're just
going to plan your first trip so you know what is the purpose of the trip do you just want to have fun do you want to go on an Adventure just break out of your Matrix explore a new culture just brainstorm a quick list of things here take a few minutes couple minutes maybe then ask yourself what types of people do you want to meet along the way uh be open to spontaneous relationships as well and also I I'll note here like some of the most memorable people I've met have been like cab drivers I
remember there was a cab driver in uh Bali I met named putu um and you know Small gas station employees servers and even other Travelers like I just wasn't planning to meet but just happened to along the way so think about that and be open to that but also you want to take some time to Define the types of people that you would hope to meet or potentially develop long-term relationships with and friendships with as you expand your worldwide tribe so just make a list of people that you know you would want to meet and
also that uh You know if you have anyone I mean it is a solo Adventure but maybe you bring like one friend or so if if you do have anyone in mind that you could invite if they say yes great if not you know don't worry about it um and where will you go and stay so brainstorm a list of places that you dream to visit then pick one and and uh Google the the parts of that place to say and then check out you know Airbnb and create a list and um I just wanted
to show you what I mean by that Here so basically um what you want to do is you just I mean we already talked about Airbnb but you know you can just open Airbnb and let's say you want to go to Puerto Rico this is actually something I want to do and let's say you want to do it in July here for like a week how many guests well it's a solo Adventure so just one and yeah I mean these look pretty Cool you know you probably want to do your research on the island I
know that I have friends near Dorado so I'd probably want to be relatively close there um and I'm pretty sure that's where like Logan Paul and all them live but let's see what I would do is I would just kind of go through here there's some spots along that Coastline and and okay Condado beach one bedroom one bath okay I'm going to favorite this and I'm then going to add well I would I would Log in and I would add it to a a list in Airbnb just called Puerto Rico and then I can add
like I would probably add like five or 10 different ones that I like so that I have lots of abundance of options to choose from and that's how you do that it's really pretty simple and where will you eat so this is when you just go on Google and search best restaurants to eat in blank so here here we could do you know uh best best restaurants to go to in uh Puerto Rico and this is in what I don't even know like what is the name s t best restaurants to eat to best restaurant
in uh santour Puerto Rico and here we go and you just now you can make a list in your notes app on your phone or wherever you want to you know organize this and um here's where you can use Trip Advisor Yelp is also a good one um and you can see you know thousand reviews Eder rooftop and Lounge that's kind of looks like a cool one and then again I would just go on Instagram and I would type that in like that and it brings up here and then you can just see okay are
they tagging it let's see Ed rooftop okay so here's the location tag that's what we want because now we can see who's actually going an Elevated experience for cocktails great food sunsets and the most amazing 360 views of San Juan um so you can see on their Instagram it kind of shows you but you really want to use the location tags that's uh ideally the best yeah so look you can see look at all these attractive girls that are there you know and and you can just kind of you can get the vibe and you
can sort by top post And you know you can see like okay this is um perhaps the type of girl that you might meet if you went there um and you can see okay let's see who this dude is looks like an interesting dude he's a barber cool yeah so anyway you get the point you can just kind of do your research and figure out like which you think where you'd find the dopest people and then you just you just go there and that's it really pretty Straightforward and yeah so okay then what will you
do um well make sure that you have a cool exciting activity to do at least 80% of the days but make sure you leave a couple days open for just exploring chilling and maxing and so here you know this is where you could just say um best things to do in Puerto Rico it's really this simple guys 18 best things to do in Puerto Rico and here you go and you just kind of go through this list and see is there anything that you'd really you know resonate with I mean flamco Beach I've definitely heard
of that that sounds fun it's also free um National rainforest um some castles uh Museum of Art right so here's all the things that you can do and you could plan like I recommend really planning like at least one of these a day and that's it yeah you just PL them And make a list here and uh yeah I mean make make sure there's maybe a couple days open for just chilling um and then you can also go on Pinterest and search some cool images and add them to your vision acceleration planner so you can
just go to Pinterest you can go to let's see here uh Puerto Rico and you're just going to find you Know lots of places that you would potentially want to go to Pinterest already has like you know how to spend seven days in Puerto Rico and you can click this pin and it can even show you like literally what to do if you just click this link it'll bring you to you know some like travel website um we're not going to follow that right now though cool and then um now all that's left to do
is just put put a [ __ ] time in the calendar and Actually book the trip like now just do it and so you book the trip and then as you book it you start researching or reaching out to people on Instagram at that location and start finding people to meet up with and lesson three is all about you know Outreach more in depth however you can start now with what you've learned so far and really ask yourself like what do you have to lose you know if if you don't have money then just put
this in your Calendar and plan it and visualize it and put it in your visual Vision acceleration planner and start saving you know for immediately because you need this okay this is you need to do this okay everyone in this program is going to end up booking a solo Adventure so uh this is really going to change your life and I'm excited I'm excited for it so let's talk a little bit more in depth about Adventure projection so you Really understand this concept because as I said it's probably one of the most powerful things that
this program provides and Adventure projection so Adventure projection is when you forecast an adventure to people that you'd like to get to know better so you basically throw out an idea of a really cool adventure that you have in mind that you might that they might like as well and if their eyes light up when you mention the idea even Loosely then you Just keep painting the picture for them and you talk about all the things that you could do uh at that place on that Adventure uh you look at you show them videos on
your phone of that place you come up with ideas to get content places that you could potentially see and what it would feel like and you really bring them into the environment and create a full vision in their head and then you create you you agree on basically loose dates off in the distance and then what You do is you ask you know do you have any friends who'd be down to do something like this or do you know anyone else who'd want to come and if they say yes or whether or not they say
yes you just you then create a group chat and ask them to add their friends and this chat is like super informal it's just something you can fill with jokes and you can do this with you don't have to just do one Adventure projection you can do this with you could do with Like five or seven five or 10 different groups honestly I mean I probably have like probably realistically like two or three Adventure projection group chats like at one point in my at one point in time and I'm going to break down one for
you right now um but then what you do is like as you're building out this uh this adventure it's the perfect absolute perfect thing to do in order to create a reason to for people to hang out with you your weekly Gatherings okay really Really [ __ ] listen to what I just said so you know because you have a large commitment right these people are 10 times more likely to attend your weekly Gathering because they've already imagined themselves going on a full-on adventure with you so they're already imagining like whether it's in 5 months
going to Bali or Puerto Rico or Costa Rico with you they're already thinking about doing that well what are the odds that they're going to say yes to just Grabbing coffee with you or coming over for dinner this Thursday so much more likely so it's something that you know you can use to just really solidify relationships because people you know they they love Adventure everyone loves Adventure they want to do it they want to be surrounded by people who like doing adventures and who push them to break out of their Matrix and so therefore they're
going to want to be around you because you know if you Invite them to a dinner they're like oh well I'm already going to go to you know wherever like Russia or whatever you know with this person so of course I'll I'll grab dinner with them so here's an example of um Adventure projection in the metaverse so this uh trip that I went to Italy uh where I met you know my good friend Justin um he we were just friends on social media just on Instagram he posted this Villa on his Instagram story and Was
like this isn't going to be any fun like you know kind of making jokes about it and like how sick The Villa is and I responded with like the vomit emojis and I said JK and he just said come bro you won't and I said dot dot dates and he said 20 to 25th Sicily I said August or September and it was August and yeah and and I just ended up booking the flight and that was it you know so like if you have a cool Villa or something that you want to book even if
you don't really Have the money you know you might not be able to get the whole thing you can just invent this and post it on your story and just watch just [ __ ] watch as everyone comes out of the Woodworks from your friend group or from people who just follow you and they're going to want to go you know everyone wants to be involved in something like this everyone wants to get a picture you know at in that infinity pool or a drone shot or whatever so you just you just start Doing this
people are going to respond in ways you you know you've never seen and you can do it just by sending pictures to people too so this is a a female friend that I have and I just future or I Adventure projected um we should all plan A Paris STP and I just sent a picture from Pinterest of this random girl looking at you know the Eiffel Tower and she was like yes and so now she's thinking about going to Paris with me so what are the odds she's more Likely to want to hang out and
grab dinner next week well we're thinking about going to Paris I don't know some point in the future doesn't even really matter when like this never even has to happen in order for you to create uh deeper relationships with people um so yeah I mean you can just like throw out random trips that are forged I guess really if you wanted to um I mean all the Adventure projections that I do are real like I actually do want to go to Paris with this female friend and a group of friends and I actually do want
to go or like when Justin was posting that picture on Italy or of the villain in Italy like he actually was doing it but like you can do this when nothing is logistically planned you can just throw out ideas and then it really drastically improves your relationships with people so here's another group chat that I was thrown in and this is something you can do as well is you know once you have Some people whether you meet them in person or just over social media so my friend John reached out and made this group chat
and said Hello friends and family a few of us have been talking about a trip to Bali in June or July and we would love to um we'd love to bring all our favorite people and uh this is Justin's Sister Irene said dates and our friend Danny said I'm in what's Bali and um Zach said 100% April said gu Keen um and and then someone said let's Do it and then my friend Graham uh uh sarcastically says no I think we should all be going as friends um and then this girl kind of sucked the
vibe out and said I can't thank you so much for including me though which it's annoying when people just like say they can't in a group chat because it kills the message so I brought the momentum back and I said I like turtles and threw the funny turtle Meme and said also yes in Justin threw some messages in there And yeah so then what happened was it it kind of went cold for a little while so that was um a little while ago and I was like well I want to push the ball forward so
I just put a message in here on the left I said I just feel like booking flights right now let's be decisive June or July I say July yes July is drier and then I started I I said uh check out these Villas um that suck and it was just like some you know Really actually hold on let me zoom in for you guys um like I was being sarcastic check out these these check these out they suck I was being sarcastic um beachfront Villa vacation in Bali uh my friend Tegan said disgusting you know
so just like obviously like really cool places and I said that's one option and I'm and in good location right in shangu pretty close to the beach which is where we want to be in my Opinion tan says changu is sexy I know a lot of great places to go out and she said also amazing surfing I said this also doesn't suck John said that that doesn't let me scope some options and then so I just kept pushing the ball forward and John said can we go bigger and I said oh yeah problem is I
thought the bigger ones look kind of stupid and John said anywhere I can literally roll out of bed into the ocean and I found This one from this YouTube video which I thought was insane and John says I'm down for that and Justin liked it so this is it you you know you just create it and you just start pushing the ball forward and you know you you just keep hyping it up and showing sick stuff because now everyone in this group chat is like seeing how sick this trip is going to be and like
you're just you're showing all the sick stuff you're going to do and it's just Like Adventure projection within Adventure projection I also want you to keep in mind I don't know half the people in this group chat I I literally know like uh Justin John Tegan and Irene and there's like 25 people in this chat that I don't know so you can like create a chat with you and like people you barely know and they'll kind of assume that everyone knows each other and you can just do it like you can do that with guys
in this program why not so keep Talking about adventures with people and throwing them out in the distance even if they don't necessarily happen and you'll be able to develop deeper relationships with people right like remember this picture here like this was before this picture was taken before um I went to Bali with these two girls and and this is my friend um uh well this is Ben garens and this is I think his name's Roman yeah Roman um and they were supposed to come to Bali but They couldn't so it ended up being me
and the girls and a few other Australian girls but like we all ended up hanging out a bunch of times before then because they had already agreed to this like larger Adventure so why wouldn't they hang out before then and like a weekly you know event type thing and for us by the way our our weekly Gathering wasn't a dinner it was we would just like make YouTube videos together like we'd sit down and film these YouTube videos and Collab and you know make content and get photos what's up guys welcome back to the channel
today we're here with my Australian friends and today we're going to be answering some of your relationship advice questions how to keep a girlfriend cuz mine keeps leaving [Music] me so that was it so now let's talk about group adventures and group Adventures are when you you know you actually plan a group Trip and in my opinion group Adventures are the best you know you create memories that last forever you get incredible content you get to experience a new culture with new friends and you get to rejuvenate your mind and soul the purpose fun adventure
what types of people do you want to go with um you know thinking about this is just you know the framework we've already been through this so um yeah and then um you know make sure you you have something Planned daily and so the following I want to emphasize here are not exactly start from scratch Adventures they are they are the uh Adventure projected Adventures right so these are the things that you can design now and you can start uh talking to people um as you go to on your solo Adventures or even as you
just reach out to people on Instagram or uh you meet people in your town or city this is the trip that You're going to plan with a group of friends so you don't necessarily have to like know a ton of people for this but you're just envisioning it so Italy is an example so what was the purpose of this trip well it was just fun to see a new culture and kind of like a a [ __ ] the system [ __ ] Authority trip again we were just fed up with like restrictions and all
that and we were just like I just want to go um who to invite well we decided it was going to be like a like It was seven dudes Al together where that we're all entrepreneurial you know crypto minded adventurous kind of rebellious um into into making content as well because we knew that we could I mean I knew like that I could meet uh our goal was really to meet you know cool Italian girls along the way so we didn't want to bring really we didn't want to bring American girls um and where can
you find these people all together well like I said earlier Justin Just posted on a story and he was able to filter like from the people who follow him on Instagram just from building his brand and sharing his thoughts like he like I popped out you know I I popped into his Circle and who is down to do stuff like this well probably adventurous people probably entrepreneurial people who can actually take time off work right and do something like this who are flexible and where to stay well the Sickest Villa imaginable in Sicily right and
John uh this guy my friend John over here was able to find it and where to eat well also when you you know stay at Villas you can always ask the host like if you you know whatever Airbnb you stay you know the the host is going to have recommendations and you can also just read Yelp reviews as well and then what do you do well you just Google or you can ask the Host so another example was New York Fashion Week this was a little bit like lower barrier to entry you know I didn't
have to fly across the world but um I did you know take a train from Boston at the time I was living down to New York and the purpose of the trip was just to have fun and it was New York Fashion Week so you know by the way things like New York Fashion Week you're gonna have like so many like I already said this but like so many people that you Probably want to network with if you're in this program are going here I you my location set up all I have is s that's
it no no no it's not only fans it's [Music] YouTube killer got me Wy I can't even keep my head up I don't even know who with me are we going in the Sprinter van right now 200 that would be really fun no but he was like 200 yeah but [ __ ] it like That's that'd be so fun where is he where'd he go hey Sprinter vanand guy I love Sprinter bands this is really on brand [Music] very yeah yeah yeah just got back from Italy don't give a [ __ ] if y'all sick
of me y'all can't get rid of me me and making a mini me that ain't going to work are y'all kidding me y kiding [ __ ] I got some blood in my mouth but y'all did not finish me I'm here to Stay got back from ity sick [Music] me so why not just book a trip it could be a solo trip it could be a solo trip that turns into a group trip and you just start playing this and that's it and who to invite well you invite you know fun friends cute chicks right
and where can you find these people well like I said they're already there and also anyone will salivate at an invite To New York Fashion Week it's just like such a cool trendy thing that happens once a year and you know you can always just go and people want to go and where to stay well use the hotel tonight hack just type in hotel tonight and type in New York City and where to eat well you just Google trendy New York City restaurant um I recommend to downtown I recommend catch I recommend uh you know
yeah I mean really any of those uh noou Right what to do well events Soho clubs or Soho clubs ticketed events and yeah you just you just go and you meet people and people invite you to places and that's it I mean you just have to start taking action and going to these types of places art basil another one like um like New York Fashion Week where uh it there's already collections of the people that you probably want to meet if you're in this program those adventurous Kind of people and who are motivated and entrepreneurial
they're all here they're all in one place so why don't you just book a trip to go and start inviting people put them in a group chat you know and you can all split in Airbnb or you can uh you can get your own or you could even you what I did is I stayed at my friend Justin's house and then I got my own Airbnb I was there for the rest of the week I actually ended up getting um the the the virus this week but uh you Know it was fine it was actually
a great place to get it but yeah so you can get your own spot you could split it and where to eat you know same stuff right what to do rent a yacht with friends we had like three different Yachts split among I don't know 40 different people so it wasn't even that expensive on the by the way just want toties in the SK like it's 2055 she said boy you nice boy you nice hard cold like some water and some Ice why would you sacrifice KN you could die Nobody by I know [ __
] cap [ __ ] art shows get content mingle do all the Art Basel stuff this is a slightly different trip so or Adventure so my friends Maggie Emma live um you know they invited me out to the cat skills which was nice it was just like a very tranquil you know relaxed mini vacation to this Log Cabin um that was an Airbnb and you know we just kind of like the cat skills are Very quiet and humble and wholesome and it's it's kind of a cool thing to just do in the fall time and
so we just went and we got some content the girls made a bunch of Tik toks and I was able to you know just get some nature time and ground myself and I've been like at this point in time like really working hard on Maxi so you know it was nice to just get out into nature and go on some walks and and get some some content and stuff like that so yeah I mean this is uh you You kind of got to understand like what you want out of life and like what your current
Vibe is but maybe you feel like a nature Retreat like this is is in the cards and you can do that and by the way if you don't have a ton of money like you can just do road trips and like go camping you know and like you you don't even need to like pay for a campsite like you can just basically like you know go somewhere on public transportation and find a place and just Bring a tent and boom you just camp out and that could be the adventure you know you got to be
where you are use what you have and do what you can but you can follow and copy the same basic model and Maine so what's the purpose of what was the purpose of this trip well it was mainly just Rejuvenation and get some time in nature and we ended up going with a circle of friends that we were pretty tight knit with this was like our lucky 150 uh out of Boston at This time when we were you know all going out and hanging out and um we stayed at actually you know my friend Jordan
his family had a time share so you know use the resources within your network as it grows and um you know some people might offer like oh my family has this like time share at this Resort basically in Maine and so we you we went we hiked up mountains um we we played golf it was a lot of Fun that was slow motion surgeon record right good morning girls on morning makeup [ __ ] this is great can we get a radio voice okay what's this well good morning welcome back to the Arland Moore YouTube
channel in today's video and then explain what's going to happen good morning welcome to Arland Moore's YouTube channel for today's video we're going to be having a great brunch and then we're just going to see where the day takes Us yes yeah that's great hey there what's like in New York City out west hey hey what's up Vlog how we doing V guys hey legalized Tu and Maxi Maxi take pictures this is the and all I is I even know what I'm saying it about good news good news knows that's all I want to this
is what I was talking about when I said going to be some life changing [ __ ] [ __ ] shout out pbgh manpe big making me sound hey what's up guys welcome back to my cult we're out here in Maine I just got this big plot of land uh this is Kasson he's one of my head um head cult members uh I'm in I'm lik an advisor to the cult yeah he's not actually he's not a member he's just a friend of the cult and this is Lauren she's also a friend of the cult
she's not a cult it's more of a family it's a cult and we just Finished our first ritual I mean meeting and now we're going to go to our next ritual I I mean ritual here we are for our annual cult meeting we're going to use our accoutrements for the sacrifice and ritual ceremony we have one white cloth one could you please cut your wrist and put that in [Music] it so let's open the group Adventures worksheet and get to work on this and Then just a few more slides and and uh you will have
accomplished a lot today so group Adventures so to make your own copy click file make a copy and in this worksheet we go over how to design amazing group adventures in which you can make new friends explore new cultures and grow yourself and group Adventures are incredibly fun uh definitely one of my favorite things to do in life period if you design an attractive trip below or multiple you'll Also have an item in your toolbox that you can use to meet people and develop deeper relationships over time and what's the purpose of this trip well
or like that's the first question we want to answer here is it for fun is it Adventure break out of Matrix you know make a list here um what types of people do you want to go with who from your luck lucky 150 will join and you know I recommend too including people who care about getting content who are at least Halfway decent with a camera that just kind of makes it you know better for you and for them because you're motivated to do more stuff and and get cool content and where will you go
and stay you know brainstorm a list of places that you dream to visit and then pick one uh and Google the parts and of that place to stay so you know uh one guy from this program Jack bratset did this he went to Hawaii um he actually went to Kawai with I think it Was like two photographers one girl who was basically a model one guy who was a an artist and one girl who's like a YouTuber with like 11 million followers or something and they just basically follow this process is really pretty straightforward you
know and the thing is like when you you don't have to be that charismatic to get people to go to something like this like the they would go on this trip without with or without you and like if you're adventurous Enough to do this then people are going to be very very responsive so um because you know people are selfish right like if you say hey do you want to go to Hawaii like it's just like I don't really care who you are like that's a sick opportunity so so yeah so brainstorm a list of
places you dream to visit and then you can just start you know future or Adventure projecting all of these and yeah and where will you eat so Google uh go on Google and just Search the best restaurants we already basically went over that um what will you do you know we already went over how to do that you know just Googling best things to do in XYZ town and then go on Pinterest and save some cool images to your vision acceleration planner then start promoting the trip and you can even ask guys in this program
to join so feel free to post in the Discord right now like who wants to Go to Bali or who wants to go to Puerto Rico like I've been dreaming of this trip to Dubai and just post about it and post pictures of like the sick Villa that you find on Airbnb you know you can just literally go on Airbnb right now as you're doing this worksheet and you can be like uh Costa Rica and let's say you want to do it in June okay let's say you want to go with like group of eight
Buddies and boom there we go so what you would do uh is you just find one that you think is cool let's say it's this one and I would just go literally like this is kind of sick it's a sick view damn now I want to go this where's that one you want to obviously pick the best picture by the way like you don't want to pick a shitty one like you know this one so then you screenshot it so command Shift 4 or you Can just do copy image right now obviously you want to
um you know you want to do like a little bit more logistical planning but this is what I want to see you guys doing in the group chat you know and just see if you can like by the way don't just do this randomly like I might delete this message later and say I'm just doing it pro to prove a point but um the point is like you know choose a trip that you actually want to do with a group of Buddies and like you can use this group to like actually plan it um and
yeah Tamarindo I've actually been there fun time um is that it from the worksheet let's see once you're building Buzz around the adventure and have a few photos who uh have a few people who want to go and seem committed create a group chat Instagram WhatsApp just over the phone and then share the details and pictures And make sure that you keep the group chat hyped up branded Adventures so brand Adventures are basically group Adventures where the is at least partially paid for um and you make your money from the adventure and in my in
my opinion this is the best kind of trip you know beyond the group trips I mean the group Adventures like my group Adventures end up becoming branded trips because I have my own brand um you know but you can do This in a more formal or informal way you know you can literally like sign contracts with Major Brands and influencers or just promote smaller Brands through vocal agreements um you can you definitely want to include photographers and videographers and models for this kind of trip and the people uh can be there already you know where
you just meet them and you know you maybe stay at the same Villa but they already live there like in Italy For example we brought seven guys and invited about 25 um girls over to a party one night and a couple cool Italian dudes that we met uh and we just yeah and because you're going with influencers you can likely get free stay and food and Etc and so here's when I went to Bali uh way back in 2018 and here's just the messages I sent so I had I mean I had a following myself
but you don't need to have a following you just need to know influencers for a trip like This so I said hey uh I'd love to come for a week or so in December with a bunch of influencers and then I followed up um a week later and said would love to join with these two girls and they were you know they had I don't know 60,000 followers and he said you're dates you and Bali and I I said the dates and then I said can help you get a ton of content I have a
gh5 mavic and Ronin um these are like cameras you know if if I didn't Have camera Talent I'd probably say also bringing this photographer who has these this camera equipment and a drone and then at ly Bowman would love to come too if there is room and he says I have room I have one room available 12th 13th 14 15 16th 17th October and two rooms available 6th and 7th and so yeah so then I mean you can read through the rest of these if you like uh but that's basically how I operated this you
know really pretty straightforward Um you just reach out and by the way sorry Bali collab this was like to find a company like this who's willing to do this kind of thing you just Google like influencer um hotels Bali or influencer collaboration hotels Bali or influencer collaboration um uh hotels Puerto Rico right and you're going to be able to find just these random Instagram accounts that you can reach out to or maybe they give you a marketing email and you just you just Tell them you know what you're willing to commit to so for example
here on the right side he said hey Arling yes accommodation is a collab we ask each person that stays at the house posts one picture and one story for each day of stay at the Villa with the Villa tag and Bali collab in exchange for it being a free stay does that work for you both I said yes so there's also the full-on Branded trip which I'm not going to spend too much Time on but you know back in my days as like a a heavy heavy YouTuber um I was signed to a management agency
and so you could be the management agency or you could be the influencer but basically like this was very official like we went to Morocco with the tourism Board of Morocco and our job was to like make videos there to show that Morocco was like a good place to travel and that was like there were contract signed and there were like deliverables and it was A lot more official than just like a couple DMs like we were literally you know signed to a management and there was money involved and yeah so that's not something we're
going to cover in depth here but just know that that is possible um there's also the idea of like a personal brand trip so when I went to Bali um it ended up becoming really like a personal brand trip because well well really because you know I had my own brand you know 8 A.M My clothing brand Ashley's coming I'm coming those shirts are so nice um they're actually very rare very hot handsome do you like know the owner or something yeah we have [Music] [Music] contacts [Music] [Music] W and I was able to promote
my brand and make money from the trip because I was There with models and it was like I could literally write off this entire trip because I was using it as a business expense to promote my brand so you know if you have a clothing brand yourself this is a great thing you can do or you can just find someone who has a clothing brand and say Hey I want to organize a trip to Bali do you want to you know you know use your brand and like I'll help you organize a trip get models
and like orchestrate the whole Thing and then you can just do it that way and it just becomes fun and there's more stuff to do because you have places to go and place to shoot and yeah and if you feel like you're really [ __ ] up by the way so this is a complete side note um but if you feel like you're really [ __ ] up you can pay for Retreats where you meet amazing people and experience healing so I actually have a good friend his name is Jay azeltine uh you can look
him up on Instagram and just tell him I sent you and he does retreats in uh Costa Rica and it's like iwaska Retreats or even non-plant medicine Retreats and you can go to these places like Costa Rica is a great place to it where you just like you can just you pay some money and then you go and you do some deep healing within yourself and you meet some amazing people and it can help you out a lot you know uh I've never personally done it but if you really feel like You're [ __ ]
up bad this can be a way to make friends that last a lifetime and I know so many people who've done this who've been like really [ __ ] up from past traumas and everything and they come out like a whole new person so that's also something you can do and here's your action steps so complete the solo Adventure worksheet complete the group Adventure worksheet update your vision acceleration planner with Adventure / Gathering images from Pinterest or people that follow you and that's it and you know if you've done this if you watched this a
couple times by now too you know this this can really catapult you into a whole new reality so I hope that you enjoy and I'll leave you with the quote man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore it's by Andre GID and have a great day I will see you in the next [Music] Video