okay so this video is pretty much a very good summary of the entire premise of everything that I teach so I titled this today why love does not exist and why mutual love is a female nature fantasy and the problem is often times men have been convinced of this fantasy as well so this is why love does not exist okay the feeling of Love is nothing more than a discrepancy between both people's smv okay between both people's sexual market value that is what love is is a discrepancy between the two okay so I'm even going
to show you like a drawing that I made to really illustrate this but here's what you will find okay this is what you will find the women that you really like or that you really want to be with will not like you back in return okay and what you're going to find through the years as you keep dating is the women you don't like as much okay or are not as attracted to or are not into them as much these will be the ones who desire you and want to date you and want to be
with you and want to marry you okay so the women that you really like and that you really want to be with won't want you and the women that you don't necessarily want to be with these are the ones who will want to be with you okay so I'm going to even draw out specifically why this is but here's what I can tell you you will never ever find a situation where the love is mutual ever I see guys who are 20 years old trying to find this situation I see guys who are 30 years
old trying to find this same situation I see guys who are 40 and 50 years old trying to find the same situation I see guys who are 60 and 70 and 80 years old trying to find this same situation okay the feeling of mutual love it doesn't exist most people spend their entire lives chasing this illusion or chasing this fantasy that simply doesn't exist so here's what I can tell you this is how the perception of Love actually works okay so what we're going to do to illustrate this is let's use an attraction scale of
1 to 10 just to make this easy to understand so what we're going to do here is let's use an attraction scale of 1 to 10 just to make this easy to understand okay this is your smv So This is Love example number one let's say a guy is dating a woman okay and this guy let's say he views himself as a seven okay so he's like yeah on a scale of 1 to 10 I'm about a seven like when he looks in the mirror and when he looks at you know who he is and
when he looks at you know maybe his career or his status or his popularity or you know how attractive uh you know women perceive him to be let's say he feels he's about a seven okay now let's say he starts dating a woman and he views her as a N9 and a half okay so this is 2.5 or 2 and 1/2 points difference okay between the two in this exact example the man will fall in love okay because he views her as having higher smv now let's look at example number two let's say in example
number two on a scale of 1 to 10 let's say the woman views herself whether that be her beauty or herv or whatever the case may be it doesn't matter let's say she views herself or you know based on let's even say the attractiveness of the other men who are interested in her let's say she comes to the conclusion and she views herself as a seven but let's say she views the guy that she's dating as a 9 and A2 in example number two the woman will fall in love so this is why I started
off by saying the feeling of Love is nothing more than a difference between both people's smv the feeling of mutual love does not exist so most people are chasing this fantasy that does not exist so this is really important to understand because with hypergamy the second that she feels that her smv is higher than yours she will just quit talking to you so this is where guys get this completely wrong they think well maybe if we do enough chemistry building we can solve this maybe um if we try to talk it out our differences in
you know how we view intimacy or love we can come together maybe if we focus on connection building maybe if we focus on strength building of our relationship maybe if we have deeper level conversation this doesn't work nothing makes up for smv and the difference between the two this is all it comes down to okay so keep this in mind so you can use whatever word you want instead of discrepancy to help you understand this maybe discrepancy isn't the best word for you maybe you just want to use the word difference okay a difference in
smv maybe you want to use the word variation okay A variation between both people's smv it doesn't matter what word you use this is the point that I'm trying to get across okay I'm trying really hard to do this so with hypergamy the second that she feels her smv is higher she will just quit talking to you so you can try to do all these things that you want you can try to text message her and say hey what's going on you can say hey what's wrong did I do something you can try to have
a phone call you can try to talk through it whatever the fact is this she thinks that she has higher dating value than you so because of that she's just going to quit talking to you there's not going to be like a true conversation where the woman will tell you this but I will because even if this hurts your feelings you need to understand this so that way you don't spend the next 20 years of your life trying to achieve something that doesn't actually exist so now let's move on to this column okay as a
man your smv is not based on just how you look or how much money you make or how tall you are or how high your status or popularity is a lot of times when you start dating a woman it's more so based on your body language and your interest level this is what determines to her how high your dating value is so this is why women will routinely say that they don't like nice guys it's because those personality traits make her feel like she can do better she tells herself well he's probably just being this
nice because he has to be so this is why a lot of times lust as a man is your enemy because what it's actually doing is it's overtly revealing your interest level and your attraction towards her so if you as a man try to kiss a lot of times like if you're dating a woman and you're always trying to kiss or you're initiating a lot of touch and that touch can be anything handholding um you know anything that signals attraction okay or maybe you're initiating intimacy often okay and let's say you're overall just very attracted
to her she thinks that you have lower value dating wise than she does or she thinks that you have lower dating value than she does and she will leave you so this is how it works I'm trying to tell you this because if you make these mistakes you have to understand it doesn't matter if you guys just met it doesn't matter if this is a long-term girlfrend of multiple years it doesn't matter if this is your wife as soon as you start making these mistakes that signals that she has higher dating value than you and
you're the one in love hypergamy is not satisfied and now she will leave you so you really have to understand this because a lot of these situations when men and women date once these breakups happen there's a lot of unspoken things like people don't talk about this stuff or why this happened at all what happens is the guy just goes oh well that didn't work out I better you know go searching again for somebody else and a lot of times the woman even is like wow I really liked him in the beginning I don't know
why this happened I don't know why I don't feel attracted to him anymore so this is what you have to understand never under any circumstances ever tell a woman how you feel about her ever never say I'm in love with you never say any of this stuff okay never do this ever because here's what I can tell you most people okay this is like the worst narrative that you're going to get okay the worst narrative you're going to get is she'll appreciate it this is not true but let's go even deeper right let's say you're
a little bit aware of how dating works there's a lot of people that will say oh if you tell a woman your feelings towards her she will use it against you this is what they'll say and she'll use it as leverage verbally or people will say it gives her The Leverage okay or people will say she's going to look at it as weakness or she's going to think that you're weak now in my opinion this is not completely true okay here's what will actually happen eventually she will just stop responding to you and then you
will never hear from her ever again and then she'll just ghost you and this could be a woman that you've been seeing for 1 month or one year or sometimes you know let's say you're dating for a long-term relationship or you're even married this could even be mult years eventually they'll just withdraw interest so in a long-term relationship what will happen is she'll just stop sleeping with you and then she'll leave and she'll never tell you any of these things that I just told you but this is the overarching theme to pretty much everything that
I teach and then what I do is at every single point of each dating interaction whether it be the initial stages uh you know the middle stages once you guys start dating for a consistent period of time or long-term relationships so at all times I'm trying to do in all of my teachings is show this example right here so that way the woman that you're dating views you as a guy who has high dating value if you like this video I want you to hit the like button comment and subscribe and we'll see you in
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