I've spent a lot of sleepless nights worrying about the future I just feel stuck I know that I'm talented I know that I'm smart but nothing seems to be working now I've had three panic attacks last month and I'm not sure if I would ever be all right again now these were some of the lines that I wrote during my first year of college I almost failed in my exams my first semester cgpa was 6.64 I was thin underconfidence and was struggling to find the answer to my question every person that you see on the
top was once the one who hit his Rock Bottom the only difference they have decided to pick themselves up we all got one life one chance and it's up to us to make it count in this video I'll be talking about some of the steps and the mindset shift that I've had to completely change my life for the better I literally changed my life so much that I don't even recognize my previous self I've gone from scoring the least marks in the class to one of the highest marks in the class from being an under-confident
kid to speaking in front of hundreds and hundreds of people from skinny to fit my life life has just completely changed and so in [Music] yours where do we start I guess from the beginning back when I was in the first year of college I had one of the worst mindsets possible whenever something bad happens to me I just had a very bad habit of just blaming it on others bro you got zero in the test bro that Professor was so boring bro why are you so thin like hostile food mat bro why didn't you
get selected bro I think they definitely took money and selected them like you see I didn't even try to change myself I was just trying to escape the guilt of accepting that I'm just not good enough true growth only starts when you accept who you are where you are and how capable you are so this is the first step realize what are you good at what are you bad at what are your strengths what are your weaknesses because if you don't even know where you are on the map how can you even reach your goal
realize where you are and start taking control of your life everything that happens to you you are the one who's solely responsible for it you failed in an exam the reason is you you are thin as the reason is you you didn't get selected the reason is you and never be ashamed of whom you are right now because in fact one day you have to look back at this version of yourself and make fun of [Music] it everyone's life has phases sometimes you shamee and sometimes you prepare and most of the preparation usually happens in
the dark no one notices you no one knows who the you are and no one even cares about you so why would you care about someone else just disappear maybe for a week a month or even for a year cut down all those snakes who act as if they're your friends they don't deserve you they're just the passing clouds in your story because my dear brothers and sisters you are the story so bro I want to ask you a question like how are you so consistent how can you work so hard every single day because
I just don't know man like I've been trying my best every single day but nothing seems to be moving I'm just stuck in my life bro it's not about consistency it's not about working hard and it's definitely not about working smart or anything you just like the clarity like do you even know what exactly do you have to do this year this month this week do you have a list of things to do before the sunsets tonight you don't so what the do you expect remember Clarity gives you consistency and good things take time a
lot of time and if you don't have patience for it just quit listen there are no Shortcuts To Success it's just years and years and years of grind hard work sacrifices and failures the kind that breaks you tests you and finally molds you into something Unstoppable back in the first year of my college when I finally made a plan when I finally started working hard and when I finally removed all the bad habits and the bad influence that I've had in my life I slowly started to fall in love with the process every day I
just used to wake up and make a list of things that I had to do the dopamin rush when I finally finished all the things that I finished while I'm maintaining streaks days after days after days after days it just felt amazing I'm sure it was hard it was difficult that was one of the points of the time when I did not even see any results I mean sure my marks were improving but not so much I was gaining some muzzle at the jib but I was still so thin I was getting better at everything
but not so much that someone would notice it I mean it's just like life day after day when you look at yourself in the mirror nothing changes but when you look at a picture of yourself 2 years back everything would have changed already and I truly believe that the pure happiness is not not when you actually reach a goal it's here it's right here when you fall in love with the process discover your true self and you'll never look at yourself the same way again look I don't know where you're in your life right now
maybe you're at the lowest point asking if you can ever make it big in your life but here's something that you have to know there's no step-by-step guide to success no one's coming to save you and it doesn't matter how many times you have failed how many times you have fallen down or how many times you have doubted yourself what matters is what you decide to do right now will you sit there complain and let the life pass by you or will you stand up take control and fight for the life that you deserve remember
you're not stuck you're just preparing and one day the world will see who you are but until the day comes grind in silence meow say meow okay come here
