in this video I'm going to give you eight truths about women that will change your life these are things that men don't understand about women this is female nature at its core that if you understood and embraced you would be a lot more successful women let's get right into it number one they test and will always test your confidence so I got a girl I've been seeing now she's my girlfriend and I will tell you guys relationship game does exist so the point I'm trying to make here is I feel like even she still test
my confidence I don't think women will ever not test your confidence but I was already prepared for this I've understood women for a while now and what I know about them is their nature is to poke holes to see if you're still the man if you're still the guy that they fell in love with and respected a lot of men think that if you get with a girl she's just going to test you a couple of times and that's it you guys are going to ride off into the sunset like the movies the Disney fairy
tales and it's going to be all roses it's going to be all Cheerios and Roses you guys going to be happiness Ain't No Way in the world women are emotional beings they need to experience a a roller coaster of emotions and you guide them through those emotions for them to trust you so let me tell you something right now buddy I don't care if you met her yesterday or if you've known her for 50 years she's going to test your confidence in some way they need to be reminded that you can walk away they need
to be reminded that you're a the man it's in their nature they don't even know they're doing it she doesn't even realize she's doing it women subconsciously always testing your value they're testing to see if you're weak they're testing to see if you're getting weak they're testing to see if you're getting booty whooped are you losing frame are you becoming more childish are you starting to act more feminine are you starting to lose like she she's always testing to know this is why I always tell you guys you should be testing too you should be
testing too hey because she going to she's going to subconsciously test for my value I need to be testing for her value too I ain't to be challenging my woman to get better or I'mma leave her ass my chick needs to improve or I'm going to leave her that's my mindset if I have to keep improving and you're going to keep testing me as a man subconsciously you have to keep getting better or I will replace you with a girl who can act right this is not me me trying to be mean or anything it's
just the reality so I understand the Dynamics of relationships she's going to test my value and my confidence I'm going to test that she's still the best woman for me because if she starts to slack why do I have to tolerate that cuz I'm doing my part I'm doing what I need to do to still be the the man that she respects and loves leading with Integrity making sure I'm doing what I say I'm going to do so if she's going to always be testing for that testing my confidence I need to be testing to
know that she's the right woman for me but if you for some moment think that your girl is just going to test you once or twice and then you're good it's going to be that's why guys end up in divorces that's why guys lose their girl because they they're they have a false expectation of what relationships are like they have a false perception of how this is going to go most people just get in relationships and you just oh this the lovey Duffy part the honeymoon phase is how it's going to be forever never so
buddy you got to be well equipped to understand that women are going to be challenging you because they need to feel safe she's not going to feel safe if you start to act like a [ __ ] that's just the reality number two speaking of feeling safe women want to feel safe forever this means that they need to confide in your security feeling safe means a lot for women who are you as a man are you being respected by other men can you defend yourself can you defend her do you Pro do you provide Financial
Security there are a lot of ways that you can provide security for women let's talk about you being able to defend yourself I've always argued that every man needs to learn how to fight I don't give a damn just take one year of your life to understand the basics one year of your life dedicated to a a sport a mixed martial arts I spent over two years learning boxing I'm not a pro boxer I'm not even an amateur boxer but I know how to defend myself if it came down to it these are just basic
skills that you need to understand to be able to protect yourself and defend yourself so don't let the muscles fool you dog I could throw some hands you got to learn something it could be Jiu-Jitsu it could be MMA it could be boxing it could be kickboxing learn something so if you're ever in that position where you have to defend yourself and your family you know how to do something you know how to protect yourself or your family and when it comes to Financial Security you already understand women like finances they like resources if you're
a broke guy you're a guy that can't afford nothing how is she going to feel safe with you women react to resources you are showing a level of status when you have resources you've elevated yourself above other men does that make sense so Financial Security is important because it's a form of status it's a form of we're going to be all right if things go bad and because she's passive because she wants you to lead she wants to know that you can take care of that number three they want to see your actions be louder
than your words women don't get frightened about words you know what's funny guys think they could talk a woman into anything no no no no no you try to Big Boy her scream and yell at her you should never be screaming and yelling at women ever you should never raise your voice at her because that means nothing to her she's an emotional being she screams and yells and it means nothing your actions will always prove to be more have more substance than your words if she's disrespecting you you get up and leave if she's testing
you when you don't appreciate it you tell her to go she needs to know that you have a backbone she doesn't give a [ __ ] what you say what you say goes in one ear not the other because most men have shown her that their words mean nothing threatening women nothing for them they don't give a [ __ ] hey you better act right or I'm going to she laughing at your stupid ass I don't threaten women I just leave I just give them the option to stay or go removing yourself is the biggest
power you can have removing yourself or removing her from your life is the biggest action that you can take for a woman so stop trying to talk women into [ __ ] then you got these clowns who want to convince girls hey go up and tell her how beautiful she is that don't mean nothing to her she's heard that [ __ ] a thousand times what are your actions are you thirsty are you needy one of the things I'm I'm really really good at guys is understanding behavioral cues I think I've been very successful women
over the last few years because I understand what they're looking for so whenever I'm in a public setting or a social environment I know how they judge men the man who talks the most they automatically disqualify him the man whose eyes can't stop roaming looking at women they automatically deem him thirsty the guy who's focused on himself the guy who doesn't look around the guy who isn't so excited they pay more attention to the guy who acts a certain way not the guy who comes up and say hey I'm the man I'm this this don't
mean nothing to her who acts differently so I want you to leave through your actions I want you to show that your words show her better than you can tell her that's my mindset I can show you better I could tell you as a matter of fact I'm going do little telling I'mma do a lot of showing and she going to react to that very very well number four they are always going to be attracted to value a lot of men don't want to accept this but you got to create some kind of value to
be respected by women think about what that means right value this can be you creating value for yourself physically you're an attractive guy you're in good shape you have some kind of social status they need to know that you're valuable a lot of men assume that being regular means that they're valuable when that's quite the opposite you're just regular a lot of men think me having a decent job me looking halfway decent means that I'm desirable no you're not valuable you're normal value comes from exceptionalism doing something that others can't do being in better shape
than most men is a form of value having more money than most men is a form of value having more social status than most men is a form of value do you check any of those boxes having more social skills than most men is a form of value being socially aware is a form of value what can you do that other men can't do think about athletes why do women like athletes taller stronger and faster than most most men that's why they're paid more professors they're smarter than most men there needs to be something of
value that you have there needs to be some level that you've ascended to that is not normal normal is boring to women normal it doesn't even exist she wants the best possible man she can get not no regular man she wants the highest value man she can get not a man that every woman doesn't want so if you focus on creating value for yourself social status finances looks you will notice that women are going to treat you differently number five women will always mirror your energy what does this mean think about how men who are
very reactive or emotional they never tend to get respected this is because women are are very good mirrors they're very good reflections of who you are they follow your lead this is who they are so if you're a very calm stoic man your girl is going to be very calm usually and stoic if you're very emotional reactive your chick will mirror you she's following your lead so a lot of times when God say oh I can't get my girl to act right I'm just telling them hey she's following you she can't act right because she's
following your lead do you act right are you stoic or are you excessively emotional do you pillow talk like a [ __ ] do you and then you want your woman to respect you why would she respect you now let's pill talk we we girlfriends let's be girlfriends bro you you can't act a certain way and expect your woman to treat you differently than how you're acting does that make sense you can't be not in good shape and then expect your girl to be in good shape she's going to be in good shape because she
sees you in good shape she's going to care about her self-development because she sees you care about your self-development she's not going to be as emotional because she see you're not as emotional just women are going to mirror you so if you're expecting anything from a woman ask yourself how do you act or are you are you expecting a girl to act like something that she doesn't even have any example of cuz she's supposed to be following you as a man number six subtle hints are big Clues women are very passive and indirect all right
so what men may tend to make the mistake of doing is they don't judge the little things that women do they wait for the big thing let me give you an example you ask a girl out she doesn't ask you any questions she's not really engaging in conversation she's giving you one word responses when you text her she's not making herself available and what do men keep doing they keep trying hey she's communicating with me right she didn't come out and say hey I don't want to go out with you so that means that she
must have interest in me she's giving you little cues she's not engaging in conversation she's not making herself available little cues mean big hints I don't like you so when she's not texting you as often when she's not making herself available you might think something little it's a big clue I don't really like you I'm not really feeling you like that so instead of you waiting for the big moment waiting for the big reveal waiting for her to say why I get guys all the time tell me yo then why would she text me why
would she text me why would she text me if she then doesn't want to go out with me she was trying to tell you she doesn't want to go out with you by the when you first asked for her number when she was giving you push back to exchange contact information she was telling you I don't want to go out with you cuz they're passive and indirect they don't want to hurt your feelings but unfortunately for them they tend to hurt our feelings even more by just leading us on she's leading you on hoping that
you get the hint so stop falling for the don't wait for a woman to say hey I don't like you if it ever gets to that point she was trying to tell you from the from from a long time number seven they respect boundaries this is one thing that I cannot drive home enough for men women respect men that that tell it how it is this is why my whole thing with women is to just be have integrity cuz guys think that lying to girls gets them what they want and that's not true in my
experience with women being honest tends to get me what I want the most I let girls know that I have a girl but I'm dating around I let them know I let girls know that I'm not ready for a relationship I don't lie to them about it I let girls know that if they're [ __ ] with me if they're my girlfriend I don't appreciate certain things they might not be jolly about my boundaries but they respect it they might not be jumping for joy that I have bound boundaries but they respected and that's all
that matters the most boundaries are respected by women if you're a guy that you're dealing with a woman that you haven't establish any boundaries she doesn't have as much respect for you because she's out there living life not not knowing what to do she doesn't have any direction when you have boundaries you give direction this is what I like and don't like you make it clear to her some of you guys expect your girlfriend to know or a girl in general to know exactly what you want she thinking is am I can I do this
can I not do it she wants to be told so you got to have boundaries I have a list of them I don't appreciate this this this this this this and that you can come up with yours you can come up with yours if she doesn't like them you don't have to be in a relationship with her this is not a for forcing thing I'm not asking you to date me we don't have to date each other you can be on your own but if we're going to be together this is what comes with getting
being with me you by all means can be free and do whatever you want to do but if you want to be with me these are the things I'm expecting from my woman number eight money is not enough to make her love you this is something that guys don't want to accept guys think oh if I chase the bag if I chase the bag if I chase the bag I'm going to get all the girls don't focus on women just chase the bag just chase the bag chase the bag then when you get the bag
and you realize there other dudes with the bag you don't have nothing to stand out from do you guys not know that there are other men who are rich there other men who have money what do you stand out from you guys have seen my videos I've got I'm this is a perfect casing point right when I went on seeking and I'm still on seeking I went on seeking and I was able to get girls super into me on a sugar daddy website telling them that I was not going to pay for anything what does
that show you that means that money in itself is not what will get women to respect you they will take what you lead with women want a man that is well-rounded that's what it comes down to can't be no bum and expect no respect from women but if you think that money in itself is going to make you stand out from other men you're joking how are you going to compare other men with money congratulations you make money congratulations you're financially stable there a lot of men who are millions of millionaires hundreds like there are
million I think there I believe there's over 30 million millionaires in America like bro welcome to the party you're a millionaire oh you make six figures congratulations like that's not enough to get women to now bow down for you buddy I know you would I know you were told that but then no and a lot of women have their own money now so they're like I don't give a [ __ ] about your six figures congratulations I can make my own money I got my own money you got to have more things going for yourself
and your finances for you to be respected yeah you making money but are you fit are you handsome are you stylish do you have good communication skills skills if you don't have those things guess what you're just another dude with money that I can use for money but if you're a good-look dude who dresses well stylish with status and you have money you're Elite your exceptional women respond to exceptionalism women respond like I told you guys earlier to men who are different from the norm so a lot of guys have this false real reality false
perception that making money in itself will solve their problems and then they they are faced with a harsh reality damn I made money now women are still not sweating me cuz you don't stand out in no other area you just have money your looks aren't on point your social media game isn't on point your style isn't on point you're treated like every other dude if you are guy watching this right now and you're that relates to you you're a guy who's probably been working quite a bit to create some kind of status for yourself financially
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