How to get cheated on

Hi guys, welcome back to my channel. In this video, I will tell you guys how you can get cheated on because I just got cheated on. As a lot of you guys have seen, my exhusband/ fiance decided to send Snapchat messages to one of my fans.

Girl said she was a fan of mine. She screenshot that with her other phone. She took a picture and she sent that to my friend and that's how I saw it.

I found out about this when I was four months pregnant. Also, I really want to say a huge thank you to my fans and my followers that have shown me so much love. When I revealed to social media that Landon had cheated on me, I was ready to ruin my own career because I thought like, wow, this is all ruined.

Also, I'm pregnant, guys. Pregnancy emotions, pregnancy hormones. Any woman that has been pregnant knows that you literally don't think clearly and you are very angry.

When I'm angry now, I have extreme rage. When I found out that day, I thought to myself, okay, what do I do next? And then I went on Instagram and I saw one of my fan pages had posted me and Landon's Q&A and then they were like, cutest couple on the internet.

I looked at that and I thought to myself, I do not for a second want anyone to look up to this relationship or anyone think that this is a good relationship after what I just found out. So I thought, [ __ ] it. I'm going to ruin my own career.

Genuinely thought this between me and my fans, that's it. Like I did not know people would care at all. I really took the time to re-evaluate my own behavior because I really believe that things happen to you to teach you something.

I don't believe that God works against you. I don't believe that the universe works against you. I believe that the life is working for you.

And if you can see things that happen to you as a way to teach you things, I think that's how you evolve the most. Like you take a situation that happens to you whether it's good or bad and you extract the wisdom from it and then you apply that to your life. That's how you grow.

Like we learned through relationships, we learned through friendships. We learned through our parents. That's how we learn in life.

And if everything was good in life, you would probably not learn anything or you wouldn't have the wisdom that you need to evolve in life. So this really taught me a lot. It's a trauma.

It's a betrayal trauma. There was not one bone in my body that would have thought that Landon was cheating on me. There's not one time I found something.

Not in his phone, not anything. Like genuinely, this guy was attached to my hip. And I would constantly be the one saying like, "Can you just leave?

Can you can you go see your family? " Um, I found him a little bit too suffocating. And even in the video like before this in the Q&A I say I want to live alone because we were so much on each other.

So to see this for me was like a huge big shock. Also bacterial trauma is very serious and it can really affect you. So I do think it needs to be healed with therapy.

And I myself went and I signed up to BetterHelp. I've been sponsored by BetterHelp for the past couple of years and had a really great session. See, the sessions with my therapist have given me a lot of hope.

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Me and my sister, we were at my mom's house and Landon was in the US and we were both like sitting, me and my sister, and we're laughing because my sister was around me and Landon also the whole time. She saw Landon as her brother. My mom saw him as a son.

This guy was really integrated into our family, which is really big for me because I have never introduced a man to my family like that. Like even my ex, I moved to Dubai for him. I was with him for 3 years.

Even when we broke up, I was still like one year friends with him. We were everyday together, but he was always asking me like, "Introduce me to your family. I want to get married to you.

" This and that. And I always had this gut feeling like, "No, I don't want to do that with you. Not at all.

" And I ended up being right. And that relationship also ended in a very shocking way. It was not cheating, but it was something else where I was like, "Oh my god, you are literally not the person that I thought you were, and I never want to see you again.

" I remember I said that to my sister. My sister was like, "Oh, there's going to be nothing. Probably something from before.

" And I was like, "Yeah, you're right. " Then the messages she sent, I I had them in the car and it was literally like my heart dropped into my stomach. That is a feeling I would not wish upon anyone.

Not on a man, not on a woman. That is disgusting. And especially when the person you're with is acting like such a godly man and he's accusing you always of cheating and he's making it seem out to be like you're the one that's not trustworthy.

So basically the messages were like him trying to meet up with her. She said no. Um and she said you shouldn't be texting me if you're in a relationship.

And he was like implying that this relationship is not real. Just really hurtful stuff. Now, in the relationship, um, there were things that I've ignored, uh, in terms of my intuition.

If I tell you guys the signs that I got and that I ignored, you're going to say, "Liz, mm- you should listen to your intuition. " And the reason why I didn't listen to my intuition really is because I remember with my ex, I posted a video on YouTube and I said intuitively I feel like I shouldn't be with this person. And I said that he keeps calling me every day.

This guy called me 30 times a day. Okay? He called me 30 times a day.

He would uh stalk me wherever I would go. I was paranoid. Like when a guy would come up to me on the street and ask for my number, I would literally start tweaking.

That's how scared I was. And I realized this is not normal. Like it's not that I was scared cuz he was abusive or something.

It was just I was scared because I I felt like he might do something if someone asking me for something or if a guy was like just talking to me. Okay. Realized to myself like this relationship is not normal.

Like I need to end this. So I posted that on YouTube and I said I decided to end my relationship and explained it a little bit and I said like even when I walk in the mall I I need to be constantly on the phone with him. I have anxiety.

Backlash that I got from other people on the internet that I saw then was like women and men making videos and they're saying like oh uh like that's such a stupid reason and why should you break up for that and blah blah. Um, I then felt like, oh my god, maybe they're right. Maybe I was really wrong.

Like, I shouldn't listen to my intuition. I'm just overreacting. So then I continued being friends with him.

I did not get back together. But we did continue being friends. And I was everyday with him.

Did not date anyone else. Then it ended in literally a way where I could have lost my life. And I sat after all that with me and him happened.

Like I sat there, I was thinking like, "Oh my god, I wish I had listened to myself. I wish I had listened to my intuition. " So when when that happened with my uh ex, I booked a flight the next day to go home to my mom.

I cried the whole night. I didn't sleep. I was in super super shock.

Um when I went home, then I was like coming back to my senses cuz I was like, "What was I in for the past four years? What did I do? " I literally moved to a whole new country for him.

I had no family there. I had no one there. Like it was only him and he was like my whole life.

But I was so depressed. It's so confusing when the abuse is not really you can't see it. It's not like someone is cheating on you or it's not like someone is abusing you, but then there's a lot of mental abuse going on and then you blame yourself because then I think like okay but I I'm very traumatized so then probably I'm just sabotaging my relationship but in my soul in my heart this doesn't feel right.

So I'm such in a conflict with myself. Remember when I came back home I realized like I should have listened to my intuition. I should have listened to my intuition.

I was there for a little while and then I booked uh Santorini. Now I went to Santorini and as you guys know that's how I met Landon at the airport. When I met Landon I felt something like with our souls connecting and I realize now that it can be a soulmate kind of situation but it can also be a karmic.

And when you are with a karmic they also look like you and a karmic relationship is very hard. It is very toxic and you do learn a lot from a karmic situation. You grow a lot um as a person.

It almost like breaks you down as a person and then you are completely different after that. When I invited him to Santorini, I obviously had that thing still happen with my ex and um I was kind of getting over that, but I was just like trying to put my mind on other things. And Landon was really nice.

Everything was great. He was very kind, super sweet, super gentleman like. But then there was a moment where we went out and there was an like a Asian guy that wanted to talk to me and get to know me and he thought I was really cute going outside for a talk and Landon did not like that at all.

Basically followed us outside and he got really like upset with me and he was like, "Why are you doing this? Don't talk to him. " And they these these two guys almost got in a fight over me and I then got a little bit of like oh that was a red flag for me because I thought you're just like my ex very controlling very jealous and I was like I don't want to repeat this pattern again.

And I think look when you are coming out of something that is super traumatic and a very traumatic relationship you cannot really bounce quickly into something else because you haven't healed from that relationship yet. So often what happens is your cycle will get repeated. It won't get healed through another person.

very patient with people, but then when something shocking happens, I'm like, "Oh, wow. This woke me up. " Like imagine you have rosecoled glasses about everyone and you believe everyone and you think, "Oh, people don't have bad intentions.

They're good. " Because you just think, why would someone hurt someone, you know, or do these things? But then it's almost like I always get put into situations where God or the universe is trying to show me like, "No, Liz, you cannot trust everyone and you should remove those rosecolored glasses cuz not everyone has good intentions.

" When I saw that behavior from Landon, I really thought to myself, "This is not for me. " And I really thought like after that, like, let's just stay friends and let's just focus on being friends and that's it. But Landon really wanted me and I I went back home with my friend and I was just going on with my life and Landon kept messaging me, kept messaging me and I just wouldn't really respond anymore cuz I didn't want to give him any hope or he would message my friend and she also wouldn't really reply.

And then I remember one day he called me and I I did pick up and I was like, "Hey, what's up? " up. And then he was like, "Look, I really want you to be my wife.

Like, I just know you're supposed to be my wife. " And he's like, "I'm going to I want to do anything for you. Like, I want to take care of you.

Like, send me your bank account details or your PayPal. Like, I want to prove to you that I really want to do anything for you. " This is my problem, okay?

I don't really get attracted to men. I just get attracted when they do something for me that is like like they're taking care of me. Now, where does this stem from?

It stems from not having a father figure in my life. So, in my life, I'm not looking for a partner or I'm not looking to be in love. I'm looking to have that stable feeling of a parent or a father loving you cuz that's the void that I feel.

But then the issue is obviously in the relationship I'm not that in love. Um cuz who would be in love with their father you know or a representation of their father? No one would.

But when someone like a man does something for me big like for example Landon he told me send me your PayPal. So I was like okay let me do it. Let's see what he does.

And then he sent me $10,000. And then I thought wow like he's literally sending me $10,000. So, I would reply to his messages and then I thought, "Wow, like maybe I should give him a chance cuz look how like what he's doing.

" Like a big thing to do. You know what I mean? Um, and it's not even that I cared about the money.

I don't because I gave all that money to my fans on Instagram. It's not about the money. It was more like, oh wow, like he does this big thing.

And with my ex, I had the same thing. The same thing that I repeated again, which is so stupid. I should not have done this.

But with my ex, it was like I met him and I didn't really like him. I was not attracted to him. And I went back home.

He wanted me to come back and he wanted like to have a relationship with me. And I kept saying no. And then he bought me a Rolex, which was 2 weeks after we met.

And for me, that was such a big gesture because before that, no one had ever bought me anything designer or anything. And now all of a sudden I have like a 15k watch which is for me like oh my god like oh that's such a big gesture. So then I did give him a chance and but then still in the relationship I don't think I was ever really in love.

I saw him as my best friend. Sure. Even when I was growing up I was not in love with young people or something.

I had a crush on Dr Phil. I had a crush on Simon Cowell. And I thought that was always so funny because my sister used to have a garage Justin Bieber, you know, like that's normal.

Um, but it's actually not funny. I think that's my first mistake I made. Like I didn't go in to the relationship with the right intentions.

I ignored my intuition from the beginning where I thought, hm, wait a second, it's not normal how controlling he is over me. And I felt that intuitively I shouldn't be with him. I should have stopped there.

even if he sent me a big amount of money, even if he did all of that, I should not have continued and I should still have been friends. But I didn't. And then our relationship started, me and Landon, and I started to take him seriously.

And he was genuinely too good to be true. That's how I would describe him. Like the past year we were together, he did everything for me.

And I'm not just talking money. I'm talking like time. Like he would take 18our flights to come see me.

All my bills he paid like all his time he spent with me. Anything I wanted I I did like this and he bought it for me. Every week I get flowers.

Literally a dream guy. Literally a dream guy. And I just would think to myself, this is too good to be true.

I would constantly think that. But then at the same time, my problem is I constantly think something feels off. And then you want to blame yourself because I come from a very traumatiz traumatized childhood.

So if I feel that something is off, I blame it on my trauma. So it's almost like my my head and my heart fighting with each other because I'm not sure what I'm what I'm looking at here. Like he is perfect, does the right things, he does the right things.

Um yeah, we argue. Yeah, he's very jealous. He's controlling.

But those are things that a lot of people deal with in their relationships. You know, there's nothing going on. And also with the cheating, like oh my god, he never left my sides.

Never ever ever. Like even if I I would push him to go to the US, go see your family, he would go for two days and he would come back. His phone was always open.

I knew his password. He knew my password. We had one phone that was uh connected.

So his messages, his FaceTime, everything will get received on that phone and mine too. So, we were really up in each other's business. Um, he had my location, I had his location the whole year.

So, it's so weird. And on top of that, he's just literally spending all of his money on me. And the same with my ex.

Like, my ex spent almost all of his money on me. So much that he got into debt. To me, it's so weird that these guys will go to such lengths and they end up doing something so weird.

And with Landon, it's not even like that he wanted out of the relationship. I told him throughout our relationship, Landon. If you ever feel like you want to leave this relationship, I'm more than happy.

You can leave, but just don't betray me. I would constantly tell him that. Don't betray me.

I don't want to be betrayed. I would much rather have you tell me I don't want you or whatever and leave. And he said, "Yeah, of course.

" Um, but obviously we saw what happened. Um, and even after that happened, like genuinely still wants to be together. He wants to be with me.

He wants to have our family. And he told me like, "Liz, I never wanted to leave you. That's not the thing why I did it.

" He said he did it because he's very insecure. And he is very insecure. I get it.

Um, but I don't think that's a reason to cheat. Uh, I think if you're insecure or whatever, or you need validation, then tell me that I'm your partner. You know, I'm like your wife.

I I'm carrying your child. tell me like I can understand these things. He would constantly tell me like that he's not good-looking and I would constantly tell him no, you are good-looking.

I would always try to hype him up, you know, but he would never believe it. And Landon also comes from a childhood where he was abandoned or he didn't get enough love from his parents. And I feel like when men grow up with not enough love from their parents or for example from their mom, like my ex had that and then landed, they love the chase.

You know, that's the thing. These type of men will love to chase you, but they don't love it when they have you or they don't appreciate it when they have you. So, I think when when Landon like first got with me, the fact that he could do all these things and like buy me things and then win me over and then eventually when I come to a point where I'm even like, "Can you stop buying me stuff?

" Cuz it's like a little bit excessive. He would like kind of get turned off by me. It's almost like, you know, how they want someone to be constantly mean to them or um dismissive of them or cold towards them.

And my ex was the same way when once I started being nice to him, once I started showing him love, he was same way. The he would like completely he would drop his standards, he wouldn't like me as much. But then when I return to being mean or dismissive, they they love me so much and then they like try to win me overall again.

But then it's just a game. It's a constant game. But you have to imagine if they didn't get enough love from their mother, for example.

That is how their mother was. For example, with my ex was a cold woman, was very dismissive towards him. So for him also, that's what he's trying to recreate in the relationship with me.

If you look at the relationship, me and the two serious relationships that I had, which was Landon and my ex, were both doing the same thing. My ex was trying to recreate his childhood with his mom in me and looking for like a mother figure. And I think Lon was doing the same thing.

He wanted a love like a mother. I could not give that to him. When you have never known love as a child, as an adult, you will go for what's familiar.

And what is familiar is control. Controlling what I wear, controlling what I do, what I say. And for me, I even view that in a man as, oh, he loves me.

So, if let's say Landon would tell me, "You can't wear this. " I think that's love because he cares about what I can or cannot do or or he's jealous over me. But I don't see it as like, "Wait a minute, he's controlling you.

" Just think like that must be love because I don't know what love is from a man. I think the only way I've ever felt real love was through my animals and love through my friends. I felt real loved through my sister and my family, like my mom, my brothers, but not really through a partner.

I also think that the way you grew up plays a big role in all of this intimacy and being comfortable with your sexuality. Like for example, I grew up in a very very strict strict household. Like it's very patriarchal as well.

women were just wives for a man and I don't know one woman around me, aunt, whatever that has married for love. All of them married to get out of the house and just have freedom. So I don't know anyone that has married for love.

When you grow up like that, you genuinely have a weird sense of romance. I also didn't grow up watching Disney movies, so I don't romanticize any of that stuff. I just grew up like an adult.

I was very close to my mom and I would always follow my mom around. So whatever worries my mom had, I put on myself. So I almost felt like I was uh taking care of five children.

I almost felt like I was very responsible for my family and for the money or like the lack of money that we had. I felt very responsible for that. I felt responsible for my mom and how my dad was treating her.

I always just wanted to protect her. I was always giving her advice on just leave and you know you can do this and I was always her therapist. I wasn't a child and I think now that I'm pregnant I don't want my child to for one second have to worry about me.

I think every child deserves a childhood and I think the trauma that you experience from your parents really shapes you as an adult and it's so hard to get rid of these things and you are really left with like lifelong healing. Some of the signs that I ignored were that I read um Landon's matrix chart when we first got together and in his matrix chart in his past life, it had said that he had cheated on a loved one before. He had chosen lust over love.

So, he is likely to repeat this in this lifetime and that's like something he should watch out for. And I remember reading that and I was thinking to myself, hm, I had also read my matrix chart, my families. I had read it for my ex and these things had always been very accurate and the things that they struggle with had been accurate.

So I was wondering then is he a cheater? Like that's weird. Like no way.

But then it said in his matrix chart, but I didn't have any evidence other than the matrix chart. And you know if I break up over the matrix chart, you're going to call me crazy. But I would tell him these things.

I would be like, "I have this feeling you're a cheater. " And then he would be like, "What the fuck? " Say like, "Sabina, your sister is saying crazy things again.

" And Sabina was like, "Liz, stop self-sabotaging. You're a good guy. " And my sister used to say, "Liz, if he was a cheater, he would want to leave you or he want he would want to go to the US to go see his family or whatever, but he never leaves your sight.

" And I was like, "Yeah, you're right. You're right. Like there's no way.

" Another sign that I ignored was I was getting dreams and intuition. Oh my god. Even in the Q&A, the one before when I filmed that Q&A with Landon, I didn't think anything of it.

But when I saw a clip on Tik Tok go viral of me saying to Landon is talking about forgiveness and you should always forgive or whatever. And then I say to him, I go like, "Yeah, it depends. If the person is like texting people, that's not forgivable.

" I don't know why I said that. I don't know how I said that. I don't know what the hell that came from, but me and Landon watched that video together and we thought that was so normal and we're we were like that was such a good video.

We didn't even think about any of that. When I saw that back, I was like, "How the [ __ ] did I literally predict this? " Also, before that, I had went to Dubai with my sister after me and Lena spent three months together in Switzerland.

I had to go back to get some boxes because I was moving to the US and I still had some stuff there. So, I went back and I was there with my sister for like one week and Lena was one week in Dallas and then we're going to meet in London for my birthday. So then I remember when I was in Dubai, I had a dream where I see Landon and I see another girl and I'm also in the dream and then all of a sudden Landon is with this girl.

He's cheating on me in front of me, but the girl is confused that I'm angry. And I'm like, "What the [ __ ] are you guys doing? " And then she looks at me confused in the dream.

And then Landon is like trying to manipulate me into thinking that this is normal. So I'm like so confused. But then in the dream I remember I was going to my family to tell them like this is over.

We're done. And then I the dream basically ended with Landon like on the bench like with his head down and he was really sad. And I woke up from that dream and I felt that this dream was a message.

And I get dreams and these dreams happen. So when I for example had a friend, this was even when I was with Landon, he saw it happen in real life. Like I had a friend and that friend like gossiping about me or whatever.

Okay, I had a dream about that that night like that this friend of mine was talking [ __ ] about me, doing whatever, and that I couldn't trust this friend. So I woke up and I told Landon like, "Oh my god, I had this dream about this friend. " Landon was like, "Oh, you're crazy.

" Whatever. So then what happened is that same day me and Landon we found everything out like through another friend and what I had dreamt was true. So he then said like whoa Liz like you're scary your dreams actually happened and I said yeah I've always had this.

So he knew that. So I had that dream about him then cheating. So what I did facetiming with him when I woke up and I said, "Landon, I had a dream where you're cheating on me and manipulating me into thinking this is normal.

" And I said, "Are you cheating on me? " And he said, "What the [ __ ] No. " He's like, "I'm actually so offended you would say that to me, blah blah blah.

" And we had a whole fight. But I said, "Landon, I don't dream things for no reason. " And he's like, "No, you're just crazy.

Blah blah. " I said, "Okay, I might be crazy. I don't know.

" But it felt wrong and I didn't forget about it. So then what happened? A week later, I go to London to see Landon and we're going to celebrate my birthday and everything.

And uh I'm sleeping next to him. I'm sleeping and guess what? Same dream happens again.

Same exact dream. There's a girl is having an affair with this girl. This girl is confused why I'm angry and I'm like literally like, "What the [ __ ] are you guys doing?

" He is then again manipulating me in the dream that this is normal. I wake up from this dream with severe heartbreak. Like my heart felt like it was broken into pieces when I woke up.

Like genuinely hurt. I look at Landon. I wake him up.

I said, "Landon, this is the second time I had this dream. " I said, "Are you cheating on me? " And he said, "What the [ __ ] I'm right here next to you.

Are you crazy? " Blah blah. And Sabina was also with us at the Airbnb.

So he called Sabina's like, "Sabina, your sister is literally overreacting again. She's trying to cause a fight. " And Sabina's like, "Liz, like, calm down.

" And I was like, "Sabina, my heart is literally broken. I feel heartbreak. There's no way.

" And then she was like, "No, Liz, stress yourself out. You're pregnant. Relax.

like there's nothing like and she looks at Landon and she says he has to be so stupid to be cheating on you cuz he will lose everything. And Landon is like, "Yeah. " But then I couldn't let this [ __ ] go.

So what did I do? I went to height park with my sister. We went to walk.

We went to walk and I told Sabina, I said, "Sabina, doesn't feel right. There's no way. " I said, "This is a sign.

This is a sign. " And she said, "Okay, Liz, listen. Don't just ask for vague signs.

Ask God right now. Pray to God right now and ask him to give you a clear sign to to show you the truth, the harsh truth. And I said, "Uh, okay.

" So, I prayed there. I said, "God, please. " I said, "Show me who he really is.

Show me the harsh truth. " And then, yeah, 3 days later, I received those messages from that girl and I saw it. And then yeah, it's so crazy when you ask God to show you who people are or to remove any bad people from your life, you'll often see that the people closest to you get removed or they get revealed for the bad intentions that they had with you.

Though I have noticed that in my both of my relationships, the minute I got really successful or they realize how how much money I make, the relationship issues start and we start behaving very very differently. I think it's very hard for successful women to date. Um because a lot of men will view these women as competition.

Even successful men, they will just see you as a competition and they would much rather prefer a woman that isn't as successful because it doesn't hurt their ego. For example, with my ex, when we first started out the relationship, I didn't have any money. Uh, I was already doing TikTok.

I was already doing everything, but I wasn't really making money. Um, but then 6 months into the relationship, I was doing YouTube and I went immediately viral. And then he was making like 10K a month.

Okay? He was in finance. He was making 10K a month.

And I went from making nothing to all of a sudden like making 20K, now I'm making 40K, now make 70K, and then more and more and more. And then he's seeing that. He's seeing how much I'm growing and how fast.

And for him said it to me, he was like, you know, I feel like I can't do anything for you anymore. I feel like you're just you make too much money. and he said like I'm not comfortable in the position where you're making more money than me because he's like I I don't think I can impress you anymore.

So then also like our relationship dynamic started become very weird or they start being like oh I have financial issues and this and that. Can you help me with this? Can you help me with that?

And with my ex like I gave him money even when we broke up because he was telling me he had financial issues and obviously I'm not going to be stingy or not help him. He had bought me a lot of stuff. He had helped me as well.

So, I was not going to be stingy. So, I did help him. It's almost like they feel most comfortable when they can provide and you kind of need them.

But once a man sees that you don't really need him for financial, then what else can they really offer you if they're not that emotionally advanced or never had to really focus on their emotional side? because you know the patriarchy tells men just to go to work and that's it and you can find a family and whatever but these days we have women that are so successful and then now men are kind of like okay what what can I offer this woman because I had never had to develop myself any further than just go to work and make money so now if money doesn't impress a woman anymore what else can you offer I think a lot of men become jealous of women like that and they want to be that woman So, I don't think you can be in a relationship with someone that wants to be you. I think I should be working on on really what I want on my sexuality on u becoming comfortable with my sexuality on becoming comfortable with intimacy because that's a big big trauma like growing up even if you were around a man you you could literally get like unal alive that was a whole culture that I grew up in like honor killings for girls are so normalized you are not allowed to date you are not allowed to do anything that's feminine then you are ruining the family's reputation so when you grow up like that.

How can you even like men? Like genuinely, how? Cuz you are scaring these girls from a young age of men.

Okay? And I'm going to admit most men are scary, but not all men are scary. And they're still good men.

How are you raising children to be afraid of another gender and then you expect them to marry them and just be normal with them? That's not going to be a healthy relationship because they never even got to experience being with them. So another thing that I ignored but my body was showing and a lot of my fans have told me was that a lot of acne in both of my relationship constant rashes constant acne that I would get Landon I got again allergies rashes my skin was so messed up inflamed I started looking gray in the face but I think it genuinely cuz I pour so much energy into people around me and I really pour so much into them like really in a codependent way.

They say to me, "I'm not happy. " I think to myself, "Okay, how how can I make you happy? How can you be happy?

" Like that is like my whole work. I think men get a lot of energy from women. And even Landon, he would like track his sleep when he was sleeping.

He noticed that the days that he wouldn't sleep next to me, he would sleep 90% with more stress than he would sleep next to me. when you when you find out someone is a cheater and they cheated on you. I don't feel like that's really a bad thing.

I I feel like it's really protection from God, I feel like you you literally got protected, okay? You saw this person who for who they were and better that you saw it very very fast. I wasn't really sad.

I was honestly so happy. And it's the first time that I really stopped isolating myself because this is what I do, okay? I get into a relationship.

I isolate with my partner. we don't leave our house and we just stay like that. Like same with my ex.

I would not leave. I would not make friends. Like I would just spend all day with him every time.

So I isolate myself on purpose because I think I feel safe when I isolate myself. That doesn't make the relationship healthy. It becomes such an unhealthy boring relationship because you're every you're literally like a 70year-old couple.

Same with Landon. We just isolated constant. when it ended, I honestly felt like, you know, like finally I felt like I can now go and travel and I wanted to do those things.

So then I took my sister, we traveled all over Europe. We had the best time. Like I had such a great summer.

Like honestly, and I was really happy. And then a lot of people were like, Liz, why aren't you sad or you should be more sad? And I was like, I cannot be sad when I have such a bless blessed life.

It would even like irk me that I would be complaining or that I would feel bad about any of this because God blessed me with such a good life. I have worked so hard to have a good life and I do have a good life and my child will have such a blessed good life, you know, like thank God. Thank God I have gratitude.

There's so many bad things happening in the world. Cheating. Yeah.

Well, that's it. You know, what can you do? you saw the person for who they were and then you decide what do you do next?

How do you handle this next? And honestly, when I was talking to a lot of people that are married for like 8 years, 10 years, they all told me that this is not a good reason to leave the relationship. And I said, "Excuse me?

" And they said, "Yeah, Liz, like that's what marriage is about. You forgive the person and then you on again and all these things. " And I was really thinking to myself like, "So, is this how people live?

" So you guys just do all of that and then you forgive each other and then you continue. Then I was thinking like that makes sense to me if you are really into men and if you really like to be around them and if you love living with a partner or with a woman or it doesn't matter who it is you know if you love love and you love living with them then yeah that makes sense that you would want to figure it out and or if for example you are with a person for money like great you can stay as long as you have money they'll just do their thing and you can do your thing but if you genuinely don't really like that stuff. And if you're happier by yourself or with your family, friends, and with your pets, I don't see the point in that.

Like, it's just more drama. It's more stress. It's more struggling.

So, I don't get it. Also, this whole thing of like, oh yeah, men cheat, all men cheat. I don't believe that.

Uh, I genuinely think there's men that don't cheat. Eaters cheat. There's a lot of women that cheat.

And I honestly think you have to be really validation seeking and insecure to just cheat cuz one person is never going to do it for you. And you constantly need the attention from other people or them to tell you that you are something in order for you to feel like you are something. Sometimes it can also be an addiction.

When you start ignoring your purpose or you start ignoring what you're meant to do, then God will force you out of a situation. If you don't listen to the signs, if you don't listen to all of these things that God is telling you or showing you, you will be forced out of that situation. And that is really painful.

Marriage and having children is a very big step. It's not something that should be glamorized because it's not that easy. Not for a woman.

And I don't think that when a woman gets into a relationship with someone that is not contributing anything financially, I don't think that's a fair relationship at all. Imagine you walk away from someone that is not willing to help at all and all these things. You know, it's super super hard.

So, I I do think women should think about that because men think like that, too. Men have super high standards. Men expect so many things from women.

So, expect at least money for yourself. So happy. Like the good thing that came out of this is like I donated $50,000, $5,000 to 10 different uh single moms and just my heart really that really makes me feel so good because every day still praying for me.

They're so sweet. I'm so happy this happened. Like I'm so happy this situation happened because I help I could have helped so many women and I'm going to continue doing that.

I have done this before. You know, people always say like, "Oh, she's just a gold digger. " I love money.

I will always love money. I love love love money. But I also love giving money away.

Like that's why I love money. Like if you have a lot of money, you can do so much for people. You know, if I have more money, then I can like start building schools and help countries and all these things or orphanages.

That's why I think um money is such a beautiful thing. You can bless a lot of people with it. And if you're in a position like that, I would say like you don't give back to people and help them, donate where you can um in public, in private, it doesn't matter, you know.

Anyways, so yeah, I love you guys so much and yeah, I see you in the next video. Bye-bye.