the nature of male and female attraction differs male attraction is largely on has to do with looks and also compatibility right how much you guys enjoy doing the same things female attraction is so much more than that there are so many factors that they're weighing looks do play a little bit of a role in it so I'm going to start with that really you just have to wear well-fitting clothes be clean and hygienic and also your posture matters after that it's entirely mental that's right you could be short fat bald and ugly as and you
could still pull all of the women you wanted you heard it here first guys this short bald ugly overweight guy could theoretically attract not just this 9 out of ten woman but dozens more so they can all live in the same house taking turns for who gets a chance with him now on a more serious note I can't believe I'm still constantly getting baffled by the ignorance of guys like these honestly the fact there are guys out there that can unironically be this clueless shocks me because unless you've been living under a rock it should
be obvious for how unfair the modern dating game is for guys now anyway this video isn't going to be a roasting of this guy's horrendous opinions I already have several pointing out the truth of how modern dating is and frankly it'd be a waste of breath debunking this guy is logic so instead as the title of the video shows I have four reasons for why 90 percent of guys out there or as I would describe being blue pilled Beyond saving reason number one blue pill thinking is based on nice sounding theories while the other two
leading ideologies aren't they are based on dystopian sounding theories here's a list by list rundown for you starting with the blue pill I want you to tell me if these sentences sound more pleasing to your ears just be kind to women if you like a girl tell her she's pretty buy a girl some flowers and watch her appreciate it just make her laugh women love a guy with a sense of humor just let her know how you really feel if you like her just hold the door open for her just ask her out the worse
she can say is no just find a girl that likes you for you just listen to her and show her you care just be a gentleman and pay her compliments and of course how could we forget just be yourself and the lastly if none of these work just stop trying and the girl of your dreams will come into your life when you least expect it these are some of the most common blue pill catchphrases I wouldn't be surprised if you've heard most if not all of them in your life and now contrast this list of
phrases too just be confident just put in 1500 hours at the gym to get jacked just make sure your diet is on point and your 10 body fats just accept for many women she's not yours she's only your turn just accept your genetics will play a role for how attractive you are just accept height matters just accept your hairline matters just accept there is no safety net for men and if you don't take action you'll just get older and older until you eventually pass just make six figures and become a millionaire by 30. just understand
that dating is a competition and not competing will result in you being left behind and lastly just know that most women will only date you if you bring more to the table than she does now it's clear to see the nature of these things brings far less to be happy and optimistic about than the previous list and this brings me to my first points if people have a choice of choosing either a set of nice pleasant easy implementable sounding theories or a set of harsh grueling and sometimes even brutal sounding theories more often than not
people will be drawn to the pleasant side as it's more comforting for people's emotions it almost brings this idea back to the roots of where the names of the ideologies originated from in The Matrix most people will choose to take the blue pill even though they know deep down it's based on lies while only those with strong enough emotional control are willing to accept the truth this brings me nicely to my second reason number two blue pill propaganda are ingrained by parents this is is the most important reason because it is the starting point for
every child raised you've probably heard of the quote if you tell a liar big enough and keep repeating it people will eventually come to believe it and of all people that can be manipulated by this concept children are by far the most impressionable and will believe anything their parents tell them and yes although Trends can change over time as people get older and start thinking for themselves it's still usually never enough to overthrow the status quo established at the start it's similar to how in Christian majority countries the following generation always has an overwhelming bias
to becoming Christians whereas in Islamic countries the same thing happens but with their religion and although once a generation reaches adulthood some individuals start to think that themselves and some convert to different ways of life or no religious following at all this is still not enough to make any meaningful change from the way the majority thought from the starting points anyway the same thing is happening with teachings from our parents about dating and attracting women when a generation of sons is raised it starts off with 100 of them being blue pills then as some guys
discover other ways of thinking in their teens and early twenties the Rival ideologies start gaining traction which chips away at the popularity of the status quo however this is still not enough to completely overthrow and outnumber the default ideology a lot of guys don't change from when they were younger and this might be because they got lucky with good genetics and got a relationship early a blue pilled Chads or its normies who are in denial oil and stuck in their ways then it's only the guys that had to learn dating the hard way who accept
harsh truths who disconnect from the blue pill this leads to my next point for why so many guys are blue pills 3. the widespread blue pilling of men by women this happens because guys think of all the people to ask for dating advice surely the obvious people to go to will be women themselves after all women should know what they are attracted to so what better a primary source of information could there be than from those that should know best unfortunately all of what I've just said though it sounds great in theory it never works
in practice and this is because of the simple reason women lie I'll get into explaining this in a second but I want to promise you I'm not slandering or being harsh on women I'm simply telling the truth based on experience it's a matter of fact it's just last month when I released my uni girls interview video this one interaction with this girl proved to be perfect evidence of this she stated this guy Austin Dunham was an 8 out of 10 and her type however when it came to if she would date him or not she
answered friend zone how does it get any more confusing than this and she wasn't the only one who made these kind of remarks that sounded like contradictions if you watched a video you'd have seen most of the responses appear to cause more conflict than remove it showing it's wholly a worthwhile idea as a guy to ask women what they find attractive now as promised there are explanations for why this happens perhaps the two biggest factors at play are one virtue signaling and two ignorance virtue signaling is this idea that women lie on purpose they won't
tell a guy the truth about something in order to save his feelings evolutionarily speaking the theory goes if a woman tells a man a harsh truth it has the potential to unsettle his emotions and from there he could lash out in a violent or aggressive Manner and bearing in mind there is usually more physical risk for women not being able to defend themselves than men they have evolved this defensive strategy of sounding kind-hearted and sincere in the presence of men which therefore will mean men instead stay calm the second reason women don't tell the truth
is because of ignorance or lying on accidents it might surprise you but in the minds of women there is often a stark difference between what they think they want and what they actually want the best example I could think of for this is when women say they want a dad boards now when women say this I would guess what they are picturing is a man who has a physique like this so a high amount of muscle and an average a level of fat however this is not what guys think when they hear the words dad
boards in reality this guy has a physique that still places him in the top 10 to 20 percents and most guys would think an actual dad board looks like this to be clear women's impression of dad boards men's impression of Dad's boards So based on this you can see where the confusion arises because a lot of women say they want one thing but in practice when confronted with actual examples of that thing they realize they want something completely different anyway this leads me into my fourth and final points why there are an extremely high number
of blue pilled guys out there and that is cancel culture this is probably the most unfortunate reason on this list because for many guys who have been able to change their beliefs have done so by watching videos like Mayan or from other creators in the Mano sphere however it seems increasingly so in today's online climate the big companies that run the platforms are making us less and less welcome ask any Creator within this space with over 100k subscribers and I guarantee they've experienced at least some degree of censorship in the last year I for one
just last month received an age restriction on a video I Know Jack denmo has battled for ages with getting videos demonetized and sometimes flat out removed I know Hamza has had his Discord server restricted and several videos flagged as inappropriate and the biggest influencer of them all as you all know just six months ago was wipes from every platform and as of now is currently Behind Bars until further notice furthermore even for the lucky ones that haven't had to deal with any of these direct restrictions there are widespread accusations that the big platforms are regularly
suppressing channels through Shadow Banning now I'm not going to comment on whether I believe these accusations are true or not but the arguments people bring forth are saying they'd be subscribed to a channel and watch every video but when a new video is released they either don't get a notification or it doesn't show up in their recommended and when you look up certain Search terms the First videos that come up are against the movement and trying to dissuade people from following the ideology and lastly people say sometimes they leave comments on videos that immediately get
removed by the algorithm and if this is proof the platforms have a shadow Banning system in place against commenters it wouldn't be surprising if they have a similar system against creators anyway that's all for today if you've enjoyed today's video make sure you press the like button on your way out and leave any thoughts you have in the comments below as it all helps the YouTube algorithm