so in recent times I had the opportunity to talk to a real life female star or actress who is involved in a certain industry and what she revealed to me are some of the most fascinating insights that I've ever come across in my entire life when it comes to women when it comes to attraction female nature and how to actually get more women so to speak in your life and in this video I'm going to share with you one of the craziest insights or lessons that she taught me so that said let's get right into
it now one of the craziest things that I ever learned from this interaction from this conversation is that the man who is the least affected by women is always the man who women will chase the most okay I want you to let that sink in for a second and the reason why is because if you're like most guys if you're like the majority of men out there the majority of men listening to this right now you've been told your whole life that if you just show women how much you care if you just show them
how much you know of a good guy that you are if you just try to prove yourself to women in every way possible if you make them feel special if you treat them like a princess that they'll choose you but if you're anything like me you've probably seen from personal experience many many times in your life that this is just not how reality works okay the actual physical reality that we all live in the real world actually plays by a very different set of rules okay and you'll see time and time again that it's actually
not the guy who treats women like a princess that they want it's actually not the guy who tries to prove himself it's actually the guy who is the least affected by women that women chase the most okay the guy who cares the least you've seen it before you've seen it I know that all of you have seen this in your own life the guy who bends over backwards for women the guy who's always available always texting first you know always there for women always listening to their problem that's the guy that always gets ignored that's
the guy that women always ignore that they're not attracted to that they want nothing to do with meanwhile the guy who couldn't care less in some cases the guy who's actually abusive the guy who actually literally treats women like trash the guy who doesn't chase the guy who doesn't overthink things the guy who doesn't try to hard that's the guy that women ultimately are obsessed with but have you ever asked yourself why Okay the reason why is simply because the less affected that you are by women the more that they will chase you okay let
me explain the thing about women is that women don't just want a man they want a valuable man okay they want a man who has options a man who doesn't actually need them okay because every woman out there even if she's average even if she just has average physical Beauty and she's not crazy she can get get probably 100 men for every one woman that the average man can get okay and so what this means is that women don't want just any old man they want a man who has great value because when you're spoiled
with you know the the ability to basically pick and choose between you know a hundred different men hundreds of different men thousands of different men in the age of social media when you're basically born with the ability to be spoiled like this to pick whatever guy that you want almost when you have access to 95% of men out there just because of what you were born with just because you were born with physical Beauty how do you think that that person is going to react how do you think women are going to react they're going
to behave in a way that reflects those options this is why women are so picky okay they don't just want any guy they want a valuable guy and more specifically they want the most valuable guy that they can realistically get okay and so this second that you start acting like a woman is your main focus you send her messages you know telling her that she's super special she's super pretty all these different things send her all these compliments buy her all these gifts spend all this money on her that's when she loses interest in you
okay to really understand this we have to go deep into evolutionary psychology you see for thousands of years back in the C man days men weren't judged by how much they could impress a woman they were judged by how much they could handle life and so you had the guys like the Warriors the leaders the Risk Takers these were the men who thrived these were the men who got all the women in ancient times because women needed protection and resources they were naturally drawn to these types of men okay but here's the catch if you
were to get into the mind of these ancient warriors these ancient leaders these Risk Takers the guys that women chased back in the ancient times if you could get inside of their mind and see how they thought these men were not sitting around thinking about women all day what they were actually doing is they were focused on their mission their survival their power and so women were never their priority life and survival was their priority okay hunting you know getting food getting resources stacking resources stuff like that that was their priority and so ironically what
happened is what that's what made them so attractive okay paradoxically it was the guys who were the least affected by women who focused the least on women who actually got all the women okay so if you fast forward to today these instincts are still there women are still wired to look for men who exude strength Independence emotional control in other words women in the modern world look for the men who are unaffected by women they're unaffected by a woman's Beauty they're unaffected by her mood swings they're unaffected by her verbal tests and this is what
makes them rare okay for a woman a man who's unaffected by all these things feels rare okay let me give you an example from the Animal Kingdom if you look at like male gorillas okay inside of a gorilla troop there's always one dominant Silverback and he's basically the leader of the troop okay and if you look at this gorilla in how he actually behaves he never baks the females for attention he doesn't follow the females around all the time and he's rarely ever actually affected by them he usually just sits in his space fully in
control completely unbothered by all the females and guess what the females because of this are drawn to him they're drawn to him not because he's chasing them not because he's trying to impress them like most guys would do but simply because his indifference signals power okay his ability to be unaffected by women signals power it signals that he has options that he is abundant that he you know has access to women now if you compare this to the young and desperate male gorillas within the same gorilla troop who try way too hard to impress the
females these gorillas never get any attention they never get any respect they always get ignored by women okay and if they're lucky they might be able to sneak in and mate with one of the females you know when the dominant Silverback is away or something or you know he's out hunting or whatever okay but that's the only only time that they get any sort of action that's the only time they get any play okay and if you translate this to the human world this should seem really familiar because human attraction basically functions the same way
okay so what this means is that a man who is emotionally controlled a man who has mastered his emotions and his you know ability to behave in a certain way around women his ability to be indifferent a man who doesn't react to women doesn't react to their beauty their tests you know all these different aspects of women man who doesn't react to them doesn't overinvestment in your life I know you've had them I've I've had many of them have you ever noticed that the moment in life that you stop actually caring the moment that you
just let go suddenly everything starts to happen suddenly everything works out okay the same exact concept applies to women the moment that you stop caring the moment that you let go when you're interacting with a woman which allows you to be indifferent allows you to be non-reactive nonchalant the moment that you do that suddenly women start paying more attention think about any situation in your life where you did really well with women where you were getting super super good results with women where women were giving you great you know tons of attention they were super
into you I know all of us have had probably at least one moment in our life where that's happened or at least a few and if you think about those scenarios those situations if you really drill it down what you'll realize is that most likely all of that happened as a result of you stopping caring as a result of you letting go and becoming non-reactive that's why you got all the attention that's why you had these women chasing you and it's not an accident okay it's not an accident it's not luck all of this is
very basic psychology because when a man is unaffected by a woman what it does when a man is nonchalant it creates tension okay with women and tension is what creates attraction so the key takeaway here is that if you stop putting women on a p if you get to a point where you're genuinely not affected by anything by any aspect of women by their beauty what they say the way they behave towards you the things they say to you when you're genuinely not affected by any of these things when you're completely indifferent to them meaning
they don't affect you mentally emotionally they don't affect you in a way that causes you to become defensive reactive nervous stuff like that once you get to that point something pretty magical happens and that is the exact moment where you start you start emitting this paradoxical energy where women chase you women want to start chasing you okay the man who is completely in control of himself the man who is totally nonchalant around women the man who uh who paradoxically cares the least about women who is the least affected by women that is the man who
women want the most okay because at the end of the day in pretty much every situation it is always the man who cares the least who gets chased the most by women and that my friends is one of the coolest things that I learned from this actress from this woman that I had this conversation with okay and it and when apply it to your life I promise you it'll change your life and your interaction with women in ways that you really couldn't imagine until it actually happens so I said I hope you guys enjoyed this
one and until next time thanks for watching
