hello everyone Rabbi Abe here welcome to another video today we are going to talk about the relationship between your money sex and food what's the connection in fact how you may even be able to increase the flow of your sustenance the flow of your money by understanding how to adjust sexual connections and food so let's get into it and a couple of things first uh just to lay the foundation before we can understand what the relationship is well very simply put food and sex have a very intimate connection with each other so think about it
this way sex is required to create new life food is required to sustain life so these two things sex and food are obviously very important things the thing is both of these uh things if we can call them that both of these things both sex and food are the highest form of pleasure in this world for the human being for the human being because we spend most of our time I mean think about it uh you know if you're planning uh go to go to a resort all inclusive what are you looking for online these
days how many restaurants they have and what type of food they're gonna serve and think about it I mean really really really think about it what we spend so much of our time planning around is food now once you get to that Resort what are you going to be doing over there well hopefully something besides hanging out in the bedroom but that's probably going to be a part of it for most people so the thing is again pleasure is a wonderful thing and we are here to have pleasure however we should also understand that the
pleasure that we take the pleasure that we take I'm trying to use my words carefully the pleasure that we take takes the space of sustenance why why well what is sustenance sustenance is a cosmic force of energy that has a source it has an ultimate source so when we work or do business we make effort okay for whatever it is that we do we are putting in energy that's what we do when we work can be mental energy physical energy combination of the two we put energy in what's the result we should get something out
in return as an exchange of our energy we get money okay now when we put the energy in the energy comes out again it's a form of energy of fulfillment that's what it is it's an energy and that energy fulfills us again it's an exchange of our energy now what happens when we eat are we receiving an energy and the answer is yes we are imagine you're starving and you're craving a particular food and that's all good you make effort to go and you know if it's to go to a restaurant to go out or
to cook or to do whatever it is that you do to indulge in the food that you wanted to eat again up until this point nothing really wrong with it and I don't want to say wrong but the more we are focused because it awakens our desire very much hunger of the body awakens the desire and that's why also hand in hand there are so many food related issues there are those that say and the Kabbalah agrees that 99 of the diseases of the body occur as a result of food wrong food wrong way of
eating eating too much eating too little eating the wrong Foods eating at the wrong times there's lots going on with the food that we eat worst thing to do is go shopping when you're hungry why because you're at it you're out of control you're gonna buy things that you don't need that you didn't really want but you were starving when you went to shop we all know that that's the wrong time to go shopping the point is when we've finished gorging ourselves if that's what we've done what happens to our desire even on the physical
level even on the physical level you may become lethargic you may become you know lose interest in something important that you needed to do and you say yeah it's good I'll do it later and when you don't eat again how do you feel when you don't eat when you're hungry generally a person is more energetic when they limit the food or limit the time that they eat so I don't want to go into a whole class about food it's for another time but we should definitely be careful if we want the sustenance we need to
be more careful about how we eat what we eat and when we eat it as a general rule and I'm not a nutritionist I'm not giving you advice on how to eat consult with your uh you know whoever you use to give you advice about food but I'll tell you what I do I make the effort to eat fruits and this is not a unique idea in the morning up until 12 nothing but fruit and that should take me through you know till the early afternoon now what is the logic behind that first off the
the fruits give you energy they also continue your cleansing process from when you were sleeping you're supposed to be cleansing therefore you should also should not eat at a minimum bare minimum of three hours before you go to sleep at night because you do not want your digestive system busy digesting food it zaps your energy now when I say your energy I'm not only talking about your physical energy I'm talking about your spiritual vessel Your Capacity to receive what do we want to receive sustenance if you're interested in more sustenance and that is more money
what is money again it's an exchange of energy you put out energy you're getting something in return but if you fulfill it already with food and everything I said about food also goes for sex because there's a right time and way and there's you know a less right time that will take your energy away and while I'm not going to go into the deeper details of that if you just have sex at any whim any time you feel like it you will lose at least 75 to 80 percent of your productive energy and you what
we will find is most successful people actually limit they are more in control of their bodily functions including food and including sex you know many years ago I was a big fan of Napoleon Hill and if you uh you know do a little research if you don't know about Napoleon Hill who he was at the turn of the century he is known as one of the fathers of positive thinking and and and showing people how to become successful and he was a very deep guy when I was about uh 18 or 19 years old I
began to read Think and Grow Rich I also read a book called law of success and in there he he talked very Sublime things that probably most people are not aware of even if you've read the basic books he talked about energy he talked about that the fact that thoughts are energy and he talked about sexual energy how to use it for success and it's very interesting what he said what he wrote in his book law of success highly recommended if you can find it and he spoke about a principle called sexual transmutation now basically
what that meant in a nutshell in a nutshell and I'm really abbreviating here is limiting the amount of sex that a person would have until they reached a certain goal now it's not exactly using sex as a reward for yourself but it was more about not wasting your energy in anything not an extraneous words not on extraneous sex and also we can add to that not on extraneous food you know if you eat the moment you're you you feel a little Pang and now I need to have a snack some people need that but not
everybody needs that okay especially if you have a sweet tooth or a carb tooth again what you're going to find is the food that you eat will tend to make you tired it is a karmic correction and when you are tired again it is because your energetic vessel has become fulfilled now when you're fulfilled what do you need more even if you need the money but your sustenance is going to have less space In Your Vessel so again what do we do we should limit the times and have specific times when we eat and also
have some rules for ourselves about when we have sex as a general rule it's better to have sexual connections after it's dark outer at night time when you're finished working you've completed the day's work and you're with your loved ones okay you know if both of you are there now the sex that you have that's also a discussion okay the sex must come from Love it must if it doesn't come from a place of love and just comes from an animalistic need that you feel right now that you gotta have you will lose energy if
it comes from true love you will gain energy that's a fact that's a fact sex that comes from love especially at night time gives a person more energy and more motivation for the next day again that's why the timing is also quite important because at night time it provides a certain energy which prepares us for the next day you don't prepare for the next day in the last day you're still working on the day but at night when the day is complete as the sun goes down we have a vessel it's that's why it's dark
it's a sort of an empty vessel of sorts now we can put stuff in it what we are enjoying in the daytime is the energy that we can be creating in the night proceeding okay so again the timing is important the Consciousness is important that it needs to come from Love and the same thing with your food you should also only eat food that you love don't eat food just to fill your belly mistake it will rob you of energy eat food again provided that this food is suitable for you not every food that we
love is good for us I mean I love pizza doesn't mean you know that I should you know Gorge myself on pizza but we need to establish the foods that we we really uh have a connection to and that's the best way to say it foods that we can have a connection to that are also good for us particularly you know not everything is good for everyone and when you eat enjoy it now what do I mean by enjoy it eat properly by elevating the food that you're eating because there's energy there we need to
elevate it now that's a that's a big discussion but let me just give you an Insight how to do that when you eat chew your food make sure you chew your food because by chewing the food we separate negative and positive forces the physical from the energy of the food make sure you Chew Chew Chew Chew they say 50 times I seems a bit long to me but properly chew is very important because negativity comes into the body through food which is not properly chewed it's one of them ways that negativity enters into the body
okay but when we chew we should concentrate meditate on the pleasure on the pleasure that's why God gave us the food to enjoy it but if you eat food and you don't enjoy it that actually is a problem okay because where does the food go the energy of the food that you don't enjoy that you eat doesn't go to a good place it can create negativity for us so again you should have pleasure from the food that you eat connect to appreciation okay connect to appreciation say a blessing of your choice before you eat to
awaken appreciation eat it chew and concentrate to enjoy that at the fullest and share that energy that pleasure that you feel with all the people in your life sounds silly not at all you're creating an energy shield around you you're creating a spiritual vessel for more sustenance to come in try it sex I don't mean try sex but the way we spoke about and food the way we spoke about and you'll see you will create for sure more openings not only for sustenance but for more opportunities of sustenance to come in because everything comes from
One Source we need to remember that there's one source of everything the sustenance and when we are harnessing the energy of the two most powerful forces of of sustenance in our life which is sex remember it creates life and food which sustains life those two if we limit the negativity that can come in from those things we open ourselves to more sustenance that the Universe wants to give us be blessed everyone be blessed and remember where your head is at that's where you're at all the best guys all the best