there's a truth that we all have to realize the truth might sound sound harsh but the truth is just that it's the truth and it's not something that we can choose to ignore or it's not something that we should ignore and we should not choose to ignore it and the truth is nobody cares about you like I said I know that sounds harsh but if you stick around for a bit you'll understand exactly why that's a wonderful thing and you'll understand exactly what I mean welcome back to another episode of sweat talk my name is
Chad and today I'm going to talk about a fact that some of us don't want to face I'm going to talk about the fact that nobody cares about us and I'm going to break that down as to exactly what I mean what that means for us and how it can how it can Propel us into the future and and Empower us the fact that nobody cares about you doesn't mean that you're not important what it means is nobody cares about you as much as you need to care for yourself you should care about yourself before
we get any further one of the subscri one of my subscribers um mentioned that he wants to see more of Robin and it'd be inspirational to you guys and motivate you to see more of my family we actually do plan on getting them both Robin and Zoe on here more often figuring out where we can fit them into the channel and how we can actually be a motivation and inspire you but people are caught up in their in their own lives the world is not going to stop stop for you the sun will rise in
the east and it will set in the west people aren't going to going to stop they're not going to stop their lives and wait for you to make your move nobody knows how great you are not everyone is going to see your worth but that's exactly where our power lies within us the fact that nobody cares is a blessing in disguise if we're able to look at look at it from a different perspective it forces you to take charge of your life it gives you the time and space to focus on what truly matters or
what should truly matter that is you this realization can shift your perspective this realization can shift your perspective to where you begin to shift your energy and effort into yourself rather than focusing on material material possessions or the approval of other people think about it this way when you're sitting in an intersection you're sitting at a stoplight traffic begins to back up and you drive a beater you're sitting in that beater maybe it's not a beater it's just a a regular reliable little car either way nobody nobody cares nobody notices you nobody's looking at you
same goes for if you're sitting in that expensive nice car that you paid way too much for nobody cares nobody's watching you nobody's looking at you nobody cares even if they did care if you knew those people would you like them would you actually want to to have those kind of people in your life if they're judging you whether their judgments are good or bad those who talk about others to you talk about you to others those same people are going to cast judgment on you as well as the other people once you realize that
and you're able to start focusing on things that really matter like investing in you investing in your personal growth your personal development your future and your own personal happiness the world doesn't owe you anything the nicest thing about that is you don't know the world anything either the only person that can truly save you the only person that can achieve your dreams the only person that can truly Empower you is you this reality opens up doors for you it gives you the opportunity or the chance to push further than you've ever push yourself before knowing
that you alone will reap the rewards the consequences for your actions should motivate you to keep pushing forward and to make and to live your life and find your purpose living your life with purpose and intention each and every choice we make it carries weight and that's weight that only you are truly going to carry when we do stupid things we can sometimes put that weight on others put that weight on the the shoulders of loved ones but it's never going to be the total weight it's only going to be a portion so no matter
how you look at it that weight is all on you and it's all on your back regardless this realization should be empowering because you'll know and understand that you don't need validation from anyone to live a meaning meaningful life okay and all you need is the drive determination and discipline to live that meaningful life when you stop looking at others for praise and you stop looking for their approval you'll find power in the most unexpected places and the most valuable objects are always found in the least likely dark darkest places you start to become self-reliant
discovering discovering the power within you to navigate life's obstacles the things that used to feel like massive challenges those big goals those huge things that you used to fear will eventually just become Stepping Stones to guide you your way it's going to allow you to achieve even larger goals and propel yourself faster in the direction of life that you actually want to go you won't feel the need to to tackle those obstacles anymore because it's going to be nothing more than a bump in the road those things that that used to paralyze you dude that
was really short wasn't it yeah right we're trying out a brand new Trail today and on the map it looked like it was going to be a couple miles and I think I don't I don't even know if it was a mile oh Robin said it was about a mile and a quarter man that went by so fast we'll do it again but those those those things that used to par paralyze you you'll be able to use those to motivate you with purpose Simplicity and ease you'll begin to realize that life is going to test
you nobody's immune to that we're all going to experience stress nobody's going to roll out the red carpet for you nobody's going to lay down in a puddle for you to step over strength comes through exposure challenging yourself standing up and facing those challenges head on even though they're hard right now and even though even though you feel you may feel like cowering is a fear or what might happen What might happen instead of being drained by the fact that nobody cares you'll eventually be able to look at that and use that as fuel it
could become energy to propel you forward you'll no longer you'll damn it you'll no longer need feel the need to please people you'll be able to free yourself from that external valid validation that you're seeking or in the past that you've sought you can realize that you need to live and you should be living your life on your terms because you'll never you'll no longer be you'll no longer be seeking approval from others because you don't need it empowering yourself and knowing that you are the key you'll find that you'll find that new power that
allows you to unap unapologetically be yourself you'll be able to to start asking yourself how can I instead of why can't I the word true try will leave your venacular and you will replace that word try with do which sounds like a a simple thing to do it sounds like a simple obstacle to to tackle and and be able to overcome and accomplish once your mind is in the in the right space once your heart space your heart set is in the right space it is a very a very easy thing or very simple thing
to do look at the difference between those two words of easy and simple sometimes we might use those interchangeably but they're not interchangeable words there might be some minuscule circumstances where they are but break those two words down simple and easy for what they are same goes for the the two words try and do look at the power between the two words and how either one can hold you back or Propel you forward eventually you'll be able to prove to yourself how strong you actually are you'll begin to realize that that's the only validation that
you need that's the only validation that you need to seek do me a favor guys do yourselves a favor and and and everybody all of our future our future viewers go in the comment section and put care so that we can p push that along this video is not even close to being over yet but I believe that this is so important that it can't wait till the end you'll be able to stand up straight with your shoulders back you'll be able to you'll be able to have that type of confidence that just shines through
and everybody around you will automatically notice you won't there won't be any need and you won't feel a need to say anything people's actions the way they look at you and treat you will do all the Talking for you when people notice begin to notice those changes they'll start asking you there's no question about that they're going to ask you what's changed there's something about you that's different and the truth is that there's nothing different about you the difference is within your heart because you are still the same person but you're the same person with
a new paradigm opportunities will start opening for you opportunities that that you never thought possible you'll start seeing your own potential that you weren't able to see before you'll see a shift in the Dynamics of your relationships people start to gravitate towards you that gravity that draws them in that gravity that draws them in is from your authenticity your true authenticity and your true and your true strength you'll be able to become a leader a true leader not by force but by example the kicker about that whole situation is that leadership will come from True
authenticity and humility you won't feel the need to put on a Persona you won't feel the need to to pretend that you're something that you're not for the first time you'll be able to feel a sense of inner peace that's not actually that's not fleeting or dependent on next external validation or thoughts it'll be deep lasting and unshakable when you have confidence like that you begin to be able to see people for who they are you can you can see it and feel the good and the bad in everyone which can be a good or
bad thing sometimes you might end up looking for the bad and completely missing the good because you've been beat and how else how you've been treated throughout the course of your life eventually you will be able to overcome that but always looking for the bad in people can also be a good thing and used as a safety mechanism to protect you and your loved ones in the future the coolest thing is like you'll be able to recognize the relationships that don't serve you you'll be able to push those toxic peoples you'll be able to push
those tox toxic PE over you're tripping you'll be able to push those toxic people out of your life whether it's for good or temporary you'll be able to know when those people need to go for good once you identify them once you get those people out of your life you'll be able to surround yourself with others that encourage growth Health in your body and mind just as you do for them just as you should be doing for everyone in time you'll become a beacon of light people will look at you as their North Star so
they always have Direction they know where they're heading and they have a idea of how to get there your courage and authenticity will eventually be able to empower others to find their inner strengths and every time you hear her that nobody cares about you you'll be able to look at yourself and realize what your achievements are the power and strength that you hold inside of you instead of feeling beat down in a dark place or in that rut that you've been living in that you're afraid to crawl out of you'll be able to you'll be
able to prove to yourself time and time again that you can and you need to be living your life with intention and purpose and the best thing about it is when you're able to encourage others to do the same it's when you're able to to show gratitude and give back to those that helped you and benefited you and your future so do yourself a favor Embrace this truth treat it as a gift because it truly is it's an opportunity for you to grow and Thrive and live your life intentionally it is a blessing it's not
a curse because now now you're living life on your own terms not on the terms of others and when you do and inspire you you're able to inspire others to do the same you'll truly feel you'll truly feel your own heart your strength within you the power and the courage to grow you'll finally truly be able to find you'll finally be able to find true happiness and true intention that's all I got for today guys I appreciate you showing up I hope you're showing up for yourselves let me know in the the comments section if
you want to see more of Robin we need to figure out how to get her in the in these videos cuz I want her to be on here as well she's one of the most she is the most amazing person I've ever met in my life and I'm a fortunate man to have her in my life but I hope hope you're showing up for yourselves I hope you are getting something out of this I'm I'm forever grateful for all of your support I appreciate the hell out of you I'll be here tomorrow I hope you
will be too and I hope you have a wonderful day peace [Music]