Not Texting You Back? How to RE-IGNITE HER INTEREST

if you're texting the girl and she's slowly taking longer and longer and longer to respond it's probably like 10 your text game but i really say it's like 80 to 90 is just so you're getting a flaky half shitty phone number where the girl gave out her phone number but she doesn't even really have an interest or a desire in seeing you again and now you're texting her every so often and she's slowly ghosting you because she really wasn't that interested to begin with as opposed to running a really good interaction minimal texting and calling

in between and just getting her out on that date and really running a good date and then from there you're in a position where she'll be excited to see you on that next date and you're in a position where you could properly run a good courtship if you're texting the girl and she's slowly taking longer and longer and longer to respond it's probably like 10 your text game but i really say it's like 80 to 90 percent is just she wasn't that into you to begin with you started out with a [ __ ] half-assed

flaky number to begin with probably because you just didn't run the interaction well enough and now she's not that excited to see you and she starts texting you and now the longer the amount of time that goes by the more the vibe is fizzling out even more or maybe she even had no desire to even see you to begin with she just politely gave you the phone number and she's slowly just dragging it out so it inevitably fizzles out more and more and more and more and more if you're in a position where you're at

that point where the number isn't strong and you can't text the girl a bunch what i recommend doing i reach out like once or twice a week and it's usually either like a video of me doing some cool [ __ ] or it's an invitation for her and her friends to come join me to do something over the weekend i'm rarely just blowing up this girl's phone with hey beautiful what's up how was your day that's like [ __ ] meaningless texts that aren't going to get you that far in the back and forth you

have no value built up you have no like capital to spend so the way you can kind of keep it neutral is by anytime you're in communication with her it's inviting her to do something cool it's showing her that something fun's going on it's conveying you have a cool fun lifestyle that if she were to come out it's cool it's like what's some bored [ __ ] loser that's like hey beautiful how's your day going oh tell me all about it oh my god no way you just sound lame and you're too available and she's

like i don't i don't i'm not excited by this guy he's not cool i have no desire to [ __ ] see him let me just give it a little bit of time and spread out my text messages so the vibe just fizzles out and dies what you need to do is be the guy that's like not hitting her up that much but when you do it's because something cool is going on so there's like a cool opportunity there's a couple girls in my phone that if i hit them up they know it's because like

there's a party going down this weekend i'd much rather be that dude that when i text the girl even if we don't speak often she knows it's because there's a cool [ __ ] thing going on that weekend that she could probably bring her friends to i don't give a [ __ ] about the texting what's important to me is getting the girl out even if that means she comes out with her friends why because i know she's out of the venue at some point i'll have an opportunity to have some one-on-one time with her

to be a little flirty and escalate i can't [ __ ] escalate with her through a cell phone text her all [ __ ] day even if she's texting me back that's not gonna get me anywhere the moment she comes out in person i have an opportunity even if she's with her girlfriends i can use that to my favor because my social skills are really good because i've practiced game and communication so you put me in front of her and her three friends if anything they're going to be impressed because i'm socially confident i can

connect with everybody i can run a group interaction i can do all of this stuff very effectively well guys are going to watch this video like well what if you're not that guy what if i can't do that how do i still get the girl when i'm a [ __ ] loser well you can work on this [ __ ] dude like you go out you practice your communication you hire a mentor that's been through it that can give you the step-by-step process okay and then you participate and engage and stay in communication to get

that feedback so i can give you the step-by-step plan [ __ ] this [ __ ] texting when the girl's flaking and what's the one message i send her that reignites the attraction and gets her to come back out with me and the other thing is social media instagram she can still watch me doing cool [ __ ] by viewing my stories even when i'm not texting her constantly ideally i do something fun or funny or cool that she sees on my story and she reaches out and i can get her to actually start conversation

without me just saying hey beautiful what's up okay so there's a lot of different tools you can use to keep girls engaged without texting all day and letting it fizzle out dude it's not necessarily about having a cool like video of like oh my god i'm on top of mount everest it's not like that it's about having fun engaging videos okay that's oftentimes like you talking into the [ __ ] video like you could put me in any bar i could make a fun funny cool engaging video because of my communication into the camera the

way i interact with the people around me maybe there's girls around me having fun i bring the girl on camera maybe like [ __ ] snapchat filter that i'm playing around with with the girl anything dude like anything so it's not necessarily like oh well i need to go kayaking down the [ __ ] river you know you don't need to do that but like you need to be engaging and have a good vibe to you what is the most important thing with your communication on social media and stuff okay it's not about like i'm

in a helicopter look at my feet looking over the place like i'll be in my room on my couch talking into the camera and i'll create more engagement because of the communication and the emotion that's being communicated you need to get good at speaking and communicating the way you do that is through practice there's no coincidence that part of the homework in one of the weeks is communicating and posting your communication because we can analyze your communication and i can critique it and tweak the dials to get you better and better and better and then

you can compare it to my communication or you can look back at your old videos and see where your vibe is off and you know in weeks two three of the mentorship we go over all the small little elements that make for engaging communication and vibe and energy and create that emotion within the person that you're interacting with whether it's a person or even a cell phone don't think so much i need to be in a helicopter or on mount everest think about how can i communicate into the cell phone in a way that provokes

emotion do you spend hours and hours on youtube watching pickup and dating content but yet you're still not getting the results you feel like you deserve i mean that's exactly how i was i spent nine months watching youtube content obsessively without ever making a single approach without ever talking to a girl and the messed up part of it was i genuinely thought i was getting better while i was watching that content i would watch a new video i would study i would learn something and in my mind i thought i was getting better and this

process continued over months and months and months the reality i never talked to a single girl during that time and when i finally went out i had watched so much content that was so overwhelmed in my brain that i couldn't even open nine months wasted studying content to take zero action because the reality is it's not about the content you study it's about the action the implementation and the execution that's ultimately gonna get you those new reference experiences that's gonna get you that success that's gonna build up that core confidence and help you internalize the

content you actually study okay studying without execution is literally meaningless it's actually going to put you more in your head okay that's literally what happened to me and it wasn't until i finally hired a mentor and was invested had some skin in the game had some accountability that i finally started taking action he showed me that step-by-step game plan that road map as well as what i needed to focus on this week right now what i needed to go out and do and execute and guess what once i had all of those pieces and i

was actually invested and i had that guidance i did take that next step i did push it one step forward and i did finally start to make some progress okay watching a bunch of content without doing the other side of it is absolutely pointless and this is exactly why i've come up with my brand new mentorship program to hold guys accountable to give them that personalized guidance as well as that step-by-step game plan for them to focus on what they need to go out to implement and to execute right now not watching hours and hours

and hours of content to get more in their head no no no none of that okay i'm gonna literally show you what you need to do right now just to take that next step we're going to hold you accountable i'm going to answer any questions that you have along the way and you're going to get that personalized coaching that you need from someone that's been through this before okay that's the best way to get results in this and ultimately the most effective fastest process to really genuinely get good at this okay so if you're interested

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