being alone is powerful it makes you realize that you need yourself more we generate fears while we sit we overcome them by action if you want to make the wrong decision ask [Music] everyone Don't Look Back you are not going that way if people took back the pain they caused you you'd lose the strength you gained life will test you just before it blesses you if you focus on the hurt you will continue to suffer if you focus on the lesson you will continue to [Music] grow the magic you are looking for is in the
work you're [Music] avoiding you can either be a negative or positive person in life but only one will get you [Music] somewhere never expose your next step just take the step a fish with a closed mouth never gets [Music] caught the people who say say you can't and you won't are usually the ones scared that you will be careful how you talk to yourself because you are listening stop thinking you're doing it all wrong your path doesn't look like anybody else's because it can't it shouldn't and it won't if it keeps you happy keep it
[Music] quiet the family you create is more important than the family you come from the more you know yourself the less you need others approval just because the past didn't turn out like you wanted it to does doesn't mean your future can't be better than you ever imagined do not allow small minds to convince you that your dreams are too big when you try to please everybody you almost always please nobody we cannot become what we want by remaining what we are the truth is everyone is going to hurt you you just got to find
the ones worth suffering for if you find yourself repeatedly questioning whether or not something is right for you the answer is usually no accept both compliments and criticism it takes both sun and rain for a tree to [Music] grow you did the best you could with what you knew at the time don't let new wisdom lead you to condemn yourself over old struggles bad habits are like a comfortable bed easy to get into but hard to get out of in the end we only regret the chances we didn't take the relationships we were too afraid
to have and the decisions we waited too long to make waiting for change while not doing anything for it is like waiting for the train at a bus stop by three lessons we may learn wisdom first by reflection which is noblest second by imitation which is the easiest and third by experience which is the bitterest don't let other people's opinions drown out your inner [Music] voice hope for the best plan for the worst respect yourself because people can see if you don't it's impossible to make everyone happy and trying to do so will only lead
to frustration and disappointment stay away from people who can't see any wrong in their actions but see every wrong in yours focus on the step in front of you and not the whole staircase be brave enough to be bad at something new your thoughts are like boomerangs what you pass along to others is what will come back to [Music] you listen to the people who tell you what you don't want want to hear the longer you entertain what's not for you the longer you postpone what is the cost of procrastination is the life you could
have [Music] lived don't depend too much on anyone in this world because even your own shadow leaves you when you are in Darkness you can't pour from an empty cup take care of yourself first it is better to act and repent than not to act in [Music] regret excuses make today easy but tomorrow harder discipline makes today hard but tomorrow easier if you are a giver know your limits because takers don't have any if you don't clean up what's in your head you'll drop what's in your [Music] hands never share your problems with friends before
finding a solution no matter how challenging it is you don't have Focus not potential you lack consistency not skill you lack strategy not resources you lack discipline not capability your future is in your hands and the doubt is in your head everyone wants to skip struggle not knowing that's where character is [Music] built self-pity is dangerous stay away from it Vision Without execution is just a hallucination making too many efforts to forget someone is remembering them all the time [Music] never let a lack of support stop you from achieving your goal don't be afraid of
losing people be afraid of losing Yourself by trying to please everyone around you putting off until tomorrow is your weakness once you are mature you will realize that silence is more powerful than proving your point a lack of boundaries invites a lack of [Music] respect work for it more than you talk about it stop choosing what's not choosing you learn to be okay okay with not being invited included or considered it won't happen overnight but if you quit it won't happen at all work at your job and make a living work on yourself and make
a fortune the hardest part is at the beginning of the journey the rocket loses 90% of its fuel during [Music] takeoff sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their Illusions destroyed don't be upset by the result you didn't get from the work you didn't do the Journey of your success will always be begin with the small step of taking a chance be alone until you're valued by failing to prepare you are preparing to fail the things you say about others say a lot about you don't be afraid to start over
again this time you're not starting from scratch you're starting from experience it's not the future that's hazy it's your thoughts about it stop expecting life to be fair start expecting yourself to be a better player capable of handling any situation [Music] when you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you embarrassment is the cost of Entry if you aren't willing to look like the foolish beginner you'll never be the graceful Master you are responsible for your own happiness if you expect others to make you happy you will always
be [Music] disappointed you are right about all the things you think you need to do don't wait get started not everyone will make it to your future some people are passing through to teach you life lessons be a good person person but don't waste time proving it just because it's hard doesn't mean it's impossible the best way to keep one's word is not to give it expect little from people expect a lot from yourself that's the secret of a happy life you can often regret your words but you will never regret your silence don't ever
let the same people disappoint you [Music] twice nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs one today is worth to tomorrows try not to sacrifice your progress for the sake of a friend they may not have done the same if the tables were [Music] turned today is the oldest you've ever been in your life and the youngest you'll ever be again happiness is not for something you postpone for the future it is something you design for the present private life always wins keep it secret till you win being alone is really better
than being with fake people who pretend to love you don't be afraid to give up the good to go for the great the more people let you down the easier you'll get back up and realize that life doesn't stop for anyone sometimes you have to lose something good to gain something [Music] better be careful who you trust salt and sugar look the same success is getting what you want happiness is wanting what you get most people stay in the same place for a reason the things they hold dear are the anchors that hold them in
place you and yours before you are anyone else's sometimes you must go to war with yourself to fix yourself you will never always be motivated so you must learn to always be disciplined the quickest way to succeed is to start now and figure it out as you go you can't learn to drive in a parked car you make the best decisions when in pain because fear of experiencing the same pain again is the strongest motivator what we do during our working hours determines what we have what we do in our Leisure Hours determines what we
[Music] are if if you treat an individual as he is he will remain how he is but if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be he will become what he ought to be and could be the best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer someone else up grind like nobody has your your back your life isn't yours if you always care what others think you may not realize this but the people you love are your biggest [Music] weaknesses set your mind on a definitive goal
and observe how quickly the world stands aside to let you pass [Music] once you realize your value you will be greatly surprised at what you used to settle for don't tell anyone what you think or what you know keep your secrets to yourself because a friend of today could be an enemy by tomorrow if people treat you like an OP option leave them like a choice to reach somewhere you need to leave something behind it's best to leave things at the right time otherwise you are left with too many regrets and complaints be impatient with
actions but patient with results there's no limit to what you can achieve except that which you place in your [Music] mind distance yourself from people that bring out the person you're not trying to be anymore Embrace Solitude as a time for reflection and self-discovery forgive your old self you've changed many of the people you told your secret to have already told it to others stop trying to skip the struggle that's where the character is built if you define the problem correctly you almost have the solution [Music] there are no shortcuts to any place worth going
the true test of a man's character is what he does when no one is watching you've got to do what's right for you even if it hurts some people you love when you're working for someone else's dream you sacrifice your own the first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are you spend your first 20 years worrying about what people think about you you spend your next 20 years swearing that you don't care what people think about you you spend the next 20 years realizing that they
aren't thinking about you stand up and face your fears or they will defeat [Music] you sometimes loneliness is the price you pay for growth in order to love who you are you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you focus on making yourself better not on thinking that you are better do what no one else can do and you will become what no one else can become someone else's progress doesn't make yours any less not everyone you trust will be trustworthy Comfort is the enemy of progress the quieter you become the more you can hear the
people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind you can accept the apology but you have to remove the trust your very hard to control when you're healthy you're very hard to manipulate when you're clear you're very hard to influence when you're [Music] Sovereign it takes a long time to realize how truly miserable you are and even longer to realize it doesn't have to be that way everyone you love in your life should be a safe space not more stress that makes you worry or another battle you need to overcome your direction
is more important than your speed you may not lead a comfortable life with a single source of income you need to build others the walls you build to keep things out are also keeping things in have at least one person in your life who gives you honest opinions sometimes later becomes never do it now may our choices reflect your hopes not your fears good decisions come from experience experience comes from making bad [Music] decisions worrying is like a rocking chair it gives you something to do but gets you nowhere no work is beneath you the
only thing that should be beneath you is your big ego work hard in silence and show your skills at the job you get rather than criticizing the job it's better to be alone than in Bad [Music] Company If you do not make yourself IND dispensable you will be unemployed soon the secret to success is to do the common things uncommonly well time is your most valuable resource there are no refunds or second chances for the time you [Music] waste in most instances obstacles are the way you are more defined by what comes out of your
mouth than what goes in it speech gives us the power to create or destroy [Music] if you want to go fast go alone if you want to go far go together surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher where fear ends the strength Begins the the first step to getting anywhere is deciding you're not willing to stay where you are obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goals the trail never comes from your enemies you will never remember the days and nights you stay home
and do nothing [Music] if you stopped seeing the world in terms of what you like and what you dislike and saw things for what they truly are in themselves you would find a great deal more peace in your life there is no perfect time you must take the time you have and make it perfect [Music] the best thing about hard times is that you get to see everyone's true colors what the mind of men can conceive and believe it can achieve always take responsibility for your actions for it is the mark of a mature individual
your goals are the compass that guides you through the storm of life if you don't value your time neither will others no relationship is worth damaging your mental health spend time with the elderly their wisdom and experiences are invaluable [Music] never expect someone to catch you when you fall even if you have caught many from falling there are times when you see someone for the last time and don't even realize it watch out you'll never know the true value of the moment until it becomes a memory just because a thought got your attention attention doesn't
mean it deserves your attention be around people who feed your soul not eat it if you want the present to be different from the past study the past the key to happiness is letting each situation be what it is instead of what you think it should be be when writing the story of your life don't let anyone else hold the pen there are two paths you can go by but in the long run there's still time to change the road you're on don't see anyone as your competition you don't have the same goals ambition or
brains you're not the same if you stay positive in a negative situation you [Music] win the heaviest burden we carry is the weight of our [Music] expectations learn to handle rejection gracefully it's a part of life [Music] there is no other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance it overcomes almost everything even [Music] nature do not let the things that have hurt you turn you into a person you are not build your own dream or someone else will hire you to build theirs mistakes are proof that you are [Music]
trying the secret of achievement is to hold the picture of a successful outcome in your mind count your blessings not your [Music] problems be proud of how hard you are trying ships don't sink because of the water around them ships sink because of the water that gets in them don't let what's happening around you get inside you and weigh you down what to speak is knowledge and when to speak is intelligence if you need inspiration don't do it you are not what happened to you you are what you choose to become find something you love
something you can lean on to something that would keep you going you need something to fall back on when you get depressed accept that you are not important to some people and move on every time when you are rejected for something good you are redirected to something [Music] better on the other side of the storm is the strength that comes from having navigated through it remember some of the best times of your life haven't even happened yet take some time today to recognize where you are right now and how hard you've worked to get there
even if you're not exactly where you dream to be just yet