hey SEO is it the highs of the honeymoon period wearing off or maybe you're about to begin a new relationship you're bound to wonder and you are sure to ponder wow did that just rhyme anyways where oh yes is your partner the one and no you're not alone it's only natural for one to have second thoughts when you think about the long run you were in love and that can make it hard for you to see why you two don't work as a we anymore it can even occur way down the road when you're beginning
to settle in for the ride that is life it can be emotionally jarring to even contemplate a breakup as you may still love the person but when the realization that you don't have a future together sets in it's all the more important to make the right decision here are seven signs they are not the one number one they want you to change have they made a list of things they would like to change about you if any such list exists even in imagination chances are they're not the one for you it said Love Changes one
for the better but if that change has to be enforced rather than a gradual naturalness it sure does leave something to be desired everyone wants to be loved and appreciated the right partner should bring out the best in you not change the very you of you if they're not comfortable with the funny awkward clumsy real you it calls for some serious review number two you can can't count on them are you a go-getter in this day and age self-reliance comes with the territory but at the end of the day it feels good to know your
partner's got your back as adults you each have your own path to tread still you look for a partner you can rely on in times when your path is not so smooth it's difficult to find motivation sometimes and it makes all the difference to know that the one beside you is cheering you on so it does beg the question will they be there for you when you need them the most number three you have different values do they rever the same things as you now it is surely difficult for two individuals to have completely the
same taste but when it comes to the big questions it's essential to be facing the same direction at least it's difficult to stay on the same road if the destination isn't the same right relationship experts recommend discussing major topics such as finances intimacy and others thoroughly and openly from the GetGo as they may be become a major deal breaker later on if the two of you don't see eye to eye on things regarding marriage or kids for example it will only break your heart the longer you wait for them to come around to your ideals
or for you to turn to theirs if your priorities don't match chances are they won't allow you to match either number four they can hear but not listen does it seem like you're the only one making compromises do you have a hard time getting them to understand your perspective communication is to a relationship what Sunshine is to a flower it's important for the ones in a relationship to re their partner's emotions as well they should show a willingness to work on the relationship together conflicts are a given for every couple but it's important to have
all hands on deck and work towards a solution if it takes all your effort to get the two of you on the same page it's possible they're not emotionally available brushing things under the rug is only a temporary solution for the long-term your partner should not only look out for your needs as well but be willing to meet you halfway in all the efforts you put in number five your intuition what does your gut feeling say about them are you constantly feeling like something is off one of the first red flags in any relationship is
when you begin to question your relationship with them you have this gut feeling that something's just not right maybe you've already envisioned that sparkling rock or maybe you've already picked that flowing mesh of white but the thought of the right one gives you pause whatever you feel for them is overshadowed by a sense of for boing number six they are fond of you statements we're always late because of you you don't ever care how I feel is your partner always quick to criticize as witnessed couples are more likely to engage in complaining Behavior than most
others right but is it constructive or corrosive criticism they leave you feeling hurt and rejected by using even honest mistakes to make negative judgments about you they always find a way to blame you for the smallest inconvenience without even hearing your side of the story psychologist John Gman who has analyzed couples for over four decades now found that repeated critiques berating another person's intentions can soon cause relationships to derail on top of that expressions of contempt such as sarcasm on a daily basis can make make it difficult for the couple to lead the life they
always dreamed of and number seven your close ones can tell has your best friend been telling you to stop seeing them do your closest family members feel like the two of you don't match it's very true that it is your life and you should get to make all the major decisions but often your close ones can see what you fail to realize way before you do your friends and family are the ones who have spent the longest time with you they're sure to know more about you you and are always on the lookout for you
so if they recommend you revisit your decision there might be something that struck them as odd it's wise to understand where they're coming from before striking them out as being too nosy it is highly possible for you to encounter such situations and even the most long-standing of relationship does that mean you're with the wrong one not at all every couple is unique there are good days and then there are bad days if you can observe these scenarios occurring sparingly in respons to particular events they're bound to go away with time but if you see a
pattern forming too often it might be time for you to have a little talk to figure things out for serious relationship issues we fully recommend seeking out a trained professional feel free to leave a comment down below with your thoughts experiences or suggestions if you found this video helpful be sure to hit the like button and share it with others don't forget to subscribe to Zs too and hit the notification Bell for more new videos thanks for watching
