you think being open and honest with women will make them like you more but that's not how it works some things should never be said because they'll instantly kill attraction and respect if you're spilling your guts you're giving away your power here are five things you should never tell a woman number one don't tell her you're insecure she's not your therapist telling her about your insecurities only makes you look weak women want strength not vulnerability when it comes to to attraction handle your insecurities on your own when you confess them to her she'll start seeing
you as someone who can't handle life number two never tell her your failures in dating talking about how much you've struggled with women in the past is the fastest way to turn her off she'll assume that if other women didn't want you there's a reason confidence in dating is key your failures will only make her question your value number three don't tell her how much you like her expressing too much interest too early makes you look desperate if she knows she has you wrapped around her finger you lose all leverage let her earn your interest
don't give it all away on a silver platter mystery and challenge keep attraction alive number four never tell her you're afraid of losing her the moment you admit you're scared she might leave you've lost women are attracted to men who are secure with or without them fear of losing her puts you in a weak position and she'll start testing you to see how far she can push number five don't tell her you're jealous jealousy shows insecurity if you feel threatened by other men don't voice it stay calm confident and unfazed the minute you express jealousy
she knows you're not in control and that will instantly lower your value in her eyes until next time thanks for watching watching