It's Hard Out Here and you talking about oh I'm not a man if I'm going 50/50 with my woman it's hard brother you sitting up here your nice house your nice jewelry nice cars oh yeah man you you got to you got to be you got to do 100% how how brother if I'm making $14 an hour what you what you expect you know you still on there oh yeah man 100% you're not a man you're not a man how I'm still working I'm still providing right so what makes me not a man cuz I'm
going 50-50 with my woman and brother I Applause you because I understand that it is hard out here but we are men so we have to go harder I'm not saying or trying to speak down to you my brother by any means necessary I'm not but I want you to be reminded of something that our fathers didn't teach us that we must go hard and that we shouldn't get into a relationship with a woman until we have Direction but who are you to say that a person that cares a person that loves you a person
that's been in your shoes and understands how it feels when we can't give our family what they truly deserve we have to go hard now give me one moment I've been in your shoes and when I was in your shoes I stayed in my Lane I lived where I lived my woman didn't work she nurtured to the children till I got this and I'm trying to give you the the the cheat code do what you need to do so you can feed your woman and while she's nurturing the children she can also nurture your dreams
and your goals now you can be successful now you don't have to say I'm working for $15 now you can say I got employees that I'm paying that's working for me for $15 I'm trying to elevate you but men get so CAU in their emotions and their pride and the first thing you want to do is feel attacked get the wisdom this is coming from a rich man right now right now this coming from a rich man how do I get here yeah but how do I give you I'm giving you the steps this is
if you put down your ego if you put down your pride brother am I saying anything wrong I'm saying men should be men but you saying we not men you saying we not brother brother any man that makes an excuse can't be a man completely you can be a male a man comes with responsibilities and it's hard to be a man it's hard brother it's not easy that's why the respect you want from your woman that you don't get I get from mine my woman respect me my woman respect you think she respects you my
woman respect me you think she respect you think she has she ever raised her voice SE no no does she cook for you every night BR of course so she respects you cooks for you every night does she clean the house of course she cleans the house and you got her working 16 hours a day oh that sounds like slavery no it's not brother you got her cooking every night I don't have her doing anything she does it cuz she wants to we in the trenches together the trenches together that's what we in brother do
you know anything about emotional abuse explain it emotional abuse is when you pour all your hurt and pain onto a woman and just because you can't see her scars you think it's okay if I had a conversation with your woman she'll probably start crying they tired they not built to go through what they they going through with you she didn't choose you to struggle but again who are you to say that brother a brother that loves you and again I'm trying to give you the cheat code if you put yourself in a position right you
work if you have to get two jobs if you have to get two jobs you grind allow your woman to do what she does in the home if you have a business idea you have her nurture that hey baby it's going to be a little hard for the next two years but if we move like this we're going to be good you keep saying who am I to tell you this man that's been in your position a man that has risen above your circumstances and I'm coming back down to say this is what you do
you're not a man until you move like this most males will die never experience what it feels to be a man and to be complete respected by his women and children because he didn't step into that true king Place brother it's hard I understand it's difficult I understand do you understand though do you understand brother if I didn't understand I would there's no way possible you could understand Oh Praise no way why do you think that brother look at you you on the net flashy yeah man you you're not a man if you're not going
100 your woman don't love you cuz you not you not paying 100% of your bills she she can't D who's to say that brother you you you will never know what it feels like to truly experience your woman until you're able to remove are you with my woman brother are you with my woman brother brother are you with my woman brother listen almost called you a woman you got you got your you got your woman I got mine brother brother right now you're dealing in high emotions you're not even allowing me to finish my sentence
brother what you finished your sentence bro when do you like Chinese food no do you like chicken no so you don't like nothing no shut up let me let let me let me just let me give you a gy right it's a gy brother please and you take this with a Divine understanding heart because I know how sometimes when we get triggered we can't hear the love in a message because we feel triggered we feel ashamed but I'm saying this if if you truly love your woman right if you truly care for her all I'm
saying is go hard for her and you going hard for her won't last I know some brothers might be like I live here my rent's 1,400 I live here my rent's 2,000 I live here my rent's 5,000 I understand but how would you be living if you didn't have that woman all I'm saying is if she loves you and you love her go hard for her and then you say baby look I'mma go hard you stay home you nurture the children you nurture the company I'mma focus on bringing in this money so if you're playing
your position and she's playing her position you won't be struggling for too long and I'm coming from a place of Love most men have never been loved by a man what I'm hearing you say is overwork myself until I'm dead I can't no no longer enjoy this woman that's what you're saying to me is your family worth that that's what you're saying to me is your family worth going to war for of course so brother you taking on another job to provide for your family's every need but if I continue to work like that I
won't be able to enjoy my family man brother your your family wasn't created for your enjoyment they were created for you to to lead them and guide them to be in a better position than you this is for your linguage not just for for your personal emotions right now and sometimes as men we feel neglected sometimes as men we feel neglected you're a funny guy you know why you're a funny guy oh praise because at the end of the day it's a family you know we supposed to be together Laugh Smile pray together oh Praises
not me overwork myself till I have a heart attack but who's supposed to sacrifice what do you mean sacrifices for the family can strive brother I'm already sacrificing what's that what do you mean eight hours while your woman is sacrificing eight hours coming home having sex with you cleaning cooking taking care of the children I don't make my woman do anything that she does brother would you me you don't have to it's in a woman to make sure that her man if she said she didn't want to cook today I'm going say okay that's fine
okay okay brother so again who are you to tell me I'm not a man because I'm not going 100% what do you consider a man what do you mean what is a man to you a man that gets up goes to work m a woman that gives his woman what he can provides for his family what he can okay but that doesn't sound like a man that sounds like a boy trapped in a man's body because a man doesn't make excuses we don't we don't do what we can we do what we want we don't
do what we can we do we brother we do not brother we do not do what we can we do what we want what we a reflection of God brother a man is a reflection of God correct a man does for his family what he wants a man puts in real work a man wakes up a man wakes up just to serve God in his family brother let me ask you a question brother and for you and for you to die for your family tired is a privilege let me ask you a question brother yes
brother when you when you get paid oh praises and you paying 100% what do you do for yourself brother what do you do for yourself brother brother when you have a wife and you're taking care of this great woman cuz she you chose her correct so you only going to choose a great wife you're not going to choose a a evil wife unless you're a evil man and when you're doing for this woman 100% guess what this good loving nurturing woman going to do for you she going to nurture you 100% now she's more softer
brother your food tastes better because it's filled with love you're not looking at your woman tired you're not looking at your woman crying because she's exhausted you seeing your woman smiling and having a patience the Divine understanding to play and be with the children she's not impatient brother so all I'm saying I understand your frustration because I Know It's Hard Out Here For Men I understand it but you got to become more stronger and more harder than your circumstances so if one job isn't taking care of your family get another one and if that one
doesn't take care of your family get another one and then tell your wife this is the plan baby I'm going go hard for two years three years but this is the plan and if we execute this if you nurture this correctly with the knowledge and information that I give you we'll be successful when we get out of this situation so again brother I'm just a man that loves you and majority of us men have never had fathers and if we did have fathers they weren't strong brother we've never seen our Mother's Love correctly so we're
repeating what we've seen we've seen women go hard for so long we believe it's in their nature to go hard the queen should never be in the battlefield but you're still in no place to say that a man is not a man because he's paying not paying 100% so what do you what do you consider that brother because because a man is a provider of course he is a provider 100% brother I you can't do 50% of your job and tell me that you're a provider you're trying to provide so you're trying to be a
man so what do you think about 7030 since 5050 is an issue brother do you need your woman to provide for you 30% of the time or are you that that that that excuse my language are you that weak of a man that you can't provide for your family so once again I'm not a man and I'm weak because I'm not paying 100% brother it's hard out here brother brother what man says it's hard the ones that know it is the ones that so what about the men that are taking care of the women what
separates you from this man they're just at that point already they're at that point so when I'm at that point guess what it's a different story are you striving to take care of your woman 100% who's to say I'm not I'm asking but you can't say I'm not prais you're there saying oh yeah man I'm striving for it I'm striving for it so you're not the brothers I'm talking about but it seemed like you just on every brother brother I'm talking about the men you on every brother man are prais is do it to the
most high man you know you you you seen men Society right don't nobody want to hear that Sher hey brother you know some sometimes brother you know we just got to give all Praises due to the most high and be mindful of some of the things that come out of our mouths so if I offended you in any way shape or form I apologize but but brother a man is one that can uplift his family as a whole or is striving like yourself to do that I'm talking about the men that are comfortable living off
of women and most men are triggered because they got uncomfortable allowing women to provide for them brother they're not looking for wives they looking for mother figures and the sad part our women are the ones that turn these men the way they are but why do they do that because they've never had a strong man to lead and guide him into the right direction bro
