Why is every guy I'm in a relationship with exactly the same the way they treat me the way they cheat the way they lie if you can cheat on someone you eat with you sleep next to you would cheat on me in business any time of day men are becoming more feminine and the reason women are becoming more masculine is because they don't feel safe hold on hold on hold on that's not true based on what multi-award winning entrepreneur Across multiple Industries Sarah Al madani starting at the age of 15 with a burning desire to
do life her way she has won several Awards and I could go on and on and on they think a man is okay as long as he's big he's got his buddy going on I can get that done in Thailand for like 5,000 durhams to look exactly like you what's been the biggest mistake you've made along the way that's taught you the biggest lesson in business my biggest mistake was I reached a point Where I was literally going to take my own life at a certain point I was like I had enough they make you
question your own reality they make you think you're delusional do you have a big dream do you have something you want to create or do or become or all righty guys today's guest is an international speaker multi-award winning entrepreneur across multiple Industries such as fashion Tech marketing and so many more she's Partnered with Jason dero in her newest company hal High starting at the age of 15 with a burning desire to do life herway and since going on to start 18 different businesses going on to get her PhD she has since spent her time traveling
around the world delivering over 200 100 keynote talks in multiple countries including speaking on the tedex stage four different times she has sat as a former board member of the Sha shaja chamber of comments as well as the UA Council in the ministry of economy here in Dubai where she helped consult with the local authorities she has won several awards from the amirati entrepreneur of the Year award the inspiring women's leaders award the influential leader award and I could go on and on and on but please help me welcome the woman who went from having
her own pharmaceutical company at the age of 14 and a half to now A Serial entrepreneur uh who is on an absolute Mission to inspire the Masters all over the world to help them achieve their ultimate business and life goals and recently has been featured in the Dubai TV show The Real Housewives of Dubai my friend Dr Sarah Sarah Al madani Sarah Sarah Twix Sarah s thank you so much thank you for having me that was maybe the longest one I've done that was long I I I was sitting there I was like oh my
God it is long it's a it's achievements but when I when I was putting everything Together of yours I was like cuz I've I've seen your stuff I've followed your stuff and I love so many things about you I love I love your authenticity is probably the best one and I really whenever I reach out to people and I bring people in the show and I really get to see them behind the scenes behind the social media and the first thing I knew from you I was like I just love this woman so much just
based off our conversations online I was like you're So sweet and you're just so like yes let's do this let's rock this let's get it and I just want to say that I I appreciate you I think you're one of the most authentic people I've come across so I'm super excited to uh unpack your brain a little bit for these guys let's do that let's do that so I want to know entrepreneurship you are a through and through entrepreneur like you've 18 different businesses you've crushed your first one's 14 and a half which is nuts
In your opinion are entrepreneurs born or can it be learned okay I think that a lot of entrepreneurs are taught to be entrepreneurs but then the there are these entrepreneurs that have that extra Spice in them that they're born with and I mean a lot of people think that entrepreneurship is just somebody who knows a bit of finance and has great ideas but I know people who don't have great ideas and they are great Entrepreneurs I know people who don't know anything about finance and they're great entrepreneurs it's it's people who have that extra like
extra ingredient in them they're born with it I'll give you an example my dad told me when I was like three and four I used to massage them for money um I mean how would a three and fouryear old even know anything about financial like Independence or like anything like that it was just driven and I don't know why Or how and I always had that you know that extra thing in me that told me you're never going to get a job you will hustle you will make it happen so I think people with great
ideas are great but great ideas if not manag properly and eventually someone better than you would come and take your idea and do it better than you so great ideas don't intrigue me even as an investor I look for people who have that resilience that personality that kick that that that Feeling that they would never give up and I feel entrepreneurs are like birds when the wind blows their nest they go and build it somewhere else they don't give up easily what does it take to really not just be an entrepreneur but to truly succeed
like you've done it time and time and time and time again there's surely going to be some philosophies there or some attitude what does it really take I'm not ashamed of failure so when I go at something if I End up failing I'm not ashamed or I don't and I don't feel guilty so I don't associate with failure and shame so that's I feel like that's the strongest thing that I have because a lot of people they are great and they have great ideas but the fear of failure and shame and people looking down on
them is what stops them from taking that step and I don't have that so I think that's a very like important ingredient that I have and then the second thing is just a Person that never gives up a person that believes in something and if it doesn't work this way if this business fails it's not the end of the world I'll try this I'll try that I'll try this it's a person that just keeps going and they don't give up easily they don't take no for an answer if somebody has the attitude to never give
up cuz it's you know like if you want something bad enough you've got to go through that you've got to go through the hotels you Go do this how have you been able to identify that you're on the right track or not because if you've got the attitude to never give up how do you know if you're pursuing something that's just not meant for you I think that's a very good question with experience and trial you will start to learn that I cannot treat a business um as a marriage you know you treat a business
as a one night stand because if the business works it works If it doesn't if you just stay in that relationship for the sake of you love the business it's your baby and you lose money it's like your emot attached to it I have no emotional attachments to my businesses I do them for a reason I make money out of them you know I grow them I serve people with them I change the world with them but other than that I have no attachment and I think this comes with experience and this comes with a
lot of failing because I feel Like failure is the sauce that adds flavor to success you know so if I haven't failed I would be the type of person that would still go on and on and on trying trying not understanding that I've hit a I hit a dead end and I have to stop but it's not something I can teach you or something I can show you it's something you have to learn on your own so you're saying so if people are more emotionally involved with what is they're doing they could be misled yes
100% you're not emotionally involved yes you you you're a leader you have a vision you're fighting for a vision but there's no emotional involvement if the business dies you try to revive it a couple of times but then you realize it's not revivable it's not work it working it's not worth it but don't have an attachment to it to the extent that I will go to the end of life to the end of time I would spend every penny just to make something work because sometimes It's not for you and that's why I always say
like don't sleep with your business it's a one I stand yeah um so what about the whole story of people saying because this is also one thing I I'll sort of because a lot of people come to me and they're like I want to start a business I want to create Freedom where should I start and I often get people to start with what are the things you're really good at or are things that Intrigue you and things you're just passionate about If we at least lead down that direction you could probably start to find
a way to make money from doing one of those things he's saying that to really crush it in business we should pursue business for the sake of business or is it still okay to pursue our passion to make that a business I I don't pursue business for the sake of business I never did I never will um I did however at the beginning of my journey thought that business Business is something that makes money so as long as I was making money I thought that it's business but with experience with age you realize that making
money out of something you don't love and you have no passion and it's not aligned with your purpose it's just a waste of time yeah I mean great the money is coming and I'm not being arrogant by saying you know like money is flowing and I don't care about money that's not the point the point is every Day when I wake up in the morning if I'm dreading going to work if I hate it if the night before I go like oh my God I got to sleep early I have work if you have that
kind of feeling then you're not pursuing your passion but if it's you're passionate about it every day I wake up I want to do more I want to go there I'm excited to show up and it's a complete different ball game because you feel like you are wasting your time doing the right thing instead of like Wasting your time just to chase paper or make money so I've in the beginning I've had that so I shut all these companies down and then I started um uh I started business businesses that are aligned with my purpose
that give back to the community that make the world a better place that change humanity and because that's my purpose my purpose is to serve so my businesses are serving right now and I'm so happy because I feel like I'm in alignment and when you are in Alignment you attract a lot of money yes yeah what uh what principles do you live by if any in what sense and do you what I've noticed with lots of successful people they'll often have rules they live by or at least for for business I'm just curious if you've
got any principles or rules or laws philosophies that you follow for your life in business I mean for me loyalty in business and transparency are very important so I only work with People and I deal with people who are who have a strong sense of loyalty and honesty and dignity in what they do and um another important thing is we have to have uh matching morals and ethics you know because if there's a conflict in that then there'll be a conflict in the business it's just like a relationship you know same thing exactly so I
live by honesty Integrity uh moral morality and then just having fun I love having fun and if nobody's having fun in the office If my business partners are not having fun if my employees are not having fun it's not a good place like it's for me that's not a complete space for me to be in so I I live by these rules but I am very um strict about them for for I'll give you an example I once was in the states in a meeting with an investor and of course I have the kind of
energy that allows people to open up so easily and talk about everything because I don't judge anybody I I make you feel Comfortable speaking so the guy went on speaking and he went like a little bit deep into his life and he was speaking about how he cheats on his wife and she never catches him and all that and everything like that because one of my principles when I do business is uh morality and and like honesty and like ethics um I'd never do business with him even if he had all the money in the
world I don't care because if you can cheat on someone you eat with you sleep Next to you would cheat on me in business any time of day so I feel like I do not distinguish the difference between both if you do this you do that so this is how strong my my morals are and I remember once when I said I don't want to work with him my business partner got really upset because my business partner just wants to inject money into the business but for me I I was like that's dumb money I
don't want dumb money I want strategic money I want Safe Money I want clean money I want a person I I want the money to come from a clean source and that guy to me is not okay and eventually my business partner understood what I was saying but this is how like it's it's a red line you can see because how people do one thing is how they do most things yeah people would say no it's impossible I know a lot of men who cheat but they're very honest and decent in business but but I
mean if he doesn't feel guilty doing What he does to like a partner he wouldn't feel guilty doing it to you maybe not today maybe not tomorrow maybe the idea crosses his mind every now and then one day he'll act upon it I'm sorry like that's that's how I see it yeah where did that come from that strong belief by the sounds of if they're a cheater then this is also is is there something behind that I mean if if you describe a cheater okay it's a person that has no loyalty low morality no no
Ethics and a person that has no guilt and to be honest when you think of cheating I think of it as a person who's robbing a bank because the person who cheats on you robs you from your feelings from your sanity from your from your happiness from your peace and if a person doesn't mind robbing another human from that while you can just easily walk away if you're not happy but if you take the decision to cheat and cheating takes a lot of planning you Know you have to hide you have to be sneaky you
have to plan you have to lie so if somebody goes through all of that just to get some pleasure and to put the person they love and they value and the person that loves them values them in that position they would do it to anybody so that comes that I think that comes from me being cheated on so many times back then when I was younger I Had No Boundaries um I had to do a lot of Healing to understand why I don't have no boundaries but when I decided to set my boundaries I set
them in every single thing in my life whether it's business business relationship friendship it's like it's a red line you cross it once you're not able to enter again you're not allowed into the energy field again you and I are both similar with that like my boundaries are strong if if I see someone cross it's like that's a bummer for you but yeah as it you know Back on the the cheating thing do you think people can cheat not from a place of wanting to hurt the other person what is okay you're happy leave you
don't feel understood leave you don't feel like you're valued leave the you the thing is I've seen a lot of cases where the cheater would tell their partner that I cheated because of you I cheated because of how you act how you treat me how you make me feel it's like so hold on you Are literally blaming your partner for your low morality no ethics and no loyalty and you're throwing all of that as a coat hanger on your partner how does that make sense go eat an ice cream go cry at home go watch
Netflix go to a therapist I hug a teddy bear in bed there's so many options of things you can do why' you cheat that's a choice everything is a choice so I'm sorry but I'm ruthless when it comes to this I'm Redline and do you think it's stronger Because you said so you said you you have been cheat on multiple times yes I think every single relationship every single relationship I had like four four and you were married twice tce and I was it on always always but the thing is okay so here's the crazy
part they were all narcissists okay and when it's not a red flag when a person is bad because they show you they're bad it's a red flag when you stay and you settle for something like That so instead of me like dwelling in sadness and saying oh they're bad they did it I couldn't change I couldn't do that I couldn't change them I couldn't help them I don't go that route from now on I self-reflect I go like okay they're about fine but what did like where did I go wrong what did I do why
am I settling why am I accepting what am I doing why am I choosing same kind of people why do I have a pattern and that's when you're you basically focus on yourself and Self-growth happens when you give the space for yourself to self-reflect more than to blame all the time so it was my fault and I had to go through a lot of healing because I choose the wrong Partners what what patterns did you find in terms of like you just said you so time and time and time again looking back on it now
for the woman or the guy who's watching this right now going [ __ ] you know I I attract similar people and I'm 30 years old I'm 35 I'm 45 and I Still can't figure this [ __ ] out yeah what's your advice to them on how they can sort of self-reflect effectively so they can heal themselves and attract a different person so you need to focus on the patrons like for example in my case I used to always attract narcissist and then I thought to myself why is every every guy I'm in a relationship
with exactly the same the way they treat me the way they cheat the way they lie the way they manipulate the way they Gaslight and then I realized that I'm attracting men with the same pattern and then I wanted to go deeper in that and I wanted to understand why I I know I deserve more why do I settle and then when I did therapy my therapist told me you don't value yourself you have no self-worth and that's why you settle for anything and crazy enough when I you know meet the narcissist and we sit
and connect you know and I feel like oh my god I've met him somewhere before we're Soulmates we're this we're this we're that it's not because we're soulmates it's because that's the same shitty energy that I familiar with from before so It Feels Like Home to me and as a child I was exposed to narcissism a little bit so it felt like home like yeah some family members so it felt like home so every time I met a narcissistic person I'd go like oh my God this time we're soulmates I feel it I know it
that it's not you're not soulmates it's just The familiar shitty energy that you had before and it feels like home cuz that's the only thing you know that's the only thing you think love is and then you start giving and giving and giving until you have nothing to give because you just want to be loved so for me all I wanted was to be loved and accepted because growing up I was different I was the like the black sheep in the family I was outcasted I was different I thought differently I looked differently I acted
Different so I just wanted to be accepted cuz nobody accept me back then and therefore I settled for anything and I gave up money I gave up everything for that person just to be loved and accepted and when you put your ego and pride aside and you focus on self-reflecting then you realize huh they are bad they showed me they're bad from the beginning why did I ignore that why did I choose that and then that's where you switch from a Blame Game to Self reflection reflecting and growth happens solves everything 100% take you know
one of the main things I teach at one of our programs is is like nothing will actually change our life until we can take 100% ownership responsibility because until like you know I I view life as all these things are happening to us for us however you want to look at it but things happen experiences happen events happen and the only reason they happen is to teach us something that That's how I've reframed even crappy things happening to me I'm like I I get excited when something [ __ ] happens cuz I was like like
in in the same light [ __ ] this sucks and on the other hand this is so exciting CU I know it's for a reason and what can I learn from this because everything's happening for me to Lear but the moment we are playing the blame game or being victims or whatever we're we're we're pushing out the learnings that are coming to us and I've Seen I've seen a similar behavior um bring out quite a few times right and it's this is actually the sad thing this is why I think everybody really does need to
do work on themselves and and work with a a qualified someone who can sort of unpack things for them because I've seen Play Out and because one of the most primary things people need is love and connection it's one of our one of our highest needs yeah the bad thing is it doesn't matter how we get it so as You were saying that how you perceived you were getting it was being in relationships that didn't serve you but as your core you like I'm still getting this connection I've seen it play out with people they'll
do negative patterns because it serves them they get a payoff or they'll eat bad food or they'll create problems in their own lives because when they have problems they get attention yeah and they they they marry that attention up with love and Affection they got from their mom when they were young which is horrible because if they didn't have the problem they wouldn't feel like they're loved yes like I have people extremely close to me diabetes or all these types of things that know they could solve them or work on them but will choose unconsciously
obviously to hold on to them because the underlying thing for that is they get their needs met well they they say if if you were not served Love on a silver spoon when you were young you would learn how to lick it off a knife and I and I feel like I feel like that's that has been my life it's like because I didn't have it growing up with my friends when I was young it was always bad experiences and I feel like I learned to lick it off a knife and I had to give
up myself give up everything just to be loved and accepted but that's not okay if you don't self-reflect and try to understand your your own patterns And I I see like okay here it goes so they never told you that healing is a hard journey it's a long journey healing um opens your eyes to the extent that you walk in a room you can easily look at people and realize their patterns where their growth hasn't happened and why they don't want to grow and I walk in a room sometimes and I sit and I go
like Daddy Issues okay abandonment issues I get it it's like you you read people's energy but what are they do Doing about it you know nothing they're comfortable it's easy they think it's normal nobody's like sitting down and self-reflecting nowadays which is sad yeah that's funny you say that um I was last and I with one of my friends and she was showing me this girl who's she was dating and she's like have a look at this girl and I say I'm like that woman and I didn't know anything about her and and it's like
on one light I it's judgment yeah of course it is but it's Also it's the work I do as well I I read people and I see things I'm like that girl she has unresolved daddy issues and she's like oh yeah and she started telling me all the things she's like oh yeah that woman I'm like and I bet you I'm like and she probably teaches some sort of sex I'm like she's a sex coach got it who R boom cuz energy doesn't lie and and we do exercises where we'll do like projection exercises with
people and they think they can hide people Legitimately think they can wear a mask yeah and that's the thing I saw with you straightway I'm like you're so authentic yeah you know and cuz people think they can wear a mask and they they they think they're fooling people but they're really not yeah um on the the thing you said so if you're not say that saying again with the with the silver spoon and knife if you're not fed love on a silver spoon when you're young you would learn how to lick it off a knife
so knowing That and your upbringing how are you parenting completely different completely different like with my son I'm very affectionate and I always tell my son whether you do what's right or wrong I love you regardless you're enough and yes you have your own mindset I have my own mindset just because I gave birth to you doesn't mean I own you because I was a pathway for you into this life but I don't own you my my ambition in life my idea of success That's mine I will never in re like enforce them on you
or make you live a life just because I want you to live it so he lives in complete freedom but at the same time he's guided towards that like you give them the freedom but you guide them how to use it and reassurance of love like he always says mom um after doing something wrong you go like Mom do you still love me I go like what the hell I will never stop loving you even if you're the worst human on earth I Will never stop loving you but that doesn't mean it should be the
worst human on earth because life is this this this this so it's like you guide them but you assure them that you know they don't need to do anything to get love from you because love is unconditional and the minute it becomes conditional then it's not love anymore because it's it's a trade I give and take give and take or I I'll take and I'll give you but that's not what love is I um I'm not A parent I have no idea when that will happen and what I've seen through CU I've had so many
people come into my rooms and someone who is successful obvious sometimes comes from well I never had growing up or I had all this growing up so I wanted to do the opposite similar to me we grew up in very mediocre sort of you know parents did the best they could with what they knew I want to have more and I've some I've seen people come up I didn't have Parents so I've done all these things and I've also met people who have had the most perfect family growing up and have grown up to go
to jail and and do all kinds of [ __ ] up things and then I'm like so my self-reflection so I love to know what you think about this knowing the way you think and the way you parent when I parent I'm like there's probably no way I can mold the perfect child because they're going to make all These meanings anyway you know even if I give them things or uh I'll s with my friend last night and she said they they grew up with so much money and she's like because money was so easy
for them she goes I never valued money I'm like so so it hindered her in her first US of business like it's so funny you parents would think I'm giving you money I'm going to help and my own belief I have now I'm like my game plan for for parenting is going to be the only things To be is how can I build them up to have a really healthy level of self-esteem got it cuz with that they can really make the best judgments without understanding you know so I'm like I'm probably definitely going to
say things that they're going to be like oh Dad did this one time he doesn't it's like whatever you're going to decide you're going to decide and you going to work I probably can't control that but can I control on making sure they have high Selfworth yes that the thing is okay let me put it this way there is no one way that fits all it's not like hey take this book read it your kid will turn out to be an angel you know there's no such thing because each one has a different personality different
DNA different chromosones different mindset different everything but I can tell you one thing um kids don't learn from Talking they learn from your actions they watch everything you Do and whether you are focused on what you're doing or not whether you forgot that the kids around or not when you're angry at the moment you lose yourself that's where kids are watching and learning every single single thing from the age of one they watch and I know that a lot of people say okay but he's Oney old he doesn't get it no they get it their
subconscious mind has no age it's a storage unit everything they hear everything they see gets stored in there And then as they grow up that storage gets released and then they process it as they grow up but everything gets stored there so you got to be very careful when it comes to how you act and what you say in front of the kids and um I've I've heard a story like of a successful man very successful man and his brother was an alcoholic and when they asked them how are you both like that they both
said our father was an alcoholic yeah so same household same Way of raising same everything but one saw his father and he's like I'm never going to be like that and one saw his father and he became like his father so in the end I feel like the most important thing is self value like you said and self worth and you can teach them that every single day by showing them that they're worth it like for example my son I always tell him you are not born to fit in you are not born to copy
people be yourself be this do that Doesn't matter what people say and I repeat that all the time and he sees me do that as well like with in my culture with my tattoos I'm not accepted that much but it's okay with me I don't care it's not a thing it's no it's it's not it's a like fond upon thing you know and even when I go like with family when I go to my family homes my mom would tell me I wear long sleeves you know I was like Mom just love me for who
I am you know and if they me for who I am I don't Want to be there so Hees that and hears that and then I slowly start to see him applying it for example he was going to school a couple of days ago and he was wearing pajama shirts and I was like dude you can't go to school wearing pajama shirt he's like I am myself I'm happy it doesn't matter what people say I'm like great so I taught him how to how to think in this way but he's too young to understand how
to apply it which is fine he'll learn as he grows But for now I allow him just to show him that it doesn't matter it doesn't matter what people think it doesn't matter what people say you love yourself you know you're right that's all that matters so yes can you install self forth in a child yes you can download that and install it in them other than that you have no control over their personality because it's passed through DNA it's experience it's whatever they they live they seen it's it's just be be good and They'll
turn out good that's it I love it so with with that so one I and I've heard that story and I often reflect on my upbringing with my my siblings I'm do you have siblings yes yeah how many two more two more I'm the oldest the oldest um so like my I'm the black sheep as well the rest of my family just sort of do do the normal stuff and and I often think I was like we all grow up in the same household same stuff and and the reason how the brain actually works is
We we'll process 2 million bits of information a second yeah right but our brain will delete generalize and distort nearly all of it so 134 bits of that information out of every one second we can actually internalize yeah so now think about this me and you both seen in this room and let's say your son says something the exact thing happened we're in the exact same space but from a different perspective those 2 million bits of information are happening what Are the chances that you and I both take the exact 134 bits next to impossible
so then then I mean people listen to a song and they they interpret it different ways you know it's only normal yeah and and and but understanding this has really helped me a lot as well because the like when we just run the biggest event I've ever ran back in Australia and we thought it was pretty cool like I looked I was like this is sick hurah and we literally had people leave there uh The DMs I stayed up for hours after the event and I was cooked I said about 2:00 in the morning with
my partner having a wine responding to DMS of just people like this is the best event thanks so much I love this respond every DM and I had one person comment on one of the reals and complain I was so disappointed with this blah blah blah blah blah and I'm like so then I'm as the business own I'm star to think oh could we do it better can we do this and I was like at Some degree I take it as feedback and then also it's like that's just your 134 bits of information exactly because
I got all this evidence that everyone else loved it and it's just crazy and what also the thing the things that are happening underneath the surface for us will also determine the things that we actually choose to see in the so we a l ofte we aot of jealousy we a lot of that if we don't ourselves we see a lot of that out there the world as Well so it's often like the the lenses that we choose to wear is how we're going to see the world yeah it's a very complex thing true I
mean it is true and also like a way of let me let me say it in this way so for me I stopped taking anything people do or say personally because I know that's their internal battle that's their unsolved trauma that's their experience that's not me so I understand that I'm not going to be loved by everybody I don't have to be Loved by everybody and that was a big challenge for me because when I was younger I just wanted to do everything to be loved and accepted right by everyone and everyone now I don't
care like it's like that's how you process things that's how you think of things that's not that's not on me I'm just going to be me authentically me and if I'm your cup of tea great because I don't intend to be yeah you know did I just rap right I that was rhyming yeah yeah you've been hanging out with Jason for too long this Newen get see a hit track you and Jason D no maybe I'll be dancing in the background but not singing yeah not singing H how did that come about how did how
did that come about your your new business partner is Jason yeah so I I work with a lot of celebrities like for the past um I'd say 15 years I've had an agency in La where I worked with a lot of celebrities managed a lot of Celebrities so I I had have that access to them and you know the beauty of of working with a lot of celebrities you realize after spending 5 minutes with them that they're just normal people yeah they eat like us they breathe like us they think like us you know they
laugh like us so for me like I don't have that impact anymore because I know they're just humans and we're like them they only had the guts to take it further than we did you know what I mean So with Jason um a friend of hours um knew Jason personally and we were looking for a business partner somebody who's interested in the business and to expand it with a celebrity so we met a lot of celebrities but after sitting with them you realize like they have no Integrity for business in the terms that they are
in La Land they're not focused there will be a liability instead of an asset for the business they're useless their name is is all that matters but They will never be doing anything because they're like in their own world yeah so and then when that guy that we know in La told us he knows Jason very well we're like okay we want to sit down and talk to Jason we flew in all of us to La me my other investor my business partners we went to Jason's house he took us in he gave us a
tour he was such like he is so humble and he has such a good spirit and then after that we sat down to discuss the business and he was So into it and I've never seen a celebrity that wants to do the work like he wants to work he's excited he has ideas he's like let's do this let's do that let's do that and then I looked at my my investors and my business partners I like damn man where would you find someone like this and that is rare when it comes to celebrities that they
have that business mindset and that you know the fame and the life that they have and the creativity that they have merged Together because when they become famous they lose themselves they think they're you know they're Gods and they're they're way bigger than anybody else but then you have that percentage of them that are sane that understand how to do business and they really want to give it their all and they know their worth and how much work they they can put into this so that's what happened and then he was excited we we merged
and yeah it was just a lovely journey and is that I know You've gone through some some uh things with that business is that now live and going yeah so we had to buy out our old investor yeah which took us a year and a half almost because court documents IP um is that just like a who owns what and finding a fair deal is that is that how it works like is that why it took so long no no when it's when there is a name and a trademark and an IP it takes a
longer process than just like leaving a business you know usually you just buy An investor and that's it but there was a lot of copyright things there was a lot of trademarking there was a lot of things in there that we had to settle so that took a year and a half in court and we decided to pause the company because if you grow the company in the process of like leaving an investor what happens is that the value goes higher and higher and higher then it becomes more expensive to to get rid of not
not get rid like to to break the relationship Right so yeah he was our investor was amazing but it was just like the end of the road for us and we both we both saw things differently and which is completely fine um but yeah it took a year and a half so for a year and a half we were non-operating I stopped everything and my business partners was like come on let's let's keep the business I was like nothing is going to run because the every day the value increases and I don't want this to
cost Us so much so after a year and a half we met Jason that merge itself with Jason took like eight months lawyers and all that and like registering the company in a different jur jur how do you say jurisdiction jurisdiction I'm just likic it's hard for me to say it so yeah so that that just took us time so the company was paused for a long time but if an investor looks at the track records while the company was active it did crazy like our competitor is cameo Okay okay we've done what Cameo did
and Cameo is worth I think a billion dollars right now we've done what Cameo did in four years and three months the money the amount of celebrities on boarded on the platform so we were doing good like the company was doing really good and but we had to stop because it was you know it was a sensitive situation where you know you can't grow right now because right now growth is dangerous for you yeah yeah and so's live now is It is it happen it's going live in because we are raising at the moment so
we are finalizing with a couple of investors and once that's completely done because we have Auditors going through things right now but once that completely done so probably I'd say in like two months to three months it'll be live and tell these guys a little bit about what it is and how they can actually like why they should check it out okay so halah high is a platform Where you can go and get a shout out personalized for you from your favorite celebrity so cool yeah but it doesn't end there you can also buy their
merch from there you can buy um any product they sell from there directly for them but it also allows businesses to directly contact the celebrity to do deals so if you're a business and you're tired of going through the 20 middlemen between you and let's say Mariah Carey okay we eliminated the 10 people and You're in direct contact with Mariah because she has a dashboard on her phone where she sees and it's like Tinder you swipe right or left to Deals yeah you know so it serves the businesses it serves the community because you get
in touch with your celebrity and um even the celebrities get to sell their used items there so they have a closet there so from a toz anything celebrity related it's there but the user experience is fun it's Arabi so it's always like Habibi and talking to you like in this way and yeah it's I love Hali I I really want to check it out you should very really cool what's up dream Nation have you ever wondered how far ahead your life would have already been then if you hadn't got access to this type of content
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with a friend I would be forever grateful all right now let's get back into this episode what I'm really curious to know so you've got Nine businesses now yes and you're you're the CEO of halah high you've got your son yeah you're no doubt probably also thinking of the next 5 10 years of other things you want to create and invest in and do and you live a great life how do you manage your time okay that I love that question so work life balance is a myth it doesn't exist whoever tells you read this
book re watch this documentary and then you'll know how to balance your Life it's not true balance is created based on each individual separately so for example because I'm a single mom full-time um my time with my son would be 30% of of the day and the rest would be at work because I'm the I'm the provider I'm the one that pays the bills right but but if I was married and I was a stay-at-home mom with a husband that does everything for me so then my percentage changes which is 90% with my kids and
then 10% doing whatever I want Right so it differs from every case and I don't want people to think it's a unified rule for you to be a great parent you got to do these certain things um I work three days a week only 3 to four days a week um sometimes 6 hours to 7 hours per day the rest of that I'm traveling having fun living loving enjoying like I cannot feel I cannot pour from an empty cup so I have to fill my cup I have to enjoy life I'm not a robot and
if I die none Of this goes with me to the Grave so I got to create some memories so I don't lose myself in the process of like trying to grow as a business so that's one thing so working little time and I'm I'm like very strict with my work time I do not for example allow people to cross the time limit and have meetings outside of the time limit of my work so I'm very disciplined but then I have fun the rest of the time I can travel I can do whatever I want and
at the same time um My son is my priority but because I am the one providing everything for my son I taught my son how my life is and how he should be understanding about my life so my son gets it completely and if I cannot manage to do everything on my own I ask my family for help sometimes which is completely okay and yeah I I just I do not live my life based on any balance like I get shamed a lot by moms like for example this mom came up to me and she's
like so do you take your son to soccer Are you like a soccer mom I was like no she's like do you go with him for swimming classes I was like No and then she's like oh but you know being a great mom requires these things I was like no it doesn't require these things because you probably spend 90% of your time with your kid but you're on your phone 24/7 but when I spend time with my kid I'm it's me and my kid only so it's quality over quantity so I cannot tell you you're
a bad mom you cannot tell me I'm A bad mom I cannot tell you you're good you cannot tell me I'm good it's none of your business you know and my advice for everybody is don't allow people into your your personal life your business because that's yours to choose you set the rules you create the boundaries you create the balance that you want that fits you but I also after being in business for so many years I learned to not work hard I work smart so yeah yeah how how do you do that just tell
us the Difference of working hard because people would think like I did I I have bit of my own idea I think I'm getting better at it lately definitely worked hard for a long time and the smarter I work the more money I make now of course so in your 3 or four days a week how how are you working smarter versus harder so the nine companies that I have I'm not a CEO on any of them I've I've prepped them launched them uh directed them and then walked away and then hired people That are
smarter than me better than me to do the job I'm only the CEO of one company right now which is uh halah high but I'm also going to be a CEO of another company we're launching soon called the others so I'm just going to be CEO on two companies and the rest of it is all managed by great people micromanaging kills entrepreneurs you you want to go in you want to make sure everyone's working you want to make sure the business is going great you want to Make sure this kills you it it like literally
drains you from every drop of energy you have number one number two you don't allow people to do what they have to do as employees because they're depending on you to always walk in and tell them what to do you're not allowing people to unleash their full potential you're always um living by overthinking you're draining your mindset you're draining your energy so I don't believe in micromanaging I believe in leadership I am the captain of the ship I give directions and the rest of the people do what they have to do so I don't I
don't work I don't work hard I just work smart and I learned how to delegate and not to look into everything I do and not overthink Just Let It Go Just delegate and let it go and if there is a missing link or an employee that's not doing things right replaced it's very simple delegate delegate delegate and that's that's the key to success cool so walk Us through for the person watching this and they want to get into business they want to be an entrepreneur what are what are the phases like you've obviously you've come
in and you've started launched hired you set up multiple companies how does somebody else model that if they were to there is no blueprint so I I cannot teach people how to start a business uh the way I did it it's not a location on Google Map where I drop it to you and you find your way To how to start a business um that's why like if anybody teaches you online how to start a business don't believe everything they say because even if you ask them how did you make it they don't know they
just started and it happened and they worked for it and happen so I feel like everyone's Journey will be understood and the direction will be understood and the way will be understood once you start all it takes is to start and depending on your Business type depending on your mindset depending on your learning capabilities you will pick it up easily a business has legs you know and once no let me put it this way a business needs legs so once you give the business the legs to walk it walks on its own and then you
just overshadow and watch it and like direct it so my advice is just start and you will learn everything on your own because my learning my mistakes my failures my personality how I handle Things is not similar to yours so I cannot tell you step one step two step three so it doesn't work that way it's just about starting and taking that risk what's been the biggest mistake you've made along the way that's taught you the biggest lesson in business my biggest mistake was trusting the wrong people and feeling like for example I I had
a business with a best friend of mine a best friend of 10 years and when we started the business I was like you know Good people think everyone's good so I was like we don't need contracts I trust you this is so yeah I trust you no screw the contracts I believe you babe we're friends cuz I I would never do something bad I would never steal so I think everyone's like me and then we went in without contracts and 10 years later she took all the money left me with nothing yeah yeah so and
then I learned that boundaries doesn't mean you don't love the person boundaries means that I can Love you and love myself at the same time and boundaries are beautiful and healthy and if somebody doesn't accept your boundaries um they're not meant for you they're bothered because they can't get whatever they want from you easily now and people who value you and love you once they know you have boundaries they respect you more so now when I want to do business and I say okay um first and n then we signed this and we signed that
and I feel like that thing that I Never did before because I was scared I don't want to offend anybody I don't want to you know make them feel like I don't trust them that thing made people respect me more than me being nice and naive and you know thinking everyone's like me so I think that's the biggest lesson is to understand that when you do business um you hang your friendship coat outside the door and you walk in with like a different person and business is business you know that That's what that was my
biggest lesson boundaries it's so funny cuz yeah you and I both same as that cuz I'll look at that be like well I would never do this yeah like my my words stronger than any contract um and I've also learned the highway as well um how have you sort of cuz that's what I'm learning right now through business yeah everything I do is personal development and love and people and all these types of things and the challenge I'm seeing now With managing people I'm like oh but I just want to love everybody I see people's
po like oh God you could be so good but Thea shows you suck right now and I want to somebody did you how did you sort of navigate that like who who you are in a day-to-day life and bring that into your CEO mode because I'm human and because I have been in places before where I wanted someone to believe in me and I had the potential but I just needed guidance that's why I give people Chances and that doesn't that doesn't mean you don't have boundaries when you give an employee a chance to prove
them himself or learn or teach them that's you being a leader because a manager would fire them but a leader would lead would would show would teach and I am a leader in these things so I don't let go of anybody unless I know 100% that there is nothing left there with that person and then I walk away or they walk away in that in that's yeah in business yeah Yeah a quote I saw of yours women don't need to be empowered they need to be inspired what what do you mean by this I mean
that women are not weak we don't need empowerment I've never have you ever heard men saying I Empower us no no so I don't want to use a word that men are not able to use I need the unisex word I don't need a word just made for women to brainwash them to think that they're powerless because words become Your reality and if I'm saying Empower me which means I don't have the power give it to me it makes me feel like I'm powerless so I feel like women are strong they're resilient they just don't
know that they can because of society because it's a man's world because they've been suppressed for so long so they don't know they can and they just need to know that they can and if you show them they can they'll do it otherwise empowerment nope I don't Accept it I don't like it and people can hate me for saying it people can like it whatever it is but that's where I stand um words are it's called spelling for a reason because whatever you say you manifest whatever you say you become so I don't use that
word what what's your view on male and female Dynamics and roles in relationships and business life I feel like men and women complete each other they don't compete with each other that's it whether they're working Together whether they're in a relationship whether it's a friendship me as a woman I know that there are things I can do and a man can't do and a man should know that there are things a woman can do that he can't do which means that if I'm lacking in this department and a female can do that in that department
we are piece of a puzzle but sadly um a lot of couples and people in business when they are when there is gender introduced and Female and male immediately they're on competition mode because they're on survival mode they want to survive because a woman thinks that the man will not give her a chance and the man thinks a woman is not good enough and he's better than her so they're always like on that survival mode where they're trying to compete but that's not the nature of how women and men are M yeah how have you
found it play out in your relationships currently like cuz you're Absolute boss have you found it to be intimidating in dating or yes I mean I'm not saying I'm not saying all men are intimidated by strong women and all men have insecurities and they cannot handle strong women but the men I was with were all like that intimidated they it's funny because when they meet you they say that's what they love about you but after you start a relationship ship it's the most thing they hate about you because it makes them feel less of an
Alpha man it makes them feel like they are not the main um provider for the relationship they're not the protector of the relationship but I always say if a man doesn't put his pants on and he's sitting down wearing the skirt I'd have to put my pants on you know like if no one's showing up I am forced to be in my masculine energy because I have to show up yeah if he's not paying the bills if he's not providing if he's not protecting then guess what I cannot be In my feminine energy I have
to switch to my masculine energy because he's not doing the job he's sitting there with his skirt on so I had that and that's why for the longest time I was in my masculine energy and was and I was suppressing my feminine energy but then with healing I've learned how to go back into my feminine and to make peace with my masculine and you know it's sad because a lot of men say oh a lot of women are too masculine nowadays but the Truth is ask her Which chapter in her life a man made her
that way you know because men made women that way and um they used to say um women always look for sugar daddies but the truth is in today's world a lot of men are looking for sugar mamas so it's like they're all looking for an easy ticket just to to you know write on life it's kind of gone backwards a little bit I had um Dr John Gray he wrote Mana from Mars women from Venus on the podcast and he he went off Actually cuz his whole he made his whole career talking about male and
female Dynamics and the whole world changed now and he he doesn't get invited to talk anymore because he old views he's like old school and what he's saying is like decision making increases testosterone and and I forget the things he was saying was about but but mainly like both people are playing the parts right now like men are becoming more feminine yes and women are and the reason women Are becoming more masculine is because they don't feel safe that this [ __ ] is 30 years old doesn't even have a job yet he's not SEC
he doesn't doesn't know he's doing so the real issue is I truly believe as well that a lot of men need to figure their [ __ ] out because if the men can actually step up and be like I'm confident and I'm secure and I know what I'm here to do the woman I feel so safe to actually surrender and I can still crush it in my Own rights cuz that's what I'm good at and I love Yeah and at the same time I can feel safe to do that 100% if a woman it's it's
it's basic if a woman does not feel safe if a woman has to take decisions if a woman has to manage the life and has to plan for the future if a woman has to provide if a woman has to think of all these things she's better off on her own because she she can be married to herself that's all I can care for but it's like a lot of men are not Doing what they have to do yeah you said it you said he's 30 years old he doesn't have his life figured out you
know and she has her life figured out and she has everything going on for her and which is which is like the thing is I always say when I'm when I'm looking for a man I'm not looking for an Uber super millionaire you know to make my life easy no I love working I love creating I love I love innovating so I don't want to take that away from me I but I need Someone who's as successful as me or if not ambitious ambitious I it's values again right they don't get a value actually growth
and success so it sense exactly otherwise he's going to sit down there and I'm going to be doing everything and he's going to be chilling and he's going to be the wife in the relationship and and I don't want that you know I've been with that so many times and I'm I'm honestly after healing not even attracted to that if you I can Teach you anything but I cannot teach you ambition I cannot teach you um how to fight for what you want I cannot teach you to want to provide and be a man I
cannot teach you these things you know and and sadly a lot of men are losing their masculinity but crazy enough like they think a man is okay as long as he's big he's got his butt stud going on he's got his his looks and everything they think that's what a man is but I can get that done in Thailand For like 5,000 dams you know to look exactly like you you know it's that's not what a man is a man is a man who um takes care provides uh respects uh acknowledges listens um is there
is present it may gives you safety and safety doesn't mean that if a dude wants to beat me up you're going to go beat him up that's not safety you know sure great if you can do that but safety as in like emotional safety um communication safety Being my giving me a safe space to be myself and when that's not given to a woman she she changes and then the man gets upset why are you changing why are you being cold well that's because you're not being man enough you're not doing what you have to
do you know it's I can go on and on and onci it's a reciprocal thing and it's kind of like a what came in first the chicken of the egg cuz the number one priority for a female the feminine energy is safety yes Um number one for a man is freedom yes and when a woman's not feeling safe they'll be more closed hold on hold on hold on what do you mean Freedom so personal freedom that's not true based on what it's it's it's one of the highest values of the masculine masculine energy Want to
Be Free want to not not in a relationship Freedom it's I I want my freedom my mean my personal freedom my for example I've been traveling for the last 2 weeks right without my partner and I was having a conversation with my friend at dinner last night who's a female yeah and I told my partner I'm going to dinner with Alex and she asked me at dinner she's like how is Simona about you traveling like without her I'm like she's actually fine like she's awesome and she's like that's really great I said it is really
great and it's one the reasons why I love her so much and why I Feel so great in our relationship and why she feels so safe because while I'm doing my things I'm over here I'm coming to see you I'm coming to do I'm speaking on events I'm doing things I'm like I'm not attacked my ambition my goals my missions not not feeling like she's so if you take Simona with you you feel attacked no I'd love to take her could got it yeah so it wasn't like a you stay home so so so you're
not telling me you value Freedom you're telling me like Because that's two different conversations because there are men who say I want to not be with my sign ific other when I do these things I want my freedom so I I don't think I can't speak for them I'm not I'm not sure I I think you could totally unpack it based off cuz it was not a I'm not like no you stay home I'm going here I'd love to bring her here so so you you like the trust yeah the trust that I can do
my thing with I I have I have space I don't Have my mom messaging me going message me when you get home or like there's been days where she's been really busy over that side of the world and we didn't we haven't facetimed in days and we're like oh let's let's quickly let's FaceTime you know and we're both okay with that and that's one of the things in this relationship that I feel and she allow and because I have that that she plays into that she I make her feel extremely safe so that's your need
it's Yeah it's it's your personalized tailored need that you need as as a man yeah but I don't feel like um because if we were going to talk about Freedom women are wild Spirits they're wilder than men and if you want to talk about who values Freedom more I say a woman wants her Freedom more than a man so but I don't think women want that because well they would both righty because it's a masculine energy yeah so the masculine in the female would still be like I Still want to have my freedom I don't
want this guy yeah but is is it really Freedom or is it is it trust because I can like I can see couples who let each other travel and do what whatever they want but at the same time um they are texting and asking for proof all the time so you still have the freedom to do whatever you want but there's no trust so I think I think the word trust is more valuable than freedom because a partner who understands you And respects you and trusts you will let you do whatever you need to do
without bothering you but that's not freedom because you're a free person even in a relationship you are free you don't you don't belong to anybody you're not owned by anybody yeah so well I think it all depends on the definition of freedom but you allow your partner to do the same thing yeah okay that that's important because some men say no it's a man's thing can't do it no it's it's very Um and because we both dance we dance like salsa dancing so it's like like salsa and Bata it's sexy as yeah and it's funny
it's funny because before we started dancing I used to see other you know women in relationships go on dance and I'm like oh my God you know I don't know how i' like that my partner and then now now when I whenever I go travel I I love to go and find a social dance because I can dance and it's a good way for me to do something while I'm Traveling alone like I want to go do something and I can dance I can just go to a club and I don't even have to drink
and I can just go have a fun time better than just sit in my hotel room and she has excitement knowing that I had a good night and it's the other way as well she doesn't danc anymore but there has been times where I haven't been there and she's like I'm going to dance tonight I'm like go have an amazing night and it's just funny cuz I'm like you go Dance with 50 guys tonight and I'm just like I know how much fun you have because the trust is there yeah so it definitely isn't a
it's a it's a it's a double thing but you trust her do you trust the men around her I don't think I well if I was to say I don't trust them I'd be judging cuz I don't know who they are yeah and I can't control who is going to be there but I can I can't even control the level of trust in our relationship but I can do control Yourself yeah so I I guess it's in my world my perception of is I'm not out there doing that so I doesn't even come into my
awareness to like I'm when I go dancing I'm not out there to try pick up women so so do you allow it because you want to do it as well and you don't want her to say no if you don't allow her even or just like pure like respect and pure trust it's respect and Trust that's probably the biggest thing if I had a reason to not trust her surely that'd Probably be more I'd be like ah did not like it's just but that's just how I do my life I I I find it easy
to trust people than to not trust them it's more peaceful for me it is peaceful you know and I've sort of just come to that agreement a while ago as well I'd rather live a life where some people it's like you're innocent until proven guilty I would rather live that then go I don't trust you until you prove I don't know it's just more tension in my body to go You have to prove it like why should she have to prove it um but also that that's why I'm in a relationship with her cuz I
like her morals I like her values I like who she is and and all these things think one of theills that's made relationship so good where she can do what she wants like she even screwed me the other night was funny she's like I'm going on a date this week I'm like fun have a have a great date knowing she's not going on a date with a guy but I'm Just like it's just funny you know I'm like what you're joking around with each other like we're joking around but it's also but it's funny to
notice there is no what do you mean I'm like I know whatever you're doing because you know her too well I know her to I trust her and I know whatever you got to do you probably got to have fun so I kind like to hear about the fun you have yeah actually this comes from a man that is uh fully self-sufficient a man that Knows he's showing up for his woman is the best version because he knows I am doing whatever I can to be the best version of me for for my woman therefore
nobody can take her from me but but when there's a man that has not done the work that has a lot of issues internally not dealing with them and he knows he's not doing his best but he's choosing not to do his best and he's not do anything about it is always going to be fearful that someone else who's better than him Will come and take her that's so true as well actually if I was to yeah say that and have the risk of sounding like a dick right now it would also be to be
like I know for a fact the amount of other 30-year-olds out there on my level is Slim yeah good luck so it definitely is that as well it's being like I I know my wife I know I know the [ __ ] I'm doing yeah and so does she yeah so that's probably what all so cuz she knows like I spoke in a V like 1500 people on the Other side of the world like put a man in that position it's a false sense of uh right yeah it it you know in in that sort
of world it it'd be if I wanted to play the kind of you know want to pick up girls or whatever it would be easier than it would be for someone who doesn't have those things going for him yeah but it's also the other way around for her I honestly think she's the most incredible woman in the world I'm like why I'm not going to Give up anything for this yeah exactly and then she also knows that she's like well [ __ ] if he did something stupid then an idiot and so it's it's kind
of that so it's back to everything I mean this is a sign of a healthy relationship and not only healthy relationship between both of you but healthy relationship with yourself yes yeah yeah I get it what I'm curious to know is one thing you talk about a lot and seen a lot of interviews is narcissism and We've mentioned it a little bit um why is that why do you talk about narcissist I mean this is like a lot of people always like tell me you're an entrepreneur you're like a public speaker why do you always
post about narcissism it's because I lived it and it's so dangerous that it can actually make you reach a point where you want to end your own life and I don't want people to go through it that's why I'm pushing an educating people about Narcissism because it's not just being with a bad person it's literally being with the devil like having a relationship with the devil being in bed with the devil that's what narcissism is and I'm trying my best to tell people please educate yourself please educate yourself because it's part of my purpose I
feel like my purpose is uh to spread light and to spread knowledge and to serve people and when I speak about narcissism it's not that I'm um Projecting or talking about my internal battles no I am putting it out there to educate because I don't want anyone to go through it it's dangerous it's um it's it's I swear to God like it's an experience that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemies like this is how bad narcissism relationship is I mean you can have a narcissistic relationship at work but you can escape from that but
when it's a relationship with somebody that's so hard to escape Like you can like when you leave it's called narcissistic survival because you survived something that is like literally fatal and I I was I reached a point where I was literally going to take my own life at a certain point I was like I had enough cuz you didn't know how to get out of the situation not only that it's the manipulation it's gaslighting they make you question your own reality they make you think you're delusional the way they mess up your Hormones in your
body it's like and everything is intentional and planned and when you know I've opened the eyes of a lot of women about to narcissism and you know when a woman or a man finds out that oh when he does that there is a psychological term for it like in Psychology when he says that he's doing something like that when the cycle happens it's actually a study then they start to realize that oh my God what am I doing like need to escape this but you Know it's not that easy to escape the narciss narcissistic relationship
really not easy but if you do I swear to God you dodged a bullet that's why I want to spread awareness about it and I'm very like on a mission when it comes to narcissism like I'm going to get a tattoo soon that says no narcs you know like this is how much I hate narcissistic people they can all go to a planet marry each other reproduce on that planet they don't deserve they're Not humans that's just crazy on on that on on the spiritual side of you so there's a few things I want to
your shirt is that an alien yes of course and says I do not believe the alien says I don't believe in humans because every because everyone's denying aliens exist and they're denying We Exist you know it's it's crazy it's crazy to think that it's naive it's um unrealistic it's egoistic it is crazy to think that all Of this was created just for us yeah like since it's insane you know but I also don't believe the aliens are evil and they want to kill us and blow us and burn us because they could have done it
ages ago when we had no technology why would they come nowadays where we have all these all this technology going on what they want to play a fair game that's what they want to do they want the fight back no it's it's all [ __ ] yeah what what kind of um like you're Pretty spiritual right like you you're' really um open in that sense and you live here in Dubai and you're you're born here here um what I'm just curious what kind of spiritual beliefs do you have that people may look at you and
hear and disagree with you on so okay so spirituality isn't that a religion doesn't exist or it's not its own religion spirituality is within everyone's religion so I'm Muslim I'm a Spiritual person um the only difference between spirituality and non-spiritual is you look at life you look at your spirit and look at God in a different way um instead of just like fearing God and thinking like he is there to punish and do all these things um you need to get into a relationship where you understand that God is God is love God is Harmony
and he's kind he's loving it's about building a friendship with God talking to him all the time and once You love something and respect it you will not do anything wrong but once you fear it when the fear hides or goes away or sheds away every now and then you might do something wrong so it's about switching the relationship you have with God to a more loving friendship one and also to understand that we are Divine beings we are spirits with a human experience which means that even like in every religion I'm pretty sure this
is written in Islam it's written God said I Put a piece of me in all of these people like in in humans like a piece of him in us so we are divine power that God's in us all and to understand that and to think like that and to focus on your spirit and to focus on you know like instead of being distracted by the materialistic things in this world and what my body needs it's looking inside and seeing at what my soul needs and understanding that not everything you see is real not everything you
hear is Real not everything you know is real and you need to go and discover what's real you know and I will say I will say this and I I love saying this maturity is not learning new things it's unlearning everything and finding out the truth you you know and yeah I feel this is what spirituality is about it's about Oneness it's about understanding that this table you me that lizard on the floor we're all one we're all we're all from the same Source we're all one you know and Humans are powerful and the higher
self and the frequency of the universe is similar to a frequency on a radio just like the radio picks up you know the music so you can hear it it's a frequency the frequency when it comes to the universe is a different frequency and us as humans we've been programmed and conditioned that we cannot tune into that frequency so spirituality is about going there to that place where everything is aligned Where you in tuned with yourself whe you're in touch with your higher self will where you know what your purpose is but that's that's a
frequency not everybody can get on but it takes practice and understanding but all humans can do it it's like it's like when you watch somebody driving a car when you're young you go like that's hard when you grow up and you learn how to do do it you're like oh that's easy spirituality is the Same thing everyone is born with this power but everybody lost their power because yeah they've been marinated in culture and things and all that system yeah sadly I feel like we could talk for a really long time I know I'm enjoying
this and we've got another special guest in the room who'd like to come and join us hey come here baby come sit come come next to Mommy I love you come and take a seat come here sit With Mommy so now this is the the young the youngest ever guest we've had on the show you know that yes so tell everybody what's your name where are you from my name is me and I'm from here here where's here Dubai Dubai say in Arabic debay Deb I've got I've got a bunch of things I'd like to
ask you but what I'm curious to know is one thing we're talking about outside okay was your school school so You're 8 years old now yeah and you're starting you're starting your you're starting in comedy which we can get to in a second but with your school you're not going to a normal school are you uh yeah I'm not tell us a little bit about your school and use the microphone Cas my school uh we learn how to knit Farm what's the difference between your school and and regular schools that is a spiritual School the
spiritual School the system focuses on the soul a lot way More fun yeah way more fun so they teach them um and I love the transition I made because I don't really fully trust the education system yeah in terms that it doesn't teach people how to connect with their soul how to learn how to grow self-reflect taxes how to live your dreams so I took him there because it teaches you how to ground yourself with Mother Earth how to knit how to farm the importance of your spirit and creativity and all that so they don't
have books They don't write much everything is taught to them and like stor telling form and he loves it and every Friday we get food and make a buffet sound he loves buffet and so tell me a little bit about what and I don't know if people have asked you this before um but your plans the way you see your life unfolding do you have a big dream do you have something you want to create or do or become or a YouTuber a YouTuber yeah Have you started yet no I haven't started yet we film
a lot of things yeah yeah but you still said I can do it when I'm 12 yeah when you're no 14 you said 12 okay 12 yeah you guys start youtubing at 12 yeah because the internet I feel like is a sword with two edges it's good but it's bad so like as a child I feel like it's not a safe space yet for him yeah so everything is monitored by by me yeah and I feel like he shouldn't be on Social media at that age because I want to teach him how to strengthen his
inner core before he gets exposed to this like fakeness and all these things online and the last thing I need is for him to say like oh Mom I want this car or I want this I want to go to school to show off and I don't need that what the heck exactly you're making me sound like a monster no I'm just saying you are like that back to everything we're saying they're going to make it me what exactly Look at him so why don't you tell him what do you think happiness is for example
um okay listen I've been doing this for a couple of years okay so I don't know everything about it it's okay say whatever you know about it Happiness is when you're nice to people and you have a fun time and every time something happens to you you shouldn't react just ignore ignore react or Respond you you mean like don't focus on the problem focus on the Sol yeah because that's what I teach him I teach when something happens don't react take your time to calm down when when you see people out there in the world
and and they're going through problems or they're angry or they're you know they're not very happy if you could tell them one thing a perspective shift for them what would you tell them what's your advice for people who are angry and React why are you angry why are they angry though that's so true because I always teach him that when people are angry and they're reacting it's a reflection of what's inside of them so that's why he's saying why are you angry though you know what's really the main reason yeah and so tell us a
little bit about your have you have you got a joke for us cuz I know you've been you've been doing some comedy and you want to start there have you got one Fresh on your mind don't give him a dad joke give him a funny joke okay okay what did the chicken say what did the chicken say yeah I don't know to who no what did the rooster say what the I don't I don't know what did they say Co a doodle do we'll work on it it's okay every if hey if there's one thing
I want you to know I'll tell you what's funny I don't laugh at his jokes sometimes I I laugh at his reaction his Eyes but um every master was once a disaster yes mhm so it's good to just cuz you know what there's so many people watching this here's the thing there's so many people watching this right now that are going I wish I had the courage to even get on camera period Then they followed up by saying I wish I had the courage to actually go after what it is I want so if you
were to give these people any bit of advice cuz you're kind of you're just you're doing your life I Heard you wore pajamas to school the other day cuz you're like that's me you're just doing your life your way what what advice would you give to people out there for advice for people who don't are not living their dreams and not doing what they want like a permission slip for them to just go after it you should just do your own permission and you should do what you want who who wanted to stop you and
who will stop you boom my drop all righty so This has been amazing Sarah where where can everybody find you on social media check out everything you're doing I am on every social media platform you can think of like threads everything under the name s aladini so it's sore aladore yeah beautiful thank you so much thank you so much for coming on this has been amazing definitely get a we'll definitely have a to I think um but this is how I like to wrap up all these episodes so I have a final question for You
but I can't ask it to him so I have to reframe for you so I get it get to give it to you first are you ready okay if I was put you on a rocket ship and send you off to another planet so you can never return here okay what would be your last 20 second speech you'd give to the world one day you guys will be like me if you even want to be like me what does that mean like one day they will get to leave no one day they can be an
astronaut oh if that's what they want to Do that's beautiful all right Sarah wrap this up so I say F no I've got a different question for you okay so if you were to go back to your 18-year-old self and give her 30 seconds of advice none zero if I change anything I would erase me I would not be me now so I have no advice and if I could talk to her I'd say girl do whatever you're doing you're going to go through a lot of pain but it's so worth it 100% girl Talk
you're like don't worry about it because you're building yourself everything you're going to go through is going to mold you and to be honest if somebody had a magic wand right now and told me hey we would erase everything bad that happened in your life that means I won't have my son so I don't I won't have you a yeah so I don't want to erase anything I'm not going to tell her anything I want her to be clueless I want her to figure out herself I want Her even the bad things that happened to
me made me today yeah exactly it makes it makes us who we are so I have nothing to tell I wouldn't be here today if I had bad things I wouldn't be here like you wouldn't see me I would just be at home I love you eating chips down watching TV and being annoying and going to a normal school but since I had pain in my life so basically what he's saying is because he's been bad boy sometimes and He went through pains in his life at 8 um it changed him and it made him
a better person yeah yeah there's so many things that made me Happ but it's great having that perspective already for now because it's going to serve you for later yeah and I'm sorry about all the what was the pain he went through the chocolate was out of stock what the candy was out mom doesn't let me build a YouTube yet YouTube yet yeah mom doesn't let me go YouTube you 100% I love you I Love it no but basically don't change anything because one Direction different in your route you wouldn't be who you are today
yeah I love it
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