you know success means different things for different people right for some it might be getting the job they've always wanted for others it could be running your own business for some more it could be just living a simple yet happy life While others enjoy the intricacies and challenges the world presents to put it simply success means turning your desires into reality most people get it wrong though success isn't a destination you don't set your goal on becoming successful instead you become really good at something and as a result in the eyes of others you will
be seen as successful really success is like a benefit of winning the game that you're playing so with this made clear here's our take on the 15 rules of success welcome to alux the place where future billionaires come to get inspired number one have a vision and a plan or all you'll be left with are dreams people who don't know where they want to go they get swept up by the current and their lives are no longer theirs other people will choose for you who you are what you do what you like whom you marry
what you do with your spare time and more until there's nothing left of the person you once thought you were if you want to be successful you need a North star you have to have a target a clear goal on which all of your efforts are focused number two if you don't ask the answer is no now this point can be expanded to you Miss every opportunity you don't go for so here's why this rule is so important in almost all cases even if you don't get the answer you wanted the default result is your
current state you're not losing anything but a bit of time and considering your current reality you've got plenty of that in gambling terms this is a free role which translates to although there is a small chance you get it there's no downside in trying now here's the real secret behind this okay it's a numbers game when we were starting out everybody told us it's unlikely we'll make it because nine out of 10 businesses fail our answer was simple we'll just build 10 businesses it didn't take 10 times but what became alux was our fourth try
you only need to get it right once and your entire life changes number three 80% done and delivered Now is better than 100% perfect but never released we're all perfectionists right which is why not that much gets done people obsess about the littlest of things and get stuck in the process to the point where they abandon the entire effort the world is better off with little value put forward than it is without any of it your job is to get the value out as soon as possible this teaches you more about the world about yourself
than anything else take our Sunday motivational video for example we could have easily spent another full month working on this video alone doing more animations polishing the graphics but 80% of that value lies in the information the presentation is good enough for you to get the value everything else is just decoration now don't get us wrong okay decoration is fun awesome but people want the cake not the candles you put on top if you want to be successful you have to stop self- sabotaging it'll never be perfect get it out and then build on top
of what the feedback is in the tech space this is called a minimum viable product or MVP it's the first generation barebones version that's good enough for people to use and good enough when you need it is always better than perfect but too late number four the time will pass anyway so you might as well use it everybody thinks they've got time so they can afford to waste some of it but reality hits you hard when you realize time is picking up speed as you progress in life can you believe how far into the year
we already are what about how quickly the past 10 years have gone by time will pass anyway so 5 years from now you might as well have your degree your business or your career okay the choices you're making right now determine where you'll be 10 years from now if you want to be successful later on make the choices today that will allow you to get there in the future number five nobody's coming to save you you have to save yourself if you want to be successful UC F sorry to break it to you okay but
you can't escape the hard work requirement as much as you're trying to play the game to find the short cuts at some point you'll find yourself before the track and you'll have to run that race yourself you're smart you probably think you can find a cheat code to winning this with less effort than anyone else well you found it okay this list right here is all the value that we've managed to find in our own race and bring it all together we're serving you the best of the best on a silver platter and even here
hard work is still on the menu people will help to motivate you some will cheer for you some will help you overcome obstacles along your journey but this is your journey they've got their own if you've chosen to swim in the Deep Waters of uncertainty risk and reward you better start swimming cuz there's no guarantee a lifeguard's going to show up in time take ownership of your present and the future this is one of the first lessons we realized when we began meditating the fact that we were so much in control of our destiny that
it's great to have valuable people around you but unless you're solid on your own feet you're unlikely to break through to the next level and we distilled this type of mindset and realization in our mind Mastery premium experience available for purchase at al.org it's a 21-day challenge where you learn the valuable skills of meditation and how to use your mind to come up with Creative Solutions to problems that you're facing in your daily life we know that 250 bucks is a lot for some of you you but a single idea from that course can grow
into millions so if you go to al.org and use the code alexer at checkout you'll get 25% off the course as a gift from us to you we'll see you in there number six be grateful for what you have but you should always want more now this is something that people have said to us you've done so much you've got enough you should take a break not once but we've heard this numerous times so here's the thing about that though there's no limit to how much good you can do the more you work the more
opportunities to help you have why would you take a break when you're winning and your work is helping you and those around you to live a better life people grow up with this mindset of limited resources like the pie is finite for them if you take two slices of pie then there isn't much left for anyone else what these people don't understand is that there is no pie initially I baked it myself okay I know how to bake pies actually I've been making more than one pie and are giving these out to other people so
how about you just let me eat this slice of pie in peace Karen live life appreciating what you have be grateful for the good life that you're living right now although it might not feel like it it can always get worse okay so be grateful but you know it's more than okay to want to get to the next level to want to experience more than your current reality there are levels to the things that you can do in life how how many people you can help and the impact you can have your job now is
to figure out how far you can get in this game you want to be successful to be grateful for what you have but to play the game the best way you can so what's your high score alexir number seven success comes as a result of putting order into chaos so if you're living in chaos the likelihood of success is left to chance and by now we both know that is not a strategy every successful individual has become successful by putting order to chaos that's what solving problems is actually problems are chaotic so what you have
to do is to find some chaos or problems and put some order to it now this entire piece is about the rules of success and what you can do today to increase your chances of success tomorrow so how chaotic is your life right now take a look around you how clean is your room what about your house your car how clear are your goals how orderly is your life the Mind cannot focus in a chaotic environment because it's distracted by all the noise you want to put order in your life start small clean your room
make your bed empty your phone create a to-do list for everything that's been stressing you out and know that you should be getting done the to-do list is the first step toward bringing some order to your chaos then do the things you write on that list do them for real once you're done you won't believe how powerful you'll feel okay you'll just have taken control of your life this notion of Order and Chaos will spread throughout your entire life okay so keep your word be on time this drops down the level of chaos into a
predictable order nobody likes people who are bringing their chaos into other people's lives so try not to be one of them you want to be successful put order to your chaos number eight hardships are life's way of testing how badly you want it you know sometimes life throws some big roadblocks your way to keep up with the previous metaphor think of them very much like a boss fight in video games when things get hard life is testing you to see what you're made of and if you're ready for growth or not the fact that you've
come this far and are now facing this should tell you that you're on the right path hardships are just opportunities for you to evolve it's hard because you're not strong enough not ready enough to overcome it yet but that's exactly why you need to face it in the process of overcoming it it'll force you to grow to be more than what you currently are hardships are a part of everyone's Journey but here's how we think about them every time you encounter a problem life is testing you if you're worthy of what's beyond it most people
will not be able to overcome it so they won't get the prize this is what they mean when when they say nine out of 10 businesses will fail that one that survives is the one worthy of the prize never be faced by obstacles hardships or uncomfortable problems that you have to solve because once you do you'll have proven yourself worthy you want to be successful so overcome the problems ahead of you number nine wake up with purpose now an important rule of success has to do with your mornings and the way you organize is your
day people of purpose usually wake up early why well because they need more time to do the things that they know will push the needle further the moment you begin waking up with purpose with a clear and actionable goal in mind you're no longer lingering through life you have a purpose here not a wish not a dream a purpose I woke up today to get this done and I will not go to bed until I do it how many of you have no idea what to do these days how many of you feel like you
lack Direction in your life how many of you want someone to hold your hand and walk you toward the things you feel like you need this is because you're lacking purpose okay a clear purpose defines clear steps and actions that you need to take there's no longer a confusion of what you should be doing next you don't complain or procrastinate when you have a purpose people have survived Wars labor camps the darkest evils because of the purpose of seeing their family one more time and you think you can't stop watching Tik Tok videos come on
you want to be successful okay so find your purpose number 10 monetize your passion now you've heard it in so many different ways like find a job and you won't ever work a day in your life not really okay but despite this being one of the most well-known rules of success a quick glance at Society reveals a brutal truth everyone who's super successful has leveraged this rule to their favor everyone we look up to has figured out how to monetize their passion while everyone else is crying themselves to sleep now here's where things get interesting
though there are so many people in this world that statistically speaking somebody has already figured this out before you even better you probably already know them because you've naturally gravitated toward them your passion has worked on your behalf just study them and figure out how they've managed to monetize and slowly begin to following their footsteps nobody in their right mind would keep doing this for long without a payout unless you're having fun and passionate about what you're doing so here's the cheat sheet to monetizing anything figure out four of these things and you are golden
okay so first of all figure out if it's going to be a product or a service second figure out how much you're going to charge third figure out how you're going to reach people and fourth figure out how you're going to take their money although these four might sound like it's one thing they require different types of expertise by the time you solve these four puzzles you're already winning number 11 find people who are walking in the same direction as you and walk together now a major rule of success comes from the people you associate
with because you are the average of The Five People You surround yourself with are they successful because if so you're probably successful yourself are they losers well guess what you probably are too when it comes to hunting for goals and success it's a lot easier to hunt in packs to motivate each other to call yourselves out on your bull and be there if the situation requires it there's an old African proverb that goes like this if you want to go fast go alone if you want to go far go together no matter how strong you
think you are unless you build a team surround yourself with people going the same way you are you're going to burn out be taken away by the current and eventually drown nobody is really selfmade we all sought help along the way and if a mentor is something you want but don't have access to the right ones locally well the alux app has you covered here okay we design the app to function like a high performance coach every day there is new sessions going live dedicated to helping you level up your financial health physical and emotional
Wellness strengthening your relationships your mind and your body all of your bases are covered for a small fraction of what an actual professional coach would cost even better we hire industry experts pay them their steep fees sit them down in a studio and have have them teach you on camera how they got to where they are today so if you're ready to kick your journey into a higher gear download the alux app scan this QR code on screen and you'll get 25% off the annual membership see you on the inside number 12 where your focus
is is where your reality follows now we shouldn't be talking about the rules of success without mentioning one of the most important ones your focus determines your destiny how do you spend time what are you doing every day toward what does your attention go be honest with yourself where is it really going that's why your reality is the way it is if you want your life to change you first have to change yourself for some reason people want change without making any changes how's that supposed to work you've probably heard of the definition of insanity
as doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results are you getting the results you want if yes good great okay keep doing what you're doing but if you're not you better re-evaluate yourself because your future is just around the corner and you my friend are not ready for it if you want to be successful learn how to focus your efforts in the right direction number 13 for your life to be more than what it is you need to be more than what you are now we wanted to expand on the previous
point because it's crucial to your future we're not going to sugarcoat it for you there are tears to life there are experiences places people events which you will never have access to with your current condition everyone wants to date a supermodel but nobody wants to work hard enough to be in the position to date a supermodel everybody wants their partner to be amazing at everything but they themselves are mediocre at best everyone wants to create incredible memories but very few are willing to put in the effort to get there the more you develop personally the
more doors open for you guess what okay behind those doors there are other rooms you don't even know exist right now life has this strange way of giving us what we want but people never ask for more this is what is meant when people say invest in yourself use your time money and resources to develop to grow to experiment to learn to become more than what you are you first put in the work and then the awards will follow okay it is not the other way around number 14 success is the result of managing existing
resources efficiently now here's the truth okay life is a strategy game you get a limited amount of resources to start you've got some time a little bit of money and just a few tools at your disposal you're consuming this on a device so you might have more than you think you do you have to make some choices where should your resources go now before you rub the Cheeto dust off your fingers and start ranting about people people being Bor and Rich and how unfair life is just know there are people out there who started with
way less than what you did and by your age have achieved way more so check yourself okay everybody has their own pace but everybody gets handed a different starting hand maybe you got lucky and you were born into a decent family with decent opportunities at your doorstep but maybe you didn't maybe life was hard for you in the beginning and maybe it still is but you can give up or play the game because you're already in it okay you're SM art look around you you paid with money and time to purchase these things you're surrounded
by so ask yourself how can I use these things to get myself more money and more time your problem isn't that you don't have the best resources no it's that you're too lazy to use the resources that you already have number 15 success is the sum of small actions repeated Daily Now becoming successful is fairly easy you do the things that you need to do every single day until you get there the hard part comes from lacking consistency it's fairly easy to get in shape the hard part is ignoring the cake for a couple of
months what's the one thing that if you did it every day for 1,000 days that would definitely get you there don't rush it because this is important okay once you find that thing do it and don't stop 1,000 day challenge to win it life are you in or Nah if you want to be successful you have to know the rules of success and you just went through all of them okay which raises the question which one clicked with you the most we're super interested in knowing which ones sparked an idea in your mind so let
us know in the comments and as a thank you for watching this video until the very end because you're a real alexir you're getting a bonus and that bonus is simple but beautiful be kind okay be kind consistently actually make an effort to be kind and give back this is one of the biggest mysteries in our life call it karma call it the universe call it the Law of Attraction Call It Whatever You Like okay but every time we gave to someone else it came back to us tfold we're not even joking okay people say
charity should be done in silence but for the past 10 years we've provided food for the elderly or those less fortunate we've donated over 50% of our clothing we've donated money during the pandemic we provided bags of everything that grandmas and grandpas would possibly need to every set we knew even if they weren't our own so that they didn't have to go buy supplies groceries and food themselves honestly we've also been doing it for selfish reasons too because it makes us feel really good to give back to others it's like a high you get when
you're doing good it's it's almost addictive and maybe you don't have enough to give or you're not feeling generous and that's okay as well there are other things you can do to give back it costs nothing to not be an here's a golden nugget it okay A couple of years ago we made up a concept called the kindness Arbitrage that to this day is a very active part of our lives a kindness Arbitrage is when it costs you a little but you're getting a big result for somebody else now we've mentioned grandmas or your parents
for that matter a 15-minute phone call with your grandma is costing you 15 minutes but you're going to make her weak because she hasn't heard from you in so long $200 for us is honestly not that much money but for a family that's been struggling to provide food or toys for their children during the holidays 200 bucks is a game Cher there are little acts of kindness that go a long way and the trade is always worth it just look at the way you live you're blessed to have so much it almost feels weird if
you've made it this far we are so proud of you we're sure this last Point got you thinking about how to use this kindness Arbitrage in your life and we promise you that even if it doesn't come back to you in material form it will absolutely be worth it mix it with the rules of success that we mentioned in this list and you'll have everything you need when answering today's question make sure to write r o in the comments it stands for rules of success and that way we know you've gotten all the way through
them to number 16 you didn't just skim through this list you were dedicated and we love that about you we'll see you back here next time alexer until then take care my friend
