I mean, it's simply not normal for an individual to wait for the entire society to accept him or her, but if this policy is adopted and this begins to guide education and even psychotherapies fb, then they're infantilizing everyone, my God, [Music] in heaven. to say the past is either something you walk on, it means something that doesn't move anymore, a ground you step on, okay, or is it a movable ground that is moving all the time with you, that's it, that decision one day you You're going to have to take it, that's not it now, where you have, let's say, a layer four culture. How is Brazil, the past doesn't pass?

It's like I know that F marijuana, you understand. naqu at all times So you'll see those family fights that a 40-year-old man tells his brother oh mom liked you more than me n this and that is present it's hurting in some way isn't that so that either say that the main instrument for crossing the layers is given by the culture it is not given by you if the culture didn't work out well you can have the imagination to look beyond the Repertoire for other means Okay, maybe ex in other cultures or that you invent yourself Okay, or you can say, if and conforming to what you already have and thinking that it's normal, it's being like that, nerd, what's normal, it's normal to be like other people, even if they all they are maladjusted and are a bunch of failures and sick. That's right, or you try something different and you become deculturated, each passage from layer to layer implies, let's say, the rupture with the social environment, you don't have it, there's no escape, it's not possible for you to evolve and maturing and continuing to have the same relationships with the same people at the same level isn't that, for example, the famous lameness of youth, right?

Ah, we all get drunk together, let's go, we fuck the girls, etc. , etc. , well, the guys will continue doing this their whole lives.

But you're going to stay there and when you stop, well, you're not one of us anymore, that's not it You don't like us anymore, that's inevitable. I see that this transition in Brazilian society is extremely painful, right? And it shouldn't be, I mean, it's normal.

seek a new social environment that is more adapted to your current state and without fighting without breaking up, you simply move away from certain people because they no longer mean to you, right, what they meant before. It's ISO, but then there are always people like that who have passed through your life. 30 years ago, for them, you are still the same , right, and above all, this is one of the means of instruments for the person to gain an importance in their life that they don't have, right, that's a kind of commerce, right ?

of emotional blackmail that says in Brazil this is all the time it's not that, for example if I stopped seeing someone 30 years ago I know that they are no longer the same but it took time for me to understand that and it took time to understand what Next, those youth scenes that we lived together are not the center of her life, she went so far away so far that you can't imagine where she went, but you can see that this awareness, for example in BR society, is missing people are all the time, you know, in a way, demanding from each other their past, that is obviously a sick thing and that prevents the normal growth of the personality, that's not it, I also say, why do people do that, they also do it because a layer motivation that the desire for affection means I want to be important to you even though you haven't thought about me in 40 years Look you disappeared from my life I disappeared from yours I don't know you anymore You don't know me anymore but of course there are people who aren't like that, you know, I have some friends that I can go years without seeing and we continue the conversation where we left off because we move in a more or less parallel way, that's right, but not everyone is like that. That's it, so let's also say that in a tier four society, returning to your past can always be a disastrous thing because it's not the past, you're presenting it, right? And then he said to me, look, there's going to be a meeting of the alumni of the school you don't want to go there I I said, God forbid, I'm not going to do that, but even if they pay me, right?

Why? Because I already know what I'm going to find there, I'm going to find that same nostalgic idiot That bunch of losers, right? And then he went to business and came back distraught the next day, you know?

He said look at all these people there, the only one who believes in what you're doing is you, I say, do you understand why I didn't go there, I'm living my life doing what I have to do, I moved forward, right? Eh So Di The Brazilian age is a society in which people stick to each other in the past, it's the image of the Crab in the Bucket, you know, you know, it means the crab wants to get out of the bucket but someone else grabs its leg and makes it fall again, so it means a society in which human development faces terrible problems n I believe that of my students for example the only factor in their entire lives the only factor that encouraged them to move up was me they had never heard of this you see what a tragedy Huh I say man So no one knows about this, just me, the one who has to warn 200 million Brazilians that this exists, I'm screwed, it won't work , right now, see if you go to other countries the number of people who are working for human development to make people CR It's huge now in Brazil, if you go to a psychologist, what will the psychologist do? He will trap you more in your childhood complexes, even more than you already were, because because the psychologist was instrumentalized to serve something else That's not it, so he's there, for example, to turn the child against the parents, to turn the wife against the husband, right?

Make the guy feel resentful because he's gay, they look dirty at you, say, my God, everyone is committed to infantilizing people.