3 MINUTES AGO: Ben Affleck EXPOSES JLO for TESTIFYING Against Diddy for H1TTING Her!

[Music] like you you've been showing all the musicians all the letters that uh and they were like yeah we call you pen Affleck and I was like oh my god when Shen and I broke up for Catalyst for that was this scrutiny around our private life album of the year it wasn't the actual devil no they were just dressed as the devil mom our source says JY feels duped by how fast Ben checked out of the marriage a lot of it comes down to what Ben feels is the greatest love story that shouldn't have been

told quote Ben thought Jen was on the same page as him but realized they weren't when she wanted to share private conversations and letters he wrote her Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck the Dream Team Hollywood's greatest couple two people that are perfect for each other or at least that's how people viewed them they have separated before but when they got back together it seemed like they had fallen even more in love either that wasn't true or things changed fast it all started with Jennifer's documentary the greatest love story never told or rather it all ended

there Ben wasn't the biggest fan of all the things Jennifer said about him in the documentary but he still supported her as much as he could but things got a bit too much for him and he clearly wasn't feeling as loved by Jennifer as she was by him I've had photographers outside my house and that sort of thing and I've been a subject of the media where you kind of go like that's not me this person they talking about that's not me at all all well looks like things are kind of going back to normal

for Ben Affleck now in the documentary both of them mention how much ben hates being public about his life and yet at the same time it shows their relationship in detail from start to end realizing his wishes will never be respected Ben made the decision of breaking up even though it was clearly hard on both of them Ben was your first heartbreak your first real it was my first kind of heartbreak was it because it was so public and we wanted to know every single thing about your relationship well that didn't help the decision was

clearly thought out going through their video over the course of the previous year or so then seems clearly agitated on many occasions [Applause] have a good day you got it stop look more friendly and then look motivate this meant that rumors started circulating immediately and like many times in Hollywood the conspiracy theorists were right in the mark so our rumors not that we want to gossip about people no no we don't because we're talking about a friend of the show with there are rumors going around that Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are splitting up the

tabloids are all over it he's been out of the house they haven't seen the two of them in public public in 47 days and so people are buzzing that's all I have to say it seems Jane Fonda saw the marriage problems coming in Lopez's documentary she calls her and advises her on the marriage Jane hello Jane yeah is this Jennifer it is hi hi sweetheart oh thanks for calling first of all I want you to know that uh I I don't entirely know why but I feel invested in you and Ben I really really really

want this to work however this is my concern like it feels too much like you're trying to prove something instead of just living it you know every other photograph is the two of you kissing the two of you hugging um that's us living our life Jane's intuition was pretty accurate it though but just like before Jennifer was completely blind to how her relationship was falling apart and she was the reason why and maybe later in denial considering how she reacted to being asked about the split [Music] rumors okay we're not doing that thank you so

much guys really appreciate it thank you thank you you know better than that come on don't come in here with that energy please if I could just end on one thing is that that Jen is a producer on this movie and the reason why I'm here and the reason why Sterling was in this beautiful movie is because Jen cares and Jen cares about things like representation and diversity and she's a boss and she's an incredible creative and an icon and that's what I think we should celebrate her for today the current situation is a far

cry from how their relationship seemed early on it seemed like the two were a match made in heaven and all of their interviews show them reaffirming their love for each other even now looking at these interviews anybody can tell these two were very much in love one of the songs that I wrote for the album um which is on the inside of this ring right here my engagement ring that he gave me it says not period going period anywhere period uh where in my first diamond ring he gave me the pink diamond ring it said

sing and this one he put not period going period anywhere period because that's how he would sign his emails when we started talking again like don't worry don't worry I'm not going anywhere wow their relationship was very strong in the beginning they were the couple of Hollywood and it seemed like nothing could come between them but things are never what they seem to be and the tumultuous end to their relationship shows that Jennifer also seems to be a very good stepmother she's known for spending a lot of time with his kids and treating them in

a motherly way best of all it doesn't seem forced in fact all three kids seem very relaxed around her a 2003 interview shows their relationship was also good the first time they got engaged they were young carefree and having the best times of their lives you are dating huh yeah we've we've been found out it seems when did you meet you met at party somewhere we met like at a couple of parties you know we barely paid any attention to each other at all just like hi hi you know you iced me no you iced

me but we met we met when we did the we did the uh you know the read for the movie yeah the read through the first read through yeah when did you fall in love you keep asking that I told you you can't pinpoint it it was like we became friends first that honest to God through yeah it's the truth is the truth the scenes were really good the stuff was working kind of with us it felt like we had good chemistry you know what I mean he like to improv I could improv back you

know what I mean he's the best person to improv in the whole entire business really he's he's so funny don't be like my mom I'm your mom you're like don't do that thing where you're like he's the best he is I swear I'm not the only one who says it I suppose even if all the signs were there looking at videos like these it's understandable why people were so shocked about their divorce if this had been a fairy tale the two would have gotten over their differences and lived happily ever after but reality is much

more harsh it hasn't been long since Lopez filed for divorce but Ben already looks like a huge weight has been taken off his shoulders honestly it's quite understandable even if it seems like the two didn't really want to part and it was only their widely different personalities that forced Ben to make his decision he finally gets to live his life without everything he does being aired to the public by his wife [Music] at least Jennifer was happy with Ben we can't say the the same about some of her exes yep Jennifer Lopez dated none other

than P Diddy the rapper neck deep in controversy which leaves us to wonder is she connected to everything that is coming out about him they're always dressed to impress MTV couldn't get enough of them remember TRL anywhere they went Paparazzi followed this was a different time everyone wanted to know what they were going to wear Puffy's white party loved up and everyone was like OMG they're so cute then December 1999 they go to a party in New York there are Pew pews involved they both get arrested later JLA was off the hook I vividly remember

people were like goodness gracious poor JLo she's with a bad boy they should break up but they didn't they went to the Grammys together she wore this Versace gown everyone lost their minds they coordinated wearing matching white outfits at the MTV Video Music Awards then it came all crashing down Valentine's Day 2001 they announced they broke up 7 months later she married Chris Jud and then they divorced after 9 months Diddy and Kim Porter reconciled although maybe they were seeing each other in between and who knows who else he was seeing despite the recent charges

against Diddy Close Associates of him and Jennifer don't believe that the relationship between the two was abusive this comes as a shock to many since Jennifer does not look towards her relationship with him with fondness and often recounts traumatic experiences from their time together how you feel about some of these news outlets reporting that you know Jenifer Lopez she was talking about Diddy when she said in her new documentary that she was in an abusive relationship I personally don't believe it was Diddy I personally cuz I've never seen him in a situation other than pillow

fighting or like that and I know that he used to do that sometimes to to to to to mess with the the younger girls and the girls he used to deal with you know what I'm saying but I never really seen them act that manner with Miss Lopez with Jennifer not at all I've never seen him in a uh a situation whereas that I I could believe that Miss Lopez was hit by him or roughed up by him at all of course the fact that Diddy did not physically abuse Lopez does not mean they were

in a happy relationship Diddy was Jennifer's first relationship with someone who was unfaithful he often cheated on her and put her in dangerous situations you told a story about you know a female giving puffy fellatio while Jennifer Lopez was upstairs yeah I said that on one of my program yeah what happened with that nothing new we had just came from uh Jennifer had just gave him this hell of a day I mean like we went to the Miami Hurricanes game uh was it yeah we went to Miami State hurricane we was on the field while

they were playing and stuff and um he gave him a party at 321 in Miami she rented a club gave him a party gave him this big backyard party dinner and everything like that then gave him a party at the club then we came back one of his uh what's his name slam has set it up cuz Jennifer went up stairs and puff said y jeene was the door don't let nobody come through the door and uh I said all right and slam set it up and I wanted to say it was Korean but I'm

not sure it was her but it was supposed to be somebody that was either up to her level and fellacio or it was her I'm not sure [Music] and while Jennifer was upstairs he was down there getting a fellatio from me did she ever find out she know now a stark contrast to her relationship with Ben Affleck Jennifer herself has made it clear that the man loved her and supported her dreams till the very end she even gave an emotional Ben Affleck tribute he inspired an album 20 years ago and I know he hates that

I'm doing this right now he's just like please shut up no and I say no I say I love you thank you for believing in me and helping me believe in myself and helping me to grow every single day thank you for the family that we' created and our children and everything that you do for me you will never you'll never know what it is to able to share this lifetime and have you be my love thank [Applause] you on the other hand some people claimed that the reason Ben divorced Jen was not because his

privacy was breached but rather jell jailed rapper Sugi Knight believes that FBI showed Ben Affleck intimate tapes of Lopez and Diddy due to this Ben wants a divorce I'm quite sure they probably called that the FBI gave respect the curs call being athle it's a white man who got respect in the white world I'm quite sure they said we want to show you some things this about your wife when he see this that her and puff is doing and who they doing with I'm quite sure they gave his back those tapes now I'm quite sure

he can never look at her the same I'm quite sure they he a for div voice cuz you know that's a man who had a good life great parents don't spend a lot of money ain't tripping ouri living his life he got his own team she BR all the EX this is pure speculation though and there is absolutely no evidence to support these claims not unlike many other alleged crimes related to Diddy and his circle of nightmare celebrities this is probably because the evidence is being actively sealed but until things are leaked to the public

we can't tell who is guilty and who is unfortunate enough to be thrown in the mix by previous relations alone whether or not Ben got a first row seat to Jennifer's extra private life remains unsaid on the other hand let's talk about things where Shaw played a big hand in Thor divorce Ben was unhappy with Jennifer sharing his letters with people to him and anyone saying really it's a huge invasion of privacy especially since he didn't know that it was happening that first day I showed everybody this book this book is a book that Ben

gave me on our first Christmas back together it is every letter and every email that we wrote to each other from 20 years ago and today it became like our Bible and we just left it there in the studio and people would thumb through it they're like can we look at it I was like look at it so I suppose he really does have a valid reason to seem like he's in a bad mood on so many occasions hey G Val I can't see the car okay we got you how was dinner Jennifer on the

other hand said that people need to stop worrying about the faces Ben makes and stop reading into everything he does why are people always is worried about what face Ben has on like if he D if Ben like walks out the house all right you don't need to worry about Ben let me just tell you he is good he is happy he is here he is nominated he's like I'm chilling I don't understand what people are pressed for I mean he's got teenagers and if you have teenagers some days you going to have a teenager

they don't they don't pick up on my face and the public should probably take her advice they may be going through a hard time but they're both adults who can handle himself when it felt like it was getting too much he didn't hesitate to file a divorce so there's not much for us to do and it definitely does not include recording every second of their day that's it for now don't forget to tell us what you think in the comments below for more updates hit the Bell icon