brother made my life hell then got my wife pregnant now he wants my help after our parents disowned him and left me their $2 million inheritance my younger brother David has always harbored a deep-seated resentment towards me if you think it stemmed from jealousy you'd be wrong he was the favored child not me there was no reason for him to be envious to give you some context our mother always indulged David he was The Golden Child of our family she cooked his meals did his laundry and even asked me to help him with his school
work I was expected to assist him simply because we were family but I never received the same consideration I accepted this as I was quite independent perhaps it was partly my fault for always meeting his needs without expecting anything in return he never helped me when I needed it and only approached me when he wanted something while I was a quiet introverted kid who enjoyed studying and keeping to myself he was loud and rough just like our dad I also tend to be straightforward and honest never sugarcoating things I believe my mother may have developed
a Nega perception of me because of my straightforwardness this favoritism made David the family's darling and I didn't mind it while we were growing up however problems began when he started bullying and mocking me for being different from him he would tease me about my height and the fact that I wore glasses he would sneak into my room read my diary and then complain to my mom about what I had written when I yelled at him and complained to our parents about him invading my privacy they would laugh at off saying it wasn't a big
deal he did more awful things like nearly breaking my glasses and putting nasty things in my my food he even once put little stones in my cereal but luckily I found them before they could damage my teeth when I told my mom she dismissed it saying this is how Brothers Bond whenever we fought David would zero in on my insecurities to insult me we went to the same school so he knew I was being bullied by a few kids instead of supporting me he sided with the bullies calling me names like ugly loser or hairy
monkey and encouraging them to physically harm me saying I was just a big failure another time during a fight over something trivial that I can't even remember he told me to kill myself while I could easily brush off most insults that one really hurt because I was struggling with my mental health at the time I'm doing better now but it was devastating to hear that my own brother wanted me dead since Dad was often at work and mom didn't seem to care much she even scolded me once claiming it was my fault for irritating him
things progressively worsened during high school there was a shocking incident when David attempted to set my hair on fire and unbelievably our mother defended him claiming he was merely playing seriously who behaves like that thankfully my dad eventually sided with me and pointed out the gravity of the situation he even threatened to call the police on David this moment was a real eye opener for my brother as he had never faced any consequences for his actions before he was genuinely stunned and my dad made it clear that enough was enough and that David needed to
start respecting his older brother later dad came into my room to talk I never expected his support because he always told David how similar they were which was true dad admitted that he had waited for years hoping David would mature but he was slowly realizing that David was becoming a big bully hearing this from my dad was incredibly validating and I almost broke down in tears I confessed everything David had done to me over the years and even mentioned the bullying at school my dad was shocked at how much I had endured the next day
he spoke to the principal to ensure the bullies were warned about severe consequences if they continued later that evening dad enrolled me in MMA at our local gym telling me I needed to man up and stand up to bullies in my life I admit that a nerdy kid like me trying to learn to fight might have seemed laughable but I was very focused I managed my time well to balance my studies and daily workouts and the MMA classes completely changed my life in physique one day David was up to his Antics again he stole my
pocket money which we received for helping with chores I had been saving it for a while David sneaked into my room and took it I caught him just as he was about to cycle off with his friends I demanded he return my money but David me saying all I could do was run to Daddy for help I don't know what came over me but I punched him in the face he was stunned fell backward and I retrieved my money from his pocket before throwing him back down David started crying loudly which was quite comical however
my mother rushed out to help him and find out what happened when she learned I had fought him she was surprised and reprimanded me saying I should be a better role model for David who seemed to enjoy seeing me scolded my mother also complained to my dad about my behavior saying I needed to be controlled my dad grimly asked both of us to explain ourselves I told him how David had stolen the money I had worked hard for and saved while David tried to justify it by saying he needed the money for a date and
that as his brother I should help him however dad told David he was lucky I only punched him for stealing because anyone else would have called the police he continued to tell David that he had no right to take others things without their consent David didn't like that and threw a tantrum likely hoping our mother would side with him but Dad remained firm when David realized he wasn't going to be punished for being hit he screamed how much he hated me and ran back to his room locking himself in following that incident David began to
distance himself from me he had finally understood that he couldn't bully me anymore and that even dad had stopped supporting his Antics for the first time in a long while I felt like we were equals though he could no longer physically harm me he resorted to verbal insults when our parents weren't around his behavior worsened with age becoming angrier and more short-tempered each year when I approached him with a question he would ignore me and walk away way muttering insults like nerd or loser under his breath if he needed to communicate something he would relay
it through our mother instead of speaking to me directly when I questioned her about why David couldn't just talk to me she would urge me to be more understanding I couldn't tell if it was just puberty or Genuine hatred over time dealing with his comments became unbearable and I longed to move out and get away from him I repeatedly asked my mother to mediate a sit down conversation for us to resolve our issues but she always refused saying she didn't want to get involved when I I asked her opinion on why David treated me this
way she would brush off the question eventually I left for my dream University having earned a scholarship as a top student my dad threw a party for me and even my mom seemed proud however David remained aloof and distant barely acknowledging my achievements the day I left for University was a mix of excitement for the future and relief to escape the toxic home environment the first few months at University were liberating I made new friends enjoyed my classes and started to build a life separate from the oppressive atmosphere of my childhood the constant fear of
David's verbal attacks lifted giving me a newfound sense of Peace during my second year I met my wife Karen at a frat party through a friend and we immediately clicked coming from a religious background having kids outside of marriage was frowned upon however when we discovered she was pregnant in our final year we decided to marry right after graduation our wedding was a small but joyful ceremony our parents were happy for us and we enjoyed the celebration at that moment I believed Karen was the love of my life I had always envisioned a monogamous relationship
one woman to come home to and share my life with despite other women showing interest over the years I never pursued anything because I was genuinely content in my marriage Karen was my dream girl and I never wanted to hurt her however I later uncovered two incidents of infidelity in our marriage one was an intermittent affair with her married co-worker that spanned several years and the other was a brief fling with an ex-boyfriend during a visit to her family some might think I was naive and looking back back I can't completely disagree each time we
separated for a while I chose to forgive my wife I didn't want to raise our child in a broken home and believed we could overcome these obstacles the affair with her coworker happened when we were young and I attributed it to youthful mistakes and poor judgment for a period things seemed to get better although I could never fully trust her again I did my best to set aside my doubts knowing that if I chose to forgive I had to genuinely work toward a fresh start it's been 4 years since her second betrayal and I felt
confident in my decision to give her another chance Karen seemed to have changed and we were genuinely happy planning our family's future however 3 months ago my world was shattered once more when she revealed that she had been having a long-term Affair and suggested that our son might not be mine her words struck me like a ton of bricks a mix of shock betrayal and disbelief overwhelmed me I struggled to comprehend the enormity of her confession in a days I managed to ask why she had kept such a significant secret and how she could have
done something so devastating her reaction was cold and indifferent as if she were detached from the pain she caused her vague responses left me with more questions than answers it was a surreal and painful moment confronting the shattered trust and uncertainty about my own family I continued to press Karen for the truth because I felt I deserved to know the father of the child I had been raising since birth ultimately she admitted it was David my eyes widened in shock as I asked Karen what she meant she explained that she and David had become friends
when I introduced her to my family and she stayed with us from Thanksgiving until New Year's David usually cold to me was warm and polite towards her which made me glad because I didn't want Karen to feel unwelcome Karen wanted to be accepted into my family so she spent significant time with my mom whenever possible she noticed the rift between David and me and questioned me about it I opened up about our strained relationship and explained that we might never repair it due to his unresolved feelings Karen understood but started including David in our outings
hoping it would help us Bond whenever we planed to watch a movie she invited David and we watched whatever he chose during this time David and I exchanged a few words which was an improvement compared to his usual silent treatment I remember Karen and David hanging out and playing video games together but I never thought much of it Karen told me that one day David opened up to her about his struggles in a recent breakup feeling vulnerable he struck up a friendship with her she mentioned that he would harmlessly flirt with her when I wasn't
around and eventually things escalated Beyond her control the vision of my wife and brother sleeping together made me feel sick Karen confessed that she felt guilty afterward and left him which matched her abrupt decision to go home instead of spending New Years with me although I tried to convince her to stay she was adamant about leaving when we met back at College after the holidays she was her usual cheerful self so I didn't question anything two weeks later we found out she was pregnant Karen admitted she didn't know if the child was mine or David's
and with no way to prove it she chose to stay with me knowing I was the more dependable brother this was why we got married my world felt like it was Crashing Down The Son I Loved might not even be mine I asked Karen if she had been sleeping with David recently and she slowly nodded she revealed that they had always stayed in touch because their chemistry was undeniable they would sneak off to hotels lying to me about working overtime she admitted that half of her business trips were actually romantic getaways with him I asked
why she married me if she wanted my brother and Caren said she didn't want to be the one to break off the marriage she saw me as a wonderful father to our son and decided to stay in her words she made a mistake and didn't know when to stop I told Karen I was glad she told me the truth but that I was going to pack up and leave she started crying asking for forgiveness and expected me to yell at her instead I calmly packed my clothes Karen insisted that if I loved her I should
fight for her and that mistakes happen in every marriage when she realized I wasn't going to do anything she changed tactics saying our son would be affected by a divorce and that children shouldn't be raised in broken homes I reminded her that I might not even be the father which made her cry more and accuse me of being cruel it seemed like she believed nothing could make me want to leave the marriage perhaps it was partly my fault for letting things slide in the past while I did love her it felt more like it stemmed
from thinking we had a son together and had been together since College Karen kept insisting it wasn't too late to fix things but I struggled to believe her and had no patience left trust was a major issue and her words felt Hollow even if I forgave her I could never forget she slept with my brother I've always believed in forgiving mistakes because we're all flawed but this was beyond acceptable limits I left her crying on the doorstep and checked into a hotel the next day I went straight to my parents and revealed everything about my
wife's affair with David explaining how they had been secretly sleeping together for years the shock on their faces was undeniable true to her nature my mother initially tried to defend David insisting that her boy could never do such a thing to his own brother determined to expose the truth I asked my parents to remain silent and let me call David in front of them I instructed them to stay quiet so I could catch David off guard making him believe it was a private conversation when David answered the phone I confronted him about the affair at
first he vehemently denied it refusing to accept any responsibility however when I told him that Karen had admitted to everything he started blaming her calling her characterless he claimed it wasn't his fault if women were attracted to him and that he was the better-looking brother I told him firmly that I would expose him to everyone when David mocked me saying no one would believe me because he was The Golden Child I scoffed at his arrogance and thanked him for confirming the truth knowing our parents had heard everything David went quiet and then spluttered trying to
explain himself and Salvage His Image my mother still in shock demanded an explanation from David he stuttered through a feeble attempt to justify his actions blaming everyone else but himself and desperately trying to shift the blame onto Karen I could see my mother who had once been protective of her favored son now felt a mix of disappointment and anger in that charged moment I felt a strange sense of vindication for years I had endured David's torment now the truth was out and the roles were reversed it was David who stood exposed his actions laid bare
for everyone to see as David's words faltered my father usually reserved in his Expressions couldn't contain his disappointment he asked me to pass him the phone and began to speak to David David my father began his voice Laden with disappointment what you've done isn't just a betrayal of your brother but a betrayal of this family you slept with your brother's wife and continued the affair even after they were married your actions have severe consequences and have irreversibly shattered the trust we had in you I raised both of you to Value family loyalty and decency what
you've shown today defies everything I've tried to teach you he paused letting the weight of his words sink into David's conscience your disregard for your brother's feelings and the lack of respect for his marriage are unacceptable you've not only hurt him but also torn apart the bonds that hold our family together your mother and I are partly to blame for what you've become but we will no longer tolerate this behavior from today you're cut off from the college funds I set up for you you'll have to figure out how to pay your University fees on
your own I will also stop funding your lifestyle do you think it makes you more of a man to sleep with married women let's see how you manage without my money throughout this I maintained a composed demeanor although I initially wanted to scream at David watching my dad punish him was the ultimate Vindication I had exposed his true nature and it was clear he had underestimated the consequences my mother despite David's persistent protests continued to justify him but my father swiftly ended the call shutting down David's attempts to explain away his actions afterward my mom
approached me and hugged me it had been a long time since we shared such a moment but in that Embrace there was an unspoken understanding and support amid the family turmoil she apologized for not believing me all this time my 14-year-old self could never have imagined this moment being Vindicated and embraced by my mother following this my dad helped me find a good lawyer to divorce Karen she and her lawyer tried to fight dirty asking for alimony since I earned more than her but her Affair played heavily in my favor we also conducted a paternity
test and it was confirmed that David was indeed the father of the child the news was incredibly painful even worse than discovering Karen's infidelity I was Furious that the son I had loved and raised wasn't mine however I decided to stay strong Karen begged me to continue visiting my son arguing he shouldn't be punished for the situation but I couldn't bear to see him he reminded me too much of David and I hated it after my divorce was finalized I felt a sense of Freedom wash over me as I moved into my own bachelor pad
it felt surreal to live alone since I had married so young and never really had the chance to experience Independence however my naturally independent nature allowed me to quickly adapt to my new lifestyle and I thoroughly enjoyed it two weeks ago my dad called to tell me he was considering changing his will because he didn't want to leave anything to David my dad is incredibly stubborn and once he decided to cut David out of his life he stuck to it David tried reaching out to our parents and even showed up at their doorstep begging for
forgiveness but they refused to let him in even my mother who usually gave in David's Tantrums seemed done with him though it must have been hardest for her David never texted me to apologize for what he had done showing he didn't regret his actions he was just upset about being cut off from our parents dad told me he planned to leave everything to me ensuring David wouldn't contest it later he would leave David only $1 my eyes widened in shock as my dad had worked hard his entire life including his assets retirement fund and life
insurance the total came to nearly $2 million the only condition in his will was that if my dad passed away before my mom she would continue living in their house even though ownership would transfer to me I didn't mind this as I wanted to care for my mom in her final days somehow David found out about this and unable to reach our parents called me yesterday trying to make amends he EXP explained how he was struggling with college and that after Karen discovered the paternity of the child she had been pestering him for child support
he said he had no money and was looking for part-time jobs but couldn't find anything he begged me to talk to our family to start fresh since he really needed my help I laughed in his face and told him I was done with him I reminded him that he should have thought about the consequences before sleeping with my wife and getting her pregnant David argued that I was being unfair and that Karen was also to blame to which I agreed I reminded him that I had divorced her making her his responsibility now he shouldn't be
calling me to complain about her or the child since these were the consequences of his own actions David started to raise his voice but I interrupted reminding him that he was no longer the favored child in the family but the black sheep who had slept with his own brother's wife at that moment David began to cry telling me how everyone including our grandparents and relatives had turned against him while this was true it was no longer my concern I told him we were done and that he should never call me again since I no longer
considered him my brother since then I've replayed the conversation in my mind despite my hatred for my brother I had never heard him cry at least not since we were kids I won't lie it did hurt me a bit to see him so helpless so I guess I'm here to ask if I should talk to our parents about him or if I would be an if I don't update one hi everyone many of you have been asking why I am no longer in contact with my son Henry and some have even called me cruel I
need to explain that I am not comfortable raising another man's child this isn't a stepson situation I was led to believe Henry was my son only to later discover he is actually my brother David's son naturally this Revelation hurt deeply and I cried over it for days the main reason I don't want any contact with Henry is that I no longer want Karen in my life if I remain connected to her child she will find a way to re-enter my life and I need my space you may think I'm cruel or selfish but I can't
see him ever again at least not for a very long time update two most of you correctly guessed that it was my mother who informed David about my dad changing his will leading David to call me as a last resort to fix things I confronted her in front of my dad and she broke down saying I had punished David enough and that he had learned his lesson my dad firmly told my mother that if she believed what David did was forgivable then he could no longer stay married to her because he could never forgive such
a betrayal this threat silenced my mother my dad made it clear that if she ever talked with David again and we found out she could pack her bags and leave as I mentioned my dad is very stubborn hopefully my mother will learn from her mistakes update three Reddit it's been 5 months since my last update my relationship with my parents has improved over the past few months my dad and I go golfing every weekend and he treats me more like a buddy than a son although my mother misses David she has stayed away from him
the last I heard about David was from my cousin who said David had been asking everyone for money and eventually had to drop out of college because he couldn't afford the fees he and Karen are living together and he has a part-time job as a mechanic apparently they are raising Henry together which is a good thing I guess I never discuss David with my parents and they don't bring him up either for everyone asking I am doing quite well I was promoted at my job two months ago so my salary has significantly improved I haven't
been dating anyone as I feel I still need time and space to heal I've been going to therapy so we'll see how that works out thank you for watching if you haven't subscribed yet please do so and hit the notification Bell to stay updated with more sh shocking real life stories happening around you
