this is you and that's the girl you like so you want to win a heart what you see in front of you now is nonsense this is not how you attract girls you need to flip this Arrow she should be the one wanting you if you are the one chasing her she will never come to you you must imagine yourself as a magnet that attracts girls this is the correct and only way to make any goal no matter who she is fall for you how will you do that this is the topic of our video
so welcome to our series on how to attract women in this video we will delve into a girl's mind and understand what she is looking for the Cornerstone to success with women and dating hinges on one crucial understanding attraction grasping the Dynamics of Attraction is imperative without this understanding you won't achieve success in the dating realm women's decision making process is typically driven by emotions rather than pure logic they react based on feelings that a particular situation person or object elicits in them consequently they don't control who they are attracted to or who they aren't
it's all a subconscious response to certain behaviors exhibited by men you can't make a woman attracted to you by presenting a PowerPoint on your best qualities in essence igniting attraction requires you to embody these behaviors in your personality however before we delve into its intricacies let's underline two important facts women don't control whom they are attracted to women don't control whom they are not attracted to in some attraction operates on an unconscious level and it's beyond women's conscious control control so let's get into her mind and find out who the men she is looking for
are one someone they can't have picture this you're at a store idly scanning the shelves when a shiny state-of-the-art television catches your eye now you didn't step in to buy anything you were just killing time but out of curiosity you ask the salesperson about the TV he looks apologetic and says oh I'm sorry that's the last one and it's sold out suddenly the TV you were merely curious about a minute ago seems like the coolest Gadget in the world world when the salesperson calls you later saying he found an extra piece in the warehouse but
it's a little pricier you're like heck yeah I'll take it so what just happened there that TV just turned into a limited edition Gadget something you just had to have women's attraction to men works on a similar principle guys they can't easily have are like those limited edition products unavailability increases their value making them more attractive so being the limited edition guy in the dating Market definitely a win two someone somebody body else has interestingly if a man is in a relationship engaged or even married he instantly becomes more appealing this sounds counterintuitive but attraction
is a funny game it seems to intensify when the prize is harder to reach so when a man is already claimed by someone else his desirability index skyrockets kind of like the last slice of pizza everyone wants a bite fre a guy who is wanted by other girls imagine this you're strolling down the street when suddenly you notice a crowd Gathering intrigued you edge closer and find them all staring at a box an ordinary looking box there's nothing visually extraordinary about it yet you're drawn in just like everyone else wondering what's so fascinating about this
box similarly when a man is surrounded by a bevy of women he naturally becomes more attractive to other women it's as though a spotlight has been thrown on him making other women curious they start thinking what's so special about this guy that all these women are hovering around him this curiosity can be a potent magnet draw in more women towards him so in essence being popular with women makes you more popular with women it's the ultimate crowd puller strategy a four a man who does not do what he is expected to do which means being
unpredictable predictability can lead to monotony and this is why being unpredictable can sometimes ignite instant attraction in women picture this most men approach women in a very transparent and predictable way they wear their intentions on their sleeves and it's often this predictability that can cause women to pull away why because women have a knack for reading body language and cues they can often make snap judgments about whether they want to continue interacting with someone attractive women in particular are used to getting approached by regular guys The Average Joe's they expect men to react in certain
ways especially when they've spent a good deal of time making themselves look attractive she's used to attention and she expects it but when she encounters something unique and unpredictable it can spark an instant attraction it's doing the unexpected that's the real key to attraction imagine being in conversation with a beautiful woman and saying I really like you you're pretty and have a great personality would you date me these I like you but I'm not sure if we get along I mean I don't think you can handle me now which one do you think will make
her more Curious the second line right because it's unexpected it throws her off balance and pequs her interest she might think wait he's suggesting that I can't handle him does that mean I'm not good enough he's so different from other guys I need to know no more her emotions are instantly engaged and there's nothing she can do but feel attracted being unpredictable is definitely a game Cher five someone who has high value finally the fifth type is the high value man just as antique items can be sold at astounding prices even if they aren't usable
so too can a high value man be incredibly attractive even if he's not traditionally perfect you see these antique items are seen as high value and their worth isn't necessarily tied to their usability but but rather the perception of their value similarly a man can be seen as attractive in the eyes of a woman if he's perceived as high value now you might be asking what does it mean to be a high value Man simply put a woman considers a man high value when she sees him as more important than her as long as you
can maintain this upper hand you'll be seen as a high value man so how do you cultivate this perception here are a few pointers a high value man never tries to impress a woman just for the sake of it he doesn't seek a attention or approval from women he doesn't place a woman on a pedestal just because she's attractive he never settles for anything less than the best women aren't at the top of his priority list his life and passions come first he's willing to walk away if his principles are violated he makes a woman
work for his attention rather than giving it away freely he has options and he's not desperate to settle instead of adapting to a woman's reality he invites her into his lastly a high value man never chases women by embodying these traits you'll be considered a high value man and women will naturally feel attracted to you and remember we will know all of this in detail in this series for now I'm just giving you the basics if you want me to continue with this series let me know in the comments and tell me what issues you're
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