funny how friends become enemies when you start fixing your life

self-improvement comes with sacrifices and sometimes you got to sacrifice the things that you didn't even want to sacrifice you got to sacrifice the things that you didn't even know you would have to sacrifice like friendships like the topic of this video bro like friendships bro when you start to elevate and when you start to do the things that you need to do in order to carry your life to the next level you know people see you the truth is they didn't think you would be that consistent the truth is they didn't think that you were

taking it for real the truth is they didn't know that you were truly in your life the truth is they didn't know that you wanted to watch the party die right you didn't want to go to the parties you didn't want to hang out on Saturdays on Fridays when it was tji Fridays when it was thank God it's Friday you didn't want to go for a drink you wanted to build your relationship with God instead you didn't want to go to parties you wanted to learn about financial literacy you wanted to be in a gym

you wanted to do things that will carry your life to the next level and so the reason why they hating on you the reason why they don't support you let's talk about it it's very simp simple it's because looking at you as a reminder of where they failed in life looking at you as a reminder that they need to get up and get to work but they don't want to get up and get to work they want to be in the Echo chamber full of people who aren't putting in the work who aren't doing the

things that they need to do I'm too real with this bro you know we going in right now I'm fired up right now bro I've been through it I understand it people see you elevating people see you become more successful the number one thing that they say oh you turn Hollywood no nah never that never that it's not us it's them they look at us different when we've been who we said we were going to be we said we were going to go hard we said we were going to put in the work we said

we were going to grind but they don't like that because we remind them of their shortcomings every time that we go hard they're reminded that they're not going hard every time we're in the gym and we post a picture on our story I'm in the gym right now I'm locked in right now there reminded I did not go to the gym today I'm not locked in right now and they don't want an accountability partner they want a partner that's always going to say howdy right not being successful is okay not going after your dreams is

okay chasing women is okay no it's not no it's not my guys over here we on see in retention we trying to get rid of lust we building our relationship with God we doing the great things that we need to do we locked in we in the gym we getting buff you see me in this video getting buff I don't want to be like everybody else I want to be the best version of me it's me versus me but they want to make it into a competition don't go against me bro you going to lose

every time because it's me against me ain't nobody trying to flex on nobody ain't nobody trying to be better than nobody I'm trying to be better than who I was yesterday and I am better I am better than who I was yesterday and we're just going to keep elevating because that's what self-improvement is all about you see you got to understand something brother the haters don't want to see you win your friends will turn to haters some of them will turn to haters because like I said you are reminding them of the things that they

need to do in their life and you doing the things that you need to do in your life is reminding them that they're not going hard enough that they're not putting in the work that they have way too many shortcomings and they not getting back up that they failed but they don't want to get back up to succeed but every time you fail you stand back up you think that sits good in their heart you think they want to see that you think they want to see an example of somebody who made it out the

hood went to college got a degree or W went for that job or left their environment and went and got a trade or a skill or left the environment and went and did something good with their life moving away from their Hometown you think they want to see that they don't want to see that because it's a reminder that if he can do it well if I put the work in that means I can do it too but they're not willing to do it so they rather hate they don't want to put the work in

so they rather hate they rather be a hater they rather try to slow down your grind and say bro you're moving too fast you're doing too much slow down I can't I can't slow down I came from nothing we tasting success it taste good we just going to keep going why would I slow down why would I stop right when I wasn't doing nothing ain't nobody was telling me hey bro speed up nobody was telling me hey bro you know go faster ain't that funny when we were sitting down eating the hot Cheetos bro when

we were sitting down eating the pizza boxes you can eat pizza but you shouldn't be eating pizza boxes bro not 3 four right moderation when we were sitting down eating the pizza boxes bro and we were we were big and fat wasn't nobody telling us to slow down hey slow down Bro think about your health right right when we were a shell of ourselves where was the motivation and the inspiration where was the people telling us that we could go harder see I appreciate stuff like that but some people don't appreciate stuff like that you

try to tell somebody to go into the gym they do you think what are you trying to say I'm trying to say that it's you versus you and you deserve to get 1% better each and every day it's either you want it or you don't I stop now I sto trying to help people I used to go out my way and say hey this is what you can do to be fit and be healthy I don't do that no more I'm not going to help people who don't want to be helped now people book consultations

with me so I could get them on that grind make a meal plan for them a fitness plan and help them on their fitness goals I just had one today shout out to you brother he's 255 lbs right and he's 24 years old I'm not going to say his name I'm not going to say where he lives that information is not needed just know he's a purpose-driven brother he's 255 lbs he's 24 years old he invested in himself he he he called me today and he's like man I need to be better what can you

do to help me and I gave him the game plan people got to want it people got to want to be hungry but we see we see we we keep trying to help our friends we keep trying to put them on game we keep trying to show them there's a way which you could do this and that and they don't want it they rather hate it's the weirdest thing they rather [Music] hate the information that you know is so valuable but they don't appreciate that information because they think they got time they think you just

got lucky nah bro we we cracked the formula consistency hard work discipline consistency hard work discipline can't forget God consistency hard work discipline and God every single day every single day that we breathing every single day we alive we locked in see we can't help people who don't want to be helped they rather be haters let them hate bro let them hate you got to just keep on going you got to keep on flowing you got to keep on being the best version of yourself let me tell you bro you destined for greatness man you

can't worry about no haters bro you can't worry about no haters I'm wearing long socks you know when you wearing long socks you know what I'm saying you got to fix it it start to itch wearing long socks man I don't know why I put these long socks on right there's always going to be a hater when you elevating there's always going to be a hater and just like them long socks they oh I got to itch it I got to be a hater I got no choice but to be a hater I got no

choice but to be a hater they just watch you you know people who just watch you they just watching they don't say congratulations they don't say none of that that ruins friendships for me bro you see me doing great no congratulations it's like oh that's tough that's that's tough and I'm just trying to let y'all know some people in your life doing that because they really hating on you and what you got to do is you got to just keep on going keep on being the best that you can be you can't do this for

validation bro you can't be on the grind for validation don't lose weight so people can say man you look good you lost weight they thinking it the thought of it is already better than them saying it they don't have to say it they thinking it they know you cold they know you putting in that work they know you on that grind they know they see you bro they see you bro they see you putting in that work they just don't want to mention it they don't want to give you the validation they don't want to

give you the satisfaction to know that you really been on that grind that's okay though cuz we not doing it for them we doing it for ourselves we doing it for our creator we're trying to please God we're doing it for our future self y'all should all be looking up to your future self cuz he made it he put that work in man he did the work you should be proud of your future self but in order to get there you got to put the work in right now in order to get there you got

to sacrifice things that you didn't know you had to sacrifice and that's them friendships that's them people who turn to haters and I'm trying to teach y'all how to see a hater bro they mute they don't say nothing they mute they're talking but you can't hear them they talking but you can't hear them cuz they don't want to be heard that's some hater stuff bro that's wickedness I can't be around people like that the friends that I got in my life shout out to them because every time we talk they're doing great things I'm doing

great things and we uplift each other my friend today he just got uh you know he got asked to be made an article of him you know he's doing great things they're writing a article on him he calls me up he lets me know first thing I say is congratulations it's welld deserved it's about time that they interview you for the great things that you doing right and guess what he asks can you be part of the article can you be part of the article brother can they call you and can they ask you some

questions because you know the work that I do I would love for you to speak on behalf of me you know how much of an honor it is for somebody to ask me can I speak on behalf of them you know what haters would do oh no I can't do it bro cuz they don't want to give no good words to nobody you got to be supportive and it's not just something that's going on with you make sure that you're supportive to the people that's around you right especially if they're supportive of you that's true

friendship you hold on to that that's what Brotherhood looks like I want to see y'all win I show up each and every day I make a video for y'all so y'all can win that's selfless I could have been doing my own thing right but the path I chose the career I chose I chose entrepreneurship I chose to help the people and that takes a lot more work than taking another route and that's because I want to see people win so forgive me that I'm so passionate man when I see people that's going on in your

life who don't want to see you win who don't want to see you succeed who's not telling you congratulations who's not uplifting you I had to get on camera and I had to let you know that keep pushing I had to let you know that haters will come when you reach levels of success and when you start to self-improve your life or you tracking your meals now you think you better than us or you going to the gym now you think you better than us or you not going to parties no more you think you

better than us it ain't about being better than nobody bro I'm trying to be better than my than my past self what y'all don't understand I can't do the same things that I always used to do but they want you to to be the same person because if you keep on with the bad habits then they keep on with the bad habits misery loves company the negative loves more negative the person who's trying to just float in life needs to be around other floaters you have to understand that it's rare to be purpose-driven to breathe

in Purpose Driven air it's different Bro you've been putting in the work putting in the grind bro like it's a whole different thing over here in order to be Purpose Driven in order to be locked in it's it's very different over here bro the amount of work that we putting in the Investments we're making in ourselves we're not wasting our money we're not acting goofy we're not trying to be like everybody else we're trying to be who God made us to be we're trying to be locked in we're trying to be on our purpose each

and every day we ain't trying to be like everybody else cuz when we be like everybody else we get everybody else results so because we're not drifting like everybody else and we're not floating like everybody else and letting life just take us where life take us because we're grabbing life and we're saying hey bro this what I'm going to accomplish and I'm going go out there and do it your friends going to get turned off by that it's like uh why he taking life so serious because he understands that death is real Dumbo think about

it he taking life serious because he understands that he got one life he don't want to waste it let him be on the grind let him take life serious support him see if you need to take life serious why you not taking life serious that's the question why you tracking your meals bro hey why you not tracking your meals G why you just eating why why are you not tracking your meals bro why you think it's just cool to keep stuff in your face where's the discipline where's the temperance sto say where is that where

is that Temperance what what does that mean Malik what does temperance mean knowing when enough is enough knowing when good is good right having that boundary appreciating things for what it is you don't got to overdo it bro but they going to judge us because we're practicing Temperance restraint we're practicing self-respect self-love we're practicing gratitude all of a sudden you think you better than us that's what you start to hear you start to hear it in their voice and their actions and the way that they move the things that they're not saying silence is louder

than words what do you really feel about me how do you really feel about me well guess what I don't care I only care about what God feels about me I'm putting in the work it's purpose and God and that's it everybody else has nothing to do with my purpose or my grind it's my brotherhood it's my family it's my loved ones it's God it's y'all watching on this screen right now I appreciate y'all but I'm letting you know haters will hate there was people in my life man and I try to let them know

I'm like hey she hating on you and she was like nah they not haters they not hating on me I'm like she's jealous of you and she was like nah she ain't jealous of me she ain't jealous of me and I was like she don't want to see you happy and she was like nah she she you know she cool and I'm telling some people he's hating on you nah he ain't hating and so from home boys to home girls it didn't matter it did not matter I'm trying to tell people cuz I can see

it cuz I can see it it don't cost nothing to show love it don't cost nothing to show gratitude it don't cost nothing to text somebody and say hey bro I see you bro hey keep going bro keep believing in yourself bro n you think you cool cuz you on the sideline you on the sideline man you not doing nothing with your life you not you're not Purpose Driven you ain't you ain't Purpose Driven bro you ain't Purpose Driven bro you a hater and when you Purpose Driven when you when you a brother for real

you want to see your brothers win for real you want to see them win for real bro n but there's people in my life man they they don't say nothing they don't say nothing and that says more than anything that's just more than anything that they can say the silence the people going to silently hate on you bro and that's why you got to just focus on yourself talk less and keep working keep showing up every single day talk less and keep working talk less and more action going to the gym every single day working

on your Fitness 10,000 steps tracking it on your watch tracking it on your phone waking up doing it again waking up doing it again waking up creating a task list accomplishing your goals going after it doing it again what am I describing Obsession obsessed with your purpose with your life with your goals and with your dreams why would we ever want to be obsessed with that because God gave you those dreams for a reason because your heart is beating for a reason and if you're doing things that's not meaningful then you're wasting life stop wasting

life haters is always going to be around bro but the opportunity to win won't I'm just trying to keep on winning I'm just trying to keep on being the best that I can be I don't care what nobody say man I came from nothing bro you think I'mma slow down now there was already habits in place y'all hear what I'm saying I prepare for moments like these ain't no slowing down I've been resting my whole life I've been slacking my whole life I'm finally trying to take my life serious and you telling me to slow

down think about how crazy that sounds bro homie been sleeping his whole life homie been lacking his whole life eating junk food his whole life being fat his whole life hating how he looks his whole life not building a relationship with God his whole life partying his whole life going after girls his whole life and when he's trying to change his life for the first time in his life you hating on him you telling him to slow down you asking do you think you're better than us when he was the fat kid in class when

he was the one that got made fun of when he was the outcast and he's trying to self-improve himself and you got the audacity to ask if he thinks that he's better you got the audacity to not support him and not congratulate him on the things that he's accomplishing are you sick in the head that's the people we dealing with bro tell me they not haters bro yo y y'all got some people that you need to cut off today bro you got some people that you need to cut off today un follow from Instagram today

you've been letting it slide for way too long you too [Music] nice can't let it slide got to address it you could address it quietly too unfollow what did I do bro you didn't do nothing and that's exactly the point you didn't do nothing when I started this grind you didn't say nothing when I made it to the top you didn't say nothing when I kept believing in myself when nothing was coming no results you didn't say nothing you didn't encourage me you didn't do nothing you was hating on me you was saying subtle jokes

you were talking behind my back yeah word guess around and people just be sneaking in your life trying to come back in your life trying to creep back in your life just to see what's going on in your life bro I got people who never talk to me texting my phone because they think they got my number I see it I leave it I leave it right people who never check up on me people who don't ask me how I'm doing but they want to text my phone first with how you doing Mr Purpose Driven

who are you you trying to reach out to me now I don't like that I don't like that I I don't appreciate that where were you where were you where were you and there people like me bro getting on camera motivating people responding to the comments responding to my DMs creating a community creating a a Discord so we can have a Brotherhood so we could connect supporting you more than some people in your own life somebody on the internet bro somebody on the internet bro supporting you more than people you know but you want to

still give access to them when you make it you too nice bro you can forgive but you can't forget you can forgive but you got to understand man some things bro you can't forget and when it comes to them haters I'll never forget and and it's only getting worse I'm going to protect my peace I'm going to keep on grinding and I just want you to know that friends will turn on you and friends will become enemies simply because you chose to change your life for the first time in your life keep changing your life

I love you I truly do I appreciate you I'm rooting for you and I genuinely want to see you win I am in the business of service I am here to serve I'm here to make videos man I'm here to help man I am here to help you win so you let me know how I could be useful resources are below links are below for how you can continue to self-improve I love y'all I'll see y'all in the next video man forget these haters bro lock in make that paper become greater get closer to God

keep being great make no mistake they going to try to come around you late by the time that they arve you already great so now we cutting the grass and we getting rid of these snakes I remember I grew tough now we got diamonds on our neck we got diamonds on our wrists it ain't about the money but it's funny how when I was growing up ain't nobody really looked to me to tell me that I could do it I had to dig deep and believe in myself and now I'm out here trying to build

generational wealth I hope that I'm an inspiration to all my brothers y y'all are really family just brothers from another mother so God bless you truly God bless your heart this is just the beginning brother this is just a start I'm freestyling I'm trying to show you that you can do whatever you put your mind to Ain't No Boundaries around you but you put the boundaries around yourself limiting yourself from the life that you supposed to live I hope that you get free I hope that you can see that living a successful life is meant

to be I believe it for myself I believe it for me you got to believe it for you and you got to stay true to your purpose and your discipline I promise that it's worth it I promise if you keep putting the work in that it'll be working all right all right bro I'm done I'mma let y'all go I love y'all bro peace