and a few days later after completing all the formalities I took my luggage and left my parents-in-law's house I told my mother-in-law that I was leaving today I bowed to her as a gesture of a grown-up then my mother-in-law greened up me again she said you've been a lousy wife and a lousy mother from the beginning to the end and then she told me that I'm the worst mother for leaving my kids I don't know how much she can make fun of me my daughter and son laughed when they heard what my mother-in-law said my
name is Maria a 42 year old housewife I live with my husband Ken my son Josh and my daughter Amy the children have grown up well and my husband works hard so we live peacefully without any particular problems however things have changed recently my father-in-law passed away due to illness and my mother-in-law moved in with us my husband who is the only son felt sorry for his mother being all alone and brought her to our house without consulting us I had always thought that my husband was too much of a Mommy's boy but I didn't
think he would decide for her to move in with us by himself he taught us that he had already sought his parents-in-law's house are you asking me to abandon my mother who has nowhere to go my husband said to me with such an attitude and I had to give in after that honestly it was hell my mother-in-law had not liked me for a long time so she would pick on me at every opportunity Maria what is the seasoning oh I'm sorry I'll be careful and I don't like greasy food well but we have children who
are growing up fast and my husband likes fried food too then please make a separate meal for me I hope you don't need to make me eat unhealthy food so I die early no it's not like that but it would cost more money and it's a bit of a hassle that's where your skills come in Ken earns enough money so why don't you manage the finance and the hassle you are so spoiled when I was young I took care of the house chores by myself no matter how hard it was what a Pity that my
grandchildren have to live in a house run by such a lazy mother I feel sorry for them I thought if you have so much to say why don't you do it but I held back because if I try to talk back even a little my husband would get mad at me a hundred times over when I first moved in with my mother-in-law she was so much of a wife beater that I objected to her saying if you're so opinionated why don't you do it yourself then my mother-in-law told my husband and he got angry and
said to me how dare you talk to her like that when I'm the one supporting you I thought about getting a divorce but as a housewife I wouldn't be able to take care of the children they are my treasures and I don't want them taken away from me so I decided to enjoy the wife beating without objection but instead of just putting up with it I started to prepare for a divorce little by little I applied for jobs at various companies under the watchful eye of my mother-in-law who was home all day long only one
company offered me a part-time position thanks to my previous experience as a bank clerk I was able to get a clerical job at a bank it was my first corporate job in a long time and it was a lot of fun of course there's a lot of responsibility and stress came with it still it was more peaceful than seeing my mother-in-law at home all the time but my mother-in-law didn't like the fact that I was working why work when can earns enough salary maybe she's out Scavenging for men what kind of thought process is that
a total idiot and it's not that my husband doesn't make a lot of money but since his mother-in-law started Living With Us it has added to our expenses so we're not in a situation where we can afford everything however my mother-in-law has told me to give her an allowance from now on so that I wouldn't spend it on men when I refused and said it was not possible she again told my husband when my husband came home from work that night he yelled at me as he had done before are you having an affair huh
I'm not that's what my mother said she said you're using your part-time salary to pay for men I'm not doing that why do you believe your mother's lies shut up then give her allowance to prove you're innocent oh no then my mother-in-law came in with a smirk on her face 500 a month that much that's what my mother says so give it to her in the end I was defeated by the momentum of the two of them I had to give most of the money I earned from my part-time job to my mother-in-law as an
allowance to make matters worse my mother-in-law told the children your mother is a horrible adulterer with a smirk on her face even junior high school kids know what that means and to tell them a lie like that is just awful I thought it was not fair at all and it was ruining me completely and then something happened to make the situation worse I found out that my husband was having an affair despite suspecting me of my infidelity he was the one having an affair this put me over the edge and they say that when you
reach your limits you just blow it all out of the water I didn't want to spend even one second with these jerks so I immediately went to get the divorce papers I don't want to stay in this house after you had an affair and I confronted my husband with the divorce papers he laughed at me and said well I don't want an old woman like you in my house I'm sure he intends to be with his adulterous partner after the divorce he agreed to pay alimony and share the property without any objection when the children
were asked what they wanted to do they both said they were going to stay in the house my mother-in-law Grand at me and said I knew you liked your father better than this woman a few days later after completing all the formalities I took my luggage and left my parents house I told my mother-in-law in the living room that I would be living today and bowed to her as a gesture of a grown-up then my mother-in-law grinned at me again and sarcastically said you've been a lousy wife and a lousy mother from the beginning to
the end then she said you're such a terrible mother to leave your children I don't know how much you can make fun of me my daughter and son laughed when they hurt my mother-in-law's comments look even the children are laughing at you what a pathetic mother well it was actually the children themselves who said they would stay here so I'm not leaving them oh I see I see so you're a sad woman who was abandoned by her children well you can say what you want but don't forget that you're responsible for everything at home from
now on huh don't worry about that unlike you I'm good at everything I see well then I really must be going now with that I left my parents-in-law's house after that I went back to my parents house and threw myself into my work then I asked my work to switch me to full-time work and I took the test to become a full-time employee thankfully I was able to get a full-time job now I can take the kids with me and my mother-in-law must be exhausted by now sure enough about three months after I left the
house my mother-in-law contacted me hey Maria help me out what's wrong I have to take my grandson Josh too and from his soccer team games and I even have to help out at a training camp during the summer vacation on top of that I'm asked to make his lunchbox early in the morning for the morning practice and I have to wash his dirty uniforms every day my granddaughter Amy also goes to chrome school every day so I have to drive her back and forth on top of that I have to do the housework all by
myself Ken says he's tired from work and doesn't do anything to help me well if you're just complaining I'm hanging up now wait I'm calling you because I want you to help me Maria excuse me I'm already divorced so it doesn't concern me don't say that please no I won't go back but I understand that you're in a situation that you cannot handle by yourself I cannot entrust my precious children to you I will take the children that's what they want to do what but they want to stay here that's because they wanted you to
understand how hard I was working what yes in fact when I decided to get divorced the first thing I did was to talk to the children they said they would follow me right away Amy my daughter said but this means that grandmother and the others are just kicking you out right Mom then my son said I don't like that we know how hard you work Mom so the children said that they would stay home first and let their grandmother know what their mother had gone through I was so happy that they were on my side
I made up my mind that I would make enough money so I can come to bring them home well then yes everything was according to our plan I'm not a full-time employee and I'll take the kids oh no I then hired a lawyer and demanded that custody be transferred the children wanted to live with me so custody was easily transferred when I reported the affair to the company his boss was amazed to hear it and my husband was transferred to a department where he would not be able to advance in his career because of this
he can no longer pay the mortgage on the house he currently lives in my mother-in-law has been ordered to work as well my ex-mother-in-law is furious that her son is telling her what to do my ex-husband and ex-mother-in-law are blaming on each other they'll probably have to leave the house up this way well it's none of my business anymore meanwhile I rented an apartment and moved in with my children they are growing up to be wonderful children my daughter cooks and my son helps me with laundry and cleaning I wanted to be able to support
them to do whatever they want to do in the future so I will continue to work hard and earn money thank you for watching please subscribe to the channel if you like see you in the next video
