today I mind game will teach you a 15 manipulation tactics before you continue with video remember this video may change your view on life so when you watching there are no turning back you want dark you got it one the gas lighting gaslighting is when someone tries to make another person doubt their own thoughts memories or feelings they do this by repeatedly denying facts or events even when there's clear evidence the goal is to confuse and control the other person making them question their sanity or reality using word like you are so sensitive I was
just joking or it's not a big deal here is one example if you walk in room and say something weird to someone they will be confused and then you will act like you didn't say that and most of the time they will go crazy to prove you that you say that and this can be used in many ways two love bombing technique manipulators use to make someone fall in love or become obsessed with them giving constant attention so they feel good and expecting your attention then suddenly stop giving attention making eye contact and be cold
human mind is good at noticing when patterns change so when you break the pattern you break the ego they will desperately want your attention to feel in power and chase after you after a little while start giving them a attention again this will make them obsessed with you and they will be scared of losing you so they will hold thigh to not lose you three reverse psycho ology reverse psychology manipulation means telling someone to do the opposite of what you really want them to do hoping they'll do what you actually want for instance if you
want a friend to join you for a walk you might say I bet you wouldn't want to come with me hoping they'll feel challenged and agree to come example for to make somebody clean something say instead of asking them to clean say please don't clean your room I like it messy prompting them to clean to challenge your preference four isolation manipulators often isolate their targets from their support networks leaving them vulnerable and Reliant solely on the manipulator this isolation makes it easier to control and manipulate the victim's thoughts and actions they use your weaknesses aist
you and talk about your insecure when they say something supportive it is not is trapped to position themselves as only source of comfort and when you achieve to this level you have full control over them five thankfulness do you know someone who is is constantly thanking you for the very basic things that you may do for them they may thank you for coming in for work or for giving them a pen you become so used to their attitude of gratitude that when they don't do it you go out for your way to be thanked this
also works if the roles are reversed six silence as a psychology trick being silent can do wonders for you A lot of times professionals are advised to use this method as a way for the client to open up and reveal information silence can be uncomfortable for the other person making them speak and fill in the gaps as much as they can with this you can pull a lot of information from somebody in the 48 Laws of Power law 4 as people are constantly trying to work out what others appear to be thinking silence makes them
feel uncomfortable by controlling what you reveal you can wield great power after all they are likely to fill in the silences you leave revealing more information about their own intentions and weaknesses you can buy it at description with other best manipulation books that can help you more with manipulation than videos like this seven nonreactivity non-reactivity is when you choose not to react to something like workplace bullying instead of responding to a bully staying quiet can actually work better bullies often want a reaction so not giving them one can throw them off it's about staying strong
and not letting their actions affect you by staying calm and and in control you can break free from their power and stand up for yourself the reaction means a lot for a manipulator so if you don't give reaction is very hard for them to control you eight mirroring mirroring is when someone copies the way another person acts or speaks to make them feel closer or more comfortable it's a sneaky way to gain someone's trust or control them by making them feel like you're similar to them this can make the target feel more comfortable and open
potentially making them more SU suceptible to influence or manipulation let's say you're talking to someone at a party and you notice that whenever you smile they smile too when you lean forward they do the same this is mirroring They're copying your actions to create a sense of connection and make you feel more comfortable around them nine start small this is often known as foot in the door psychology trick you start with something small for the other person to comply with you continue doing this till you ask for something that you wanted in the first place
let's say your friend asks you to help move some furniture first they ask you to carry a small box to their car and you agree then they ask if you can help pick up a few more boxes from their storage unit because you've already agreed to help with the first task you're more likely to say yes to the second one even though it's a bit bigger 10 triangulation triangulation is when two people disagree and a third person gets pulled in to sway which side wins a manipulator strategically uses triangulation to ensure that their side wins
the argument which can include choosing a third person they know will agree with them or front-loading the information to be more favorable toward their side this encourages the victim to question the manipulator less frequently and to eventually stop questioning the manipulator altogether it can also be used to increase the victim's feelings of isolation which increases their dependence on the manipulator 11 Pro ection if you want to learn more from a me personal ask me questions or vote for vide ideas video tutorials and lessons click the link in the description projection is a psychological defense mechanism
where a person puts their own feelings characteristics or desires onto another person this could look like the manipulator saying you're so controlling after the victim presents alternative activities or Advocates to do something for themselves the manipulator takes what they feel and want and projects sit on to the other person to avoid how that makes them feel or look imagine you forgot to do your chores instead of admitting it you blame your sibling for distracting you this way you're trying to make others believe it's not your fault but actually you're just avoiding responsibility by pointing fingers
at someone else 12 playing on insecurities emotional manipulators are experts at finding and exploiting people's insecurities they focus on making someone feel ashamed which is a strong sense of not being good enough when someone feels ashamed they'll do whatever the manipulator wants to avoid feeling that way again for instance manipulators often figure out what makes you tick and use it against you if for example you grew up feeling unimportant because of a selfish parent they might accuse you of being selfish to make you doubt yourself and do what they want 13 passive aggressiveness passive aggressive
communication is when someone says or indicates something without outright saying what they mean this can take many forms including sarcasm pouting or backhanded compliments this keeps the victim in a constant pattern of monitoring guessing and trying to anticipate adjust to the manipulator's moods and reactions ultimately this keeps the focus and the power on the manipulator so that the victim doesn't have time and attention to evaluate their own feelings in the relationship 14 praying on insecurities a big challenge of every close relationship is trust the more vulnerable you are the more trust can develop in a
relationship but the more you trust someone the more you give them the power to break that trust when you don't trust anyone there's no trust to break you may save yourself from deception but you'll also throw away the intimacy baby with the trust bath water a primary tactic of the manipulator is to make their victim trust them and get close to them this way the manipulator gains access to the victim's insecurities and weaknesses that they can then Prey Upon 15 guilt tripping guilt tripping is a sneaky way people use to make others feel bad about
something they've done they might remind you of past mistakes exaggerate them and make you feel responsible for any problems that happened because of them then they use your guilty feelings to get you to do what they want it's important to recognize this manipulation and stand up for yourself by setting boundaries imagine you're working on a group project at work one of your co-workers hasn't been doing their share of the work they come to you and say I'm dealing with personal stuff so I can't help much with the project if it fails it'll be on all
of us including you they make you feel bad for expecting them to do their part using their personal problems to avoid responsibility V description for best manipulation book from Amazon see you next time
