what's up bro what's up G where you calling from man I'm I I used to live in Cali but I [ __ ] live in Iowa right now bro how old are you I'm 23 okay what can I help you with man I'm pretty down bad bro I dropped like 10K at the strip club a couple months ago bro like I I haven't had sex since like high school type [ __ ] okay let's talk about that why did you drop 10K at a strip club I'm I be gambling the [ __ ] bro so
like when I win I hit the strip you know what I'm saying in Iowa I in Madison Wisconsin I you spent $10,000 on a strip club in in in in Madison yeah what to do what to smash I I don't know bro like there's no [ __ ] around me bro so I just I don't know dude so you smash you smash some strippers for TK I used to do that but no I just like one chick bro I just like she like look look how hold up hold up James you you used to give
girls money the [ __ ] yeah like like two or three years ago when I was living in Cali so what's what how are you doing that bro there's always money when you a gambler bro you know what I'm saying but like so you give you would just give girls money to smash pretty much yeah where would you meet these girls there there was there was a spot in La it's a strip club they like [ __ ] there type [ __ ] oh so you've been you just been paying for ass for the longest
I mean yeah bro I've only had one like real chick in high school that [ __ ] sad don't you think I mean in the moment not really but now like yeah in the moment not really there's nowhere in the moment I'm gonna be looking at myself giving a girl $10,000 to [ __ ] and I won't be slapping myself bro like because like I've been watching your [ __ ] you you be saying like pick a struggle like that's kind of like what I'm like I got so many struggles that like I okay what
are the what are the other struggles let understand let's see let's see let's see if you let's see the physique bro all right this this what I'm working with right now put prop prop the phone up man prop the phone up you just you're angling it prop it up somewhere so I can and you can no no no no not with your hand just put it somewhere all right you got it I don't know what that is I don't even know what to describe it it's it's it's just the body that's there right it ain't
much is going on right do you even go to the gym no I don't what the hell are you doing with your life at home bro so I work in sales right now I'm a car salesman so as a car salesman how much money are you making well I just started at like two months so not much right now but so who you living with right now your mama my aunt yeah Jesus Christ I don't I don't go to the gym fit I don't go to the gym I live with my aunt I I pay
for booty I spend 10K on a stripper so what what exactly is good with your life right now I mean [ __ ] not [ __ ] really bro like I like I don't know dude are you watching porn yeah I do yeah how often like five times a week five you got time to watch bro CU like pretty I go to work I come home you beat pretty I mean pretty much bro but how is how are you I want you first thing I want you go get your testosterone check something has to be
wrong with you something has to be something has to be there's no way there's no way as a man you got all these problems you're paying for [ __ ] you're you're not in good shape you're broke and you have high testosterone that's literally impossible and you beat your dick every day your testosterone has to be cuz you have no ambition do you smoke wheat no I don't I don't I don't smoke wheat do you drink I do I do how often do you drink like what every every day pretty much you drink every day
yeah how's that even possible I you just [ __ ] get the [ __ ] liquor and you start drinking drink those sorrows away bro I don't know so you go you after work you drink I mean not I mean yeah pretty much you don't have a dad bro you have a father I do but like he don't we don't he don't really [ __ ] with me I'm not shocked why doesn't he [ __ ] with you I mean just don't have a good relationship bro when did y'all stop having a good relationship like
14 15 okay so he's he's not he hasn't really been that's that's why man he's left you astray and you you've become a [ __ ] pretty much bro I I be [ __ ] with your [ __ ] you know what I'm saying what you be saying I appreciate that so the first order of business we got a lot of orders of business the first order of business is you need to stop gambling Dam gambling is is is is an addiction that [ __ ] [ __ ] up my hey F that [ __
] [ __ ] up my life bro like real talk like I bet I bet how much money have you lost gambling like 200k 500k I don't know dude so much like so much bro get 500k you got it from gambling yeah and then you just BW it away pretty much bro when you don't have actual skills and you just make money like this you lose money like this the fast way you make it the fast way you lose it okay so listen that competitive spirit that you got in gambling why don't you have that
competitive spirit in your life why don't you start going to the gym consistently let's start there the gym will save your life bro the gym the gym the gym just being consistent with the promise that you made to your damn self telling yourself that I'm going to go to the gym out for my own self four days a week that that that that'll help you create some structure all right sign up for the damn gym tomorrow the nearest one to you upper lower uper lower you you gonna be in that [ __ ] four days
a week for sure okay yeah now the next order of business is is the masturbation okay but I don't think I can stop that I'm gonna be real bro like if i a m how because I get no woman bro so how how am I supposed to release you don't think you could stop being your dick I I don't think I can bro you don't think you can stop watching another man have sex no cause I I get no [ __ ] bro so how how is a man supposed to release you know what I'm
you go put in that time that that horniness you feel right to beat your dick and watch watch uh the big black dude get some ass you go you go and you go approach a girl do you like girl yeah I do I do I do I do you just told me you can't stop watching another dude have sex that's that's weird that's kind of weird to me guys y'all can't watch I can't stop beating my dick to another man getting some booty that's wild yeah that is pretty wild okay so listen the way you
stop this is every you need to you need to create consequences for watching porn make it so hard for yourself to watch porn remove the triggers that force you to watch porn right the booty shaking videos gota go for sure the following Instagram models gotta go the sites on your phone block them get a porn blocker app to change your own life if you don't want to change your own life bro this got nothing to do with me you can still be a loser to if you if you want to be better you got to
start taking Massive Action to start being better today and now you got to put that immense effort into being actually better go start talking to girls get on dating apps right whenever you feel horny it's time to go talk to women it's time to go put yourself in front of a woman when's the last time you approached a girl I had a girl approach me and like I kind of fumbled was at the casino like about a month ago she approached me yeah how you doing I kind of just choked I I I don't approach
woman bro I don't so a girl talked to you and that's that pornography in your head it got you it just fried your brain cells she approached you in the in the in the casino you saw she wasn't trying to get some money no no no no no she just chilling like she trying to hit my cigarette and I gave it to her and then we just started talking and I just like choked I don't know so you just scared of girls in general pretty much yeah I would be careful a woman at the casino
though bro that's not a good sign right yeah I I'll be careful those those are not the girls that I want you to be talking to Let's gold digger 101 okay so listen to me listen to me listen to me right we gotta stop being a loser at some point you gota decide that I'm I'm I'm tired of this [ __ ] I'm pretty down bad bro that's why it's hard to get out the r but yeah no you gotta start you gotta start yeah you gotta start and today is a day so no more
gambling no more spending $110,000 on strippers start going to gym four days a week start talking to women be more social right get your money up and start doing better with your life okay man have it going