You mean what I'm doing here? It's my house. I thought you I thought you guys weren't even together.
No. Hell yeah, we together 23 years. You know what?
What? The phone is too much. What is going Why is it not like Why are you taking a guy back to our house?
Why you taking a guy back to our house? Not that deep, bro. Hey, [music] what are you doing here?
Just figured I'd swing in and see what you're doing here. I'm here with somebody. I know.
I just saw him go to the bathroom. Hi. Hey.
How you doing? Nice to meet you. You, too.
Oh my god. This car is old and dingy. It's stink in here.
And I'm cold. How do you get around in this thing? Jesus.
Where we going? Did you make reservations? I'm vegan.
I can't just eat anything. You know what I mean? I'm glutenree.
I got a lot to watch my figure with. We are. This is the restaurant.
This is it. Okay. You going to change?
You got to put a different jacket on. Let's go. Come on.
Hurry up. What are you doing? Get out the car, [ __ ] [laughter] Babe, I can [music] explain.
That boy is just a friend from school. He's just an old friend from I listen to me. I can I say I am so sorry.
Cheating women getting caught. Some deny, [music] some cry, some run. But one woman's reaction at the end, it's unforgettable.
Stick around to see what happens when the evidence is so clear she can't even speak. Let's go. You mean what I'm doing?
It's my house. What? I thought you I thought you guys weren't even together.
No. Hell yeah, we together. 23 years.
What? The phone is too much. What is going on?
What do you mean the phone is too much? You were separated. Hell no, we not separated, man.
We got two kids together. You ain't telling nothing. I ain't putting down nothing.
This going on Facebook live. Where you got to go? What the plate, too?
Are you filming this? Yes, I'm filming this. Look what we got here.
We got champagne, strawberry, orange juice. Oh, look over here, Facebook. We got some bacon, grits, so much pancakes, eggs.
Get all your stuff. What? Wait, are you filming?
Yeah, I'm filming this. Why? What?
What? Why wouldn't I film this? I'mma post it.
Facebook live. Let's go live, everybody. Come.
Why do you think I found out? 23 years at the house. The neighbors told me, "Dil I have a wife and kids.
" Hey man, that sound like a personal problem, man. Tell this woman to pack my fool up and pay her cuz you know my fool is important to me. You not important to me no more.
Your ass is fire. I'm a hustle all I'm old school. Give me my I've been school all my life.
I'mma be one to the day I die. If you can't accept it, get your ass to stepping. And I mean that.
Cuz [ __ ] I take care of you. I take good care of you. I buy your house.
You don't work. I pay your bill. I do everything as long long as your ass is.
He doesn't want to hear that. He don't want to hear that. He wants to do.
Is he wrong for feeling like that? He paid all the bills. They probably married for the past 5, 10, 20, 30 years.
He paid for everything. And then she wants to go cheat on him. What kind of stuff is this?
What's wrong with the world? It bothers me when I see people, especially men, right? Be loyal to a female, loyal to your wife, and then she cheats on you.
You paying all her bills, you give her a house to stay in, and she cheats on you. I just think it's messed up. And like, I wish love was more fear.
And then they divorce you and then they still take half. They take half of what they didn't help you build. That's the part that bugs me out the most where it's like that's why I ain't married and that's why I'm single.
That's why I got no kids. But let me know in the comments. Is he wrong for feeling the way he feels after she cheated on him?
Took his money and then still cheated on him. She This man paid for everything, the house, the bills, all of it. And she cheated on him, and now she's going to get half of what he built in the divorce.
That's absolutely insane. He took care of her. She didn't even work.
He gave her a house, security, stability, and she repaid that with infidelity. You're not important to me no more. Your ass is fired.
Correct. She destroyed the relationship by cheating. She doesn't deserve his support anymore.
Sit up straight. [laughter] Hunching over. I know.
[ __ ] Well, sit up straight. All right. You ready?
Remove the blindfold. Yeah. That's you cheating on me.
So, get the my house right now. I'm glad you drove an hour for reason. And this is going on YouTube, sweetheart.
I know you don't care. [clears throat] Get out. Get out of my house right now.
Leave. I got a front and back picture of your ID. Leave.
Leave and leave. Huh? Hey, Zoe.
I'm leaving to meet with the guys. Okay. Okay.
I'll be back in maybe a couple hours. Okay. Have fun.
All right. All right. Drve safe.
Okay. Hey. Um, Zach just left, so I have a couple hours if you want to come over real quick.
What are you doing? I was on the phone with mom. Yeah.
Yeah, she I don't think so. You were talking to mom. [clears throat] You know what, Zoe?
I catch you on dating apps. Bunch of them. You know what?
Who the [ __ ] were you talking to? Who were you talking to? Huh?
[music] Hey, what are you doing here? Just figured I'd swing in and see what you're doing here. I'm here with somebody.
I know. I just saw him go to the bathroom. No, I cannot.
That's so disrespectful. Stop eating his food. I'm good.
[music] It's a little bit of a fufu drink, wouldn't you say? [music] I I can't believe you right now. You need to go.
I think I should stay right here until he comes. You are not staying here. We are not.
Does he know you're married? Does he have any idea you're married? No, let's not have a fight out here.
[music] Always. I'm good. Let's wait.
I'm I'm okay. I'll be here. I'll wait for you to come back.
Have fun. Do you know the level of composure, but also the high level of diabolicalness you have to be to pull off what that guy did? I mean, your wife's cheating on you and instead of raging, instead of flipping the table, you sit down and you start munching on the food.
Now that guy deserves a high five cuz we all know, right? When men get cheated on, they take it worse. It It's a wound.
It It makes them feel like it's a direct insult into who they are as people. Okay, so just to have that much composure and you know, [ __ ] enjoy a smoothie while doing it. I'm proud of that, man.
And I pray that that kind of love never finds any of you. This woman showed up with another man, was eating her husband's food, and when he calmly asked, "Does he know you're married? " she froze.
The panic on her face says everything. She couldn't even answer the question because the answer was an O. She lied to her affair partner about her marriage status and her husband.
That's composure right there. He didn't flip out, didn't yell, didn't make a scene. He just sat down and ate while watching her squirm.
Caught me cheating but asked me to continue the affair if that is what makes me happy. I'm a 28 years old female who has been married to my husband for 3 years. I am a chef and my husband is into it.
So I'm usually the one that goes to work and my husband works from home. I work with one of these big hotel in Lagos. At my office place, there's this coworker of mine that be asking me out right from the very first day I started working there.
But I didn't give him face because I mean I'm married and I love my husband and my husband is everything [music] everything I want in a man. But this coworker of mine didn't give up. I've been working in that place for 2 years and for that 2 years this [music] guy has been asking me out at give you opportunity.
Even that I am a chief, there are some days I'm on money shift and there are some days I'm on night shift. [music] And I thought I could withstand this guy because I feel like, you know, I'm married and I love my husband. So I didn't see any reason why I would cheat on my husband.
When it comes to bedroom activities, my husband is good. I like doing it with him. But for the case of my coworker, [music] this guy is on a different level.
Like he understand my body. Like when I'm doing it with him, I don't want to stop. There's a particular way he does it that I cannot understand.
like I am on fire. He knows what to do. He knows where to touch and I enjoy it with him.
But the minute I am done, I start [music] to feel guilty. This particular day when I was done with work, of course, I did it with him. When I was done with work, I went home.
I just went straight to the shower. I just wanted to have my bath and sleep and [music] try to forget about the Of course, I was feeling guilty. When I finished having my shower, I came out and I saw my husband standing looking at me with my phone in his hand.
I was asking him, "Honey, what is it eating poke? " He was just looking at me. Then I collected my phone.
Lo and behold, it was it was the message that my coworker sent me how he was telling me that he cannot wait to see me the next time we will be on shift so that we can, you know, get out. The guy was just expressing himself and unfortunately for me, my husband saw it. My husband didn't talk.
My husband didn't shout. Of course, I nailed and I started begging. The only question my husband asked me was, "Did you enjoy it?
" I said, "Yes, I did. But at the same time, I feel guilty. " You know, I was just trying to make my husband understand that I don't know what came over me.
I tried to stop it. You know, emotions were all over the place. I was crying.
I was kning. I was begging. He just asked me, "Did you enjoy it?
" I said, "Yes. " This man just kissed me on the forehead. And he said, "Okay, so long it makes you happy.
You can go ahead. " That is what he said. It's been days now I've been begging my husband to forgive me, trying to make him understand that it was all a mistake.
I didn't mean to do it. I didn't mean I didn't mean to cheat on him and all of those things. But my husband is still repeating the same thing, asking me that am I happy?
Did it make me happy? Did that affair I have with my coworker, did it make me happy? That if that is what makes me happy, I should continue.
That doesn't have a problem with it. And I am surprised because I know how a a typical man act, a typical Nigerian man act, especially when it concern a woman that they love. But for the case of my husband, he's acting the opposite.
Now, I'm thinking that he's planning something because it's been weeks now and he's still acting normal. He still kisses me on the forehead. He still calls me when I'm at work.
He's still acting normal. And for me it is off. I think he's I think he's planning something.
What do you guys think? Because at this point I am scared. This woman [snorts] cheated on her husband for how long?
And when he caught her with a text message instead of breaking down and begging. She's worried about what he's planning. Girl, he's not planning anything.
He's already gone. Did you enjoy it? Isn't him forgiving you?
That's him detaching from you. He kissed your forehead and said, "If it makes you happy, continue because he doesn't care anymore. " She admits the coworker is better at sex.
She knows it's wrong. She cheated repeatedly. And now when her husband responds with calmness instead of anger, she's scared.
Interrupt for a second. Hold on. Very nice.
What? You said you weren't going to interrupt us. You took a seat.
You're still interrupted. I thought interrupting. I thought we were chilling.
We was all hanging. Now it's the week before [ __ ] Valentine's Day. Isn't that nice?
Yes. It's so nice. Did you lose one?
Like seriously, this is really embarrassing. You know what? Because look, go ahead.
Take Let me get a picture of you guys for you. Matter of fact, what a great day. What a great ending to a fabulous day.
See you later, Kai. Oh man. Bye guys.
Bye Kai. Peace out. Kai.
Bye Kai. Can you believe that Kai? Hey, I can explain that boy is just a friend from school who he's just an old friend from Bab.
Listen to me. Your old friend from I am so sorry, baby. I'm really sorry, babe.
Babe, I can you barely even give me attention. What am I supposed to do? You don't even talk to me.
Are you Are you Am I not getting here? I'm really sorry. I'm really sorry.
I'm really sorry. I don't touch baby. I'm sorry.
Please don't tell me I'm supposed here folks. Why are you following me? Why are you recording me?
What are you doing here? Why are you recording me? Say hi.
Hi. Facebook. Hello.
What you doing here? What's your name here? I told you I was going to be Tiffany.
Oh, Tiffany. Yeah. So, um, what about Mitchell?
The personal trainer. You don't know what I'm talking Huh? You don't know who I'm talking about.
Mitchell? No. You don't The one you sent your lips to.
You don't remember that one. So, you've been going through [music] my phone. No, I miss you.
I practice your mother to test you. What? I I'll try to test you.
I need you. It's wild. What's this?
Huh? What's that? What's that?
[music] Huh? What's that? Wait, what does it matter?
Like why are you taking a guy back to our house? Why you taking a guy back to our house? Bro, who is this?
You said you had a girl night out and you walked back with a guy to your house. It's one of my friends. Who is this, bro?
Who are you? Her boyfriend. We live in the same house.
Who are you? Why are you going back to the girl's house? You were out of town this weekend.
Yeah, and I got home early. Who is this? We've been dating 5 years and we live together.
You coming back to my house? What? You're coming back to my house?
What are y'all going to do? Where have you been all day? You turn your location off.
I'm supposed to believe you. I'm supposed to trust you now. Well, anything you want to tell me.
I'm going to get all your stuff and put it outside. Y'all can go somewhere. I pro house is my name.
House is in my name. No. This woman said she had a girl's night out and was out of town.
Turned her location off and came back to the house with another man. The deception is absolutely blatant. Her boyfriend comes home early and catches her red-handed.
And when confronted, she's like, "It's just my friend. " Girl, if it was just a friend, why did you lie about your location? We've been dating 5 years.
5 years. And you repay that with bringing men to his house. Hey there.
What the is going on? Why isn't my key working? Cuz while you're away this weekend, I changed the locks.
You weren't on a work trip. You were out with some guy. I'm hot.
I need to pee. Let me in this house right now. No.
Stop and open the goddamn door right now. [ __ ] I found your Bumble. Stop lying.
Stop. Let me in the goddamn house right now. Hey, what's up?
Hey, are you at your house, right? Um, yeah. Why?
Uh, because I got off early for work and I'm here. I wanted to take Wait, what? I got off work early.
I want to take you to lunch. So, if you're ready, you I'm not I'm not wearing anything like nice, so you can just come out. Okay.
Well, like I just left like a couple minutes ago. You told me you're going to be at home though all day. I know.
Well, like I just made like quick plans with one of my friends and like I just left. Okay. Where are you going?
We're just going to lunch. With who? Jessica.
Okay. Um, how long are y'all going to be doing that? I don't know.
Maybe like a couple hours. Like it's lunch. I mean Okay.
Because Are you really with Jessica or you with the guy? What are you talking about? Are you with the guy?
No, I'm not. I just told you I was with Jessica. Because you turn off your location so I can't even see where you're at and you don't tell me you're going.
So, are you with the guy? Okay. What's the big deal?
God. Because I put your photo in this website. And it told me you're on all these dating apps and now I come to see and you're with a guy.
I come to talk to you about it and you're with a guy. Can you calm down? You're being so dramatic.
Okay. Well, we're done. Okay.
Have fun on your little date. No. You're telling me that a woman has to go work like a man every day.
And a man goes work and he's tired when he gets home. A woman's not tired. She has to clean, cook, do the dishes, do the laundry.
Are you kidding me? Why don't you want to do that? What are you talking about?
Why don't I tiring that is? Have you done that? First of all, I do it every day.
First of all, do not choose a woman who don't want to be a woman. Right? So, you don't want to be a woman.
You don't want to be a woman. Yelling doesn't mean you're winning an argument. It's a sign of low intelligence.
You can lower your voice and speak to me. I'm sitting right here. I can hear you.
All this, oh, I cook and I clean and like, yeah, that's part of your function. But when your tire is flat, my function is to make sure you have a new tire. When your car need an oil change, it's my job to make sure these people ain't ripping you off.
We have different duties and functions and responsibilities. And if you don't love your duty, your function, your responsibility, you're not fit to be a white period. If he's out there making the money, paying the bills, keeping a roof over her head, the least she can do is manage the house.
That's the trade-off. She can't sit at home, have him pay for everything, and then complain about doing basic household stuff. That's literally her job.
If he's the provider, she wants to work like a man and be provided for like a woman. Nah, pick one. If you're staying home and he's working, the housework is on you.
That's fair exchange. I'm going to go to the house that I saw you in for the past 4 hours that you told me that you were going to be working overtime. So, me and you are going to go to the house and then we're going to knock on the door and then we're going to see why you were inside this house with 4 hours.
What are you talking about? Because I had a tracker on your car and you put a tracker. I did put a tracker on your heart because I had a feeling I ran your face on a Sherlock and I saw that you were cheating on me.
Oh my gosh. This isn't even I'm not even cheating on you. So, I don't know what you're talking about.
Like, what are you doing? Okay. So, why are you so afraid that we're going to go into these houses, right?
Well, because it's just kind of ridiculous. You don't know anything. I'm not going anywhere.
I'm not going anywhere. What are you talking about? I'm not going anywhere.
So you can like turn around and let's go home. No, I'm not going. Like seriously, stop.
What do you mean we're not together? Don't we have a kid, bro? We do have a kid.
We have a Are you guys together or not? Oh, we're not together. Keep saying that.
No, I'm a liar. Who the And then you have her like your baby. Are you for real?
Do we have a kid? Oh my god. Get the out.
Get the out. I sent my 13-year-old son to live with his dad. And people keep asking me how much I'm going to pay in child support.
Not a mother freaking thing. Why would I give him anything? You should have chose better.
I don't have it. I'm going have to wait till I get paid on Friday. And if anything, you can just take me down child support like I did you.
And then we can wait two years. Then when they try to tell me how much to send, what I'm gonna do is go quit my job. And I'm going to tell them that I'm now a barber and I'm barely making it.
I only get like two clients a day, if that. And you know how much food is. You know how much gas is.
I can't afford to take care of no child. I could barely afford to take care of myself. So, you know what they going to tell me?
The same way they told you? $50 a month. That's all I got.
This woman sent her 13-year-old son to his father and refuses to pay child support. And she's bragging about how she's going to quit her job to evade court orders. The irresponsibility is absolutely disgusting.
Why would I give him anything? Because it's your child. You don't get to abandon him and keep all your money.
She's literally planning fraud. I'm going to quit my job and say I'm a barber making nothing. That's illegal.
