My GF Abandoned Me and My Daughter, Now She Wants Us Back | Reddit Story

ten years ago my girlfriend abandoned me in our five-year-old daughter now she wants her family back My Story begins 16 years ago when I met Lucy she was an amazing girl intelligent beautiful Fancy funny just the greatest girl I ever met I felt so lucky when we start dating and after a year into the relationship we had a baby I was living the dream living with my girlfriend raising our little daughter being a happy family I loved Lucy so much and after some years we were finally getting married our daughter was the most excited one

about the wedding she was going to be the flowers girl everything seemed to be perfect until one day when I was heading back home a God wanted to talk with me at first I believed he may want to sell me something until he mentioned Lucy politely he asked me to talk in a private place he then asked me to please stop everything about the wedding and step back because he and Lucy wanted to be together I didn't believe him until he started to tell me a lot of details about her that would be impossible to

know I returned home as fast as I could I didn't wanted this to be truth and told her about it hopping all was a mistake but no it wasn't the next hour she told me everything she has been cheating on me from the last two years she told me about how all the time she said she loved me that she wanted us to be together and she loved our family were all lies how her new man was younger stronger handsome and better lover she said that she didn't want it to be tied to me how

she lost her freedom for being a mother and she didn't wanted to be a wife that she wanted her Freedom back the final stab was when she said she was happy that I finally knew and now she was able to leave I cried begged humiliate myself and got on my knees asking for another chance to try fix our relationship but she didn't want it she wanted the thrill and excitement that this new guy make her feel by the next day she left us I felt broken humiliate emasculated but my daughter needed me she was heartbroken

her mother left and she believed it was her fault she heard when Lucy said she didn't want her to be a mother anymore she needed me and I needed to be strong for her fortunately we had help my family and Lucy's family supported us in any way possible her parents were so ashamed for their daughter's actions that they couldn't look me to the face without apologize for everything she did I will be in debt with everyone forever for all their help fast forward 10 years later after lots of time in therapy my daughter and I

are living happy she is the light of my life a beautiful 15 years old lady who I love our wounds are healed and we have a very good life but then she came back when me and my daughter were getting back home we found Lucy in front of our apartment waiting for us wanting to talk I recognize her immediately and I would like to say that I did something cool like ignoring her asking her to leave or at least be hostile with her but no im an idiot my heart skip a beat in the moment

I saw her she still was beautiful as before but somehow she looked even better maybe the Age Maker look mature and elegant maybe the dress or the makeup I don't know but I let her in while her daughter gave us some space and went to her room she told me everything she did since she left basically she lived with that guy for some years she said how much she enjoyed it all the fun she got and how she believed those were the best years of her life until she noticed that the excitement of that new

relationship was fading slowly in some point she started to cheat on that guy too according to her she wanted to feel alive and excited eventually that relationship ended and she started dating other guys every relationship became shorter than the previous one until she only had casual hookups she also said that sometimes she found about us our family she said she was too proud to admit she made a mistake until last year she got coveted and it hit her really hard yo the point that she believed she would die and realized how alone she was how

stupid she was and the mistake she made so long ago after all of that she said she regretted everything she did and said and now she was ready to marry me and be the family we always meant to be when she was done I asked her to leave to give me some time to think she accepted saying she would be back the next day for years I dreamed about her coming back and now it was happening but it just felt wrong since then she visited almost daily wanting to talk about the best years of our

relationship and how we could be a happy family again I asked for help to my family to my friends most of them said I would be making the worst mistake of my life if I take her back others said that I could give her a chance it took me a lot to heal and some more time to start making new relationships and I would be risking everything one night my daughter and I had a deep conversation about all this I always try to involve her in every part of our life and this issue concerned her

too because it's her mother sometimes she surprised me being so wise and mature because she told me can you really love someone that hurted us so much and that was everything I needed I would never forgive myself if I let her hurt my daughter again and I said that to Lucy if she want to be around or have a relationship with our daughter I'm okay with it only if my daughter won it but I told her we are not getting back Lucy only said that she would make me fall in love with her again and

that she would not give up update since the post she had been insisting on meeting she wanted to talk I decided to have one last talk with her and setting my boundaries we met in a public place the talk was long and hard I wanted her to be honest AMD I told her the moment I caught the lie I was leaving I asked if she was really sorry or are we her last option did she really love us or are we just a consolation prize did she came back For Love or because she was unable

to find another man anymore she was unable to answer any of that she only said things like it's not like that you need to understand me I'm not like this anymore she kept insisting on giving her another chance that we can love each other again that we could be together she never even mentioned our daughter in any moment only after I appointed it she started to mention her when I tried to settle that we were over she grabbed my hand and as some of you told me she would do she tried to seduce me pulling

down her blouse showing me her cleavage and saying we can find a room so I can do whatever I wanted with her that she wouldn't say no to anything to compensate me I didn't recognize that woman she wasn't the amazing girl I met she wasn't the mother of my daughter I didn't know who that woman was but she wasn't my Lucy I set her to let me go that we were over neither I or my daughter wanted anything with her so please leave us alone we were living a good life without her she then went

mad saying I couldn't left her that it wasn't my choice that she doesn't have anything else that I can't take away her daughter I still don't know why but that last sentence triggered me the next are not my exact words but are close of what I said on that moment your daughter your daughter you are not her mother you only gave birth to her but you are not her mother tell me were you or when she was sick were you were when she had fever when she was scared on the night when her first teeth

fell when she cried on the nights because she missed her mom where you were on her first day of school when she had her first period when she had her first boyfriend when her heart broke for the second time because the first one who broke her heart was her mother which dick were you riding when she needed a mom you have no rig to claim you are her mother because you never acted like that she tried to reply but I saw how she was unable to find the words I left her back at home she

sent me some texts asking for another meeting for another chance that she loves me and she can change but I'm done you all were rigged she doesn't love me or our daughter at all she only loves herself having her on my life would be bad toxic I don't need that I don't need her my daughter and I are going back to therapy soon some of you are rigged I need to work on myself be stronger and get over those feelings for her because they're not real just a Memoria of what I thought she was