9 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER ACCEPT FROM ANYONE

have you ever stopped to think that there are things you should never accept from anyone but maybe you are accepting them without realizing it sometimes without even noticing we end up allowing other people's behaviors or attitudes to undermine our self-esteem distance us from our purpose and even weaken our connection with God and the worst part we get so used to it that we start to think it's normal but what if I told you that there are things that no matter how common they seem are completely unacceptable yes there are boundaries that should never be crossed

and believe me accepting less than you deserve might be preventing you from living a full life want to know what these nine things are keep reading and find out why you should stop accepting these behaviors right now purpose each person was created by God with a Divine Purpose something unique and non-transferable often in the midst of daily distractions we forget this but the truth is no one is here by accident the Bible in Ephesians 2:10 reminds us that we are God's handiwork created to do good works that he has already prepared for us imagine that

even before you were born God had already prepared a path for you however living out that purpose requires more than just understanding it it requires actively seeking his Direction have you ever stopped to think think are you living the purpose God has for your life finding and following the Divine Purpose doesn't happen automatically and it isn't always easy many times we are so busy with the demands of life that we lose sight of what God wants to show us but prayer has the power to connect us with the Holy Spirit revealing the paths we should

take a good practical exercise is to set aside a specific time in your day for prayer asking God to reveal his plan for you who knows maybe he has already given you signs that you didn't notice and of course don't forget to include fasting as it can be a powerful tool to strengthen that connection understanding your purpose also means being willing to take small Steps of Faith maybe you won't have a great Revelation right away but that doesn't mean God isn't guiding you try reflecting on areas of your life where you feel peace when active

or where doors start to open naturally for example if you feel a strong desire to help others maybe that's the way and if God has called you to a purpose that involves finances remember money can also be a means to fulfill the divine plan as long as it is managed with wisdom and generosity another crucial aspect of understanding your purpose is remembering that God works in perfect timing often we want to rush the plans but it is important to remember Romans 8:28 where it says that all things work together for the good of those who

love God maybe today you're in a waiting situation but that waiting could be shaping you for something greater don't rush use this time to deepen your prayer life strengthen your relationships and allow God to work on your character after all how can we live out God's purpose if we aren't prepared for it so what has been your biggest challenge in finding and living your purpose many people struggle to recognize the Divine calling because they are distracted or anxious take time to listen to God let him guide your steps and trust that he has a perfect

plan for your life comment below have you been finding it difficult to discover God's purpose for your life how have you been seeking that direction through prayer fasting and spiritual surrender relationships the relationships we cultivate have a profound impact on our spiritual journey Proverbs 13:20 teaches us that whoever walks with the wise becomes wise but a companion of fools suffers harm this shows us how important it is to carefully choose the people we surround ourselves with when we are surrounded by people who draw us closer to God our faith is strengthened but the opposite is

also true friendships that pull us away away from Christian principles can lead us astray have you ever stopped to think do the relationships you are cultivating bring you closer to or further away from God healthy relationships not only strengthen our walk with Christ but also help us grow as individuals if you have friends who share the same Christian values they can encourage advise and even challenge you to be a better version of yourself imagine the power of a friendship that constantly reminds you to pray fast and seek God's Direction in all areas of life a

practical example is having a friend with whom you can read Bible verses together or pray about decisions that need to be made this not only builds you up but also creates a spiritual connection that can change lives on the other hand we need discernment in identifying relationships that can be harmful sometimes we are in the company of people people who do not reflect the love of God in their attitudes and this can negatively influence us without us even realizing it it's not about abandoning everyone who doesn't share the same Faith but about evaluating which ties

are building up your life and which are weakening your connection with God after all we are called to be light but that doesn't mean we should allow the Holy Spirit within us to be extinguished by wrong influences is how have you been protecting your relationships maintaining healthy relationships also requires intentionality just as plants need to be watered to grow our friendships also need care it is essential that in addition to praying for your friends you seek opportunities to share Christ's love with them this can be done through simple gestures like a word of encouragement or

even inviting them to participate in a Bible study or a moment of prayer these actions show that you value both the relationship and the shared spiritual journey so how have you been nurturing and protecting your relationships so that they reflect God's love if you haven't started yet why not evaluate your friendships and start investing in those that strengthen your faith and encourage you to walk with Jesus leave a comment how have you been cultivating friendships that draw you closer to God words the words we speak have extraordinary power both to build up and to destroy

Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that life and death are in the power of the tongue and this makes us reflect on how we have been using this gift that God has given us every conversation is an opportunity to build someone up or to hurt them often without realizing it a poorly chosen word can cause deep harm Jesus teach teaches us that our words reflect what is in our hearts Luke 6:45 have you stopped to think what have your words been reflecting lately if we stop to observe we will notice that many times we fail to use

words as a tool of blessing how often do we find ourselves criticizing someone complaining about situations or even speaking negatively about ourselves but imagine the impact of choosing words of life and wisdom in your daily life What If instead of pointing out faults you chose to encourage and motivate the people around you a simple you can do it or God is with you can transform someone's day practicing conscious use of words is a powerful exercise of faith and love furthermore it is important to remember that what we say also affects our own spiritual walk when

we use words of discouragement or disbelief we may be undermining our faith without realizing it prayer is an excellent anti anote to this as through it we can renew our minds and align our words with God's will a good practice would be to start the day with a prayer asking the holy spirit to guide every word that comes out of your mouth ensuring they bless both others and yourself words are also a form of testimony as Christians we are called to be the light of the world and this is reflected in what we say in

your daily conversations are you being a reflection of Christ imagine the impact you can have if in the middle of an ordinary conversation you bring words of encouragement and Faith a practical example is when talking about difficulties instead of complaining why not remind people that God is in control these simple changes in posture can be a powerful tool for evangelism so how have you been using the power of your words in your daily life are you building up the people around you or allowing your words to bring discouragement leave a comment what has been your

biggest challenge in trying to speak words of life and wisdom forgiveness forgiveness is one of the deepest lessons Jesus taught us and also one of the hardest to practice in Matthew 18 2122 Jesus instructs us to forgive not just seven times but 70 * 7 meaning indefinitely however holding a grudge seems almost natural for human beings who has never felt the weight of an offense and found it hard to Simply forgive but what many do not realize is that forgiveness is not just for the one who has wronged us but also for the one who

was hurt it brings Liberation and healing to our hearts is there someone you need to forgive today when we hold on to grudges we are imprisoning ourselves in a pain that distances us from communion with God Grudge is like a poison we drink expecting the other person to suffer what we often forget is that forgiveness is a choice that frees us from this cycle of bitterness forgiving does not mean forgetting what happened or minimizing the error but giving that pain to God and allowing him to heal us if you have been struggling to forgive start

by giving that difficulty to the Lord in prayer asking the Holy Spirit to transform your heart believe me forgiveness brings peace and renews our faith forgiveness is also Al an act of obedience to God when we choose to forgive we are trusting in Divine Justice not our own Jesus when crucified forgave those who mistreated him demonstrating unconditional love and compassion if he being perfect was able to forgive who are we to refuse to do the same maybe you are in conflict with someone you love and that relationship can only be restored through forgiveness forgiving can

open doors for a reconcil iation you never thought possible however it is important to remember that forgiveness is not a feeling but a decision sometimes the pain will still be there but when we decide to forgive God begins to work in our hearts removing the burden and bringing healing don't cling to the idea that you need to feel forgiveness to offer it start by praying for the person who hurt you even if it's hard a practice iCal example is writing a letter to the person who hurt you even if you don't deliver it expressing your

feelings and handing that pain over to God so how have you been practicing forgiveness in your life forgiving can be challenging but it is liberating leave a comment how has forgiveness impacted your relationships and your walk with God time time is one of the most valuable resources God gives us and the way we use it reveals much about our spiritual prior ities Ephesians 5:116 warns us to make the most of every opportunity because the days are evil how often do we find ourselves wasting time on things that do not feed our spirit or contribute to

the purpose God has for us many times we rush around without even stopping to reflect if we are dedicating enough time to prayer reading the word and communion with God have you ever stopped to evaluate how you've been using the time God has given you you when we talk about time we can't forget that it is limited every minute that passes is a minute that will never come back therefore it is essential that we do an honest analysis of our routines are we putting God first or are we letting the distractions of the world take

up the space that should be his a simple but effective practice is to set aside a specific time in your day to connect with God whether in the morning or at night before bed this not only strengthens your faith but also helps you stay focused on what truly matters another important point is understanding that time dedicated to spiritual growth is an investment with eternal return by setting aside time to read the Bible pray and even fast you are planting seeds of faith that will bear fruit both for your life and for others and this spiritual

return impacts not only your personal life but also your family friends and even your co-workers a practical example is organizing a weekly prayer group with friends or family creating a space to seek God together and strengthen each other however managing time well also means having the wisdom to avoid wasting it how many times do we spend hours on social media or in activities that contribute little to our spiritual growth it's not that these things are necessarily bad but it's important to maintain balance and ensure that God always has priority think of it as a priority

adjustment how about reorganizing your day so that moments with God come before anything else this simple habit can transform your life so how can you reorganize your routine to put God first think about the things that take up most of your time and evaluate if they are aligned with the Divine Purpose for your life leave a comment how have you been striving to make the most of the time God has given you and what could change in your routine emotions our emotions are a fundamental part of who we are but if not well managed they

can distance us from God and from those we love in Ephesians 4:26 27 we are warned not to sin in our anger and this teaches us how important it is to seek emotional balance we all go through moments of anger sadness or anxiety but the question is how have we been dealing with these feelings what many people don't realize is that emotions when poorly controlled can become barriers in our relationship with God have you reflected on how you've been dealing with your emotions in the face of life's challenges seeking emotional control does not mean repressing

what we feel but rather learning to surrender everything to God prayer is a powerful tool for this because when talking to God we can release our frustrations and anxieties and allow the Holy Spirit to bring us peace and Direction a practical example is when feeling overwhelmed by a negative emotion stop and pray asking God to help you see the situation with Clarity and calmness believe me surrendering your emotions to God can completely transform how you react to Life's challenges another crucial point is that our emotions directly affect our Rel relationships when we allow anger or

hurt to take over we end up hurting the people around us in such moments it is essential to ask the Holy Spirit to give us self-control this can be practiced in simple daily actions before responding to someone in a tense moment pause take a deep breath and ask God for wisdom to choose your words carefully small gestures like this prevent bigger conflicts and strengthen relationships emotions like fear and anxiety can also distance us from living fully in God's purpose for our lives many times we avoid acting out of fear of failure fear of being judged

or fear of stepping out of our comfort zone but God has called us to a life of courage and Faith a practical example of facing fear is remembering verses that speak about God's care and protection like Isaiah 41 10o not fear for I Am With You memorizing these words and using them in moments of distress can help control fear and bring peace to the heart so what emotions do you feel you need to surrender to God we all have emotional areas that need healing and balance leave a comment how have you been seeking self-control in

your emotions and how has this affected your walk with Christ mirrors mirrors reflect much more than just our physical appearance every time we look in the mirror it's an opportunity to also reflect on Who We Are spiritually in 2 Corinthians 3:18 we are called to reflect the glory of Christ in our lives what does that mean it means that just as a mirror reflects our image our attitudes and actions should reflect Christ to the world around us but are we doing that are our daily attitudes reflecting the character of Jesus have you stopped to think

about what the spiritual mirror is showing you this exercise of introspection doesn't need to be complicated each morning when you look in the mirror you can say a brief prayer asking God to help you reflect the image of Christ throughout the day imagine the impact that could have on your daily Attitudes by adopting this practice you will constantly remind yourself that you are an ambassador of Christ in every action word and choice you make small gestures like a genuine smile or a word of encouragement can reflect the love of Jesus to those around you but

reflecting Christ doesn't mean being perfect we all make mistakes and sometimes the mirror reveals areas in our lives that need transformation the good news is that the Holy Spirit Works in US shaping our character and helping us grow spiritually that's why every time we Face our flaws we have the chance to surrender to God and ask him to transform us when was the last time you looked into the spiritual mirror and reflected on the changes God wants to make in you this self-reflection is also an invitation to evaluate how we are impacting others if our

behaviors and attitudes reflect the image of Christ they have the power to inspire others to seek God whether at work with family or with friends we can be a living reflection of Jesus love patience and mercy a practical example is when faced with a conflict situation instead of reacting with anger choosing to demonstrate understanding and compassion these small acts make a huge difference in the lives of those around us so how have you been reflecting the glory of God in your life are your daily attitudes showing the love of Christ leave a comment which area

of your life do you feel needs more transformation to reflect Jesus image even more salt Jesus calls us to be the salt of the earth in Matthew 5:13 a rich metaphor that reminds us of our role as Christians salt has various functions it purifies preserves and gives flavor just as salt prevents food from spoiling we are also called to preserve spiritual truth and Purity in this world in a time when values seem increasingly corrupted it is our responsibility to maintain the spiritual flavor through prayer communion with the Holy Spirit and studying the word of God

have you been salt in the lives of those around you being the salt of the earth does doesn't mean we have to do great things every day but rather be intentional in the small actions that can impact others when you choose to show love instead of reacting with impatience you are being a reflection of Christ when you choose to be honest even in difficult situations you are preserving spiritual Purity around you a practical example would be encouraging someone with words of Faith and Hope instead of joining in the usual complaints of everyday life every act

of kindness is a way of seasoning the world with God's love salt also has the function of provoking thirst when our actions reflect God's love they awaken in others the desire to know more about him people may not immediately understand but they see something different in those who live according to Christ's principles have you ever stopped to think how many times you've been a positive influence even without realizing it if someone has asked you about your faith or why you act a certain way that may have been a direct reflection of the spiritual flavor you

carry how about praying and asking God to help you be even more intentional in your daily actions however if we're not careful we can lose that spiritual flavor this happens when we distance ourselves from God neglect prayer and get involved in things that don't build us up that's why Jesus warns about salt losing its flavor to avoid this we need to constantly renew ourselves in God's presence through prayer reading the word and moments of reflection a practical suggestion is to include group Bible study moments where you can share experiences and learn from other Christians so

how have you been maintaining spiritual flavor in your life in what way have your actions and words impacted those around you leave a comment how have you been salt in the lives of those around you rest rest is a Divine gift that we often neglect amidst the rush of daily life in Psalm 48 we are reminded in peace I will lie down and sleep for you alone Lord Make Me dwell in safety this verse shows us that rest goes beyond the physical it involves complete trust in God many times even when exhausted we allow anxiety

and worries to steal our sleep but have we really been resting in God or are we letting the pressures of Life occupy the space of Peace he offers us resting in God means trusting that he is in control even when circumstances seem out of order this doesn't mean we won't face challenges but that we can give them to God and find rest for our souls a practice that can help is praying before bed giving your worries and anxieties to the Lord so that sleep can be restorative just as a comfortable mattress supports the body prayer

supports the spirit allowing you to lie down in peace and wake up renewed ready to face a new day with Jesus spiritual rest is also essential for maintaining our mental and emotional health when we neglect this practice the pressures of daily life can consume us draining our energy and even our faith that's why Jesus invites Us in Matthew 11:28 come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest this rest goes beyond a simple night's sleep it is a deep rest that renews the soul perhaps you not only need

more hours of sleep but also a daily moment of spiritual rest a time to disconnect from worries and reconnect with God for many the concept of rest may seem like a luxury especially in a society that values work and productivity above all but remember even God rested on the seventh day after creating the world if the creator of the universe thought it important to take time to rest how much more should we who carry daily tensions perhaps a practical step is to reorganize your schedule to include moments of rest with God whether through meditation on

the word prayer or even fasting to renew your spirit so how have you been seeking spiritual rest amid daily worries have you been allowing God to renew you during sleep and also in moments of quietness leave a comment how have you been seeking the rest God offers and how has it impacted your walk with Christ pockets and wallets the way we manage our financial resources reveals where our heart is in Matthew 6:21 Jesus reminds us that where your treasure is there your heart will be also often worries about money can lead us away from Full

trust in God money itself is not the problem but how we view it and how it affects our decisions have you stopped to reflect are you trusting more in money than in God have you been using the resources he has entrusted to you to bless others and honor his name managing finances well is an act of faith and obedience to God when we choose to be faithful in tithes and offerings we demonstrate our trust that he is the one who provides everything we need many times this requires sacrifices but it is precisely in these moments

that God Reveals His himself in his faithfulness a practical way to exercise this faith is by reviewing your finances and setting a generosity plan is there room in your budget to bless someone in need or to contribute to the growth of God's work generosity is a powerful tool in the hands of a Christian what we often forget is that money is not just a means to meet our needs but also a way to be good stewards of what God has given us this means we must be careful when making financial decisions seeking Divine wisdom to

avoid pitfalls like unnecessary debt or imprudent use of resources praying before making financial decisions may seem simple but it can make all the difference have you thought about including God in your daily financial decisions he cares about every detail of your life including what's in your pockets and wallets besides being a reflection of our faith the way we use our money can also deeply impact the lives of others when we invest our resources in causes that spread the gospel or help someone in need we are literally spreading God's love in a practical way an example

of this could be supporting missionaries financially helping local Ministries or more directly meeting the needs of a family going through a difficult time God blesses us so we can be a bless ing in the lives of others so how have you been managing the resources God has entrusted to you have you been using money to advance his purpose or have you been caught up in worldly worries leave a comment how have you practice generosity and faithfulness with the resources God has placed in your hands locks locks symbolize protection and spiritual discernment just as we lock

our doors to prevent Intruders from entering we we must also guard our hearts and Minds from influences that can distance us from God Proverbs 4:23 advises us to guard our hearts for everything we do flows from it have you been exercising this spiritual discernment in your daily life have you been filtering what enters your life whether through people social media or even the thoughts you entertain protecting your spiritual life involves daily choices just as we decide to lock our doors to ensure physical safety we also need to be intentional about locking the doors of our

minds and Spirits against negative influences a practical example of this is evaluating what you are consuming in terms of content whether in movies music or even conversations with friends if something does not build up your faith maybe it's time to reconsider whether it's worth allowing that into your life prayer can be a powerful key in this process helping you discern what should or shouldn't be allowed on your journey with God on the other hand sometimes we have locked doors in areas that God is trying to access there are parts of our lives that out of

fear or hurt we end up closing off to the transforming touch of the Holy Spirit God may be knocking on areas you prefer to keep hidden like unconfessed sin or an unhealed emotional wound however by by opening these areas to him we experience healing and renewal ask yourself is there any area of your life that you have kept locked preventing God from working spiritual discernment doesn't just mean protecting yourself from external influences but also opening yourself to what is good just as we lock doors to prevent strangers from entering we also need to open doors

to allow the word of God prayer and fellowship with other Christians in a good exercise would be to evaluate what are you letting into your life daily are you allowing the holy spirit to guide your decisions or are there closed doors that need to be unlocked so how have you been exercising spiritual discernment in your life which doors do you need to lock and which do you need to open for God leave a comment how have you been protecting your spiritual life and allowing God to work in areas that are still locked plants plants are

a beautiful metaphor for our spiritual life in John 15:5 Jesus reminds us that he is the vine and we are the branches just as plants need constant care to grow strong and healthy our faith also needs to be regularly nurtured when we neglect prayer studying the word and communion with God it is as if we are leaving our spiritual plant without water or light have you been Watering your faith as often as necessary to see spiritual fruits or are there areas of your life that are withering from lack of care each season of our spiritual

life has a purpose just as plants go through periods of planting growing blooming and harvesting maybe you are in a planting phase where God is working on your character planting seeds of patience love and faith but remember these seeds need to be watered daily a practical example is setting aside time to read the Bible every day and seek Direction in prayer pray Additionally you can fertilize your spiritual life by participating in Bible study groups or surrounding yourself with people who share the same Faith planting also requires patience many times we don't see the fruits immediately

but that doesn't mean nothing is happening God works in his own time and sometimes spiritual growth happens silently like the roots growing underground during this time it is is important not to become discouraged keep cultivating your faith even if the results aren't visible yet an example is persevering in fasting or prayer for something you have been asking God for a long time remember every prayer is like a drop of water that nourishes your spiritual plant just as a plant needs light to grow our faith needs to be exposed to the Light of Christ This Means

seeking to live according to jesus' teachings in all areas of life allowing him to illuminate our steps just as a plant leans toward the sun to seek light our soul should lean toward God's presence have you been allowing the Light of Christ to shine on every area of your life maybe it's time to adjust your spiritual posture and seek more of his light in moments of worship and meditation on the word so how have you been cultivating your spiritual life have you seen the fruits of your growth in Christ or do you feel you need

to nurture your faith more leave a comment how have you been caring for your spiritual life and what have you seen flourish through your relationship with God books books are one of the most powerful sources of wisdom and inspiration especially when we talk about the Bible which is the Living Word of God John 1 one reminds us that in the beginning was the word and the Word was with God and the Word was God reading the the scriptures is not just a religious practice but a true connection with the Holy Spirit who guides and transforms

us through the sacred words have you set aside time to dive into the scriptures allowing them to renew your mind and feed your spirit what was the last book of the Bible you studied in depth in addition to the Bible there are many other books that can build up our walk with Christ works by great Christian authors can help us better understand our faith and apply it in Practical situations ations for example books like the Pilgrim's Progress by John bunan or in his steps by Charles Sheldon are Classics that Inspire Christians to reflect on how

to live a life according to the principles of the Gospel reading is growth and just as our prayers strengthen the spirit reading can be a powerful complement to our spiritual journey reading good books also helps us face life's challenges with wisdom imagine facing a difficulty without having the clarity that comes from a mind renewed by the word of God and by the lessons other Christians have shared in their Works a good book can offer New Perspectives open our eyes to Solutions we hadn't considered and most importantly connect us more deeply with God if you don't

yet have the habit of reading Why not start with a book that strengthens your faith like the purpose-driven Life by Rick Warren but it's important to choose carefully what we read just as we carefully choose what nourishes our bodies just as we don't consume any kind of food we also shouldn't allow just any content to fill our minds books that do not build up that draw us away from God or that fill our minds with doubts and uncertainties should be avoided pray for wisdom to choose books that align with Christ's values and that can bring

you closer to him him not further away so what have you been reading lately is your reading aligned with the values of God's kingdom or is it something that does not contribute to your spiritual growth leave a comment which book has impacted your life the most recently and how did it draw you closer to God now that you know the nine things you should never accept from anyone it's time to act it's not enough to just have the knowledge it's essential to apply it in your life to see transformation ask yourself which of these behaviors

have you been allowing into your life that need to be eliminated today change begins when we make firm and conscious decisions don't allow harmful behaviors to affect your purpose or your faith so why not start the change now comment below which of these points impacted you the most and what you plan to do to change your reality oh and don't forget to keep learning and growing stronger subscribe to the channel and turn on notifications that way you won't miss any updates and can continue growing in wisdom and faith