welcome to the cheating Secrets Channel it is often said that there is a fine line between love and hate many of us cross that line every day friends family and colleagues I can't believe I once like that guy or what a jerk my personal favorite I absolutely hate that jerk then there are those who always remind you about Humanity or tell you to stop being so hateful these are the ones who say you should demonstrate compassion as for me I just worry about my own wellbeing and that of my family it's good to have friends
but be realistic you can only trust friends up to a certain point in my case not all relatives or friends had my back this was a hard lesson I learned through personal experience the best part of it all was finding out who my true family and friends are my name is PA Jensen I'm 29 years old a former football player and an avid Runner I'm married to Amy she's a hot little mama with a matching attitude but the best part of my life is that I'm the father of three little boys by the time our
relationship fell apart Amy and I had been married for around 7 years the reason we had children so quickly and often was that I couldn't get enough of my wife I lived and breathed Amy I believe that's where my downfall began we exchanged our vows the day after graduating from college Amy majored in secondary education while I specialized in management information systems Amy secured a job at at one of the elite private schools in Dallas and I worked at Empire funding we had a fairly Good Start in life during our marriage there were ups and
downs as in most marriages but nothing serious I think our first real argument happened when I wanted to buy in 1968 Shelby Cobra GT500 it was a two-door Fastback with a 4.9 L V8 engine GT 350 to top it off it was candy apple red with two white stripes down the middle unlike some my acquaintances I could afford a car worth $100,000 but I have a passion for classic cars anyway as I mentioned Amy and I had a wonderful life we lived fairly close to my family and I thought that was a good thing my
parents were in their 50s and I also had a younger brother named Rob Rob was 17 years old and attended the same high school where Amy taught in fact she even taught in his class I believe Rob was an oops baby because he was 12 years younger than me Rob and I were as close as you can be with a younger brother who's 12 years your Junior whenever something happened or Rob needed something it was expected that I would be the one to make the sacrifice that's just how my family worked our family motto was
you need to be brave and handle it be a hero son just give it to your younger brother and in the end you'll be better for it my father said this so often that I eventually just let it go in one ear and out the other another great thing in my life was my best friend Jeffrey Parks he was the brother I always wished I had we had been best friends since third grade and if anyone understood how I felt it was him Jeff was a lawyer and I expected him to have my back in
all legal matters and any case last Monday when I got home Amy told me she had taken the boys to her sister's house which was four houses down when she said this I thought we were going to have some alone time if you know what I mean but then she said she wanted to talk to me about something I didn't think life could get any better but then Amy told me she was pregnant I wanted to know when the baby was due so we could start buying things before the baby was born I think I
was as happy as a person could possibly be damn I was just hoping it would be a little girl so I could spoil her rotten but for some reason Amy seemed a bit off and she had this distant look on her face I asked her what was wrong Pace it's not your baby Amy said it's so quietly that I didn't hear her what's going on honey why do you seem so down Pace I love you but I won't be having any more of your children Amy said I was a little confused and asked her why
Amy you always said you wanted a big family so why this Sudden Change God this is going to be hard then Amy started to beat around the bush as if whatever she was about to say would change her life Amy I love you no matter what so just tell me how you're feeling right now just say it she then stopped took out her phone and dialed quickly could you come here please whoever she was talking to it seemed like they knew more about this than I did Amy who was that and what the hell is
going on Amy said just hold on Pace I need help to get this across to you I don't want to mess up what I have to say I asked her who was coming and why she needed someone else to help her say whatever it was damn it if you can't tell your husband then who the hell can you tell all sorts of thoughts raced through my mind none of them good but what happened next left me utterly shocked 2 minutes later there was a knock at the door Amy answered it and when she returned she
was followed by my mom my dad and my 17-year-old brother Rob okay Amy what the hell is going on damn how can I say this without hurting you rob interjected listen Pace Amy is in love with me that's what she wants to say Mom and Dad are here to support us Rob said listen bro stuff happens we didn't mean to fall in love but we did the baby she's carrying is mine and we need you to be okay with this Amy and I are going to be a family whether you like it or not I
started laughing as if it were some kind of good joke because that's how it was supposed to be right listen Amy what is it you want to tell me no one was laughing I looked over at Amy she was staring at the ground Amy please look at me and tell me this isn't true tell me you're not such a damn fool my father said son I know this is hard but what's done is done I know you're hurting right now but Rob is your brother and we need to find a way to deal with this
we understand it's asking a lot but sometimes sacrifices have to be made I asked my mother if she was involved in this she saidon I love both of my boys I don't want this to tear our family apart you need to find a way to live with this we are all family you need to be the hero here you have to find it in your heart not to be angry and to do the right thing I couldn't believe they were asking me to sacrifice my life for that snot-nosed little punk just because I was older
at that moment I mean right at that moment I began to hate the all I mean it with a deep and passionate hatred The Thin Line Between Love and Hate had been crossed the question was how much could I as a man hate my own family the very family that had betrayed me on every front my wife my brother and what kind of parent would go along with this farce how could I have known it would only get worse I couldn't take it anymore I turned around and walked out with Amy and my mom trailing
behind Rob pulled Amy away from me I walked four houses down to get my kids at her sister's house I was met by a deputy sheriff for a moment I thought Amy's sister Rachel was involved in this but she looked just as shocked as I was the deputy sheriff told me that I was forbidden from seeing my children until the court made a decision about custody I looked back and felt my hatred growing stronger by the second I asked the sheriff if I could return to my own home he asked whose name was on the
mortgage I told him it was mine and only mine since there was no order preventing me from being at the house I turned to head back home as I walked past my father he grabbed my arm Pace listen son please don't do anything you'll regret later my father said we all need to sit down and talk this through like adults I looked at him and told him never to call me his damn son again no get your damn hand off me or you'll regret it for the rest of your life and now leave me alone
all of you backstabbing bastards I looked at Amy and said to her if I were you I'd hire a good lawyer because trust me you're going to need one enjoy your kids while you can you lying cheat now get out of these idiots with you before I could take another step Rob punched me he hit me on the right side of my face before I could pull back my father grabed me and Rob hit me again I was lucky that Rob punches like a girl or it would have hurt the sheriff jumped off the porch
ran over and tackled Rob I broke free from my father's grip and punched him in the mouth he fell to the ground and the expression on his face was one of complete shock he never would have believed that pace the sensible child could get so angry when the fight was over Rob and my father were arrested for assault but I had no idea that the best was yet to come a couple of days later I got a call from the assistant district attorney asking me to testify in the process I casually mentioned that it all
started when my 29-year-old wife whom I had been married to for 7 years got pregnant by my 17-year-old brother I also mentioned that my brother was in the 12th grade at the same school where Amy taught they seemed to take some interest in that information 2 days later I went to meet with the only person I thought I could rely on Jeffrey Parks a lawyer I arrived at his office in a good mood it turned out to be yet another ride down the Betrayal Highway for Pace Jensen while I was waiting for him to finish
he walked out with his new client Amy glanced back saw me and smirked I looked at Jeff and said you better have done this with me Jeffrey Parks turned and walked away that's how everything had been set up so quickly Jeff was their guy he knew how I would react and he cut me off I never ever thought she would do something like this I'll always wonder why he chose to follow her but then you know what who cares about his reasons because as soon as he said yes he no longer existed to me screw
them I had to laugh again but this time it was different it was just another reason to keep crossing the line I was becoming a different person hatred can do that to you I turned to a different kind of lawyer Stevie crash Stevie was known as a hard nosed attorney his motto was if you've got the money let's go for it he was about to close his office when I found him I asked if he wanted to be part of a case that would soon get national attention he saw dollar signs unlocked his door and
we went in I wrote him a check for $10,000 I told him that sooner or later he might have to post bail for me he said he couldn't be involved in anything illegal I told him about my plans and he laughed so hard that he spit out his gum I went home and when I got there a deputy sheriff was sitting in my driveway he got out of his car and asked who I was I showed him my ID he handed me an envelope and said you've been served I went inside and threw the papers
in the trash without even looking at them then I made a few phone calls grabbed a bite to eat and went to bed tomorrow would be a new day after a good night's sleep I brushed my teeth rinsed my mouth and combed my hair after all I needed to look my best as soon as I step out the door to grab the newspaper BM they pounce on me Mr Jensen is it true that your wife a teacher is pregnant by your underage brother one reporter asked then another asked which school she teaches at and yet
another asked why she's still free I said I didn't know who was supposed to handle that from that moment on life became hell for everyone involved in this sad Affair reporters were stationed outside Amy School my parents house Jeff's office and Amy's sister's home Jeff loved publicity but not this kind when Amy and my former parents first approached Jeff he was under the impression that Rob was at least 18 not 17 what really infuriated Jeff was the next incident a group of family rights activists picketed his office and one of the protesters doused him with
cure the next morning I appeared on the Nancy Grace show and she called a me everything but a child of God if any of you watch Nancy Grace's show you know that once she gets hold of a story she's like a dog with a bone from the moment she learned about it until the story's end Nancy's coverage was all about Amy and her Merry band of losers hello everyone a child molester is walking free on our streets pregnant by an impressionable young man and where is the district attorney Nancy shouted I recorded the show and
I must say I looked pretty pretty sharp at least I think so but the camera really does add 10 lb 2 days later Amy was arrested for sex with a minor breach of public trust and statutory rape Rob was taken out of our parents custody and sent to a juvenile detention center eventually they decided he would have to stay there until he turned 18 A month later I was sitting in the courtroom across from Amy and my former family she was represented by the jerk who used to be my friend the the only person I
felt sorry for was my mom she just sat there with a sad look on her face it broke my heart but that's life over the past month both Amy and Mrs Jensen had called me hundreds of times asking if I would sit down and talk with them before things went too far I asked Amy one question did you sit down and talk to me before you slept with my brother she didn't answer so there was nothing left to say after Amy was arrested my children were returned to me at a quick custody hearing the judge
granted me full custody along with child support and the house which was already in my name when the criminal trial was coming up I was supposed to testify I wanted to make sure the creature did a long time in jail but that was not to be Amy never went to trial she took a plea deal and got three and A2 years in her sentencing statement she asked for my forgiveness I almost felt sorry for her her life was ruined her teaching career was over and for better or worse she would have to register as a
sex offender for the rest of her life it's been 4 years since then I took the kids and moved 3,000 Mi away now that our family consists of seven my three sons and Amy two little daughters we've become a mini version of The Brady Bunch I know I know the tough guy crowd is going to call me weak and you know what theyd be dead wrong do you think I'm stupid enough to stay with any woman who would sleep with my former younger brother hell no my wife's name is spelled Amy I met her 4
months after we moved Amy is a motorcycle cop and the day she gave me a ticket Chang my life when she walked back to her bike one look at her from behind and I knew she'd be my next wife it took a little begging but once I got her into bed it was the greatest day of my life did I mention she has her own handcuffs I love her to death but it took her a long time to get past my trust issues over the years Amy has dealt with a lot of crap but I've
been through just as much she's just like me she doesn't trust anyone she checks on me just as much as I check on her and it works for us but what I love most is the firecracker she is in bed my sweet Amy thank you for listening Until the End see you in the next episode of cheating Secrets take care of yourself and your loved ones goodbye
